Sorry o broda!. . jus try take heart. how e take happen? i rily hope dis post doesnt make it worse 4 u sha.

Toba oya give us una male perspective na?,

toba:

Thk u. We don hear. Im sure u re speaking from a female perspeative.

Continued- Neva let a man know everything, he will use it against you later if u have a fight. You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within. Dont EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. . . even if he i has more education or a better job. Do not make him into a demi-god!. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are, you should be to do that yourself. . . Never EVER borrow someone else's man. Oh lord! If he cheated with you, he will definitely cheat on you. . You need to deal with the issues in your old relationship before you move into a new one. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. . . a relationship consist of two WHOLE individuals. . look for someone complementary. . . not supplementary. . . Dating is for fun even if he doesnt turn out to be Mr Right. Dont fully commit to a man who doesnt want to give you everything that you need in a relationship. Keep him in your radar but get to know others!!. .

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. if he doesnt want you, nothing can make him stay. stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as deserved, then heck no! you cant "be friends". A friend wouldnt mistreat a friend. Dont settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Dont stay because you think"it will get better". You will be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. he didnt marry them when he got them pregnant, why should he treat you any differently?. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Nigerian version-Jus know how to 'do' it, and bam! love re-ignited.

If u start to dash her money u be 'ATM' if u dont u be 'super glue' . . . lol!.

'Till my dying day' by BANKY W.

My very close friend just told me how her boyfriend has asked her to get pregnant b4 he can marry her. I asked her if she agreed to such a silly condition, she said  she doesnt have a choice, and that as a matter of fact she has already started trying since the last 4 months to get pregnant for the guy. She told me of her endless intake of folic acids, visits to different gynaecologist, different churches, how she is now visiting a native home to 'rob' her womb etc. I told her she was acting too desperate, she replied dat she cannot sit and watch another woman gets pregnant and marry her boyfriend. i told her that if her boyfriend truly loves her, he will not look at another woman or even give her such stupid condition. she laffed and said "wait until it happens to you, you forget say u dey Nigeria?". Abeg my pple, is this the only way to get a naija guy to marry u?. . i rily want to know, judging from the fact dat 90% of the marriages i attended dis year, the girls were all pregnant!. . .

Why dont u jus buy d car nd present it to her, then see if she will reject it nd tell u she was jus testing u, ekpa pikin!.

Wit his highly abnormal level of jealousy?. . . nah!.

Lolllz!!!. Join nland ke? Dis is my only freedom o!, He talked abt joining once but i stylishly dissuaded him. Cus dat wld mean 'read posts only no comment' 'why are u on romance section instead of family or religion or food?' how come u've got so many guys commenting on ur post?' the question nd answer no go finish o!, Lol!.

Idowuogbo:

hmm babes i tell u its comedy on nl ,but on a ril face reality if he doesnt like it tone it down .
On d oda hand if u do tone it down and he stills carry on dictating den it b like sey your husband get paranormal issues wiv u , maybe u 2 fine so he doesnt want 2 risk anybod y investing on his property hehehe

lol!, Im already used 2 his dictatorship, but i still dey beg am 2 reason wit me 4 dis nland issue cus e no go easy o!,

Maybe becos i see dis site as info-taining. . . 2 many comedians dey here o!. silly posts, even more stupid comments, ppl wit worse shi.t dan urs, special advisers, psychologists, everythin dey here o!, except love. . maybe dats why im so reluctant 2 de-activate. .

U go try reach village!, lol.

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u jus av 2 take d risk by giving ur all, nd hope 4 d best.

The ex still wants her man back, and the current gf is probably too naive 2 see it.

Dis mobo guy self? do u av a babe, or u married 2 ur computer? do u av a job or u working 4 nairaland? else how did u manage 2 come up wit all these names of ppl logged into nland 24/7, if u are not always logged in yourself?. . . (abeg no be insult o!, na talk i jus talk.)