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Pets / Re: Found This Dog In Our Compound This Morning... by Akeem79(m): 1:18pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Wodu89: Make posters in your community with it's pictures and a phone number Hope not in calabar land 7 Likes 1 Share |
Car Talk / Re: How Do Thieves Open The Bonnet To Steal Battery? by Akeem79(m): 1:15pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Mechanics Thieves 12 Likes |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Akeem79(m): 6:53am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Charisma01: Akara ahnie come and rate this Akara Hapi Sunday to us all 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Akeem79(m): 4:08am On Sep 01, 2023 |
First day of September 16 Likes 1 Share |
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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Akeem79(m): 5:10am On Aug 30, 2023 |
ahnie: How to sip flakes(grocery)in this biting economy Yellow garri is not good enough for sipping Meanwhile Good afternoon from here 14 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: The Illegality Of Ex-Governors Collecting Both Salaries & Pensions- PremiumTimes by Akeem79(m): 10:50am On Aug 28, 2023 |
OyeofIkoTuN: Abeg rest in Jesus name..
Igboland likes it like that...God punish anybody that complains in 2023. |
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: "You Can Have Cross, He’s Not Worth Fighting For" – Ilebaye Tells Kim O by Akeem79(m): 3:49pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Righteousness where are you 2 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Yul Edochie Chilling With His Northern Nigerian Fans In Abuja (Video) by Akeem79(m): 3:08pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
He want take like play like play enter Aso Rock
Lobbying mood activated 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Crime / Re: NDLEA Arrests South African With Meth Consignments by Akeem79(m): 2:52pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
taylor88: This one na all round Joint Task Force (JTF)
I see Ifeanyi
I see Tunde
I see white man
I see Hausa names and faces
Na only Tinubu remain 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Davido's Fan, Emmi Wuks The Cyclist Meets Kiddwaya In Lagos by Akeem79(m): 7:59am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Life na turn by turn sha |
Celebrities / Re: Igbo Man Who Owns Highest Number Of Rolls Royce And Private Jets In Nigeria (pho by Akeem79(m): 7:43am On Aug 26, 2023 |
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Pets / Re: Man Spotted Carrying His Big Pet Monitor Lizard Like A Baby In Lagos (pic/video) by Akeem79(m): 6:06am On Aug 26, 2023 |
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Family / Re: Whose Name Should I Put On Papers Of The Car I Intend Buying For My Married Sis? by Akeem79(m): 4:47am On Aug 26, 2023 |
YoungDaNaval: Then it won't be a surprise anymore Use your brain dude Tell her that one of friends brought a landed property for his big sister And the land document carried his sisters name and that move cause a big problem between his sister and her husband Wait for her own response And act from there |
Politics / Re: Abuja-Kaduna Highway Only 20% Completed – Umahi by Akeem79(m): 11:52am On Aug 25, 2023 |
endsarrrs:
Great
I give it to the minister, Umahi.
That man is 'Mr.'work the talk'' 2 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: My Mother Once Dated Dbanj, Says Bbnaija’s Angel by Akeem79(m): 11:51am On Aug 25, 2023 |
Her outburst pain nairaland ladies deeply 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Return My N2,800: Speed Darlington Calls Out Lady Who Refuse To Visit by Akeem79(m): 11:41am On Aug 25, 2023 |
Solofresh2: This guy is working hard for unreasonable attentions No matter what You can't collect someone's money and refuse to render the service the money was paid for |
Sports / Re: Moisés Caicedo & His Girlfriend (Before And After Pictures) by Akeem79(m): 11:40am On Aug 25, 2023 |
Jazmine10: Ezugbo stood by him... He also stood by her. He also is Loyal to her. That word loyalty is alien to most Nigerian men. Ezigbo not Ezugbo Haba nao Onye igbo nkwo 1 Share |
Travel / Re: World’s Top 10 Airlines Of 2023 by Akeem79(m): 11:01am On Aug 25, 2023 |
Lufthansa clues gather here |
Romance / Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by Akeem79(m): 5:55am On Aug 25, 2023 |
addmole: I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.
Anyway sha, lets move on...
5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.
Omo... The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.
I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.
I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.
ANOTHER PART OF HER: My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.
There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.
We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.
I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.
I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.
Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.
i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.
Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.
She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.
What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough. This is what you got when your marriage started with I MISS MY PERIOD |
Health / Re: Have You Met Someone That Spits Saliva Every 5 To 10 Mins by Akeem79(m): 9:57am On Aug 23, 2023 |
GeneralPula: Nah..
But is it even possible? Spitting Every 5mins? Such person would catch a dry throat nah.. You never see them Even 5 mins long sef |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: West Ham United Vs Chelsea - 3 - 1 (Full Time) by Akeem79(m): 6:49pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
Great100000: This Pochetino set, I can't believe Sterling is playing full match.
Mumu Coach, no wonder Tottenham and PSG sacked him.
Very useless Coach. Sterling played better today Maybe you didn't watch the game dude 23 Likes 3 Shares |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: West Ham United Vs Chelsea - 3 - 1 (Full Time) by Akeem79(m): 6:37pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
post=125240438: GOOOAAALLL
West Ham find themselves 2 : 1 up.
We can't afford to lose this match. Not all the money we spent on these good young players. Nah. Not West Ham!!
Come on Blues. In MOU voice NO COMMENTS 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: Nigerian Woman Reconciled With Her Husband On His Sick Bed The Same Day He Died by Akeem79(m): 1:43pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
Jazmine10: Okay Sherlock Holmes. When he made mention of your brother being the man Your senses return back immediately Women sha |
Religion / Re: Why Many Christians Find It Difficult To Be Holy by Akeem79(m): 10:40am On Aug 20, 2023 |
BirtherOfKings: ask for more clarification and not show your ignorance here Nobody is holy |
Sports / Re: Onome Ebi Appreciates Her First Coach, Paul Okwudili Nnakwe (Video) by Akeem79(m): 7:41am On Aug 20, 2023 |
Akasammyoka: At the end, you never achieved anything globally. What is there to celebrate madam. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Foreign Affairs / Re: We’ll Hand Over To A Civilian Govt Within 3 Years – Niger Coup Leader by Akeem79(m): 7:33am On Aug 20, 2023 |
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Celebrities / Re: Naira Marley Throwback Post On Smoking by Akeem79(m): 3:42am On Aug 20, 2023 |
NDLEA Bleep up big time |
Celebrities / Re: Cycling Davido’s Fan Gets Heroic Welcome As He Arrives Lagos (PHOTOS) by Akeem79(m): 3:30am On Aug 20, 2023 |
ahnie: Pls give him hot catfish peppersoup and cold fanta.
Izz nut easy. You and food Why not nkwobi ? 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: ‘I Have Been Going Through A Lot’ – Charly Boy Opens Up by Akeem79(m): 3:28am On Aug 20, 2023 |
Obidients should organize donations asap |