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Politics / Re: So Aisha Yesufu From Edo State Was In Abuja by alizma: 9:08pm On Sep 22
A simple support from her for their party's candidate is what she can't offer now, possibly because she is not in any way in charge of the money this time. I hope their supporters will explain her absence in a way that will be understandable to all.

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Politics / Re: Edo: PDP Situation Room In Joyful Mood (Video) by alizma: 8:53pm On Sep 22
Tareq1105:


I guess this is PDP version of APC earlier jubilation. We shall see who would laugh last. Even Obaseki himself could not jubilate when he came out of the office of the INEC resident officer early this morning. He couldn't acknowledge greetings self.
Someone went there to tell them to start jubilating so as to counter APC earlier jubilation.
Politics / Re: Govt Interventions Can Crash Dangote Petrol Below N600/litre – Refiners by alizma: 8:47pm On Sep 22
Who are the refiners, what do they refine?
We don't need government intervention, what we need is more players in the sector, that will encourage competition, efficiency and reduced price.
Family / Re: Men Who Are Not Sexually Satisfied With Their Wives... by alizma: 5:22am On Sep 17
MrBrownJay1:


what does sexual satisfaction got to do with the above?!?!?!?!?!?
Are you married?

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Romance / Re: Once A Man Introduce You To His Mum He Will Surely Marry You - Nigerian Woman by alizma: 2:57pm On Sep 14
All things being equal, this is 85% correct. Most men can do all the nonsense out there but they get serious the moment they personally involve their mom in the relationship.

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Politics / Re: Video Of A Man Being Beaten For Attempting To Commit Suicide In Lagos by alizma: 2:39pm On Sep 14
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked





Supporting an administration and then trying to kill yourself due to hardship from the administration can be considered as betrayal of trust.

Some people don't take such betrayal lightly; while it is an offence, I don't know if it merits being beaten up like this for.
I don't think he was being beaten for trying to commit suicide but they were beating him so that he could loose hold of what he was holding on to, thereby making it easy for them to pull him up
Family / Re: Check The Statistic Of Single Motherhood Percent By State In Nigeria — Statisene by alizma: 9:19am On Sep 14
SpatialKing:
Hope people from South West will question the source of these data....

This data is very correct
Igbo women hardly re marry as widows
Their chances to re-marry is very slim. The culture of one wife, one woman is more pronounced in the south East and South South when compared with other regions. So who's husband will they remarry to?.....non.
It is also very uncommon to find a single guy showing sincere interest to marry a single mother in South East particularly, even if she is a mother of one. So the case is more of the effect of the social practices there rather than a case of choice.
Crime / Re: Pastor Stabs Wife To Death In Anambra (Photo) by alizma: 9:38pm On Sep 11
May God help us all through this challenging moment. The spirit of anger is everywhere in Nigeria. This morning I almost got into physical confrontation with someone, few minutes later I was like what would have happened if I had actually hit him the way I intended and he fell down? One answer was clear which was that the Keke drivers offence that everybody , including myself would automatically concluded that the Keke driver's offence was insignificant to compare with the outcome of my reaction and by then, it would be too late to reverse my action, had I know would set in, my planned activities for the day, week or months if not years will be altered within a blink.
Well I thank God for today.
Nothing this man will give now as enough reason to justify his action.
Romance / Re: Lady Carries "I'm Sorry Eddie I Will Never Cheat Again" Placard by alizma: 2:34pm On Sep 11
Forgiveness will come only on one condition.....
Foreign Affairs / Re: Kamala Harris Gets Over 200+ Endorsements From Republicans by alizma: 2:19pm On Sep 11
kestolove95:
My only prayer is that people from SadEast should not support Harris pls, we don't want her to loose this, they should support Trump
They have since made their choice, Trump is their man.
Politics / Re: I Just Bought 5 Liters Of Fuel For N10,000 Federal Government-nigerian Man Cries by alizma: 1:57pm On Sep 11
Them cheat you bro, Na 9,800 you supposed pay
Health / Re: Lady Undergoes Surgery To Remove Massive Love Machine Stuck In Her by alizma: 10:10am On Sep 11
And some guys died trying to show her sege banza. Dey play
Health / Re: Please I'm Not Upto A Minute Man I Release Quick Immediately I Enter by alizma: 6:00am On Sep 11
Indaboski007:
Please help me I don't know what to do. Is there any problem with me. My girlfriend is seriously complaining
Sometimes being a one minute man can be due to anxiety or high sensitivity of the cap , to overcome these two you need an understanding woman, be she your girlfriend or arranged olosho, in either case you need more time for the sex, that is after the first round, you both have to relax, chat and play till you gain erection again, however while the play go on, don't pressure your 3rd leg to raise because the more you make it a focus, the more you have the fear that it may not raise and believe me, it won't rise, so take your mind of it and just enjoy yourselves playing till it give you a signal that it's ready to rise then you can focus the romance towards making it rise. You will be surprised that your second round gives both of you the joy you are looking for.
However if the problem continues, don't give up until you have had like 4 or 5 failed trials during the second round, then you have to look for people that specialize in that area with herbal treatment. Good luck
Sports / Re: Folashade Oluwafemiayo Wins Gold For Nigeria And Sets New World Record by alizma: 5:04pm On Sep 08
Congratulations to her and to all Nigerians

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Politics / Re: Amaka: Lauretta Onochie Caught Posting Fake Photo by alizma: 3:27pm On Sep 05
There is something called file photo

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Crime / Re: Ondo Man Arrested For Shooting Rival In Concubine's Home by alizma: 7:44pm On Sep 04
Well that is what you people called fighting for the one you love.
If he had just walked away, the lady would someday asked him, why not fight for me when you knew you love me, why did you just walk away?
May he enjoy his space in prison in peace. True love is worth dying for.
Politics / Re: FEC Will Determine Price Of Our Petrol, Says Dangote by alizma: 1:40pm On Sep 04
Nigerian elites are doing everything to frustrate this man. They can stand to witness an end to their massive corrupt practices in the oil sector but sooner or later, they will realise that everything that has beginning surely will come to and end

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Family / Re: I'm Contemplating Divorce After Two Years by alizma: 11:18am On Sep 03
Successtube:
I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.

Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.

“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.

But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.

My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.

I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.

The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.

I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.

Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!
No time is enough to study a partner but be prepared to make up for the shortfalls whenever he)she show her true colours, this include letting go if that is what it requires. Life is too short to be unhappy.
Politics / Re: Man Shows Off His Tattoo Of Nnamdi Kanu by alizma: 2:25pm On Sep 02
That is his own portion of the flesh as shared by God, so the choice is his
Romance / Re: Ladies Who Don't Have Up To ₦500k Should Stay Off Marriage by alizma: 12:24pm On Sep 02
Somebody don finally scatter the table

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Jokes Etc / Re: Who Is Your Favourite Nigerian Comedy Skitmaker Presently? by alizma: 11:51am On Sep 02
1. Brain jotter
2. Brain jotter
3. Brain jotter
4. Others

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Celebrities / Re: New Video Of Zinoleesky Raises Concern by alizma: 7:01pm On Aug 31
Person wey supposed dey fresh more than before.
Health is wealth

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Politics / Re: Photos Of Atiku With Nuhu Ribadu And Senator Shehu Umar Buba In Abuja by alizma: 1:08pm On Aug 31
They just finished praying, you don't expect them to carry cutlass and start pursuing each other, besides they are friends by region and tribe which are bigger than their political career.

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Career / Re: I Lost My Dad And Shoe Making Found Me - Lady Cobbler (Video) by alizma: 10:33am On Aug 31
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Crime / Re: Nigerian Arrested At Pakistan Airport With Cocaine Capsules In His Stomach by alizma: 11:03am On Aug 30
immortalcrown:
A Nigerian without a name?
If you don't get the name then look at his head and give him a name.

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Politics / Re: Edo Guber: PDP Flags Off Governorship Campaign In Ubiaja (Pictures) by alizma: 10:42am On Aug 30
gracealonev:
For Naija, campaign grounds dey overflow.

But for the day of election……

Maka why?
POV: Campaign ground is a collection of various words and units, looking at the kick off of the campaign(both APC and PDP) I think the election day is more crowded than the campaign when you consider the total vote at the end.
Romance / Re: Nigerian Activist Reacts As Teenage Couple Weds In Benue (Photos) by alizma: 7:03am On Aug 30
Another unreasonable activist. Why wishing them divorce just before they enter the marriage when you are yet to understand the circumstances surrounding the union?
In some part of Nigeria, this usually happen in a family where the boy is an only child, only surviving male child or has an underlying health challenge that poses threats to his survival in the near future etc.
TV/Movies / Re: Statistics Of Households With A Television In Nigeria by alizma: 6:55am On Aug 30
ictmikky:
When dem come count our TV wey we no know?
Don't mind them, they probably go to GOtv to collect data, forgetting that some people don't have go tv but dvd
Politics / Re: Labour Movement Worth Dying For, Says Ajaero After Visit To Police by alizma: 6:31am On Aug 30
I smell something fishy, something beyond labour matter. The way Ajero is going around the story without blaming the security agents for the invitation but rather trying to manipulate the mind of the gullible ones to see him as a victim even before a bigger issue ahead tells me that something is hiding. The Ajero I know doesn't talk like this when he is fully on his right but misunderstood or wrongly accused. Let's watch and see.
Celebrities / Re: Chiwetalu Agu Pays Tribute To His Colleagues, Others Who Recently Died by alizma: 3:39pm On Aug 29
May their soul rest in peace.
Politics / Re: Fearless In October Protests - Punch Editorial by alizma: 2:21pm On Aug 29
Fearless or predator? These journalists at it again

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Celebrities / Re: Hanks Anuku Looking Amazing At 64 by alizma: 10:17pm On Aug 28
Ogba nne Na nwa, happy birthday Sir

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