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“I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up.
I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason.
My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions.

He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.

My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me.
I could now take care of myself and secure a future.
Though I married my husband, but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me.

My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.�

Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No” My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also.
His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”

*What is your advice to this young mother?.*

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NIGERIA, A BASTION OF CORRUPTION

By Seyi ODETOLA.
(Copied from WhatsApp group)

I know a federal civil servant in one of the ministries who had two children in a boarding school in the UK paying £32,000 annually for the two. If you were to add other expenses he spends in an average year, the total sum of may be £40,000.

The civil servant kept this children in this school in Brighton since when they were ages 9 and 11. The argument he advanced then was they will be given citizenship when they turned 18years and they nearly made it.

But the tide turned against him and by 2016 ending, he was forced to withdraw the children because the FREE MONEY OF THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT dried up, combination if TSA, BVN and other policies if government made free money impossible.

I remember when I saw him in 2017 February, he was full of hatred for President Buhari....he was really cursing the man and you can see he hates Buhari with passion.

He told me Buhari presidency is the worst ever he had experienced since he joined the civil service.

I did not want to ruffle feathers because he is a friend, a school mate etc so I was soft on him.

But I asked him at a time why he was saying the presidency is that bad...his response was, it wasn't realising money as before. I went further to ask, were you being owed salary? He told me no. He further told me to forget the whole discussion if I didn't understand what he was taking about....

Hmmm...it was clear, he was and still in juicy ministry but the system put in place now made near $10,000 he makes illegally monthly fried up...he is very confused now.

He is putting up for sale some of his properties. He has sold a gas station in Oyo state...Nemesis has caught up with him...he is developing hypertension, high blood pressure with other peculiar sickness he had been nursing before the bp.

He needs medical attention which he travels to Germany for every 6months and the last visit was so bad that he sold a choice house to fund the treatment. What the federal government ought to have been used in building hospitals had went into His wallets and dispersed. He may need to sell all to treat himself now!!!

Fast forward the above story and listen to another story...

A massive hotel in Gowon estate Lagos was under construction. The construction started in 2014 December when the young guy who later turned to be a custom officer, equivalent of a major in the army who is stationed in Apapa wharf bought three plots of land for N100m plus. He later bought another house besides the plots for N300million. Knocked the house down and made the plot 4 plots of land.

He commenced the construction in January 2015 but by January 2017 or so, construction works stopped entirely on the land.

I later learnt during one of my travels to Lagos that he was transferred from Wharf and he is now in a border town in the North East.

If he could spend N400m to acquire land and spent so much on the construction, I did ask each time, how much had he illegally acquired.

Once again, he has put the site up for sale demanding for N1.5billion claiming that he wants to retire and relocate to the U.S.

Wow!!!!

Now, when I went home for my mum's burial, in order to secure full information from him, I told the agent I wanted to purchase it and I was put through to him.

We met for two hours and at least he complained for one and half hours of the time about this presidency.

He said Buhari's presidency is the worst presidency ever. He said many people are hungry and there was no money again in circulation.

He had catalogue of curses for this presidency.

I knew I wasn't buying, yet priced it for N1billion. He knew I reside in the UK and he was negotiating to be paid in dollar or pound sterling telling me he has accounts in the UK and US.

Conclusion:
I have relinquished political discussion for a while because of the pace in which this presidency was conducting it's affairs.

Buhari failed the litmus test I set for him in 2014, hence I was docile and reluctant to campaign for him today.

But one thing is clear about this presidency, he had shut out many thieving civil servants, politicians, armed forces members etc.

If a government is not doing something spectacular but at the same time it was not stealing, at least we may know where we stand and that is what I saw with Buhari presidency.

The race is between PDP and APC. That is the reality.

These two guys I mentioned made money illegally under the PDP presidency but the source of the money has dried up during APC presidency.

If we want another 4years of total turning off of public or commonwealth tap from these thieves, we should look at the side of APC presidency under Buhari.

Atiku is not a man of character!!!

I would have looked at the side of Sowore, Oby, Fasua etc but the political calculations will make the emergence of any of these guys impossible in 2019.

Therefore, we need to talk about next level, at least for the next 4years and hopefully, the youth would have learnt lessons that, "UNITED WILL STAND, DIVIDED WILL FALL"

Thank you folks and God bless you.
Good morning

By Seyi Odetola ....

ONNEGHEN, WIKE, PDP AND THE BURDEN OF CURRUPTION

By David E. Oguzierem

Former Chief Justice of Nigeria, Justice Walter Nkanem Onnoghen GCON did not only admit his false assets declaration, he amusely told belwidered Nigerians that he "forgot " to declare his assets. My goodness! Forgot to delcare your assets. A chief judial officer?

Huge deposit of foreign and local currencies was traced to secret accounts of the highly respected former CJN. Monies running into millions of Dollars, Pounds Sterling, Euros and Naira was discoverd in secrets accounts of Justice Onneghen. Over 50 choice buildings and properties was also traced to the Justice Walter Onneghen.

The matter was reported to Code of Conduct Bearue. The CCB quikcly reported the matter to Code of Conduct Tribunal. Justice Danladi Umar of CCT requested the appearance of Justice Onneghen. But instead of responding, Justice Onneghen used his influence and position to obtain ridiclous injuctions against the CCT. Justice Onoghen has descerated the temple of Justice, wherein he is expected to be protect.

Justice Onneghen has a nagative history of setting free most corrupt PDP goons. Most walk free with our stollen wealth. Perhaps, his account is loaded with bribe colleted to free such corrupt individuals.

THE WIKE/CJN CONNECTION

When these sturning revelations was made last week, Governor Nyesom Wike quickly mobilzed all the PDP governors from South South to an emergency meeting in Rivers State Goverment House. The ridiculous agenda is better imagined than expected. Wike secured the consent of the visiting governors to ask the corrupt Justice Onneghen to never appear before any Court. He was mandated to disobey the court. Impunity. CJN also surprisingly obeyed.

Basically, Wike was instrumental to the several ridiclous injuctions against CCT. He masterminded the open and brazing disobedience by CJN not appear before CCT. Governor Wike provided the backbone that energized the CJN to disobey the CCT.

PDP AND ITS FRATANAL ALLIANCE WITH CORUPTION

It is very surprising and shocking that the PDP members have not learnt their lessons. It has been proven that the name PDP is synonymous with corruption. PDP is corruption and corruption is PDP. No wonder, the PDP and its hoodwinked membership naturally gravitate towards defence of corrupt people and systems.

It is dangerous how a struggling opposition party will naturally allign with obvoiusly corrupt and stinking situation.

I think the PDP has become the proverbial vulture that naturally and instinctively fly towards the dead. PDP has become a "union of vultures". It flies towards rottenness and stinking environments. It takes joy in swinmming in the pool of feaces, decayed abjects and evil.

One may want to ask if the former Justice Onneghen is a card carring member of PDP. Or is there a pact we are unaware, which is planned to be executed after the general elections. Was PDP planning to launch back through the back door, using the Supreme Courts? Was the huge deposit of funds in Justice Onnoghen accounts bribe money meant to deliver injustice? Was the CJN an accomplice of a gangup? Beyond the discovery of this questionable funds, the authorities should investigate the reson behind such huge deposits.

The removal of the CJN is timely. He is considerd a zeus or Pope in the temple of justice. He is not expected to be any less an angel. He must be holy at all times.

The CJN criminal kiss of the forbidden fruit is both an abomination and abberation. He pleaded guilty before his arraignment, by conceeding commiting the crime. I think the most honurable thing that CJN should have done to escape the hammer that has befallen him would have been to resign.

Now that he has been suspended, let his celebrated prosecution begin. If he is innocent, he will be reinstated, otherwise If he is found guilt, I wish him cool time in Nigerian prison system, where he has sentenced most innocent Nigerians over and over again, perhaps with blood money as a motivation.

Weep not for the Justice Walter ONNEGHEN, former CJN.

David E. Oguzierem is the Convener and Chairman of Tonye Cole Associates.

ONNEGHEN, WIKE, PDP AND THE BURDEN OF CURRUPTION

By David E. Oguzierem

Former Chief Justice of Nigeria, Justice Walter Nkanem Onnoghen GCON did not only admit his false assets declaration, he amusely told belwidered Nigerians that he "forgot " to declare his assets. My goodness! Forgot to delcare your assets. A chief judial officer?

Huge deposit of foreign and local currencies was traced to secret accounts of the highly respected former CJN. Monies running into millions of Dollars, Pounds Sterling, Euros and Naira was discoverd in secrets accounts of Justice Onneghen. Over 50 choice buildings and properties was also traced to the Justice Walter Onneghen.

The matter was reported to Code of Conduct Bearue. The CCB quikcly reported the matter to Code of Conduct Tribunal. Justice Danladi Umar of CCT requested the appearance of Justice Onneghen. But instead of responding, Justice Onneghen used his influence and position to obtain ridiclous injuctions against the CCT. Justice Onoghen has descerated the temple of Justice, wherein he is expected to be protect.

Justice Onneghen has a nagative history of setting free most corrupt PDP goons. Most walk free with our stollen wealth. Perhaps, his account is loaded with bribe colleted to free such corrupt individuals.

THE WIKE/CJN CONNECTION

When these sturning revelations was made last week, Governor Nyesom Wike quickly mobilzed all the PDP governors from South South to an emergency meeting in Rivers State Goverment House. The ridiculous agenda is better imagined than expected. Wike secured the consent of the visiting governors to ask the corrupt Justice Onneghen to never appear before any Court. He was mandated to disobey the court. Impunity. CJN also surprisingly obeyed.

Basically, Wike was instrumental to the several ridiclous injuctions against CCT. He masterminded the open and brazing disobedience by CJN not appear before CCT. Governor Wike provided the backbone that energized the CJN to disobey the CCT.

PDP AND ITS FRATANAL ALLIANCE WITH CORUPTION

It is very surprising and shocking that the PDP members have not learnt their lessons. It has been proven that the name PDP is synonymous with corruption. PDP is corruption and corruption is PDP. No wonder, the PDP and its hoodwinked membership naturally gravitate towards defence of corrupt people and systems.

It is dangerous how a struggling opposition party will naturally allign with obvoiusly corrupt and stinking situation.

I think the PDP has become the proverbial vulture that naturally and instinctively fly towards the dead. PDP has become a "union of vultures". It flies towards rottenness and stinking environments. It takes joy in swinmming in the pool of feaces, decayed abjects and evil.

One may want to ask if the former Justice Onneghen is a card carring member of PDP. Or is there a pact we are unaware, which is planned to be executed after the general elections. Was PDP planning to launch back through the back door, using the Supreme Courts? Was the huge deposit of funds in Justice Onnoghen accounts bribe money meant to deliver injustice? Was the CJN an accomplice of a gangup? Beyond the discovery of this questionable funds, the authorities should investigate the reson behind such huge deposits.

The removal of the CJN is timely. He is considerd a zeus or Pope in the temple of justice. He is not expected to be any less an angel. He must be holy at all times.

The CJN criminal kiss of the forbidden fruit is both an abomination and abberation. He pleaded guilty before his arraignment, by conceeding commiting the crime. I think the most honurable thing that CJN should have done to escape the hammer that has befallen him would have been to resign.

Now that he has been suspended, let his celebrated prosecution begin. If he is innocent, he will be reinstated, otherwise If he is found guilt, I wish him cool time in Nigerian prison system, where he has sentenced most innocent Nigerians over and over again, perhaps with blood money as a motivation.

Weep not for the Justice Walter ONNEGHEN, former CJN.

David E. Oguzierem is the Convener and Chairman of Tonye Cole Associates.

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