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RomanceRe: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by alj(m): 12:40am On Dec 18, 2008
Please don't steal this girls youth, if she is only 18 what's the hurry to marry?
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Makes A Girl/boy Very Special Among His peargroup by alj(m): 9:15pm On Aug 15, 2006
i don,t know perhaps being able to spell peer group properly
RomanceRe: What Physical Features in Women Turn You Off? by alj(m): 6:01pm On Jul 06, 2006
spikedcylinder:
Huh?what does that mean?
what i mean is that while it is easy to say what i find attractive i do not believe that one physical flaw could put me off a lady i was interested in.
Christianity EtcRe: Was Jesus Married And Did He Fake His Death? by alj(m): 2:29am On Jul 04, 2006
Drusilla:
The Davinchi code is the European answer for the fact that they feel that they are enslaved as a people to the Jewish religion.

They been trying to cut Jews out of the picture for at least 1700 years.
as nferyn said its a work of total fiction and as a point of fact it was written by an american not a european!
CelebritiesRe: Most Beautiful To Ugliest: Beyone Or Ashanti Or Ciara Or Vivica A Fox by alj(m): 2:23am On Jul 04, 2006
Vivica is the only one
EducationRe: Who's Fault Is It If A Child Is Not Properly Educated? by alj(m): 1:58am On Jul 04, 2006
Nosu:
they lack information.
perhaps they lack information because their mum and dad could not afford to educate them and the do not know how to access the information, to have a successful economy the government will have to put its money where its mouth is.
EducationRe: Who's Fault Is It If A Child Is Not Properly Educated? by alj(m): 1:52am On Jul 04, 2006
It is the fault of this very unfair system, schooling is completely free and compulsory in all European countries and America until we have that we are not doing our best for our children.

Nosu:
it is just lack of infomation, pta level is less that 500 naira
it should be totally free, uniforms are provided for the poorest children in the UK and the basic books are provided free of charge for all. Sure some rich folk will send their kids to private school but it is less than 10% in the UK.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Strictly And Absolutely Strictly For Guys! by alj(m): 12:58am On Jul 04, 2006
apologies and walk out, what else could you do?
HealthRe: Is Staph Cureable? by alj(m): 12:54am On Jul 04, 2006
What is staph?
RomanceRe: What Physical Features in Women Turn You Off? by alj(m): 12:42am On Jul 04, 2006
i find it imposable to pin down physical attributes to how attractive a woman is, i can tell you what i like thats easy.
RomanceRe: 3 Things You Should Never Do Around Your Man by alj(m): 12:35am On Jul 04, 2006
i agree with diddy4 i find a woman shaving a complete turn on( as long as its not her chin), i even enjoy shaving my girl it can be very intimate and sexy.
RomanceRe: [poll] Would You Prefer to Marry a Virgin? by alj(m): 11:49am On Jun 25, 2006
no way would i set out to marry a virgin! if the lady i fell for happened to be one and that was her choice i would respect it.

but i think my feelings on the subject maybe similar to Big Shishi , sex it so important to me i do not kine if i could risk marrying a virgin that then decides she A) does not like sex, B) is not willing to do the things i like, C) feels some how that sex is dirty or D) has little or no sex drive. any of these thing would put so much pressure on the marriage ,so i think it is better to know in advance what you are getting into.
RomanceRe: Is 25 An Ok Age For Marriage? by alj(m): 6:30pm On Jun 20, 2006
T money is right people wait to long nowadays i am 33 and i feel like i have missed my chances, but you never know.
FamilyRe: Whats The Maximum You Can Spend On Your Wedding by alj(m): 1:01am On Jun 05, 2006
My closest friend got married in April and spent about £1000,( )it was the nicest wedding i ever attended.

last july i went to a colleuges wedding and it cost £25,000( @ N6,250,000 ),it was terrible.

the money people spend on weddings is crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!
FamilyRe: The Best Age To Start Having Babies. by alj(m): 12:45am On Jun 05, 2006
my first girlfriend had a baby by me when we were both 17, it was hard and we did not make it but i would not change him for the world. i have supported him and his mother totally , he is 15 now and an amazing guy and i must admit i love the fact that i am only 33 and have a son that is almost grown.

but it has affected me badly in some ways, as i do not want anymore kids, i cannot be bothered starting from the beginning again i feel that he is nearly grown (5'10 last i checked) and my time of sacrifice is easing.

This probably means i will never get married.

I was not ready to be a father but is anyone really ever ready ? you cannot imagine what it is until you are there.

I am not saying that 17 is a good age to have kids all i am saying is there is no right age.
FamilyRe: Wives Are More Faithful In Marriage? by alj(m): 12:35am On Jun 05, 2006
i think men and women are as bad as each other women just hide it better. after all who are the unfaithful men supposed to be sleeping with?

single girls?

if that were true every single girl in Nigeria would have at least one married man on the go to keep up with demand. grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Who Do You Look Like? by alj(op): 3:07pm On May 07, 2006
sorry Queenzy cry did not mean to cause offence,
Nairaland GeneralRe: Who Do You Look Like? by alj(op): 4:18pm On May 05, 2006
the most surprising one i found was that Malibubarb is most like, Paris Hilton!!!!!!!

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