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nairavsdollars:
Sex is not food

tell your husband that, and you will be kicked out of his house. It’s your type that will make men die before their time

plumcomm:
so a reasonable person will use 20m house to borrow 300k or what are you saying self,for a 20m house how many room house rent will it cost to pay 300k loan.he doesn't want to pay and thats why the judge gave the judgment and thats simple.people also forfeit vehicles of over 20m cos traffic offense of 50k so whats the fuss,I just don't like people playing victim when tables turn against them

Some people indeed owe to the extent they barely part away with funds so easily. Some are ready to put on hold until limits as this. He likely never believed this creditor would get this far. You may have some point though.

Not the man’s fault. The hardship is real. Responsibilities choke… He may not even have seen such sum in a his lifetime. Now seeing it coming to reality. Anyone in his shoes will do same..!

TimeManager:
https://thenationonlineng.net/nscdc-arrests-seven-vandals-in-abuja/

this tinubu’s government is indeed a remarkable one. Before security agencies dey follow everybody sleep for night. These thieves before were never caught!

plumcomm:
what is the meaning of court order?,the one they summoned the man and he did not obey.oya go and appeal for him nah.someone that borrowed money and did not pay is not corrupt it the person that is serving deterrent to others that want to be crooked that is corrupt.so the man can pay the 300k since all the years but he intentionally refused,he traveled but when he hear say them don sell house he came back,he was broke but when he hear say them sell house he get money.

treat people nicely & with fairness, people pass through a lot behind scenes. Over 10 mouths to feed no be play. How on earth will you think such a man can be irresponsible & sleep well without being able to pay his bills?. In desperation drop 20m asset as against just 300k isn’t that madness in the first place?

plumcomm:
if the man was anywhere serious or far away,how come he made it back with the money within 2days after the judgement,he was not around to answer court summon and through out the court proceedings but he surfaced after he was going to lose his property.obviously it is the attitude of the man that made the court pronounce that kind of judgment.

i hope you know too that the court can be corrupt? Just as the police as well!. They are all full of injustice. For the fact that he was away, a court order could have been place on that property, and not selling it outrightly. What kind of a ruling was that. They were obviously accomplice. 20m worth as against 300k debt, who does that! He can’t loose that property at all… this is wickedness.

doffman:
My only sadness for him is that , anytime the punishment of that God start descending on him , we will not be there to laugh at him . He will suffer alone and that god he believed upon can never help him.

😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅 Aswear Bro.

Wainey:
Please if you can't give mature response, don't fill up the front page with drivels.

So I am in a relationship with this lady, but the problem is that she already has three children with her ex, not just one or two but three. Two of the children lives with their father while she lives with one.

Despite this, she is an industrious lady who works for her own wellbeing, though I spent money on her once a while but it's not even half of what she spends on me, that is mostly because she has a better financial muscle than I do.
She is caring, loving and loyal, she doesn't even have friends and has always been all about her career, when I asked why she didn't end up with her ex, she said it was cos of tribalism, I didn't ask further though.

Now, Getting married to a single parent is not something I wanted but I have dated a lot of rubbish in this country, but this lady was nothing like them and letting her go is not something I want right now.

So my question to those that are married to single parent, what difficulties did u face in ur marriage?

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my issue is not even you, it is the lady who thinks she can get a guy like you. Run, She’s no good for you. Any right thinking lady will not even want to date your class of guy. Na papas’ them she suppose dey go for. Men wey their children don graduate. Retired divorcees. Her category ain’t near yours. If she should succeed over you by getting hooked, just know you are done for, an outright 4th citizen & a 2nd husband. cos she’s got 3 kids. She could even abandon you and go to that man later. Her kids are her most priority whether you like it or not. Don’t be lazy, ignore her funds!

doffman:
The guy is frustrated already . I just pity him. He can never end well if he persisted in such horrible path.

Almost all his post he will be abusing God and his prophet. I pity him oo

even the demons know much more than most of mankind does. Tis why demons prevail over many humans much more than normal. He will simply waste himself cheaply & foolishly Aswear

AntilsIam:
You know your Isa which you said to believe in according to your pedophile messenger muhammad and his idol allah was not crucified, if truly you believe in Jesus Christ more than we his followers, you must believe in his Crucifixion and resurrection.

Your quran said your isa was not crucified and to tell us who was crucified in his replacement la problem

yes na problem, because even the story wey you dey believe in blindly about Jesus and the cruxifixion story, na person talk am! Na crime for me to talk sey na lie?

ojoisimi:
Come and see God's solicitor o. Go and read your Bible or Quran about fulfilling/honoring agreement, then come back and say what your just posted. Using the name of God to perpetrate evil against another man isn't God's way. Pay your debt and stop telling us what God can/would do as if we don't know

if one can not afford to let go of a debt if not fulfilled at the time agreeeable, why give it.! Not fulfilling is no justification to the act committed of selling of his asset to render his household homeless. What if the man was dead is that how is family will be treated? And again the holy books you mentioned, God said , never remove the debtor’s only coat, highest, be lending him every night to sleep with! Will a man of over 10 mouths to feed try this act of not fulfilling a debt he drop his house as collateral worth of over 20m?. For the fact that he was away, should have been enough grace for patience until he returns. Let’s stop being wicked to one another!

AntilsIam:
So your mouth can abuse Christians, Christianity and Jesus Christ bah?

I dey core North, tell your people to show up abeg

islam believes in Jesus more than the Christians do. Muslims do not abuse the names of prophets calling their name anyhow and carelessly l, just as skit makers and the likes of yourselves do.

Wherever, just sha be careful, men fit dey put eye for your type. Muslims don’t joke neither do they condone excesses. We ain’t quarreling just a brotherly advise.

Creamypussy:
If u like her and she's ok for u, pls go ahead and marry her, it's conditions that make crayfish to bend. She's human too. Most people learn from their past mistakes and improve better good luck.
I know most of us has been bitten by snakes, even when we see a rob we screen thinking it's a snake.

are you in support of your gender or what.? Making it look as if it’s a golden opportunity for her having a guy come her way, single (guy) for that matter!. Abeg, creamypussy I like that name die , if na your brother, will that be your advice for him.? Be honest! “Mother of three(3) if that is to be your Sis. In-law. To me, that sounds disgusting... Such a lady will be married to 2 husbands outrightly. Because their papa go still dey collect better knacks if he wants. Something he has used to bring out 3 kids… are you for real?

AntilsIam:
For exposing your quran, hadith, allah and his pedophile messenger that was poisoned to death like a rat abi?

na you get your mouth. Sha make sure you don’t put yourself into trouble someday. The walls have ears they say!

You can’t live in the north and show this tendencies an inch!

doffman:
I have exposed his ass. He did not know anything . He can copy anything to justify his ignorance . The only copycat master in Nairaland . 😀

He even twisted one Bible verse about killing 😀😀

he is the present day Paul, Aswear..!

He doesn’t think in a rationale manner at all

plumcomm:
this debtor sympathy doesn’t work,he intentionally invaded payment.perhaps he thought nothing will happen.he should have sold the house himself and pay off the debt then he will have over 19m available for himself,period…that’s the fate of people who tought they are wicked.
He has a wife and 9 children,person the borrowed him money may not have up to 3children.he can afford 20m house but can’t afford to pay 300k loan.the judge is not stupid,he acted based on the attitude of the borrower.
People like that might have boasted that he will not pay and nothing will happen.

for his property to have been touched, he obviously made it as a collateral for the 300k sum! I hope you know that? Meaning that the document of the said property he submitted before the money was given to him. One could have only done this in desperation and full guarantee of repayment! That shows it wasn’t his intention not to have refused paying back. I expected the creditor to have buy him some more time. With the fact that he wasn’t around shows he left to go carry out some one or two business transactions for him to raise the said sum and even more. The creditor wasn’t considerate over this and that was so unfair of him. It takes a lot leaving a large family behind, in which his return is guaranteed if God should protect him!

So If he had died in the process, is that how is entire family will be treated. Ha’aba na..! Check it out Bros.

plumcomm:
this debtor sympathy doesn’t work,he intentionally invaded payment.perhaps he thought nothing will happen.he should have sold the house himself and pay off the debt then he will have over 19m available for himself,period…that’s the fate of people who tought they are wicked.
He has a wife and 9 children,person the borrowed him money may not have up to 3children.he can afford 20m house but can’t afford to pay 300k loan.the judge is not stupid,he acted based on the attitude of the borrower.
People like that might have boasted that he will not pay and nothing will happen.

for his property to have been touched, he obviously made it as a collateral for the 300k sum! I hope you know that? Meaning that the document of the said property he submitted before the money was given to him. One could have only done this in desperation and full guarantee of repayment! That shows it wasn’t his intention not to have refused paying back. I expected the creditor to have buy him some more time. With the fact that he wasn’t around shows he left to go carry out some one or two business transactions for him to raise the said sum and even more. The creditor wasn’t considerate over this and that was so unfair of him. It takes a lot leaving a large family behind, in which his return is guaranteed if God should protect him!

doffman:
Where is AntilsIam , the copy and paste master of Nairaland . 😀😀😀😀

He even bear the name of the the most famous man ever liveth .

that guy is a badass critique.

Okortor:
Confused mofo....... religion of piss indeed. The world would have been a better place without Islam!!!!!!!!

have you ever come to know that the truth gets killed at any slightest opportunity in this world of existence?… falsehood is highly acceptable by all standards. That is what everyone want to hear (falsehood). Tis why pastors follows the minds of members if not church go empty..! Not his fault though!. But unfortunately, he will still have to give account. In islam, nobody send you, it’s just you and your God. obey the rules of it practices, which is by all standards common sense…

Nwaikpe:
Their obsession is a Christian becoming a muslim. Their highest goal is to have one of us become a muslim.

They live for Christianity, preach Christianity, fight Christianity, and die trying to be against Christianity.

What they don't even know is that Christians are not even thinking about them at all.
If muslims do all they do without interfering with Christians lives and daily activities, Christians wouldn't even have recognized islam as a religion. It would have just been like Confucianism Budhism, etc.

this may appear so in disguise because Christianity is a religion of non-challant behaviors but ironically, outright reverse is the case. By all standards so.

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I have a feeling I may convert to Islam one day because the kind of Christianity practiced these days is shameful. All my Christian friends are backstabbers, I only find peace in my Muslim neighbors

TBH this was how I got myself converted on a low key. You are just right, you ain’t kidding. I can related vividly

Bahamas95:
I can swear with my left blòkòs that he did it to gain favour.

abeg, with you right blokos proudly tell us who Christianity done epp for this life.? And I am sure no one in the here after. What is it gain of the existence then? If na only to make their clerics get pot belly and dey constipate, they are good at.

Godswillu:
This is what I call using the law as a weapon rather than a guide.

The court is supposed to protect the oppressed but in Nigeria the opposite is the case.
For examples some one was sentence to death for stealing chicken and another is moving around freely for stealing billion.

infact if anybody quotes me and say something that is not nice and I discovered I am richer than you. I will send the police after you. but if you are richer than me then I will let it slide.

What a wicked world we live in…

Godswillu:
This is what I call using the law as a weapon rather than a guide.

The court is supposed to protect the oppressed but in Nigeria the opposite is the case.
For examples some one was sentence to death for stealing chicken and another is moving around freely for stealing billion.

infact if anybody quotes me and say something that is not nice and I discovered I am richer than you. I will send the police after you. but if you are richer than me then I will let it slide.

May God continue to bless you..! your type no plenty. Aswear..! What a wicked world we live in… see as cold dey catch person..!

plumcomm:
The house was sold on the 4th and you brought the 300k on the 6th,so since all the time they have been asking you to pay up till you get to court you couldn't get the money but after the house was auctioned you got it.only debtors will sympathise with this manhe was out of the country but his wife and children were there and they have not informed him about court notices?.we Nigerians can support rubbish,so when the house was auctioned he reappeared in the country...don't say this kind of nonsense again abeg

you should know it is as a result of financial challenges that made him borrow in the 1st place. People think he doesn’t wish to pay, but why will a man with at least 10 mouths to feed will act that irresponsible. Circumstances happens to everyone… make we dey try fear God. Am not referring to you but the creditor who went that far to render his family homeless… there is no way this can be painted, it pure wickedness

Godswillu:
He was out of the country.and the creditors know about it.
this is what I call using the law as a weapon not a guide.
the creditors was interested in the house.

yes. I suspected so as well. The creditor has a wicked conscience. He must have been the one who might have purchased it underground.

Sonnobax15:

Serves the werey better...


So he had the 300k all those while but refused to pay up his debt,to the extent of skipping court invitations?

Well,I hope myself and my fellow debtors are learning

he should be given room to explain himself for not having to raise the money early enough. Risking his entire family just like that , no one will want to dare such

Islie:
https://leadership.ng/kano-man-loses-home-worth-n20m-over-n300000-debt/#google_vignette

what kind of wickedness is this. How can some humans be this heartless. Is the debt of 300k enough to buy a human life talk more of breath for 24hrs. ! If this creditor isn’t careful, God will give him worse pains in the rest of his existence. Bad man!

yemmit90:
I will advise you not to, except you are single looking for a wife. Even at that you will most likely stop collecting a rent from her, which I think is more beneficial to your finance than a mere sex you get from her. You will most likely spend more dating her than someone from outside. You will most likely be element of ridiculous if other tenants get to know your relationship with her.

It is also feel like taking advantage of her, and if she rejects the offer, you may be living in captivity in your own house because any step you take to correct her wrong doing in compound will look like winch hunt to her.

This is what you should do, be nice to her, entice her with something she might like, if she is really interested, she will bring her body to you free of charge in your apartment withiout attaching dating term to it.

Oya na, you too get sense…e!

[quote author= BonPatrick post=133619871]Good evening guys please there is a new tenant I let in and she is beautiful and I am in love with her and want to woo her in a week time, is it wrong to date her?[/quote]see do not get carried away by lust. You never can tell who she really is. Just allow her spend the duration of rent she has paid for in peace without getting yourself involved in any form of intimacy. You will definitely be messed up along the line and in deep regrets! Your Paying back to her in cash twice her rent, na play.! Because she must collect am back. Women can be demonically manipulative. She could even go fetish on you. Imagine, in this harsh economy where ladies are looking for as many shoulders to lean on. You want to be a scape goat abi? Kwantinu! More so you don’t know if she has a serious boyfriend too. Just get that thought off your mind, it’s nasty..! Such will never go well. 1/100 chances she will be a responsible girl. But if she’s well educated, and you are serious, maybe you can try. But if she’s not, no go there….

A word is enough…

Kobicove:
Why must you date your tenant?

Are there no other females you find more attractive?

Just know there is a very high probability it will not end well

quite an irresponsible thought indeed. Worse than a teacher dating his student.

PressMyButton:
Reno Omokri finish work, see as he spray dust inside Atiku and Obi eyes, took them to the cleaners. One sure fact is that if Reno debate Obi one on one, Obi will leave on a stretcher, he won't be able to leave on his two legs, Reno will finish him completely. Remember, Reno made his cry at AriseTV town hall, imagine what Reno will do to him one on one.
Reno knows his history very well and he is very intelligent too. People who are attacking Reno, especially the bitter people should go on their knees and ask God for forgiveness. Atiku and Peter Obi campaigned to do exactly what Tinubu is doing yet both of them are now walking back on their manifestos, bunch of weaklings. Both Atiku and Obi are populists while Tinubu is a reformist.
Reno has made a right decision to support the progressive family. We shall all meet at 2027 polls as una go too collect again, God spare our lives.



After God, na Tinubu 💪 God bless Nigeria

words Bro. I believe. From your words you too done pour dust for their eyes!