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chaircover:
Ok so there is more to the story than first thought. Seems that there are deeper marital problems than just a one off misdemeanor. This man is having an affair.

First of all, your husband has shifted the goal posts, so feel free to do the same.

When next your husbands friend comes to the house, anything short of throwing elubo on his head is acceptable. Embarrass him and he leaves. If he is married, go to his wife and tell her that her husband is the go between between your husband and other women.

Next stop is sister big bossoms pastor, make a formal complaint explaining to him/her what is happening. Next stop Sister Big bossoms closest friend and sister big bossoms not too close friend who you know will spread the gossip very well.

Then go home by which time yawa would have blown & he will still be smarting about the insult you gave his friend. But before your husband can say anything quicly kneel down in front of him, beg him and blame it all on the devil . . . . . . You have made your point that you wont just sit there and let him get away with having affair.  Hopefully he will come back to his senses.

Then go back to step one which is blocking gaps, fixing your marital problems, communication etc so that another budding adulterous sister big bosom will go next door rather than hitting on your husband.

It is unlikely that your husbands friend will ever set foot in YOUR house again; no loss.
The way I look at it is that won ri be before they started using him as alarena. He must be a man of low moral values himself jare otherwise sister big bossoms will think twice before telling him nonsense that she is in love with another womans husband.

aisha2:
Congrats, one of the lukiest baies in the world to have such smart, good, and open hearted parents, you guys will do great

Afam:
I think this forum is achieving its aim, at least it allows people to put down in words how their minds work.

Having this type of information will help us understand why people act or react in certain ways.
This means that it is not always the case that people are incited by politicians, even literate people can think in the most illogical manner as well.

Abeg, poster, continue to educate us on how some of these religious problems start, thanks.

ACL:
HI ALL,

MY Peace, same from stock forum those days, how is stock market goin?

new to this post, hope am welcome.

Am getting married in 3mths time but too anxious cos i have a long time history of irregular period, gyn gave me contaceptive 4 correction and it lead 2 missed period for a yrs.
later when it came , it became iirregular bleeding, placed on primolut N wc i still use up 2 date.
recently it spots for about a week and later flow for a week.


I stay in port Harcourt, hubby is in Lagos, we see once a month or twice at most.

Does anyone in d house knows a good gyn in PH, pls help. uniport is too far, and office will not give time for public hospital.it has 2 b a private clinic i can go after work.

Expectin your reply.

i almost forgot, went for pelvic scan on friday, result says UTERINE FIBROID>. where do i start from