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@K9 i will try to read this book as forwarded is forarmed . thank you for bring it to my attention.

beyonce1:
A man is meant to be the provider, any man who spends his life living off women can never succeed naturally in life , it's OK for a woman to be financially dependent on her man or give some sort of support but if this is vice-versa then it's a curse, GOD also confirms this in Genesis, So "MEN", go out there, make money & provide for your lady if you want 100% respect/dignity from your lady , FULL STOP!!!.

no way lady you just sound like a goldigga with a good excuse. can no one on the forum have a coversation with out quoting the bible where in the bible does it say" and God said to Adam make sure you can always buy your girl fine things and if you should fall on hard times do not expect her to help you out for she is just in this for an easy ride"

the girl i have started seeing earns more than me so does that make me against the bible.

have to go and ask to borrow some money bye.

closing the eyes hightens the senses and makes it all the more pleasureable.

i think women are seeing through the lie that is marriage! what would a woman get out of a traditional wedding? 1) cook and clean for husband 2) bare many children 3) stay sexy for husband 4) be master chef in bedroom 5) be LovePeddler in the bedroom 6) have so many babies you get fat and husband looks elsewhere. Na i think this goin be real problem for younger generation in a few years - think loads of young ladies think men are just bad- look at the postings on this forum ;why do men cheat, why do men lie, are good looking men more unfaithful. they ain't going to take no more. they've got our number.

k9:
@Oakum
did i not say the theory is not mine and that i am NOT their member? I am just seeking an explanation to the subject matter and that is one that i have found. And trust me if u will, there are much more racist writings and opinions out there. And since u outrightly rubbish this theory, can you then give another?

i can give you a theory- the social , economic, idealogical, environmental ,meteorological and political factors affecting our country produces unique and proud people who sometimes, just sometimes seem very rude, perhaps a little naive and yeah a little embarrassing when viewed with a cool eye. as i have already said i have been embarrassed by some of my country men but this is not because they possess "failing souls"

@K9- thats just the ramblings of a cult, pls don,t give those ramblings any heed! saying things like that make you sound like one of the people i was speaking of in the first place!

this question is primarily for Nigerians living abroad.

i ask this as recently a very educated friend of mine came to the UK to study i took him out to meet friends black and white ,and at somepoint during the night he started going on about witches, witch craft etc he even went on to say that women who had cats were obviously EVIL!!!!!!  i was and remain shocked and very embarrassed , and do not get me started on his opinion on women. it occurred to me that this is not the first  time i have felt like this in the company of my fellow country men.

my friends did not know what to do or say but later when i met up with them again they just laughed at my backward friend from the dark ages.

so am i right to be ashamed of this behavior or have i just become to westernized ?

surely this cannot be common has anyone else experienced this

yeah i know girls just as much as men- but what i am asking is a pretty girl MORE unfaithful than a ordinary looking girl?

well is it the case the prettier you're girl the more watchful you must be? i see there is a topic about handsome man being cheaters so i thought i would even the balance cos its not just men that cheat!

sure I'd kiss her its good for your immune system.

many men cheat through insecurity ,so a good looking guy (like me ) does not feel he has anything to prove

Free:
errhemm i doubt that is good sex, that makes em' stay
i think they might be more afraid of leavin,

i was referring to the original question but if we are talkin about man being bad to or hitting his woman then i agree with you its coz she be afraid . any man who hit a woman is no real man.

i agree with seun why this woman attacking the other woman, it was her husband that strayed and she that did not keep her man happy. why blame anyone else?

i dont like London its the dirtiest city i ever seen in UK.

Aba for sure, Lagos is bad too.

what if she be married and i offend

Z4M4eva:
Ask her out and see how it goes from there

yeah just go for it? hmmm!

i would be so worried , the prejudice they wld face ,the life style they might follow, the increase chance of sexual transmitted diseases! if your child tells you they are gay they are still your child and need your support

i say all this coz its what i believe but how would i really react, i don't know.

coz the sex is good and plentiful perhaps?

its all wrong/ as ye sow so shall ye reap.

i have seen someone so pretty on Nairaland , and i think i am in love

love at first sight ,what should i do?

just talk to her its better to get it over and done with