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ElSudani:
More coaches should reduce the rushing.

these coaches in question May even end up flogging some people outa frustration.

Still, I doubt if foreigners will take the risk of boarding these trains with the populace.

emmyblow:
Omo i no fit shout, may be na the father spoil the boy. A 23 yrs still demanding from his father is wrong, i started talking care of my family right from 17 yrs old. So parents should set a better record for a better tomorrow.

everyone with his or her own destiny. Some will even say that they started building their own house at that age of 23. That is the boy’s own destiny. Everybody no fit carry 1st, 2nd or even 3rd for class. But ironically enough it’s the dullards and the back benchers in class who later becomes the multi-millionaire in which the brilliant ones then in school begin to look up to them for one or two(2).

May the soul of this man Rest In Peace.

But to be candid, the way family treats their members like this boy in question is usually so demeaning that all false information about his type spreads all around town from his immediate family itself. Such adds to his depression!. Dealing with a child of his kind is a very sensitive thing. Not because you’re scared of him, but because of the level of understanding and love you show to him counts a lot.! No matter how bad, he will always come to his senses and it can be his father is the only person that cools down his nerves.

Sometimes our parents be like Nigerian police in attitude!

naptu2:
Lagos Blue Line in action.

(They are getting more trains and increasing the number of trips because of the crowd).


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOO0eMk1yC4?si=6Go-ZTGV7ce5lIMU


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G79aDsJpVJ4?si=uJAsOEhkdGuqj7EM

this is really impressive. No more Unwanted traffic jams. Everyone has now been brought to equity parking their luxurious cars at home to board the train. Nice!

But Africans will always be Africans, see as people dey rush anyway without respecting themselves…

naptu2:
The governor had visited Beijing and Dalian in February 2024 and while on the trip he placed orders for these trains for the second phase of the Blue Line and also for the Red Line.

Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7991794/video-trains-being-test-run#128302418

Video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8RqEM29AtUI?si=hG8xfxL9UMr3hSrx

Sanwo olu’s face mask like cup of pap(ogi)

Is it a self driving train or it has a driver?

Such jobs won’t be easy as it will be highly rotational. Shift base..!

Truthcat:
I just hope they can look at themselves and own their faults and mistakes.

they won’t. They’re bitter. They brought evil upon themselves and they a being tormented by it by what’s going on in the south east today. It is as a result of the truth they a not willing to admit amongst themselves.

Truth doesn’t change!

Lordbinsmar:
Craze dey worry una

you com from another planet

lovediehatelive:
So September last year 2024 he got an apartment and moved in. The place was lovely and bubbling until one night he heard knocks on the door.


He thought it was armed robbers, but it was police. They packed guys in the building, (3 storey building) to police station.


After all done and said, the issue is about an empty plot of land besides thier building.


The man that bought the land about a year ago has been harassing occupants of the lodge because they dump refuse on his land.


Now to be honest not everyone does that, but with instead of them to fish out who's guilty and make him pay, they pack all of them.


He has barely stayed 3 months there in his new apartment.


Just yesterday when he came back from Christmas travels he was told that police came again and packed few guys that were around because of same thing.


What's your suggestions please.

is there any post on the land with the inscription of “do not dump refuse”? If caught one will be fined? If not, it makes no sense!. Our security agencies are full of misplaced priorities that even vigilantes are better off than they are. Na wetin dem pay them to do be that? Lover of bribes

IgboGoat:
In reflecting on the hypothetical question of choosing between my mother and my wife, I have come to the conclusion that, in such an unlikely scenario, I would prioritize my mother. This decision stems from a few key observations:

1. Unwavering Support: Mothers consistently give to their children, regardless of their age or circumstances. For example, when I recently embarked on a challenging journey to pursue my master’s degree, my mother contributed significantly, providing financial support of approximately 2 million NGN and foodstuffs for my travel. In contrast, my wife did not contribute to this endeavor but instead focused on financial demands and obligations I needed to fulfill before leaving.


2. Differing Priorities: I have observed that my wife tends to prioritize her family of origin over our household. Her financial contributions often lean toward supporting her parents rather than addressing our shared responsibilities at home.


3. Constructive Support vs. Criticism: A mother’s nurturing nature often involves understanding her child’s weaknesses and helping them grow. Conversely, my wife has been more critical of my shortcomings and has, at times, shared these with her family members, which can feel undermining.


4. Unconditional Love: A mother’s love is deeply rooted and unconditional, while affection in marriage often seems conditional, influenced by circumstances or expectations.



These reflections highlight the enduring sacrifices and selflessness of a mother, making her irreplaceable in my life. While this is a personal perspective, it underscores the unique and invaluable bond between a mother and her child.

Share your views

Both women have their different roles to play. Comparing both shows that one isn’t man enough to coordinate his own affairs. As a married man why taking your mother as an idol before your wife who has taken over from your mother, not only that, having kids for you in which if the man should pass on, no one will bring up those kids the way any other woman would not even their grand-mother (being your own mother) because she birth them just a your mother birth you!. Such a man can Rest In Peace!

comparisons as these ppl are for little minds. Not all mothers are good, same as not all wives are good.. period!.

Your mother brought you up, don’t you know all was for her own good... You were a blessing to her. But a wife, she’s a blessing to you as it is for your own good! Get that! And be wise..!

Both women have their different roles to play. Comparing both shows that one isn’t man enough to coordinate his own affairs. As a married man why taking your mother as an idol before your wife who has taken over from your mother, not only that, having kids for you in which if the man should pass on, no one will bring up those kids the way any other woman would not even their grand-mother (being your own mother) because she birth them just a your mother birth you!. Such a man can Rest In Peace!

comparisons as these ppl are for little minds. Not all mothers are good, same as not all wives are good.. period!.

Your mother brought you up, don’t you know all was for her own good... You were a blessing to her. But a wife, she’s a blessing to you as it is for your own good! Get that! And be wise..!

Samantha125:
What if her father's business is far from your house, but closer to her father's house and the position her father wants to give her comes with a reasonable salary?

What will you then do? Because there are some ladies who are in this situation as we speak.

in such a situation as this, the husband has the final say. No matter why! He is now her head by all standards acceptable Godly wise!

deluckiest:
She's feeling insecure. She has no reason to doubt my loyally. She's one of those ladies who always support their gender. She believes no woman.can misbehave without the influence of the man.

I want to put an an end to it. I don't want to continue tolerating her.This is 2025.

You are taking this whole thing too personal. You’re just like a man who is in a dressing room and telling someone not to come in that you’re undressed when you should have won your boxers since in the bathroom. You have nothing to hide from your wife be it incriminating or not. If I were you give her your phone to handle completely. Be open, that is what she wants to see you do, don’t quarrel about it, when she see your free mindedness on that, na she go leave am for you. Use the matter tire her. That is what they want to see. Are you afraid of her due to the fact that you do secret things at her back? If I may ask, who pay the bills? What is your percentage quota/ contribution in total funding towards general family affairs ? If you are the highest bidder, then nothing wrong in you opting to bring up a discussion for a second wife and hear what she has to say. You’re a man, it’s your right! If you do, the monitoring will stop. Women needs rivals to checkmate their excesses. But if it is a 50/50 in household matters, please do not try it if not you can be poisoned by her. Better getting a 2nd wife than to be dating secretly especially with that kind of a woman. If you don’t want to, then simply free yourself. Nothing wrong, she’s your wife! Na she go taya las, las…! As you’re busy doing your thing! Women love it when they see you are uneasy over their activities with you. It gives them room to pry more and be more investigative as you try to me secretive. Don’t try them oh! Them no get work for that area. Mothers, wives, sisters, even female co-workers are all same. God made them so…

If it was trump who invited pastor w.f kumuyi directly, then e reach to talk sey trump get sense and he indeed observes very closely.

W.F kumuyi is a respectable man of God indeed. One who sticks to doctrine and his followers as well. The only Pentecostal faith with the most elderly aside himself.

thesicilian:
Wetin allah dey do inside church invitation

that is the name of God identified as in the Hausa language. Shouldn’t be taken personal

Na Yorubas for Nigeria travel pass and them read book pass other tribes

purples25:
You said it, but my analysis is based on influences from this platform. Today you agree the girl is innocent, the next few months I only encounter male monikers who keep emphasizing on the ladies part but blatantly ignore the guys deliberate attempt to seduce and confuse the girl. So, to avoid annoyance and strain, I include the girl. Apart from few like you, most men don't wish to acknowledge purposeful deceit and coercion of ladies. They pick up the argument that the girl saw exactly what it was and entered it, which no sane and totally mature woman will do.

yes. I agree. Good you used the word “matured”. In which obviously I wouldn’t include this lady because according to him she was about 22yo and a “student” on that grounds of “sane” you also mentioned. So this comes up to be the guy’s fault all the same. He simply went for such young age that could be prone to such deceits! He was much lucky her guy wasn’t a cultist..! Too many irresponsible men everywhere who think they can eat their cake and have it with every skirts out there

It’s a very bad thing living a life of desperation!

purples25:
They are not good for each other. No honor amongst thieves.

left for me, she is good, but the guy is not. Women fall in love with words guys tell them and also judging from his appearance, every lady will fall for a guy that is at least independent financially to an extent. She was enticed which his normal. But yet still was sincere to him of her presence relationship status. How many lady will want to do that. If he was sensible isn’t that enough for him to have backed off and respect himself. There are many ladies out there

The guy is the thief. Putting himself in another guy’s shoes, how will he feel if his girlfriend friend is being taken away from him.

He is taking away the guy’s girlfriend outright. If for example that her original guy was a cultist, them go dey see am as a violent fellow. Who does that. !

Let us take it as reverse the case, no be women dey disgrace themselves for public for this kind thing as well.

Whoever says I can not fight for a man or I can not fight for a woman, hasn’t met with some situations. This is Nonesense!

This can lead to a big problem

Now na big man dey fit go chop for mai- shai place. And the N20 is no longer in existence again even

purples25:
I know how guys always want to exempt themselves from blame and give the woman double blame, but actually both of you are wrong.

It may be painful but she has to make a clear choice about what and who she wants. And give that person a timeline so that she can leave cleanly and find another partner if it doesn't work.

Though I wouldn't advice her to pick you. Your relationship with her is already tainted by the way it came about.

sincerely, as a guy I won’t advice the lady to pick this very guy in question. He has nothing to offer, same way he got her, he could go get someone else in not time as well. He may even have them numerous. Imagine him saying he is looking out on 3 years time to wife her. Does that make sense. As far as 3 years..! He is not a good person, knowing fully well that she was open to him about her status, he still went ahead to show affection. If the girl marries such a guy, Aswear she will regret it. He is a red flag! A clear sign of mistakes ladies make. Not all that glitters that is gold. I hope she has someone to advise her.

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

just listen to yourself. Ain’t you the one who began the complex relationship of a thing.? You speak as if it was her fault. Just as you have manipulated a girl to yourself in which you know very well she’s hooked already, same as someone will do same to you as well… what goes around comes around. Leave the girl alone and go for the one that is searching or simply contend with what you have put yourself into. Why now tagging the young lady names as if you are the saint here. What kind of a fellow are you? Left for me, the lady is smart and intelligent, as she doesn’t want to be at the loosing end afteral

g17prinz:
I have never been the enthusiastic type when it comes to Japa, but the realities on ground in the country leaves one with little or no choice to look elsewhere for greener pastures. I have about 7m worth of landed properties, and I want to do away with it and relocate before this country leaves me with nothing at all. I graduated with a 2:1 from a federal university.

Which country affords a better opportunity for someone looking for an MSc, putting all circumstances into perspective?

better looking forward to a country you can go hustle than having to go study. Gulf countries is still fair enough looking from currency standards. Just acquire an artisan skill before leaving and you will be good to go! If you can also attempt the USA, Europe or Canada on tourist grounds, then sneak your way to find a better living, though risky but it’s better than study route & by land! At least you will have some extras to feed pending when you meet a good person, who can help you navigate and become a legal immigrant.

But seriously speaking, the worth of asset you said you’re having here in Nigeria, is it your personal asset or you can be given for assistance to travel out and pay back with time?. Like maybe family connected? For me, I will advise if you try raise funds outside this assets to attempt travel, order the ripping yourself of it into a no man’s land. Mind you, no matter what , it may not be greener at the other side as you think.

Africa with our high service attitudes. Makes no sense! If he had been deported back home empty handed with nothing to show. Them for dey run from am. He is obviously loaded like that!

Stray dogs are like hyenas. It only takes a good dog handler of years of experience to survive such challenges! Just as an experienced soldier surviving gun battle in an unknown environment. Dogs take advantage of fears!

Everyone need to be safe out there. From the story it is obvious that wasn’t her first time going to that neighborhood. She obviously must have known about those stray dogs liter the environment there. And definitely at one point one must have graul at her as a warning/danger sign. Yankee of all places where every person dey mind im businesses..

May her soul Rest In Peace

Truthcat:
Stop lying!

It was an ibos coup, the Yorubaman and other guys were ambushed and trapped, they didn't realize what waa was going until it was too late.

It was like a man who thought that he was having a fun ride with friends around town until he finds his friends pulling into a bank to rob it and before he could say jack his friends are in a shootout with police.

Anyways people know that you people can never tell the truth in this world. But know that only your account will be different because truth doesn't change.

very correct. Truth doesn’t change!

franchasofficia:
They have started again.


The coup was not carried out by only Igbos. There was Yoruba, Middlebelt, and today Niger Delta soldiers among the coupists but you unscrupulous elements always make it look like it was just done by only Igbos soldiers.


You guys also intentionally ignore to tell the world why Michael Opkara the Eastern Premier at Enugu at that time was spared; Archbishop of Canterbury visited him that day and the coupists didn't want to attract British wrath, so they spared him.


Nnamdi Azikiwe the President was marked for killing but unfortunately as it was, his cousin, Ifeajuna who happened to be among the coup leaders leaked the coup information to him and Zik sneaked out to the Carribeans on health vacation grounds.


You guys also forgot to tell the world that Akintola was told about the coup weeks before and he communicated to Sir Ahmadu Bello his best friend whom he aligned with to persecute Obafemi Awolowo which was the main thing that even angered the young soldiers to carry out a coup to stop the political turmoil in Western Nigeria today Yoruba region between Awolowo and Akintola in which they unjustly jailed Awolowo that angered most of the young soldiers that carried out the coup.



Go and read "Why we struck" by a gallant Yoruba soldier that was part of the coup planners and leader.


When Akintola learnt about the coup, he said went and purchased a pistol swearing to kill anybody that near his residence thinking it was a child's play while Ahmadu Bello laughed it off believing his juju would save him.


Tafawa Belewa was not marked for killing because the young soldiers liked him, they only believed that Ahmadu Bello and Akintola were misleading Belewa but when the coupists discovered that the coup was already failing in parts of Nigeria like Enugu, etc, they angrily shot Belewa, a very huge mistake they made cos Belewa was a nice man




The coup was a military affair but they made sure it was turned to an Igbo people affair even when civilian Igbos were never carried along nor consulted.



And why will Igbos who controlled most sectors of Nigeria carry a coup; Igbo man was the President though with less power which he did willingly by allowing Belewa to become Prime Minister after winning the election while he became President which has more foreign influence while PM ran the day to day activities of the nation, Igbo man was the Senate President (Nwafor Orizu), Igbo man was the Chief of Army Staff (Gen. Aguiyi Ironsi), a man loyal to the Igbos, who also came from Eastern Nigeria then was the IG of Police, Igbo man was the documented richest man in Nigeria then (Sir Louis Ojukwu, Ojukwu's father).


Igbos dominated even Northern civil service because they were the most learned and qualified then which made Bello to issue a statement that they will stop hiring Igbos and start hiring foreigners if they can't find Northerners to fill the position, and also made Awolowo to start free education in Western Nigeria to enable them catch up with Igbos occupying virtually all positions including in Western Nigeria.



So there was no need for Igbos to carry out coup, the coup was entirely carried out by young, naive soldiers of which majority were Igbos from today Southeast and South South/Niger Delta in their foolish effort to rescue Nigeria from the hands of corrupt Nigerian politicians the British people handed power to.



But due to the already brewing envy against Igbos for cheerleading in most sectors in Nigeria then by the Hausa-Fulanis and Yorubas, the coup was conveniently tagged an Igbo coup just as Yorubas conveniently tagged Peter Obi an Igbo Presidential candidate despite Obi winning massively outside Igbo states including in Lagos, Middlebelt, Northeast and Abuja.


Una go tire sha.



We will keep exposing you guy's lies and hatred for Igbos, all thanks to social media and Internet, so gone are the days of spreading dangerous propaganda against Igbos using Lagos-Ibadan expressway brown envelope newspapers

your points are more or less dancing around the bush. It is not Yorubas who killed themselves neither was it the Hausas/fulanis who killed themselves. Study showed that most eastern leaders on the same ranking and footing with the western and northern leader were all spared and the chief of army staff coming from the eastern region then. And unfortunately refused to execute the coup plotters. Easterners were the majority in the coup plotting, so mentioning other tribes is as if, saying that their subjects could have disobeyed their superiors on the grounds of order. And everyone knows how the military works, no one dares! So count the few none igbos out! Who were involved. Let’s stop sugar coating the scenario, the truth is bitter. And that is why the easterners are bitter until this very day over what has always been in their minds by wanting to break away after all failed attempts of taking full control of the country as they were already planted everywhere then at at the time.

It is not your fault neither was it mine, but that was what actually happened. An average Igbo man on the street never accepts this reality of the past! They prefer telling tales that will cover up for their faults and short comings of the past which is not possible. One can’t buy facts over using false means. Truth remain truth. We are talking about logic and reality. Those who never witnessed it can still deduce the truth logically.

Penaldo:
She's just jealous

so that is what you have to say? Are you normal at all. You need checkup. Werey upandan

Our girls feels much comfortable in a bra less condition. On a No-bra-day coman see for yourself… eye go wan comot

Boyfriend/ girlfriend relationships has been taken to another level at which the satanic forces are now in charge! What a pity

extol1:
All this children killing their parents, did they seek for them from the shrine, I really don't understand why these things are happening.
God please have mercy

one thing is as there are bad kids so as there a bad parents. Just imagining the height of provocation that will push a child to do that. That hanger don dey come wasn’t that day of the tragic incidence. Better a child staying away from his or her parent at the stage of adulthood to avoid unnecessary confrontation. Na see finish dey lead to this kind thing

Imagine in this harsh economy a child is struggling to survive through his or her own God given means, and all some parent will do is to add frustration of maybe making him not to feel like a member of the household any longer. Wanting to be kicked out! Just sighting a small scenario. Things happens

Wonder shall never cease. Imagine your enemy, vowed to deal with you for a certain number of years and after achieving the evil aim now coming to lay apologies no be juju be that! God forbid bad thing oh!

Everyone indeed has a calling in this life…! God created them, so why should one discriminate or look down on whatever they chose to become. If not, how will the world be able to successfully go round as it does.! It’s obviously takes the good, bad and the ugly before the world can successfully go round. God is indeed great. Shit dey smell but yet no be bad thing! Person wey no shit go fit die, some animals and birds shit na manure.

Avenue to rig when the time comes. No excuses…