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Chijeep:
Please help me(mature minds only)

After getting tired of the flaws discovered from most city girls I decided this mid-year to go my village to get a lady for marriage. And with the help of my cousin sister I was able to get this particular girl (Judith) and she agreed in the sense that she's also very much ready to settle down.

Everything was going perfectly so I decided to go and see her in person so that we can proceed to the next stage which I went and she introduced me to her mom.

Her mother's reaction showed that they both liked and welcomed me as a proposed inlaw. So we move on, and I came back to my Base to inform my dad and my dad didn't say No. And I let her know that everything is good at my own side too. That we're good to go.

So this faithful mind pressured me to test this girl's loyalty to me and the relationship (because atimes she used to say something like; guys use to approached her for marriage and she rejected).

So 1 day I used a fake fb account to chat her up and to cut the story short she said she's not in any relationship, nor married and she agreed to meet the other fake guy I used. She told the guy (because I asked if I could meet her people when I come) that they shouldn't rush things that it should be a gradual process.

And went ahead to send the guy her number and even her picture. But she told the guy that nothing like having s3x. And after there chat I confronted her myself saying that she failed my test and she fuvk up. Buh she started explaining but I was highly disappointed. And she went ahead to inform my cousin sister to apologise to me on her hehalf and also told her friend to chat me and apologise.

NOW MY COUSIN SISTER TOLD ME TO FORGIVE AND MOVE ON WITH HER BUT HER MOTHER IS NOW GETTING ANGRY AT ME THAT I OVER ACTED TO THE ISSUE.

PLEASE IS IT NOT A RED FLAG ENOUGH TO QUIT OR GET ANGRY OR WAS MY TESTING NOT NECESSARY AS HER FRIEND WAS EVEN SAYING THAT; WHO'S TESTING GIRLS LOYALTY IN THIS AGE OF LIFE.

Please I need a nice answers because I'm very much ready to settle down.

She passed your test oga, in your absence she took step to protect her body in your interest, she always systematically create space for you by telling the other guy to let things run slowly whereas she didn't keep you waiting when you requested. Nothing is 100% guaranteed, the girl only gave the other guy a chance to be on the queue in case you misbehave and sorry to say, you are already misbehaving. I ve only visited her once and you expect her to lock everywhere for you, no na, you self talk am say she is ready to settle down, you want her to join the thousands of singles without hope of marriage out there?

First in history, price coming down as we approach the Yuletide

I am still searching for the post where I made it cleared the whole thing was probably game of chess and that people will be shocked when fubara eventually join apc and today, fubara is in apc

Na now una know that one?

EponObi:
With that your loud mouth. Cho Cho Cho. Na so them dey sow seed of disunity with their loud mouth - causing unnecessary confusion.

Simple welcome is ok.

When e reach your turn, just say good afternoon and drop the mic but until then, let those who have the mic speak their minds

ruggedtimi:
The frog is likely Adeleke.

Most you mention? Lol

Drifter02:
Although I'm afraid I might die alone, nonetheless I still have to admit being single without any extra responsibilities- no kids, no wife - is one of the best things to keep happening to me.

I was talking to one babe just this evening.. telling her to come, I'll cook her indomie and buy her something soft and babe was smiling coyly and bro.. I was seeing the future and I didn't like it

The future of me getting the girl pregnant filled me with apprehension. Imagine, if the girl's pregnant and I had a kid on the way, I won't have no time for myself anymore, my soft life will no longer be soft, I'll always have to be worried about money, about not losing my job.. my happy life will now be sad and constantly apprehensive and all the ills that comes with having a girl pest on your life..

Omo.. married men, I'd like to say "I feel for you" but na lie.. because asides from enjoying constant puzi you knew what you were getting your asses into.. and I'm so glad I'm not you.. and in any case not all of you have money issues

Where you see the constant puzi? If you know what men are going through in the name of marriage. Go and watch recent prank by queen of prank, @shabi_pounds_

Just mistakenly say hi and wait for list of needs that will follow the same day, they don't even pretend anymore. Same day you start talking to someone, you already tell him your rent is due, your gas is giving you sign that it will soon finished, your data has finished, in fact you don't even know what to eat tomorrow.

This will save much dollars for Nigeria. Good move.

kiddaz:
See wetin religion dey cause? All them Abraham and Moses no go through all these rubbish na we dey do ourselves.

She can't leave her faith? She's the only one? Ticked all the boxes? The signs are facing you now but you're daydreaming and then later you will write a long essay on how my wife is making me uncomfortable with her extreme religious practices or something related.

She should be willing to bend for you as her man else she's something else underneath and she's just using Catholic denomination to cover.

And the two shall become one. She's not ready to be "one" with you and you still can't find someone better suited?

As you wan start to dey submit to her you better just continue ooh... Don't come here to complain later. She done show you the direction and you done dey follow. Keep following her lead and dare not complain make thunder no kiss you

Abraham and Moses them set their own rules during their time. That being said, follow your heart besides na only you go stand on judgement day

When you try to know about others, they will still change the story. The life no balance they said.

Kalashnikov49:
Tomorrow they will arm twist Daisy Danjuma and tell them that they should go back to their land.

Dangote will soon be confronted.

That call is for only those who forget to respect their landlords.

Nigerians, they will tell you the pos has no network. They are doing it at IKEJA GENERAL HOSPITAL. They will tell you their own pos is not working or their is no network to confirm transfer, then you will be directed to a cubicle within the same area where a purported personal POS own is seated, he will then tell you the charges for the amount you want to collect, after the transfer you will move back to the cashier and pay in cash.
Note, the cashier, usually sitting by the left hand of the Hall where pregnant women do seat for prayer, waiting, advise etc, also has POS(official) right in front of her but her claim is always there is no network to confirm.

PDP must remain so that APC can....

AqualinaXYZ:
Imagine a Nigeria without Hausa and Yoruba





I mean Hausa and Yoruba staying in their own country



Then south south on its own country



South east on their own country



That’s what peace and sanity means

Is anyone holding anybody back, one of the way to get independence is developing your region, staying there and making people want to come over to your region. Some people keep telling the whole world that they are kids by saying a particular set of people is preventing them from going. You have your land, you have your language and culture so what are you waiting for? You run to someone's place to seek for survival and you are in his house telling him you want to be independent, fine your absolute freedom is right there waiting for you in your own house/region

bestman09:
The real people of the masses

Lol, na wike informant them be that, no deceive yourself.

Is that the first masquerade to win court case? Make I keep the record pending confirmation.

The Omotosho has really been a good lawyer in his responses and advice to Kanu and his team. Kanu should have listened to the earlier advice to seek the service of a good lawyer in the area of his case.

UkoAnnang:


I watched that video over again

It was an intentional act

You don handle ak47 before? That wasn't intentional but carelessness, pride that was supported by Kama. He shouldn't have pull the trigger when he planned to fire with one hand while the hand is not straight up. He fired successfully with one hand the first time because the hand was straight up and the force was against his whole body but the force of the second series of shots was against the strength of his right hand only, firing the shots at that position was even suicidal but he won do shakara small, unknown to him, kama was awakened by the first shots.

SpaceX:
Lies from the pit of hell, They purposely turn a blind eye on the terrorists and here we have them giving excuses

Did you read through the passage at all? Anyway, kudos to the vigilante guys, next time the nigerien will know how to take permission before crossing the border.

Las las he will be freed, he should try and calm down a little

MaziObinnaokija:
🤡 🤡 🤡 🤡 🤣. One leg in PDP,LP,ADC,NNPC,CNN,. He go abandon baba Ahmed,nah that one go break them patapata.

Him don't abandon the guy already, Ahmed is speaking based on last known address (party) of his ex boss

This is racism, where is ekuke, the local dog?

Unopposed

VOsimhen144:
Nigeria no bad reach like this when Tinubu, Wole Soyinka, pastor Adeboye dey protest. They Blocked everywhere for Occupy Lagos protest, even wole Soyinka called Jonathan’s wife a Shepopotamus, they carry coffin for GEJ.

E don finally reach their "Lokan" now everywhere for Nigeria dey bleed 🩸 and we can’t hear there voice again.

The Soyinka even tore his green card becus Donald trump won the election and now he’s crying like a baby to the same Trump to issue him another green card… I like how Trump dey deal with the old cargo a$$.. Typical Yoruba man 😂

Maybe when they were protesting, some other people were sitting at home, now I think those who were happy with the situation then should rise up to the challenge now if they feel the current situation is not ok. You don't expect the same old people to be the ones on the street now. Rise up and hit the street, if you think there is need for that.

Nigerians and busy doing nothing. If Nigeria has no relationship with IC, would they have airlifted our diplomat from trouble region?

Drifter02:
At 25 years, I've never had a proper girlfriend.. might sound like fiction but it's true

I've actively chased girls all my life.. but I've never actually met any that liked me for me..

This was particularly worse in university.. all the girls I met were dumb and were only interested in chasing good grades instead of just actively existing..

Some are even married now and their lives are still robotic and pathetic.. these days they're chasing corporate certifications and more needless difficult things instead of just calming down and living their lives

Interestingly, the only one that had a school cert I met that gave me her number later told after two years (we never had sex btw) that she feels my family won't allow us marry as I had a BSc and she doesn't.. (young girl of 22 ).. naso she break things up. Bro the reason was just weird and strange. I suspect though she has another man she's attracted to.

All the other girls I keep meeting keep using me for money.. rather than bonding emotionally, it's always send me card.. buy me ice cream.. take me out.. stupid nonsensical crap and whatnot

Bro.. I'm just tired. I earn 100k a month and all I do I just sit indoors, jerk off and hate my life.. it's almost true love died with the last century. Without a partner.. my life just feels hollow and meaningless

You complained of people chasing one thing or the other when they should just be satisfied with living but here you are, frustrated because you can't find a girlfriend when you should just be ok with living and understand that no free thing in Freetown. Sorry to say you are a selfish being, you want people to live according to your standard yet you don't consider the fact that they also have standards too. If you don't change your mindset, you will kpai out of frustration.

Karlovich:
The Iragbiji corpse must be buried politically soon,

This I have seen!

He is smarter than those who want to bury, the police should be withdrawn let see how the betrayals can move freely. Very soon na boy's brigade go dey guide them with stick. Who want to sponsor violence should get prepared to be consumed as well.

sirchim:
Foolish people way go still negotiate with them, grant them pardon and finally set them free. If you know, your Mama born you well carry go.

Always allow your tongue to connect to your brain before you add sound to its movement.
If only you know what it means to be in the kidnappers' custody, you will understand why they sometimes negotiate.

This is the case with Nigeria, everybody has forgotten their own tribe on the list, the focus is on Ebira because op specifically come out to talk to his own people, if we agree that what gumi said on that list is true, then it's time for all of us to go back home and talk to our people because no specific tribe is exempted in gumi's list of terrorists

MightySparrow:
Fúlàní - Ebira consortum for human annihilation.

Did you go through the list before talking? From what he post, no tribe is exempted from the unrest in Nigeria. OP is an Ebira person and he is condemning the involvement of his people, look for your own tribes men and criticise those involved.