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Centrik360:
All these schemes na packaged fraud.

If a government is doing well, it's the positive effect on the people that will spread the good news

Na true o, education no end for ability to reading and writing

They should first put some money into revamping the schools before talking about paying the students. Rebuild and equip the schools with modern facilities and make the school fees affordable. Why should you pay a student 135k(45*3) per season to go and sit on the floor, in a class without roof fan, chairs and table in the name of technical school?
Many of the so called technical schools are in dilapidated condition and the first to think about is we are going to give you money to go and learn there..

She can leave, someone, probably better than her will marry him. Sometimes some people just think they are above certain challenges. What will be her reason for quitting especially if the guy is ok and caring?

The directive didn't say the place should be unsealed, I think the president only steps in to give the affected people some time to enable them pay up without further sanction. The question now is , has PDP paid the rent? If yes I think that is when you can start talking about the unsealing of the place but if not, the FCDA is in order at the moment.
PDP is there condemning, who is interested in the condemnation? The only valid condemnation now is to say look at our receipt, we have paid but you have refused to let us have access.

Hezzyluv:
Letting her know your account balance. Most women will not rest till they see THE END.

This is like asking people to let you sign your death warrant.

jmoore:
These fines were never made public. It's now that NAFDAC is saying they were fines..

Damage control.

Go and check the Gazette first to avoid wrong contribution. What we should be talking now is whether all those who were made to pay the money are guilty of keeping and selling prohibited drugs or substandard drugs, secondly the NAFDAC should be open on how many people have made these payments.

Respiration kills quickly

Somebody probably hold the money thinking wike will not seal the office.

EFCC should be careful the next time they need to pick VDM because as it stands now, even me go show for protest ground next time this repeat itself. 1m for real? Guys make una expect full house any time una make decision to arrest vdm

Let nobody come here to say this or that has been his target, for God sake why are the big names the ones dragging the country bad while making laws and policies that they will not comply to, but for the poor to comply. This issue of rent has been on for a while but I think many of them thought Wike is a joke and now he is proving to them that he means business.

Imagine axess bank that declared bogus profit after different kind of deduction and charges both the ones with meaning and the ones without proper narration yet refused to pay rent to the government

agulion:
On a daily basis Yoruba Muslims creates about 20 different topics and thread about Peter Obi, most times I wonder what the want to achieve

Lol, this is rather Obi's caucus propaganda because I heard the plan is to use ADC. If you are current you should have known, so this is coming from obi's(and his friends) side not Tinubu side.

No better time for this than now. Thanks

Onegai:
Busariabeyx24

Let's knack each of your problems 1 by 1

Lack Of Intimacy:

Ogbeni, during the day, get her ready for sexx at night. No farmer plants yam at 7pm and expects to eat it at 9pm. So toast her during the day
Ogbeni, go and shower nightly. Shave your armpits and down under. Smell good, get rid of that torn boxers. Also get a vibrator for both of you to use for play. Tell her to change the bedsheets and get new pillows (she needs something to grab onto when you eventually start making her legs shake and flat pillows are so uncomfortable). Go and check for lingerie on IG, send her links and tell her to pick one. Same with perfume.

I like giving BJs. What does your wife like in bed? If you can't answer that, then that means you're not putting her back through the mattress. You've just been using her like a Fleshlight. So you're gonna learn how to have her ready for action any day, any time.

Emotional Abandonment

She started talking to her friends because she had no-one to talk to. I'm telling you this as a woman: we don't really like ditching her husbands until he shows us he doesn't want our company and we decide to go get a life.

You taught her that. Remember, she's your mirror.

So no more phones, no more hanging out with the boys for now. Focus on her.

Date night! When a woman says "I want to eat grilled fish" she means "I want to dress up, feel cute and eat grilled fish". Most men mis-hear and they buy the fish and bring it home. Boring.

Also, no more phones when you're both at home unless it rings. Phones are killers of Intimacy. Focus on each other, assume you're in 1943 Nigeria with no NEPA and kerosene lamp. Your grandparents had nothing else to do save for fvck and talk to each other and other people. Much less poor mental health issues back then too.

Lack of Parental Responsibility in Education:

Okay, she needs to step up here. I know for a fact that a lot of teachers in Nigeria are doing it because it's a job not because it's a calling. So she may be burned out (their pay is crap). Sit her down and tell her "do you want our kids to be like Naija influencer Jarvis or banger incel boy Wizarab or do you want our kids to be like Ezra Olubi or Jason Njoku?" Let her know the stakes and tell her you'll support her, here's your family plan for the kids, she should add to it.

Though you made some point rightly but this is almost totally selfishness sis. Why should a man go through all this just to sleep with a woman they both claim to be in love together? You girls should stop getting men to marry you when you know clearly you don't love him but just need to be taken out of the single-hood. If the woman put half of all these efforts you listed for the man definitely there wouldn't be problem in the marriage. We are not kids here, when a woman is in love we know and when she is out of love the picture is never blur, so save all this killing a lion for her to proof something that will not be reciprocated. O thought love they said is mutual, why do any individual has to do all these to get the other persons attention if truly there is love there?

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys please I need advice I don't know if I am making a mistake or should I go on maybe I might get the wife I am looking for. a lady came to my compound looking for a room and she is very good and has good shape and nyash out of joy I gave her the room but she paid for everything and I help her with water and other things to clean the room but later I started having feelings for her.

I don't know if I can tell her that I am in love with her and I can't explain it or should I keep my feeling to myself?

It's a free world, who say you can't fall in love with your tenant? But then do your proper assessment of her to be sure she is what you really want. The reason is that you may not be easily off the hook once you start dating her because this someone close(in your compound )to you and that is why some people like to choose from people that are a little far from them so that if things don't go as plan, they can easily cut off and move on.

2special:
They've been recovering phones for years, the contacts or calls on just a phone is enough to end the terrorism.

Some of you will just sit in your comfort zone be saying anything that comes into your mind without analysing them before talking. Well I won't say much because I once thought the way you are thinking now. Let's appreciate the gallant men out there, it's not an easy task as we see or think of it.

Congratulations to them. To those standing for nigeria at all cost, may God bless you, may our dreams come true.

By their head, you shall know them, making Biafra proud inside Nigeria is my believe

That is very swift and good one coming from the police. I pray they are found

apprentist:
Hello Guys, let me first of all say the cliché "It is well".

Now let we start.
I met my wife years back just before the COVID-19 year during which we dated for almost a year and then eventually got married just when the lock down was reducing. I started this story this way because I wanted to emphasis that during that period, we had so much time to bond and she was mostly available to me as she only worked on shifts 2 to 3 days per week.
We could sit and talk for long, go out at late nights and have great s*x as frequently as we needed.

This I think gave me a mirage of an anticipated marriage life so I didn't hesitate to take it a step further ones the lockdown was relaxed.
I also made it clear to her that her job would have to give way when their kids start coming as I had plans to assist her further her edu and also put up a biz for her.

Speed up to after COVID-19, she resumed work which till this day demands 5 days a week and 2 to 3 Saturdays per month all from 7:45am till 5pm. Often times she'd return home tired and would manage to make dinner and off to bed till the next day circle continues.
It became worse when we started having children. I drive them to school as early as 7:40am before dropping her off at her job. And then I'll pick them up by 5:30pm or 6pm when she's done with her job for the day (let me mention that this extends to public holidays and school holidays or breaks).

I got tired and in December 2025 I told her she has to quit the job. My plan was to enroll her back into a private school after my kids are Upto 4 years as one of them still depends on breast milk. I also gave her the option of starting a business which I understand is a dynamic move and might not be successful, but at this stage of my life it's something I could afford to risk and so I didn't mind.

I must also mention that out of a 100% sex, 50% is not mutual as I could sense she isn't interested and 40% is a denial as she would rather deny me of s*x with the excuse that she is tired.

Simply put, I'm tired.
I'm a Christian and divorce isn't an option. Also I can't cheat, but I am starved of s*x and my kids are not given the attention they deserve.
Pls advice me

I need the advice too cos this is not funny any more. For people like us, I hereby announce to others that the 23 time sex per money is not within our reach, make una help with explanation on how to manage it without side chick. Lol

The hustling is real, my man want to hedge against 2027. He will be soft on opposition for now

If you have the likes of ganduje as a friend, you are a lucky man.

Kwankwaso is trying to adopt Wike style. He has stripped himself of the senators in favor of the opposition but want to use the governor and himself to get a good bargain.

If only they have provide prepaid metres to all households, what we would have been talking about now is how to go around checking,to endure that the metres are not tampered with or bypassed. The metres should be on the poles for all and strictly prohibited for any individual to be seen with a prepaid metre except a group of distribution company staffs on official duty to mount metres.

The stealing in this country is something that you cannot find anywhere else on this plannet. Do you know that if not for his last minute currency exchange that was perceived to be targeted at a particular candidate, these whole stealing would have been buried 9 feets down, many governors steal more than this and even when they get exposed, some people will later come to beg and then the case will just die a natural death. May God heal the land
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That is on the high side considering you bought it in Kebbi,,

princepee:
In Sex..
The first round is the sweetest..
Any other rounds is just to boost your ego.
Trying hard to satisfy your woman...

But then, the first round still remains the best.

That is not for everyone, for some people, the second or the 3rd is their best. Some people climax quick in the 1st round and last longer in 2nd or 3rd round as the case may be.

SeeWahala:
Let's forget about the burantashi, tramadol etc . . . So you're telling us that's even after releasing BLOOD in your 3rd and 4th round you still pushed ahead?

Which one is releasing blood for 3rd and 4th round, watin bring about blood?

You see this life, just try enjoy yourself whenever you see yourself among the living. If the man no do exercise now people will say, try do exercise now he is exercising the body and death still go there go carry him