pweetixandy:
Simply becos women don't necessarily need men to be happy..but men on d other hand can't deal with the loneliness after,women mean too much to men.

Lacomus:
are you divorced ? If no wait until you are, then you will realize how important remarring will be to you.

Elcemento:
It's a man's world.Na only us get second hand value

garrimallam:
Not all men,but Hausa men do fancy third hand wife. Abi na lie?

Sophyrocks:
Is your question universal? Because as we speak, in other countries especially in Europe and U.S, divorced women are remarrying like no man's biz. Divorced women here still remarry. I am sure some people here can testify to it. For others who dnt, they must have had a terrible marriage and dont want another man's headache/wahala. so they prefer to focus on their kids But to be very honest, such women have their ways they satisfy themselves s.exually. I hear stories. Man/women can never be wood

But the speed at which men quickly remarry faster than women shows men can never do without women.

pweetixandy:
Simply becos women don't necessarily need men to be happy..but men on d other hand can't deal with the loneliness after,women mean too much to men.

ckmayoca:



Wow.. U are my tribe person. Odikwa nma like that. Now I agree we need women. So can I av ur contact pls?

RaggedyAnn:
Men need women to cook, clean, and generally cater to them. Most men can't take care of themselves that way, so a wife must be in the picture. Women will re-marry if they can't take care of themselves financially.

pweetixandy:
lol...its good as u have agreed..but u can't have my contact

ckmayoca:


Biko nwanyi oma.... How was ur night?

pweetixandy:
Simply becos women don't necessarily need men to be happy..but men on d other hand can't deal with the loneliness after,women mean too much to men.

pweetixandy:
Simply becos women don't necessarily need men to be happy..but men oda other hand can't deal with the loneliness after,women mean too much to men.

pweetixandy:
my night was fab..ur?s

yuzedo:
No, I have a more pertinent question.

My question is - Why do we have so many widows that are landladies in Benin?

DailyNews:
I so much love this sweetlemon; she's too real and honest in most of her comments on this forum; my dear u deserve a sweet gift. Whenever I read sweetlemon's comment, I see openness and honesty, keep it up, eyes are watching.

Unfortunately, most females on nairaland take every topic as an opportunity to prove equality bw men and women even when they know the reality

The answer to this question is simple, but I will give a detailed explanation for those who care to read my epistle

Men become more attractive to women as they become older; so long as he has a stable means of income.

But women become less attractive to men as they grow older.

These are natural instinct in both men and women right from birth.

A girl of 25yrs don't wanna date a guy of 25yrs, she wants 30, 35, 40yrs old man if possible...because to her, men of such age are mature emotionally, financially and otherwise. How many girls here want to date a guy of their age? I am sure none! How many girls here called their age mates in secondary school and higher institution days small boys? I am sure most!

But most guys want to date and marry younger girls with fresher body. A guy of 35yrs for instance, doesn't see it as a taboo dating a girl of 18yrs or say 19yrs, but a lady of 35yrs can never date a guy of 25yrs talkless of 19yrs...to her, guys below 35yrs are too young for her...now talk more of a widowed or divorced lady with kids; which single unmarried guy would happily remarry her Let's be real and honest pls.

It is only older divorced/widowed men that remarry divorced ladies. No young man in Nigeria, America, Europe, Australia, Asia, etc will intentionally go for a divorced or widowed lady when he has option of younger, prettier ladies with no kids.

The quality majority of women all over the world consider most in men is financial capability and sometimes, physical fitness- not even good looks.

But the number 1 quality 99% of men all over the world consider in a woman is- physical beauty only, and to men, a woman who has been married and had issues no longer qualifies as hot, except for few rare cases whereby the lady is looking hot/young after childbirth/divorce.

No single unmarried man in any part of the world will marry a divorced or widowed lady with good eye; something fishy must have led to such marriage, but many single, young, pretty unmarried ladies are so ready to marry an old divorced or widowed man so long as he has a stable finance. So its not just a Nigerian men issue...its not even about maturity, its just about nature and how men are wired.

Nature really didn't favour women in this aspect, and that's why every woman should pray against hubby's untimely death, divorce and marital issues because its not always easy for women to remarry in any part of the world even if she wants to.

All those claiming that it is different in America and Europe...why do u think Nigerian Yahoo boys/Romance Scammers are smiling big to bank? They milk these divorced and widowed American, European, Australian and Asian women because most widowed and divorced women in America, Europe, Asia and Australia don't usually find it easy to remarry, so our unscrupulous Nigerian romance scammers now promise them marriage and love just to milk them dry and get their national visa and citizenship. So its not just in Nigeria alone that women find it hard to remarry, it is a global problem.

I have a British colleague and somehow a friend, JB, he's divorced, and his wife is a medical doctor...JB is in his early 50s and his wife late 40s, but JB has over 30 girlfriends scattered all over d world (he has travelled to over 50 countries) and 1 stable Nigerian girl he plans to marry next year whereas his British ex wife is down there in UK bitter and getting used and dumped by some coogars in London; according to JB.

JB once told me his ex wife is still trying hard for them to get back but he's saying he can't cos the wife is no longer attractive to him...they have 2 issues; first is 25, second is 23.

So let's tell ourselves the truth; its not always easy for women to remarry anywhere in the world.

Huff Hefner, the owner of Playboy Mansion, a white American man in his 90s confessed last year to have slept with over 1000 young women even as he's old...just because he has money!

Oprah Winfrey with her billions can't get up to 10 young guys to happily make love to her and wish to marry her, lol.

To women all over the world, once a man has money and fit to walk, he is a hero to all women! But to men, unless a woman is physically attractive and fresh, she isn't worth any man's attention no matter how wealthy she is, sadly.

Sadly when we look at it so well, this world belongs to men, sadly:-

pweetixandy:
Simply becos women don't necessarily need men to be happy..but men on d other hand can't deal with the loneliness after,women mean too much to men.

smokescreen4:
@dailynews I can't think of one aspect nature favored women . It pays to be a man.

Sophyrocks:


Uhhhhhhhhhhh. #Seriously Salivating#
Biko how you take know my craving for the past few weeks. Wish it was real.

Chillisauce:
From marriage to Turkey.