₦airaland Forum

KingTom:
I have abi? Several times

who dash monkey banana

harrysterol:
dt African apple indeed

az in, the only one existing

nice one op, but I dont think terming it unfaithful is appropriate

yes I can and he has

I just can't find any sexiness in dis guy, the only thing I can think of is that any woman he handles might faint while he is erupting

d guy fine for face sha

bukatyne:
All hope is not lost then

I tell u

Lumiworld2020:
It is wife of course, she is the only true companion you will have in a lifetime..

that is if there is love

limamintruth:
Its simple. I believe whatever i have as my possession or wealth belongs to my kid(s). Also my spouse, who is the mother of my kid(s) is the best/right person that can effectively manage, on behalf of my kid(s), what i must have left behind for them upon my demise. This means that the only reason i'l make my wife next of kin is to manage my possession on behalf of my child(ren).
Thus in essence, no kid(s) in the union = no need to make the wife next of kin.

that authomarically means your sole reasons for marrying her is to bore you children
chei, god!!!!

bukatyne:
Lol! @ men have dog brains

In essence, women are fishes and men are dogs

No wonder they seem not to meet anywhere

but there is is one thing and one place they don't ever disagree, on a bed in a bedroom

crackhaus:
Look past the dictionary meaning, what it really entails will come to you momentarily


Okay.


Maybe I don't have any other tangible reasons, maybe I do but would rather not try to convince you of something your mind is already otherwise made up on.

Yes not all women desire to be led, but since I'm having this conversation with you - do you desire/would you rather have your man lead you or not?


Lol...if you keep saying I broke your heart, you're going to start believing it pretty soon

You know what I meant by a woman having the desire to be protected by her man.



Look past the dictionary meaning of submission/submissiveness, it doesn't necessarily mean a i]master-slave relationship in a healthy marriage setting.



I don't sniff poosies up and down, neither do I personally know any man who does


Amadioha knows it's a man's world, so does sango and Buddha


True, you are to figure out how to manipulate your world in your favour.


In other words, fight/disregard him?
He is not your creator, but your husband.

Well I don't support those kind of restrictions if there are no good reasons for them.

to your first question, i don't desire to be led by my man, our positions are equal even though we don't do things equally, we are meant to lead each other...


... to the lord's kingdom

@2nd question, yes I would disregard him. if u fail to respect me u definitely gonna loose mine
listen i'm not saying I will be fighting my man over minor issues just because I feel he is not my superior, but when I know I'm right in a particular argument and he doesn't want to hear me out or feels his words his final (especially for selfish reasons) then disregard must come in

@bolded, u are not being truthful here, we all know that most men can't use their eyes to see any human with two oranges and a hole

@italic I already believe it

chimerase2:
u dn spoil finish

e consain u?

ushe face ya work

Rapzino:
I've greatly missed Kachis barbie, MrsBr eezy, AfricanApple and Mari eolae.

dear, u have also been missed, hope u are good.

I listen to your voice note always

Exjoker:
There is nothing wrong with someone speaking out his mind esp. if they are true

there is nothing wrong in it, but we know the codes by now

etazi0001:
[color=#000099][/color]point of correctionu will never contact any of those diesase i you anbstain from pre marita sex

did u seriously say that or u are just being a clown

ebosse:
Thank u joor..




These are the kinds of thread that make guys scared of marriage.. An ambitious lady wouldn't care about next of kin or properties.. U realize how much this things don't matter when you're independent!!...

I agree with u but have u forgotten that
1. some men tells their wife not to work (don't most of u want submissive woman?)
2. no matter how independent u are, a workload of two people dat has become that of one person will be tedious to handle

vision2050:
must man die first? Abeg go sleep

yawns

while I agree with u dat sex should wait after marriage, some of your points are out of bound

virginity can not be the most precious thing one can give to her husband, at least it depends on the man
to any woman if that's the most precious thing u have to offer, u need to stop existing and live

by waiting till marriage does not mean u can't contract any of those diseases, they are available anytime any day anywhere

if loosing your virginity makes your academic performance and your social activities with family and friends decline, biko u need to visit babalawo for deliverance

I always say this: it will be very very very foolish of any woman to keep her virginity because she is saving it for her future husband
if u wanna keep your virginity, keep it for your own good, not because of any man that has been phocking since 1900













btw, all these talks about virginity and sex are becoming too boring these days

vision2050:
what give you impression that the husband must die first? women should be industrious not parasite.

chei dude, were u dozing when u typed this or did iya basira pour pepper in your eyes? u didn't see the 'If he dies before her' there?

u see what bashing of the opposite sex want to lead to?

Misogynist2014:
Sibling. Must be male, gold diggers everywhere.

why would u marry a gold digger, besides, u are only subjecting your kids to poverty



and who told u your sibling can't be a gold digger

ocelot2006:
You say "most men". Care to backup your claim? I know my father named my mother as his next of kin. I did same with my wife, and so did a number of guys I know.

I know a couple of people who have gone to radio stations because of issues like this, I have seen some around me who have also suffered the same faith





indeed Nl can be so different from reality, most people here are saying their wives meanwhile the naija people in reality that I know are not doing that. most of them have the notion that when they die, the wife marries another man and maybe spend the money for the new family. imagine!!!

Davotee:
a lot of finz. Such as african apple, kiss, staring at nice lips, nd........ U knw d rest.

yeye dey do u

crackhaus:
It's this defensive posture you ladies always put up that make you misinterpret a simple line as 'women should be submissive' into a master-slave relationship.

I am not misinterpreting anything here. na oyinbo man wey get English interpret am like that

The man you should be submissive to is the one that marries you - if you still have a problem with that, you should check yourself...

I've checked and rechecked, what I saw is still what I see

I don't need every woman to be submissive to me, I only need my woman to be - she has to, and that's the natural thing because women desire to be led...

u don't have any other tangible reasons to give not all women desired to be led by a man

[after all the internet fronting ends, y'all still want a man to lead and protect you.

yes i want a man who can protect me, how does that affect my own power to protect him (my man) we are together in this, u know.
marry me and see if I'm just fronting na after all I still love u even after u broke my heart

If you still interpret this to mean a master-slave relationship, then that's on you - I can't help you explain what you already assume submissiveness implies.

abeg helep me explain, here in Arabia, we don't study English

Well I'm not gonna defend that someone, but I can explain the concept.

A fish never learns that when it sees food dangling freely below the water, it most probably has a hook and line attached to it - fishes don't learn, they fall for the same trick every darn time, ergo, fish brain.

Do you get the analogy now?

that means men have dog brains cos they like sniffing poosies up and down :\

It is a man's world baby, you can try to paint it anyhow you want but I advise that you be realistic and take a look around.

stories for amadioha

The wise and sensible woman knows this, and has learnt how to manipulate this world in her favour.

we are not one way traffic, we can't all use the same method to manipulate the world in our favour. what works for Beyonce won't work for rihanna

That's not what it means.

then yarn me the koko

Have you ever had the opportunity of being in a leadership role/capacity?
If you have, you should know how submissiveness works in a system where there is a hierarchy.[quote]I have and I am, I know how it works


[quote]This is between that man and his wife.

However I gotta ask though; say you find yourself in such a situation with your husband, what would you do?

I will open his eyes for him to see he is not my creator

pickabeau1 nonso23, seriously u guys don't have anything important to contribute to this thread, stop filling it up with unnecessary statements

xcapizt:
Where's the triple like button?!

lolzzz, imma appeal to oga se.un to create it

Chillisauce:
From marriage to Turkey.

na your moniker dey cause confusion

lilmax:
Seriously? Eya

is that for the dead man

Joavid:
The ish is, never end up with that kind of man.
Just like men look out for qualities in women, women should do the same.
Set standards for yourself too
So no need for the blame game and playing the victim like you never had a choice.

You always have a choice.

So it goes both ways.

you have forgotten that people do change overnight

I am not blaming anyone here, I'm jest asking an innocent question why men feel they should be worshipped

choice to do what

most of our naija men are fond of putting their siblings as their next of kin thereby leaving the wife to suffer if he dies before her, not even when she has been very submissive like most of you are obsessed with. they also forgets that they have children that the wife would now be left with the burden of taking care of them alone

why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

op, u know what they say? u attract your own kind. stop following dat don't know how to cook, perhaps u've been meeting girls dat don't like to cook





myself, I dont like cooking, I just do it becos I don't have any option

blemon44:





hope they will



but i think this our generation is the last generation

u dey see vision