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Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by agbajesaid(m): 5:14pm On Feb 07, 2018
Donbigi2:
nigerian number (confirm the number ooo), use mail that don't already exist on offerup.
confirm the number how sir. thanks
Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by agbajesaid(m): 3:36pm On Feb 07, 2018
Donbigi2:
open Facebook account, add number and email to the Facebook account then sign up with Facebook on offerup
please Is it US number I will add to the Facebook account or I can put my Nigeria number? thanks. then can I use an existing mail or I should create another one because u already used one to register with offerup before they started asking me to verify phone number. thanks
Culture / A Lesson On Humility To Learn From The Story Of Bode Thomas by agbajesaid(m): 10:03am On Feb 05, 2018
Message from OLUBADAN!
A LESSON on HUMILITY to learn from the story of BODE THOMAS!


Bode Thomas, yes, the same Bode Thomas, whom the Surulere street was named after, died on Nov 23, 1953 in a most mysterious manner.

Bode Thomas was born to a wealthy trader, John thomas in 1918.
Himself, FRA Williams and Remi Fani-Kayode (Father of Femi Fani-Kayode) attended Law School in London, and they established the first law firm in Nigeria, called "Thomas, Williams and Kayode".
The law firm was established in Jankara, Lagos.

Bode Thomas was an excellent lawyer, but he was also very arrogant.
Because of his education, he was made chairman of the Oyo Divisional Council at one time, while the King of Oyo, Alaafin Adeyemi, (the father of the current Alaafin) was a mere member.

On Bode Thomas' first appearance in council after being appointed chairman, all council members stood up for him in deference, to welcome him, except Oba Adeyemi, who, for cultural reasons, should not show deference to anyone in public, not even his mother.

Bode Thomas rudely shouted at the King". WHY WERE YOU SITTING WHEN I WALKED IN? YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO SHOW RESPECT?" At that time, Bode Thomas was 34 years, while the Alaafin was in his 60's.
The Alaafin felt very insulted. He said "SE EMI LO NGBO MO BAUN?" (Is it me that you are barking at like that?)
Bode Thomas responded by shouting some English sentences which the Alaafin didnt understand, so the Alaafin just told him. "MA GBO LO"!
(continue barking). The confrontation happened on November 22nd, 1953. Bode Thomas got home and started barking.

He barked and barked and barked like a dog all night until he died in the early morning of November 23rd, 1953.
Bode Thomas was the Balogun of Oyo.
So, when next you drive on BODE THOMAS STREET in SURULERE, LAGOS, remember that man, who cut his own life short because of his arrogance and naughtiness.
Friends, pride comes before destruction, Humility will take you to high places. No matter what!

Do have a lovely day. Be humble.

let's educate people

Fulaman198
mynd44
lalasticlala

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Politics / Very Educative Piece. Religion Is A Matter Of Choice But Ethnicity Isn't. by agbajesaid(m): 9:52am On Feb 05, 2018
ROME WAS NOT DESTROYED IN A DAY - Simon Kolawole


Sadiq Daba, the actor, ran into some serious health issues recently. He cried out for financial help to undergo foreign treatment. Pronto, Nigerians reacted overwhelmingly. But wait. I did not hear anybody talk about Daba’s religion or ethnic group. The people who tweeted and retweeted his appeal for help, and those who contributed money, were certainly not from his village. I was so so so so so happy. It confirmed, yet again, my pet theory about Nigeria — that we do not hate each other. We are just victims of the unending political manipulation of ethnic and religious identities for selfish gain. Evidently, ordinary Nigerians have the “Nigerian spirit” in their DNA.

Indeed. I have met extremists and chauvinists from across religions and races. I am yet to hear anyone declare that we were not created by the same God. One of the most astonishing things about life, to me, is the fact that although we can choose to be Muslims or Christians, and so on, nobody can choose to be Hausa, Fulani, Igbo, Yoruba or whatever. We just woke up one day to find ourselves as members of one ethnic group or the other. It was not our making. So why should you discriminate against me, and hate me, on the basis of an ethnic identity that is beyond my control? Is it my fault that I was born into a family that was clearly not my choice?

Today, I am going a little bit practical on how we can renew our minds. There is a saying that Rome was not built in a day, a proverb originated by the 19th century English playwright, John Heywood, who also gave us immortal expressions such as “out of sight out of mind”, “better late than never”, and “the more the merrier”. He said Rome wasn’t built in a day “but they were laying bricks every hour”. This, in some sense, tells us the value of consistent hard work, perseverance and conscious efforts at construction. If Nigeria is going to change, therefore, we must alienate those who see themselves, first and foremost, as ethno-religious champions. It all starts in the mind.

But, pardon me, Rome was not destroyed in a day either. It took ages to build the city but took a much shorter time to destroy it. Rome was sacked by the Visigoths in 410 AD. In three days, they looted, burnt and wrecked the beautiful city. That hastened the collapse of the Roman Empire. Same thing applies here: the destruction of Nigeria by ethnic champions and religious bigots will not happen in one day — it is a gradual, steady process. That is why we the people must guard our hearts jealously before we are recruited into the hate brigade under different guises. Those already recruited can decide to desert straightaway. We need to build, not destroy.

My suggestions. To start with, do not participate in the sharing of messages and materials that are clearly intended to preach hate and prejudice. Saying “shared as received” is pure hypocrisy. You can be critical of leadership without attacking or disparaging their religions and ethnic origins. As a matter of principle, I do not share messages that are clearly meant to spread hate. It is a duty I owe my conscience. We all have terrible things to say about other people. If we do not allow love to guard our hearts, we will keep adding fuel to fire. Therefore, before you press the “send” or “forward” button, ask yourself: what is my motive? Unto thyself, be honest.

Also, do not feed your children with hate and prejudice. Fill their hearts with edifying things. A senior colleague of mine, a Muslim, married a Christian, who then converted to Islam. He told me he once engaged the services of a cleric to teach his children the Qur’an every Sunday. One day, he overheard the cleric telling the children not to drink from the same cup or eat from the same plate with their aunts, who were living with them, because they were “infidels”. My colleague fired the “afa” on the spot. He remains a devout Muslim, sure, but he saw danger and immediately quenched it. This kind of hate messaging certainly fuelled the mindset that birthed Boko Haram.

This is how hate works: it focuses on what divides us rather than what unites us. If there are Qur’anic verses that say Muslims should love and care for Christians, the hate merchants will focus on where Christians are called “infidels”. If there are verses in the Bible that say “love your neighbour as yourself”, the messengers of hate will focus on “what fellowship does light have with darkness?” There is nothing you want to justify with the scriptures that you won’t find. If you truly have love in your heart, you will focus on the verses of love. The God that forbade eating four-footed creatures is the same God that ordered Apostle Peter, in a trance, to kill and eat! To the pure all things are pure.

And this is how prejudice works: because Chief Obafami Awolowo did not declare Oduduwa Republic in solidarity with Biafra in 1967, every Yoruba is a traitor — including the one that was born early this morning. Because an Igbo chap was arrested for 419, every Igbo person — dead, living or unborn — is a fraudster. Because Barkin Zuwo struggled with speaking English, every northerner is an illiterate; in fact, no northerner has a brain. Because of the insane activities of ISIS and Boko Haram, every Muslim is a terrorist, including your friend. Tragically, there are people that the only thing they can see in you is your language or religion, not the content of your character.

Let me quickly say this before I shut down my laptop and take a stroll: it is very difficult to resist the message of hate and prejudice in a society already polluted by manipulative politicians, their overpaid sidekicks and our inept leaders. I know. When everybody is saying there is casting down, it is very difficult to go against the grain and say there is lifting up. You just go with the flow. But maybe the “casting down” gang is not as big as the “lifting up” brigade — just that the latter has been intimidated into silence. They must begin to speak out. Rome was not destroyed in a day. Those working to destroy Nigeria neither sleep nor slumber.

As for me and my house, we resolved long ago that we would never feed our children with hate, prejudices and biases. These things are usually passed on from generation to generation. I resolved to follow the example of my grandmother by celebrating the best in others rather than focusing on their worst. I would rather talk about the dignity in labour you find among the Hausa, the creativity among the Igbo and the industry among the Yoruba. Accuse me of living in denial and I will accuse you of living in bitterness. Accuse me of being politically correct and I will accuse you of being self-righteous. Accuse me of being naïve and I will accuse you of being jaundiced. It’s all in the mind. #copied

let's preach peace.

mynd44
lalasticlala
Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by agbajesaid(m): 8:04am On Jan 24, 2018
twinskenny:


thanks baba
bro, how much did the seller offer for the S8 Google locked. thanks
Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by agbajesaid(m): 8:01am On Jan 24, 2018
mikkyangel:


good deal...perfect deal!, na dis kind deal i dey find, cos dey will sell the phone cheap...
*Ayo(computer village)

*Ify(computer village)

*Taiwo(computer village)

will unlock them for cheap price
sir, is $400 for an unboxed but never used samsung S8 a good deal. thanks
Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by agbajesaid(m): 5:09am On Jan 19, 2018
mikkyangel:
*Oga T
-nOTE 4, PICKED up in d city of Downey(crazy deal!!)
oga mikkyangel, you arent replying your WhatsApp message. Thanks
Crime / Re: 14 People Killed By Fulani Herdsmen In Taraba Buried In Mass Graves(pics) by agbajesaid(m): 7:28am On Jan 10, 2018
And our politics leaders r seeing dis for God sake
Agriculture / Re: ROI On Cassava Investment Far Better Than Any Other Investment In Nigeria by agbajesaid(m): 10:10pm On Jan 09, 2018
Good evening Sirs/Mas
A very big thank you to everyone that showed interest in investing with me and a BIGGER thank you to those that have entrusted their Fund with me.
I want to use this Medium to announce that I am no longer taking in Investors. I already have FOUR and we are Cultivating 100 ACRES together. I believe with God on our side, it will be a Success.
If I have to take in every request on my table, then we will have to Cultivate more than 400 ACRES. I don't want to bite more than I can Chew because it will be difficult to manage such big investment in Raining season( APRIL downward) because we are not WEEDING but rather SPRAYING with HERBICIDE.
The easiest time to manage/cultivate a Cassava farm is October because the maintenance will be minimal due to shortage of Rain.
For this reason, any investor that wish to join the train but couldn't meet up with this opportunity should prepare against OCTOBER.
I believe our SUCCESS on this one will MOTIVATE you to join Us.
Thanks and God Bless.

Agbaje Said

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