₦airaland Forum

Jega2000:
I make roughly 500k-700k on average monthly but I am not really comfortable...

many who have japa are not even earning as much where they’re yet won’t want to come back home with the promise of the amount you earn, they would have even considered with the promise of 1/3 of it. But many Nigerians here can relate how almost impossible! It is not as green on the other side.

You’re obviously from a wealthy home. No one can advise you here, you alone can advise yourself. Don’t just come here and begin insulting Nigerians because many don’t even see your 1 month earning in a whole year (annually).

Maxymilliano:
https://guardian.ng/news/poverty-is-a-sign-of-ungodliness-pastor-korede-komaiya/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&Echobox=1736598324&utm_source=Facebook&fbclid=IwY2xjawHwKPhleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHYwv_jNPjUhNt_89wvyNlx8pmVce9xEUrKxBavkKIK2mNAZhni0CZPxttw_aem_-07crJ3qTvsfquIkhySeQQ

end time pastors. Just as one was interviewed on live tv he said if pastors are not rich members will not believe they are serving a true and a living God. Like, does that sound reasonable? So now with all the criminals in their churches, those are the holy ones indeed. . .! Wonders shall never cease sha! Na wa! I pity people wey still dey go church nowadays! They’re are processing their ways to hell outrightly. No fear of God in churches, because his manifestation is neither felt in any way as they do what they like and what seem pleasing to their flesh and get away with it!

Softmirror:
Most churches this days are not different from this night clubs I hope you know. Na just cover up using the name of Jesus. The kind of dance and indecent dressing ehn. And they make more money. If churches should declare the money they made this December alone it will be times 5 .

very true. If one should ask me what church do I want to go to on a Sunday, I go think so tey d Sunday sef go pas jejely..!

Sharpsharp00123:
if u wan see people eating rubbish with joy

Just go to d north, like the food won't have any aroma, no enticing look just there

Omo people Dey ooo

That time for north na Igbo kitchen I Dey chop n d main thing b say Igbo no dey add red oil for their soup but we manage am like that else u cook yourself

honestly I can relate. They can eat one thing on a steady base without getting tired of it. Them no get food at all. . . Funny enough they are fund of adding raw maggi into their food as they eat, like no taste. they won’t mind. Their food no pass, indomie, bread, beans& rice, tuwo shinkafa , spaghetti/macaroni, masa and then suya lama that’s all…! Other Maybe akara & pap

Scammers really brain-storm no be small. Just imagine this pattern. As babes that they are which of them could have imagined and escaped this kind of a scam!

This is very sad indeed. How would a foolish person be told by a native doctor to go carry out murder and he believes the native doctor is powerful enough to make things happen! Why couldn’t the native doctor have carried it out through is spiritual powers instead. by the young man simply accepting to offer his mother. People mumu oh.!

Either ways is outrightly evil though, but unfortunately we parents should stop pressurizing our children if they find economic situation challenging for themselves. Some parents do go as far as insulting and even swearing for their kids as never-do-wells and comparing them to their counterparts. I can relate! My own parent does that to me and I ignore. If I was a bad person me self for don waka since. Imagining having a parent who are insatiable, instead of prayers na pressures and curses. Mine has even gone as far as to reporting me to the police that I am dragging property with her. Just because I still live in a section not paying rent and still trying to hustle for my future. From her words, “ Telling me I am almost 40 and that is it when I am 90 I will become something” imagine utterances! E no reach to vex waka!. That I am a curse child! Some parents can be really bad I must confess. Some children dey experience things! Could be his parent may be fetish as well as to using him already, who knows! No matter how guilty, some people have their justified sides to stories as well…! But no one will listen because of the obvious sin they have committed! It’s a sorry case! I am usually careful to judge things like this even though it appears very evil!

For crying out loud, why do southerners like idolizing the their dead! This can’t be ordinarily. This is nothing but pouring insults in the face of the living (poor) masses in their society alone. Imagine what this amount spent would have done for his wretched community. Will his (late) mother be happy where she is or instead feel a sense of pity! This is very bad

Instead of helping the wretch, they prefer to waste it before their watch. Just like people are starving to death, but instead wasting food in their presence

If you can afford to take care of your family and pay the bills, then let her stop her work with immediate effect and be a complete house wife. There are a lot of jobs in the home that will keep her busy all through the day. Three (3) is a lot in addition. Just taking them to school and back is enough talk more of other additionals like cooking, laundry etc.

Her job is the problem, period.! You can’t eat your cake and have it na! How can you allow her pick a job that has made her no longer herself when she was still single and just got married. No be better person you be oh!. You people should be content with your own earnings as a man. Heaven no go fall. God go still bless una!

Sonnobax15:

No be only infection,in fact, na refraction and reflection

Oga,na stress abeg

Marriage wey don bless you with 3 kids,na the same marriage you wan use your hand scatter all because of limited sexxx

Some men cha...........

Person don already tell you say you fit find another banny wey go dey massage your blokos, Instead of you to dey somersault and jubilate,you run come Nairaland to come complain.....

you should have quoted him at least. He is a mumu man

NiceLegs:
Yes

Guess you are based there yourself?

One painful thing is that ladies do not care about heart breaks. How the man felt over the breakfast but all they’re concerned after is how well they wish for their selfish selves. Who that one epp! When they were into the relationship wrecking the poor dude they didn’t announce shit. Just pray he doesn’t come for you and your family. Una go vomit everything. There you will know love and hatred are two sides of the same coin. Nonsense..!

Fujiyama:
^^^
Very true.

Tradesmen will always find work.

The problem here is that tradesmen here haven't organised themselves properly. Once the trades are able to self regulate and get their act together, half the battle is won. The government is asleep at the wheel as usual - and it will not do anything to help.



^^^
Our governments caused some of this with the pointless discrimination against OND and HND holders. It is insanity to discriminate against graduates from your technical and vocational schools - and for decades, the Nigerian government did exactly this. University graduates got preferential treatment (for jobs, career growth etc) for many, many years. Thankfully, this is changing.

indeed so. It really has to change. If not Africa will keep on being backwards. As what should be overrated is being underrated outa ignorance.

You too sabi.. !

yes, men cheat openly, while women cheat secretly. So women are likely to cheat more. Because they are good at keeping secrets. They can die with secrets order than men. If women don’t cheat secretly, then paternity fraud won’t exist!

Fujiyama:
^^^
That is the problem.

The mindset some of us have...that tradesmen are 'inferior'. This mindset is limiting so many people...and they often realize it only when its too late.

The 'handwork' people are the nuts and bolts that keep the real economy going. Carpenters, mechanics, welders, joiners, pipe fitters, metal workers etc. And don't forget fishermen, farmers, truck drivers etc.

The small group of office workers who get all the attention do not represent the majority of the labour force. Not at all!

Not at all, you have nailed it! Same applicable in overseas countries. Ones you have a handwork of skill as listed above, it’s an express employment. One can never be without work. Unfortunately I realized this too late in life and I had no one to put me through. Education is good, but in addition to skill, one will be in the higher class categories having greater insight. You will feel proud of yourself. Real Boss standards, with enough subjects under you. Real loyals!

Unfortunately, our teachers refuse telling us these things that it’s not all about academics.

Engineering, medicals, law yes, but what about those who do not have the brains for them!

Handwork pays much more than bsc whatever. If I had known I should have had a skill before entering the university but unfortunately wasn’t so. After graduation too much pride stopping low to go learn handwork. Our mentality na at least govt. job not even teaching job. Though I dislike teaching and not everyone likes it as well… many years passed, I ended up on handwork. Person for done go far for this life pass this. So unfortunate. When people say school na scam, yes because it doesn’t suit it white collar purposes in Africa. And the competition is more than the available jobs as na third world nations with zero industries & low development & skills.

NiceLegs:
It's the country

It is not by why you studied in the University.

It is the country.

How?

Teaching (Primary and Secondary) that fresh graduate's run away from after NYSC which is one of the most looked down on professions in Nigeria because of it's low renumeration is one of the highest paid professions in UAE, Dubai and Middle East in general.

People struggle to become Teachers in these countries just the way people struggle to become Doctors in Nigeria.

Why?

These countries value education and are investing heavily in the education of their future generations.

And they do this by paying their Teachers very well.

Tomorrow you will hear that UAE has taken over USA.

This I see coming.

Arab money is not smiling.

So I say again.

It's the Country.

but one must possess the education certificate if not, no room at all

oziegbep:
Greetings All,

Please I need serious advice.

I am currently dating a lady that I truly love. She is caring, enduring, financially stable etc. The truth is that this lady really loves me. But she's a single mum and its like an extra baggage to me. Am single and planning to get married to this lady, but the single mum status gives me sleepless nights.

I have asked her several times about the baby daddy, but she keeps telling me the dude abandoned her and the baby long ago and that she doesn't know he's whereabout.

Please I need advice on how I can cope. Because I truly love this lady alot

single mums are often being hunted by their past in the long run unless the father of their kids is late outright. Upon that, how about responsibilities, distractions…loosed focus and shared attention and love. The union is a whole lot for you guys (historical) love story. Single mums should just be focusing on polygamy or divorcees. Love has nothing to play in the life’s journey of matrimony. As it has many hinderances….

I guess you are looking at her level if financial stability… can’t work! Your manly responsibilities is inevitable. If you be a lazy dud, na problem still

officialmario:
Please share with me
GOD WILL HELP YOU.
CAN I SEND YOU A PM?

yes you can if you are willing and ready to.

But Honestly it’s not free. It’s big money I will charge for it.

You can as well use the same remedy to gain back your funds from other known persons you know like yourself who are willing to submission in stopping it totally.

There are some powerful informations that are priceless!

[quote author=ursullalinda post=133646871][/quote]hmmm, there could indeed be more to this then. I rest my case on his issue then!

officialmario:
Good evening Nairalanders

I'm writing this with heart full of sorrow because my life is really messed up.
For the past two years I have been taking hard drugs like tramadol and emzor.

I have lost my memory because of drugs, most times I forget things easily and it's really affecting my life, because I have lost a lot of things during the period of taking drugs..

The most painful part of it is that one of our female colleagues saw sachet of tramadol in my drawer and told my boss which he later fired me even after begging him.

Whenever I want to stop taking drugs I always feel tired, bored and sad if I don't take it.
Most times I always sell my things to buy drugs.
If I haven't consume 5 doze in a day I won't feel okay and I'm always angry with my family each time i don't take it.

Please I need your advice and opinion on how I can stop taking hard drugs,
Please I want anyone that has been in this position before to enlighten me on how to stop taking drugs..

Insults and abuse are welcome.
Please help me push to FrontPage for people to share their opinion with me
Thanks

Officialmario

I have a permanent solution for you that you will never go close to it again even if you are being force to! 100% ..! It’s guaranteed. You will confirm

bobby007:
nothing bad in masturbating , doing it too often is the problem

very Crazy mentality people are having over this thing!

You’re just right. I concur

Nnamdipapa:
Just see how you dey reason and you will call yourself a graduate. So if a relative come to you, you will advice them to commit crime as a solution to addictions? If I wipe you Oraimo cord!

aswear!😂 what a wicked advice

Dtruthspeaker:
He Said He is starting backwards, so case go plenty and punishments go over plenty.

omo! Fearful indeed

Rapes cases in India & Pakistan are very related. It’s a norm, like a culture. Very bad

mysticwarrior:
I'm not and would never be an advocate of murder, but I wonder how a man would even think of such disgusting act against his daughters. Many years ago there was a family of five girls. The man slept with and disflowered all five of them.

When he did it with the last girl, she started making wahala and their most eldest sister cautioned her, telling her to stay silent so outsiders who do not like them would not used it as a tool of mockery against their family. She told her that she was also a victim as well as the rest of their three other sisters, some man are shameless.

omo! Are you kidding..! Where God wan start from on judgement day! Is heaven and hell real.?

Kaiser20:
Hmmm, this your so-called African Religion must be very brutal.
The Ancestors want to destroy every good thing in Africa because Nobody wants to worship rituals

hmmm, this is where the confusion comes in again. Rituals is a steady routine. The white man’s religion is ritual as well. Oyinbo ritual!

ursullalinda:
Nooo... l needed people to know the main reason he left the church... not that brouhaha he stated their...I must save souls from deceitful beings... He started it... So he should be ready for more call outs

I don’t think he is winning souls as he is trying to enlighten Africans of their root. He is just in line as an educator.

Abeg leave am, honestly its not easy being a priest in the first place. All you are mentioning about him is as a result of his short comings he could not over come during his years. He tried serving God in his best capabilities then. We should be praying for God’s mercies upon him instead as a man who was once on the alter! Let’s see him as a brother

Kaiser20:
The only wonder the so-called god of Ndi-ichie promotes is to make African villages very poor.
Nobody wants to live in the Villages because of hatred, poisoning and fear of early death
What else can Afrika Religion do, other than destroy Successful Entrepreneurs

you lie, this is brainwashing. If your forefathers made a solemn vow to their gods who were keeping them, that’s a covenant , now the so called new generation are claiming to be wiser adapting to the whites man’s ways, if na you be the gods you no go vex.?

ursullalinda:
He was never a good priest, l know him one on one. He got a woman pregnant thsts why he left the church. A known womanizer

that should be enough. Must you say that here. Why tarnish his personality. If it’s easy to be a priest prove one coming from your household or at most lineage. Nothing wrong in his decision.

Oyinbo with their malfunctioning brains. They will always come up with weird past issues and their mumu court go use their nasty mentality judge am to their favour. Especially when it has to do with their female folks..! Them don chop belle full sha!. Even sharia court no get time for many Nonesense..!

franchasofficia:
Me too I hate pûssy

because prick no dey work. Complete am!

ucheagu:
When I was still young sex was all I could think of, I wanted it so badly, American movie contributed to this.. I've had sex a few times now but all of them have led to this feeling am having towards it now, the fear of getting a girl pregnant, infection and no emotion in it just sucks the fun out of my imagination... All this meaningless Bleep to me is just waste of time and money..

sexual urge is what controls man. Man can barely control it, even if one tries, one can’t beat it until you answer the call. Either by sex or masturbation. If sexual urge doesn’t control you, then there is a problem. You may not need find solutions now because it may not be necessary depending on the state you are in. Be it economically or religiously and otherwise…etc. But you will definitely seek solutions with time. Tis why those deviants who rape, they later realize after the act. Na the urge dey cause them to do am. No woman will be with a man if she isn’t seeing good signs!