₦airaland Forum

shortgun:
That's very strategic move from Kanu. I can already foresee how things will unfold once Buratai takes the witness stand as Nnamdi Kanu cross examines him.

Kanu: Did you order the military to invade my house in Umuahia, killing my father and 25 other innocent people?

Buratai: No, I did not.

Kanu: Then who gave the order and were those men under your command?

Buratai: The people who might have invaded your house were not officers or soldiers of the Nigerian Army under my command.

Kanu: My Lord, the witness has just confirmed before this Honourable Court that there were active armed men operating in the Southeast during his tenure as Chief of Army Staff who were not under his command and these men cannot be linked to IPOB since it would make no sense for IPOB to attack the home of its own leader and kill his father along with 25 others. My Lord this revelation undermines the prosecution’s claim that IPOB was behind every act of violence at the time, it weakens the prosecutions claim that IPOB carried out the attacks they claim.

This is a witness list not accused persons list, the witness can also decide not to respond to your call to witness and in this case, it is wrong to call brutal to witness to whatever happened at Nnamdi Kanu's house because he wasn't the officer that lead army to his house. Witness means you saw what happened not that you have knowledge of what happened.

This is the only way Nigeria can move forward, certain things need to be regionalized to create room for healthy competition, emulation and desire to grow with other states/regions. Recently every state and region are consciously or unconsciously working towards not being left behind in terms of electricity supply to its people

Somehow he is correct, it takes brain to scam a first class

Which one is daily cost when a plate of food is 3,500, still on a low key o.

The guy will still fall for the last part of her insult where she requested that they should just keep things the way it is. That is exactly the insult will take sense. As for now, I take the insult as an advise. Work on yourself and be better than she can ever imagine

TechToyin:
Hello house,
I just need some advice abeg.

I recently got a teaching job this term — I’m in my early 20s and I teach Physics to SS2 students. I gave them an assignment on Gas Laws last week, and while marking, one of the girls wrote “masturbate” as her answer.

I was honestly speechless. I didn’t even know how to react. The school doesn’t allow flogging or any form of physical punishment, so I can’t just “discipline” her the old way.

I’m trying to maintain professionalism, but that answer really shocked me. I don’t know if she was joking, testing me, or if there’s something else behind it.

Should I call her aside to talk? Or report it to the principal or class teacher?
I don’t want to embarrass her, but I also don’t want to ignore it.

Teachers and educationists in the house, please, how would you handle this kind of situation?

First call her during the school hour o, possibly when you are alone on your desk, keep the all the answers on your desk as if you are just doing the marking, tell her that you observe that her performance is low, then ask of she understood the last assignment you gave them, if she answer in affirmation, ask if she could remember her answer and if she said yes, let her say it and possibly explain what it means to her, if she said she can't remember then, bring her book and ask if she remember now and ask her to pronounce what she write and explain what she understand. While doing this, play along as if you are more naive until you get the right point you wanted. If she tend to know what she write and probably thought that was going to get you thinking of her, get an elderly and mature mistress involved but if she showed sign of rumours from the moment she knows you are driving at something, then educate her about the long journey she has to go before in life and why that shouldn't be her priority. But you self never experience much to advise person, so talk to a matured female teacher to talk to her and be careful with such students, they can robe you into a mess

Where are the husband and wife? The West and east

It's good that they put this online so that those in the cities outside the region but constantly encouraging the crises will see what exactly they were encouraging. Imagine being chased out of your home for years, not by outsider but by your own brothers who claimed they are fighting to set you free.

I saw it coming and I did post it here then. I knew he was not going to get ADC ticket and going back to PDP or LP to contest is not going to be like 2023 when the presidential ticket was handed over to him, PDP will not do that and the aura that surrounded LP in 2023 is no longer there. So either way, the outcome at the primary or presidential election if at all, will be embarrassing.

Fake news, everyone know that Otti has no rival in 2027 and he is not someone to use such language

slivertongue:
“Whether male or female, a child is a blessing. Some people are praying day and night for just one.”

I used to think like this too until I realized that the little I have today and I am still struggling to get more, some people will be like God just let me have this, I will be ok. So life is like that. If he can handle the expenses, let him go for what he wants, if is the will of God, he will get it, if not, he will continue to have many girls.

Drone will do nothing special, he should be working on electronic voting online with the use of national Id card or so, to encourage more Nigerians participation in our voting process. Many people have been caught manipulating voting process and results on camera on several occasions but eventually they walk out freely, what d drones are going to do are no much different from what our phones have been doing.

They have to return those things they took from her, the major concern should have been that of safety of vehicles and passerby which shouldn't warrant taken her items, considering that she is doing the cooking for free but relocating her to a safe place within the area.

Another room for stealing, why not float an email for people to send in their contribution? With the above you can simply get few tech guys with a handful number of laptop set up in one of the existing offices where the emails will be filtered

When it's finally clear that you will get nothing from those you sacrifice your brother to gain their favour. Na now day break abi?

How market my people? before 2027, the other man from ADC and labour Party fit join APC. No ask me for person name o

Kobojunkie:
. Why the unnecessary rambling? She can't take care of the child, so what? The father of the child should take over. Simple!

Will you say the same or even try to understand the situation if the reverse is the case? The rambling is necessary and the point I am trying to make is that those that have responsible men trying to take care of the family should appreciate their husbands and encourage them because it is not easy.

Just a child yet she can't feed herself and the child but if a man had been taken care of her and the child shouldn't praise the man for that, rather make the man feel like there is nothing special in taking care of her and the kid. The once that are lucky with 2 or 3 children are out there insulting their husbands for not dropping enough money. Many of them will go as far as telling their husbands to look at how better another man is taking care of their family

breadtoaster:
Please, those of you who are married — how do you cope?

I am married to someone I don’t think is my friend. We dated before marriage, but during that time, I had a very senior friend whom I always went to for advice, help with decisions, and assistance with things that required initiative or “manly” effort.

My husband, on the other hand, is very quiet. Living with him feels like living in a graveyard — no TV, no outings, nothing lively. It’s not that he isn’t intelligent (trust me, he is), but he’s too lazy to put his mind to work sometimes. By 9 p.m., he’s already asleep. He eats, goes to work, and that’s all. He has no drive for more. Whenever I talk about progress or goals, he says, “It’s a process; it’ll take years to come to fruition,” but he never thinks of ways to get things done efficiently or on time.

So in terms of ambition or drive for achievement, I’m suffering living with him. I feel alone. I’m scared that his lack of motivation and his slow, passive lifestyle will kill my own drive. I’m not even extremely driven myself, but I know I want to achieve greatness. That desire pushes me, but I’m afraid that living with him will make me too relaxed and unmotivated — and I don’t want that.

Before marriage, I had friends — both male and female — with whom I shared advice and ideas. I’ve always had male friends because they tend to be driven. From them, I learned about crypto, stocks, business ideas — they inspired me. But my husband doesn’t trust them or me around them. Since we got married, I can’t talk to most of these friends at home unless I’m at work. It’s affecting me mentally. I’m scared that my circle for growth and greatness is being trimmed down, and soon I might start behaving like him — with no ambition or hunger for achievement.

Women, how do you handle such relationship dynamics?
How do I keep my drive while being married to such a man?

Every Friday night, he’s already asleep. One time, I dragged him to a lounge on a Friday night, and he was dozing off there. I ended up dancing alone while other couples danced together. If there’s something important we’re supposed to do, he won’t take initiative or push for it.

For example, I suggested we start going to church regularly to build our spiritual life. One Sunday, he woke up first and went to bathe. When he finished, he didn’t wake me up, and by the time I opened my eyes, it was already late. When I asked why he didn’t tell me, he said he called me but I didn’t answer. For me, I wouldn’t act that way — especially when it’s something that helps build our faith together.

We also planned to pray as a family. We did it for two days, and then he forgot — and honestly, I’m struggling to remember too. I don’t know if our marriage is under spiritual attack or if it’s just his personality, but my mental health is suffering. I’m not happy. I don’t genuinely smile anymore.

He doesn’t know how to pamper me or show warmth. If I complain about something, he just lashes out. He didn’t date much before marriage; he was one of those “spiritual brothers.” I was spiritual too, but I thought quiet men were more romantic or deep inside. I was wrong. I feel like he’s choking the life out of me.

At home, I can’t even make calls freely — he gets unknowingly aggressive if I’m on the phone and says things like, “Don’t you have things to do?” So I can’t talk to the people I’d love to.

After our marriage, he had issues going to my family, claiming I blackmailed him because of earlier arguments. He would get upset about small things, like me dancing to Afrobeat music. He’d say I shouldn’t, then later deny he said it. Or if we go out to eat, he’ll say we should leave early or that the place will soon close, even when I just want to relax and enjoy being outside.

I feel alone, yet married. I miss home. I’m not sure what to do.

It even took us one month after the wedding to consummate our marriage. We were both virgins, but his manhood wasn’t functioning well, and we had so many arguments that our emotional connection broke down. I felt it literally fall apart. Now I feel like I’m just living with someone.

He often says, “We’re not aligned,” or that he trusts me only 60%. If I go out, he sometimes gets angry or accuses me of lying about where I went. I can’t stay indoors all day like him — I’d just die inside.

I need help. I feel like I’m losing myself. When I visit home, my mother’s voice feels loud or too much, my friends when i talk to them, it feels like they are talking too much — not because they are talking too much, but because I’ve been living in such silence that I’ve lost touch with voice, morelike in a graveyard.

I am even crying as I type this, and he is sitting somewhere on the other side asking me if my head is swelling or what is making me cry.

I’m just… tired. feeling so strongly emotionally starved tooo.

Hello, I couldn't read everything but with the little I read, I think you are a little bit over reacting. Don't take this as an offense until you answer this few questions.
Do you think he will hit you at slightest opportunity? No I guess and I think you can almost swear on his behalf.
Did you date him before marriage? Yes I guess
Was he like this then? More like it, yes
Have you tried to find out his childhood experiences? Not that much I guess
Does he like exotic, good quality things if given to him as gift or does he admire them? Yes, I guess.
Is he intelligent? yes you said that earlier.
I think your man is smarter than you think, the side of life you want is something he loves and cherish too but he has certain poor background that scared him of jumping into the world the way you want him to do. As for him, everything has to be planned, giving chance to grow. And he is scared not to make mistakes that will mean starting a fresh. So I will advise you carefully work on him than trying to push him.
Sometimes we are born to raise others when you find yourself in such situation, handle with care and love.
Success

Should this scale through, the sitting president should be praised for allowing it. It is easy to upturned victory when a candidate is yet to be sworn in than when he has been sworn into office

As man or woman, try to stay alive at all cost, a lot of shit happens when you are gone.
As bad as the pardon appears, I am always concerned about the kids in this kind of situation. Imagine one of your parents killed by the other and the only one left is marked for death while living behind the bars.
It's not an easy experience.

Kudos to the pilot and to value jet. He could continue the journey but he remembered he was not just carrying few people, he was carrying the entire nation and was not ready to take risk no matter how little it appeared.

O was just telling someone some hours ago that Atiku is just being hypocritical about the call because of Atiku is to be the president today, he will not risk his second tenure for Kanu, I have also said it before, if Tinubu will release Kanu, that will be after his victory in 2027.

Mordecai:
90k for a 250W mono solar panel
18k for a 30A Pwm solar charge controller
130k for a 100ah 12v gel battery
100k for a 1kva inverter

It's possible, though not an optimal setup. But it will serve till you're ready to upgrade.

Workmanship never enter o

DomPerignon:
What in God's holy name are these people up to?

How can you be declaring yourself as kings in another man's land and erecting throne palaces to boot?

Is there something fundamentally wrong with this long lost descendants of Philistines?

Leave that thing, Na criminal hideout them dey build

richmond500:
Nokia 1100.
It made me stop writing letters to my uncle in the city requesting for biscuit.

My first of them all

Daniel058:
Tecno p5, p5+ W2 the infinix hot

These phones changed Nigerians view of technology phones, especially that P5

onuman:
What attention? You have held an innocent msn in detention for about 4 years in the name of politics against the Igbo.

So Atiku has not been in Nigeria all this years or he just realized the injustice now?

Subject to two things, who is richer and who is good in bed.

Now that Obi is no longer in ADC, they must look for anything, I mean anything to get the attention of those people.

If them no won go there make them tell pengashit to employ them na