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pansophist:
Women raised by single mum lacks her father's masculine energy that balances her mother's feminine energy, making her seek out for it elsewhere. Since they have not experienced fatherly love, they have a strong need to seek it out by dating older men and finding them attractive, burdening their partners to play fatherly roles, and a high tendency to pick out the wrong types of men.

It becomes worse now that we live in a social media culture, where all kinds of ideologies and information are flying here and there, and young people are exposed to all kinds of negativities and so-called "influencers" that teach them nonsense that would not fly if they have a strong father to teach them that instead. And oh, they are always masculine. All the masculine women I know do not have a father in their life, I don't know if lack of father causes women to be less feminine, but that's what I noticed.

When I was still single, many of the potential ladies I met were raised by a single mum, and it saddens me to say this, but these women are just straight up messed up. Many unconsciously hate men, and in this feminist culture, are more likely to be feminazis. They have not just wrong expectations of how a man should be, but stupid one's as well, expected me to do fatherly stuff like over-pampering and they have a bad taste in men. Many don't even know what responsibility is. It's alien to them.

The thuggish kinds of guys were appealing, as that's the kind of masculinity that is pushed down their throat by the media, not your typical hardworking, strong educated man. Good men basically appear weak and boring to them. Also, where a mother will protect you from falling, a father will let you fall and learn. A mother may prevent you from passing through harsh situations, but a father will make you pass through it and grow. This differences in parental approach are necessary for the full development of a healthy child, and lacking one will probably bring up a messed up child.

It's even worse for boys raised by a single mum, but as for girls, here you are.

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Freeeanijor:
The same reason marrying a girl raised by a single mother is a disaster most times.

Can you please throw more light on this?

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Happy married life to Mr Eddy Enaikeru.

He is popularly known in top lecture houses in Edo state and author of several Economics related textbooks. He is well known in UNIBEN too.

See pictures of his lovely wife and he as they had their traditional wedding ceremony today.

White wedding pictures coming up on Saturday. Please join me to celebrate him.♥️♥️

MJBOLT:

That lady no be nairalander abeg na ugly girls full this forum

Haba!

Just say you've not seen. The prettiest girls on Nairaland are mostly writers in the literature section.

Seun:
I hope trinity123 is right. Codedrock, try searching YouTube for videos of cats in heat.

Seun please I'd like to talk with you. Can I still change my Nairaland account username?
Please mail me.

billynoni:
Correct... Nice one, "Itohan".

Waaait...how'd you know my name?

I opened my 1st account in 2017. I lost access to the email connected to it so I deleted it and opened another in 2018. I kind of mistakenly deleted that one earlier this year so I reopened in again March 2020

My guy nairaland is sweeter than twitter by far. I call it the Nigerian version of twitter.

It's addictive eh!

Fact is, if you can survive trolling and bashing on Nairaland, you can survive anywhere in the world

The password is different

Guuddjabb54:
Lala is viewing

How much is your art? It's really cool

Jonaji this is so beautiful. I love your graphic skills and neat presentation.

Goalnaldo:
The engineer that constructed that upside down step, what was he thinking?

My broda I've been thinking about it too oh Cracked me madly

Na wah for Africa.

You do stylish wedding. Them go talk say you dey waste money.

You nor do stylish wedding. Them go say na poverty dey worry you.

You do moderate wedding. Them go say you too stingy.

You talk say anything dem talk nor be your business. Her village people go siddon on top your matter.

My advice? Anyhow you wan do am, people go still talk. Just do am as the spirit leads. If you listen to people, you go frustrate.

Afterall, what matters is not the wedding ceremony but the 'marriage' ahead.

Nor be today dem start to decieve us

lol

With the heartbreaking news of rape everywhere, this is front page material.

They can protect theirselves but won't send security agents to protect the helpless communities being terrorized in the north

APC has too much trouble abeg. Please, you people should fight each other, break your necks and allow new young focused people to take over Nigeria.

OMG

BotherMleeper:
30 years ago that would've been a valid question

Now we don't have ladies, only hoes

Marrying these days is a poor investment: you're paying good money for damaged goods.

Why buy the cow when you can milk it for free?

If I sound you! Am I damaged goods? Biko take your time oh, I dey bite person

On a serious note now eh, not all ladies are wack. The good ones (like me ) like to hide and observe everybody in one corner.

darediamond:
Before I check your profile I just know you must be Beatiful and on checking .....



You turn him on!!!

Me?
Am I nepa?

Post the pictures na

This is so beautiful, peaceful and appealing to the eye. I love it.

madjune:
What are you saying?
200k naira is even too much.

The white police officer killed George Floyd over 20 dollars.
I don't wish to draw any race parallels but it's obvious that man is man's greatest threat.

Not virus.

Sickening

I wish I could help financially my brother but many of us are still trying to regain our balance as the lockdown is easing gradually

It could be malaria. Calm down. You'd be fine in no time.

Wawu

Hm

What the heck!

Humanity is rapidly becoming a monster. How can you watch your fellow human burning, slowly losing grip on life in agonizing pain and yet begging for mercy while you cheer on?

Africans! You complain that Whites call you savages, animals or whatever. Why won't they say so when they see you burn a human this way
Stop this nasty thing!

This is wrong. No matter the offence, life is too precious to be wasted this way.