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calabaman:
Dear all,

Dial *996# and follow the prompts to check numbers linked to your NIN.

Any strange number should be reported to the bank, your network provider and police ASAP.

I just checked my 2 lines....sadly I am impacted.

I will Just run it by MTN only for now as I don't have time for police wahala.

imagine if your NIN is linked to a robbery, police would grab you and the other two phone numbers, act now to avoid wahala tommorow

thanks a lot for this. Ignorance they say is not an excuse

Update147:
Good day nairalanders.

Please I noticed my gf has this offensive smell during sex. I'm wondering how best can I tell her so I won't end up hurting her feelings and also what can we do to get rid of this offensive smell ?

are you so dirty yourself that you will go after such a kind of lady who knows have offensive smell and doesn’t care about her own well being?. Or do you think you are the only one perceiving the offensive smell? Now tell her, you’re seeking public opinion. You normal so! Such disgust she be comfortable with your time around it! Mess!

This kind one go still marry, born children wey she wan born, even dey go omugwo like water… life no balance…! While the decent ones are still waiting on God!

leisuretym:
Its easier to maintain 4 wives than 1 wife, none will trouble you, at worst, they will say useless man, when one is keeping grudges with you, one will be all over you, it's their palaver not yours, na you go dey enjoy

you are just on point.! How about when he is sick ! Na there e go know who like am pas..! He must not die if not all the wives will begin laying accusing fingers..!

His actions are outright life’s reality. Every monogamous man has in his life time dated these number of women or even more outside marriage in the name of side chicks! but instead this Baba thought well in his mind to bring them home. Wise man! Afteral these women have something doing. This is the blessings attached with being a male. No one dares questions his decisions, not even the government…!

BigboyOJ:
Yeah right 🤣...

The word revelation clearly has a different meaning to you people,.. Angel Gabriel (more like a demon) revealed the Quran with copied stories of Jewish prophets that other books(Torah and Bible) have written some 800 and 600 years ago respectively 🤪

Bro I definitely can't accept all teaching but i will allow you your freedom of choice to worship God in what ever way as you see fit but don't come here with the false claim that your copy copy book is so perfect and comprehensive when it is clearly not and that has always been the problem with Islam.

You ain't subject to any rules and instructions by so called daddy G.Os I hear you say..common 🙆
Then you've not been to Iran, Saudi Arabia,Jordan..

Atleast no terrorist attack has been carried out by any one a daddy G.O has preached to or influenced unlike Islamic clerics like Abu Hamza Almasri and Anjem Choudari who were both convicted for terrorism.

even the Jews identify with Islam much more than Christianity. In their books God mentioned many times that since the Jews refuse to accept him , he will take his teachings to a strange land in which he did. Ishmael’s lineage is where Islam originated from. As for the terrorism you are mentioning, you can’t use that to capitalize on whether the teaching of Islam is focused on that. Know more, then you will understand better the reason behind their actions. Tis why I said Islam is mankind, so called terrorist are aspects of mankind, no justification adding up every practicing Muslim. If there is a thief amongst your siblings, will you disown your entire family and stop bearing your family name? No! You simply de-associate self, does it meant every one in the family are bad people, that can be true! Islam is the only religion who follows the way of life of the ancient ways and teachings including dress code without having to mix with westernization from biased lifestyle. The holy Quran isn’t a copyright, if it was, researchers would have confirmed it to be so. Not you! You’re the one saying it. Maybe be you hate the truth! God is one. His words never changes by any standards. That is why it appears as of it was plagiarized. Not it never was. All the brainwashing in the Bible has been sieved out to form the Quran. Why ain’t the so called apostles of Christ ever mentioned in the Quran? Ain’t they the major confusion of the churches today? As a right believer, no cleric will ever instruct you to go carry out arson or murder. You that they send, no get sense? In a circumstance of battle, what you do is to defend yourself and your people…

BigboyOJ:
The Quran is comprehensive ..PLEASE,,,I laugh in Chinese 🤪😂😅😃🤣😀😁😄😋. Something that can't even tell the creation story correctly.
A perfect example of how not plagiarize a book.

the chapter 21:30 of the quran says, Don't the disbelievers see that heavens and earth were joined together and later we separated them?and it is from the water that we created all life form.won’t they believe all this?

According to quran,allah created the heavens and the earth in 6 days(chapter7:54).Then he created the adam and eve.So The time when heavens and earth were joined together,If Humans didn't exist in that time then how can humans see the separation of heaven and the earth?why allah will ask this if he knows that he didn't even created humans that time?Also Heaven and earth did not even exist in singularity let alone joining and separating them. Does it sound logical in any way?Defenetely not.Also quran chapter 15:26 saying that “we created man from sounding clay,from mud mouled into shape".So quran saying that allah and his angels or whoever have together created every life form with water. The verse talking about creating“every life form"with water .So it includes humans too.Now in another verse,quran saying that allah and his angels or whoever together made the humans with mud!.So allah says something in a verse.and in another verse he says something opposite.what kind of god he is then?.

that Chinese you are laughing in is enough to confuse you😅. There isn’t anything illogical there. Good you are saying Allah says, and not one form of write ups by unknown individuals in the name of collections of old artifacts somewhere. He is God, he is correcting the contradictions that has already overshadowed mankind. Everything on earth is of water including clay. So why are you misunderstanding the true nature of how God says you should see and understand it.? Wonderful you are speaking from the Quran. Honestly, you’re the first person I am coming across talking straight from the Quran in quotes. I know the Quran and the Bible all back to back but I can’t quote verses off hand. Accept all teachings Bro. they are the truth. Islam is mankind, Islam is humanity. I will choose Islam over Christianity. You ain’t subject to any rules and instructions by so called daddy g.o or what have you. It’s a religion of you and you creator. People from all works of life, are Muslims check it out.

AntiisIam:
And have you seek for knowledge from any Christian? Will you go against allah's commandments or stand by it

😂😂😂 you are so funny.
You must be a Christian..!

As Christian, you Seek knowledge from the Jews first. Mind you, the Muslims believe in all prophets. As a Muslim, there is no knowledge to be sort. The holy Quran is comprehensive

DestinedForGrea:
Bros, masturbation is bad, terribly bad.

I don't understand what you're saying. Regardless, I can see how dogged you are in maintaining your standpoint. That's your problem, and it can never change the fact that masturbation is a dangerous activity.

Racism is never mentioned in the Bible, tribalism is never mentioned in the Bible. Think of any other vice that wasn't mentioned in the Bible. Now would you say that God approves of them because people who lived thousands of years ago did not explicitly use those words or describe the concepts in a book? Why are you thinking like this?

Is it a coincidence that almost everyone who has had to deal with masturbation and pornography complained about the same effects?

• low self-esteem (confidence)
• inability to concentrate for a long time
• frequent drowsiness
• poor mental performance
• lack of motivation
• inappropriate perception of the opposite gender
• lack of productivity

Is it a coincidence that these traits are common amongst people who are addicted to masturbation? Why do they all complain about the same thing? You say that doctors haven't said anything. The question is, have they done enough research to see how these traits corroborate with that activity?

It is not a coincidence, I reiterate. Let me tell you something; I don't know how far gone you've been into masturbation, but that shit will kill you slowly, and by the time you realize, it would be difficult to stop. You know the most traumatizing aspect of this? Even when you realize the damage it does to you, you'll keep doing it. It's exactly the way hard drugs work.

i indeed like you debates, too much of everything is bad. Some persons masturbates twice(2) daily, even daily. Shouldn’t be so!. But if you say masturbating is bad why do some people find it difficult to overcome wet dreams? Why is prostitution always a booming market in which on religious grounds it’s frowned at? And again do you know that when there is too much semen gathered down there, all of the above characteristics you mentioned still affects the human.? They just can’t get themselves, there will be more rape cases than none, fathers would be sleeping with daughters (incest) just as it happened in the Bible i think after sodom & Gomorrah was destroyed. They will feel somethings wrong. It’s an act inevitable. One can’t help it. It affects the brain and productivity. Nyansh pass you must look!. A body fluid that needs to be discharged from the system just as all body fluids like urine from the bladder. Have you thought to know why most monogamous marriages break up so easily? It’s lack of steady intimacy. One woman can’t satisfy a man. Men live longer when they perform steady sexual activities. It doesn’t have to be the penis gets inserted into the woman’s organs that guarantees it to be the only right pattern. If ejaculation is not done, it’s a slow death. Why is it when a man ejaculates he gets himself in a different way otherwise? Be it real sex or masturbating. This is a phenomenon.! Most research has been made by science already. In the biblical days men marry at older age, how were there coping. . . Our great grand fathers lived longer because they had more wives, he performs more sexual activities. Part of the reason why more men die younger than normal, they are sex starved, gets their health deteriorated. How will a man be masturbating when he has a wife in the house, yet can’t get sex! It wickedness. This is the major way women get rid of their husbands so easily! He can get a 2nd wife because she will be fought out! And the man no want problem. Sex starve is equivalent to hunger starve! They both are slow death. Let’s be realistic. It is not a shameful topic. Those who preach against masturbating are not helping the male folk and the society at large… it has nothing to do with religious practices or righteousness. They are deviating totally, misplaced priorities, cluelessness etc. It’s a medical challenge. God has made it so! Just as animal sexual activities operate, it same with man no difference at all… let’s stop hiding the truth!

DestinedForGrea:
What exactly are you saying, baba?

You're just dilly-dallying around. You're being unnecessarily offensive. No one is condemning you for doing what you shouldn't do. Oga if you want to continue masturbating, no wahala. It's your life.

As for me, based on my ordeal with that nonsense, in addition to the testimonies of others, I will never stop speaking against it.

I am not. We talking of a bitter truth people are ashamed to debate over! For me I am not. If one defends it, all fingers will point at one that one does it, and that will be childish. When God and the Doctors hasn’t proclaimed a thing on the negative. Whatever the observation on self after abstaining is good for that person. No point generalizations or speaking against it. That’s not a rational way of doing things. Equatorial Guinean guy’s actions has proven it all to the world to know the phenomenon of life.

AntiisIam:
But allah said you should seek for knowledge from the Jews and Christians

yes. If there be contrast in his words of the holy Quran. And outrightly no contrast! Same God speaking..! So what’s your grief if you could know up to this level at least!

AntiisIam:
No Muslim in this world will ever answer that question

yes, because knowledge is the difference, the eye opener. Until you seek to know, then you will understand better

LUCASC:
Stop whacking your d!ck brother 😁

it can’t be me you speaking to. You telling out what you do particularly to yourself. I am realist. From what you just said, you can see it’s a known fact home and abroad. Even the whites do.

Or is it the actions of the equitorial Guinean guy that is the acceptable norm? You see…!

DestinedForGrea:
You obviously don't get the point dude.

Have a nice day.

what point is it to get here. Those who condemn the act are jobless. Misplaced priorities…Wasting time on what is not their business. You have yours I have mine, as I take use am how e concern you.!

Some persons will preach to you that he wants you to make heaven mean while there are lots of poor on the streets he or she has never fed, how you tak make your own self make heaven! na to preach about how to stop masturbating because you dey see me do wetin?

Abeg e..!

DestinedForGrea:
Wow! You have a lot to learn, "old man".

I pity the people who listen to you.

Have a nice day, bros.

yea, we both two (2) different worlds…

AntiisIam:
You can say that nah, atleast you'll bring evidence to back up your claims as I can also bring my own proof to back it up that all Muslims are terrorists

there will not be any justification to that!

DestinedForGrea:
Thank God for the sound scriptural knowledge that I have and the liberty to attend a local church with sound doctrine. If not, I'd have been deceived by folks like you.

Firstly, the fact that a word or a concept wasn't explicitly used or stated in the Bible does not necessarily mean that God approves of it or doesn't. The words "masturbation" and "pornography" were not used in the Bible, but that doesn't make them practices that God approves. The point is, they are against God's design for man. God designed man to please himself sexually with his spouse alone, not himself or anyone else. Anything besides that is a sin. Sex in itself is not a sin, but doing it the wrong way is.

Let's focus a bit on masturbation. Why is it that, to masturbate, a person needs to come in contact with sexual content (either by fantasizing or consuming illicit sexual information in the form of pornography)? That in itself is a perversion of God's original intention for man's sexual needs and satisfaction.

Anything that you do that inflicts harm on you or someone else is a sin. God did not plant those things in the earth you created, then why would you think it's okay to do them? A man drinks himself to stupor, sleeps and wakes up in a gutter, a person fornicates and ends up contracting diseases or conceiving a child inadvertently, and you say those things are not sins? I don't know if you go to church or not, but either way, you're under strong deception. Masturbation, fornication, pornography, drunkenness, as well as a host of others have a general effect -- to destroy their victims (in one way or another).

Back to masturbation, I'll reiterate, it has ZERO benefit and a ton of disadvantages; a few of which I mentioned in my previous comment. I'll charge you to ask at least ten people who are struggling with masturbation and want to get out, what it has done to them. I bet you, you'd get the same response I shared here. In fact, VDM who shared this video said the same thing. If you think there's nothing wrong with masturbation and other addictions, then serious questions need to be asked concerning your supposed faith in God and His word.

I'm a child of God, but I've struggled with masturbation even before I became His. I can tell you that He's helping me deal with that nonsense and restoring me to the person I ought to be -- His child. You won't understand, unless you renew your mind. I pray you do.

Peace!

child of God, be there speaking God’s mind, God has already spoken his mind already in all scriptures so stop talking for him. He approved of more than one wife, do you agree?. All the other vices you are mentioning is outside the main point. Do you know there is health consequences for not having to ejaculate frequently as a man? So what is the solution to that aside masturbating if no woman or one can’t afford to be married?. Whatever the women feel, is their business. Young man, masturbating is a phenomenon.! Stop reading the scriptures from behind and in assumptions. God has spoken all that he wants man to adhere to. that all! Masturbating no dey inside, if you destroy yourself na you cup of tea.

When your parent buys a toys for you and you decide to destroy it, will they punish you? It yours, mess yourself up as you want. But if you destroy the toys of you other siblings na problem! This is enough to make myself clear about how God acts as well…! He made us in his image

DestinedForGrea:
Thank you for sharing. Since you withdrew from it, have you experienced significant changes in those areas I emboldened?

@Afolue.

it is called self service isn’t. Everything with an advantage has disadvantages. The disadvantages comes on excessive grounds. If a doctor give you drugs, do you take all it contents at once?

Talking on aspect of women on how your performance has to do on them, who that one epp? wetin woman dey do for man?. Na talk be that… acts on women is as bad as digging one’s own grave! I will advise you stay away if you can. What is self esteem? That’s a psychological problem the person needs to figure out!

Deal with your problem and leave others to deal with theirs. I am a realist!

How all that you have mentioned take help your next door nabor or colleagues in the office. Can anyone see you one the streets and figure out if you masturbate or no?

LUCASC:
Yea,
I feel strong and energetic.

I gained more muscle mass.

My focus level has increased drastically, I now have the energy to venture in so many businesses at the same time.

My sexual potency is over the roof,
I can now enjoy sex as a man should.

I used to have several night meres,
Now I sleep good.

My confidence level is restored now,
I used to stutter very badly,
Now it has reduced by 80%.

And my vibration is on another level.

you speaking for your self. Keep it up. Are these doctors prescriptions or God’s instructions to mankind? So who you epp!

Children wey no dey hear word. It’s a senseless act throwing knock-outs in church. No fear of God again! A ground meant to be sacred has been taken to be a play ground…too bad. Funny enough, their parents will be members of that parish!

Why a priest owning a gun shouldn’t be the question, what will make a right thinking human do that

May the person RIP and may the priest be pardoned and at most transfer to another diocese. Was Obviously a mistake

DestinedForGrea:
I would never count myself blessed and feel any sense of good about masturbating. It is the worst thing that has happened to me.

I'm a very intelligent person (I don't mean to brag please); a critical and an analytical thinker. I'm pretty sure of this, because I know what I can produce when I take my time to do something that requires mental performance. But you know what? I can only function at this level when I'm on my own, and at my own pace and comfort.

A lot of people think I'm not smart; just slow and clueless all the time. They don't say that but they act that way towards me. Though their thoughts are wrong, the way I act and speak sometimes gives that impression.

I'll tell you why I'm saying all these. I was never like this. I noticed that these traits developed slowly and fully came out a while after I exposed myself to pornography and masturbation. My confidence dropped drastically, the once very social and outgoing 'me' became socially anxious and introverted. I won't say much from here, but this same thing is what a lot of people dealing with masturbation are facing.

Fornication, masturbation, alcoholism, gambling, amongst other bad habits are not to be toyed with. I hope someone who's considering going into one or more of these habits reads this and makes a u-turn. The consequences are dire, and not everyone gets out of it.

I don’t agree with you. Tis why I say you speak for yourself. Adding other vices/habits to it is like mentioning things you do other don’t. Mind you, your list of sin can’t be others same lists. Not all who masturbate watch porn. Why do you keep hiding fornication, that is worse than all that you mentioned. Nothing wrong with masturbating, it has no negative scriptural backing or medical consequences. God and doctors has never pronounced it negative in quotes anywhere in history. Better masturbating than fornicating. What ever self esteem you are mentioning here has nothing to do with another person, it a personal problem to deal with, if it’s get too much on addictive grounds that’s where one should take caution but still you haven’t hurt any one. Every act on self, is never a Sin! Quote me anywhere. It takes two (2) to tangle. Read the ten (10) commandments, if it’s not between you and God, it you and a partner or you and your parents, or God and idols. It takes 2 to tangle. Any self indulgence is never a sin, anyone that decides to destroy self on self-indulgence is his or her own cup of tea. You can’t like someone more than his or her self! Who told you that drunkards will go to hell.? They could keep sleeping in gutters, urinating on self for all they care . What makes it sinful?If one writes exams and decides to fail willingly, is that a sin? No! The person is simply punishing self willingly by repeating classes… who that kind person epp..? but if the person decides to cause another to fail, he will be severely punished. So use this to understand life’s phenomenon! That is how God works as well.

DestinedForGrea:
Masturbation has 0 advantages, and a ton of disadvantages. Don't be deceived.

If you've read the stories of people who have had to deal with the act as a habit, you'd notice that they all have one thing in common: it's a destructive habit.

At least 80% of people who have talked about their journey with masturbation have attached a lot of negative effects to it. I'm one of them. I wouldn't advise anybody to go into that. It seems fun and relieving at the beginning, but on the long run, baba you go dey beg to leave that dirty habit.

that’s enough. You can’t be everybody. Everyone has their problems, seeing this as yours, count yourself blessed. But I hope you don’t fornicate any longer cos that’s the only one found in God’s instruction book he doesn’t joke about

Dondsmart:
Stop masturbation, stop formication, which one una wan person follow abegi

humans will never find an atom of peace in this world. God, why! Masturbation and smoking are not anywhere written in the scriptures but one will find clerics and religious fanatics squeezing out negative words to say as if they are God’s mouth piece. One thing I noticed is that “acts” that are unavoidable, God never speaks about it or order prophets to do so! One should just live his life and be happy. Wetin man gain aside some sensitive things as these…

LoneSoldier:
Baba it doesn't work, let me tell you something about masturbation the more you pray the more you keep doing it... If you prayed for like 5days, if you where doing it 2 to 3 times a day, that fifth day you will do it like 5 to 6 times....

to make up for the lost days😂😅

Strong addicts... Unless Jesus come comot the hand by himself 😅

MrNipplesLover:
I wonder how a man go use him own hand carry him prick come dey jerk am....

Like, how una dey take do am...

The only time I dey use my hand carry my prick na if I wan piss, and if I wan slot am inside pussy...

Me imagining that shiitt self dey irritate my imagination...

Damn!

When girls plenty outside...

Omoh, this is crazy (spits)...

see who dey do am pas for here, no wan expose himself. That’s hypocritical

Bmaster:
If NwaAmaikpe was to be here,he would tell you that God approved of it, otherwise he would have made his hands shorter


I miss the Baba,damn... Dude was as crazy as ..

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 words

That’s very true mouth can’t reach there but the hand controls it at the slightest ease even in public forgetting oneself 😅

This one is even responsible enough to be lamenting at this age she claims to be. Notice no Lady is making any comments on this post! Majority of them are guilty and irresponsible. All of them know wetin them don take their hand find for themselves while others are still counting on their escapades of random dudes..!

Women don’t worth it at all..! Las, las, na dem get children…
ordinarily for a man to do a DNA testing on the child she bore for him, na problem wey go fit break the same marriage wey no go favour the man by all standards. The only benefit for a man is not to end his genealogy if not, it’s useless getting married. Na still the same women if not careful go give you HIV. Upon your hard-work as a man, women will never appreciate your efforts, can instigate the children to be a frustration to the man in addition. Them go use children frustrate the man, and na dem (the women) get the children..! Life no bal.

Money is man’s only consolation in marriage. Better making the money first before delving into such miserable life’s journey that’s closer to 6 feet for the male folks!

Do not let people deceive you as a man that better getting married at your youth so that there will be enough strength for work to take care of your kids before old age. All lies! The (young) man could die in the process because the woman will forget taking care of you and focus on the kids instead. while the man will be going slowly managing his health in the name of fending for his family selflessly... Better a wealthy old man with little kids around him than a wretched young man with grown ups who can’t fend for themselves yet due to the nature of the economy we all find ourselves. Most of those kind of kids can bring shame and disgrace by going into prostitution, petty stealing, fraud etc. these vices alone can end a man’s life miserably due to over thinking. Men dey suffer sha!

Angelfrost:
Okay... You have wrecked this thread finally!

men wey dey high go fit relate

mogbeyiteren:
Imagine me as pastor taking Indian helms

many do. Must they come to the pulpit to be doing it. That will be outrightly awkward! I know of at least one!

Is it ordinary exacting energy on pulpit if no be highness

press9jatv:
“Adam and Eve ate nothing, they didn’t eat anything. Alcohol is not a sin, cigärette is not a sin” — Apostle Abel Damina.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vi2LjVkM0no

everything God created was beautiful. But abuse and over indulgence of it. Meaning not having to do without it. One must get self involved at all time, by all means possible. Tis where the word “sin” is coined from. Sin is logical reasoning being made illogical (excessive). Common sense, not trying to make it common that will be seen as absurd.

Smoking had been even since the Bc

Who dare speak against it if the scriptures never did!

Arostar2023:
This generation and the abuse of the word "judge" If someone points out a fact to you, you tag it "judge".

judge is an opinion that can not be changed about a person, circumstances or a situation. What other words asides that?

Just as Islam they say is a terrorist religion, Christianity is a religious of outrightly and open confusion …

As long as one finds peace in whatever suits self, no one has the right to judge your person