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Family › Re: My 17yrs Old Son Is Getting Out Of Hand by AllBlack: 9:46am On Jun 09, 2022

chccho:
Oga Judge so after all this your condemnation and blames how have u helped the poor woman with any solution your whole epistle is full with negativity no meaningful contribution. Clap for yourself o

Help which poor woman? See how you get carried away by emotions and the woman's side of the story. Now who is the judge? Have you heard the boy's side of the story?

Have you sat down to think that those boys might actually be the true victims of horrible parenting in this matter? No, you only think one way.

Solution? What can your online advice do? Captain HELPER! Why don't you ask the woman for her address so you can go there and sit the boys down for a chat yourself. Do that if you really have interest in helping but you will not.

Family › Re: My 17yrs Old Son Is Getting Out Of Hand by AllBlack: 9:37am On Jun 09, 2022

enonche85:
I totally agree with you on this, but the deed has already been done. What's the way forward now?.

OP as someone said, involve other family members and if they can't abide by your rules they should leave your house when they turn 20 to fend for themselves. Meanwhile if you are still interested go and remarry.

As for way forward, paragraph 2 covers that.

Though there is little or nothing our online suggestions can do for a woman who must have burnt all her important family bridges and caused the damage by overlooking the early rot signals.
I was a very bad child, still a bad guy but there many things my mom must not hear or see about me even as a married man. Why? Because I know she will start fighting against those things as soon as she sees them so i already know it is a waste of time for me to even get involved with such in the first place. She always makes her stance against rubbish very clear.

Come to think of it, you might be shocked to hear first hand appalling information from her neighbors, family and friends concerning details on how she raised the boys. Those boys just might be the main victims of bad parenting. Maybe.

Family › Re: My 17yrs Old Son Is Getting Out Of Hand by AllBlack: 3:43am On Jun 09, 2022

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Family › Re: My 17yrs Old Son Is Getting Out Of Hand by AllBlack: 3:31am On Jun 09, 2022

Anobody:
I've tried talking calmly, denying certain privilege and discipline but it keeps getting worse, my last option is to take them back to their father's village before I die of hbp. I'm depressed nairalanders�, please I seek matured advice, thanks.

Please help me push to front page �

You left them to grow wild and free, now you want to bend them when they have grown thorns all over? Ear rings and dreads. What next? Cult codes and drugs? Crime & pregnancy? Regular Gambling? You failed to read the signs early enough. The help you seek now is what you should have done 10 years ago. There is no way both of them could have turned out this way without all your little little silent approvals of their little harmless sins.

Is there no male figure from your side of the family you can talk to? Because for you to bring this matter to NL means you have burnt your bridge with their father's people.
Where is your pastor? Or someone they can respect because from your narration, they have learnt to cover for each other and are now forming their own counrty, soon to overthrow you.

Take them back to the village at this age? After they have blended with the streets this far? Good luck with that.

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Family › Re: My 17yrs Old Son Is Getting Out Of Hand by AllBlack: 3:09am On Jun 09, 2022*

UpInTheSky:
Or better yet, call the Police on them and maybe even have them spend 2-3 days in jail..

Say goodbye to your sons forever if you try this as a single mom. You have not finished dealing with the influences they are reacting to then it is to go and join them with professional criminals and also brew more hate and disgust for you. OYO

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Politics › Re: Tinubu, Just Like Obi Cubana, Was Paid In His Own Coin by AllBlack: 3:01am On Jun 09, 2022

Artisticity1:
Do you mean he has his own crypto...

Oversense can kill. Reduce it

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Romance › Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Asked Out By A Female? by AllBlack: 2:52am On Jun 09, 2022

tessybrown:
Na so you fine reach? Abi waytin I go call am?

No be by fine. Man no dey fine.
It is just how it happens for me and many other guys I have seen.
Just last month I know a guy who a girl came to his house with someone to profess her love and desire to marry him. E dey happen.

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Romance › Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Asked Out By A Female? by AllBlack: 6:22pm On Jun 08, 2022

tessybrown:
Share your experience…

As for me have not o ,I dunno but am still hoping to get those butterflies

I can't count. Right from small. all the love letters & val greeting cards in secondary school before the ones at uni & work places started.
I have even been publicly embarrassed by a lady i had been ignoring and her group of friends. Feels good tho and it gets better when you have a little money & your packaging is on point. You better not know how to fuhck because na there your problem go start. grin

Real niggas understand

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Romance › Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Asked Out By A Female? by AllBlack: 6:14pm On Jun 08, 2022

care4you:
Am here to romance your two sacked balls
Ugerrit?

..

Na wah oh. Na ur ferrow man balls u wan Lomance

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Politics › Re: Amotekun Operatives Intercept Trucks Loads Of Fulanis And Fire Arms In Ekiti by AllBlack: 6:03pm On Jun 08, 2022

Oya link it to ogun killings without any forensic investigation or ballistic testing.

Celebrities › Re: Johnny Depp's Lawyers Say He Might Waive Amber Heard's $8million Judgement...... by AllBlack: 5:40pm On Jun 08, 2022

Very eccentric man.

But Barbossa was my favorite pirate in the series.

Politics › Re: Islamic Cleric,14 Others Arrested For Murdering Vigilante Member Over Blasphemy by AllBlack: 2:48pm On Jun 08, 2022

baba will soon set them free and give them scholarship to UK where they will be paid allowance and later return to this country so become governors and senators. one of them may even end up becoming your president in a few years time.

Politics › Re: Nigerian Youth Don't Waste Your Vote On Peter Obi by AllBlack: 1:16pm On Jun 08, 2022

Artisticity1:
The best advice will be... Find something better to advertise... Maybe pampas

Or toothpick

Romance › Re: Is This Right.am Confused. by AllBlack: 1:06pm On Jun 08, 2022

investorcj:
But I need advice if it's right for me to give her my 100 percent even though I don't feel she gives upto 90 percent of her love to me.

She is rubbing shiiit on your face and you're here talking about love. There can be no love without respect.
The worst mistake you will make is to confront her because she will rubbish you by making you feel stupid. That is when you will start hearing those manipulative phrases like JUST A FRIEND & INSECURE & REAL MAN. You are simply begging for attention and respect if you confront her. Let her be in her zone.

open your trash can and put her right inside and see what happens. Don't even bother to tell her why you dumped her. Just dump her like a faulty charger.

Finally, you will not take any advice here. You will still go and beg her to GIVE YOU ALL HER LOVE. grin

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Politics › Re: God Will Touch Our Brothers’ Heart To Give Presidency To South-east – Uzodinma by AllBlack: 11:09am On Jun 08, 2022

Sit down & Open your hand let Nigeria GIVE you predidency.

Nairaland General › Re: A Stylish Device In All It's Glory! by AllBlack: 10:51am On Jun 08, 2022

See how this one is dipping his tongue deep into the ass of a 2gb phone.

Food › Re: Smoky Hot Jollof Rice With Roasted Turkey Meat (pix&video) by AllBlack: 6:24pm On Jun 07, 2022

Hamzashaf99:
Taken with a very chilled bottle of coke
Looks good.

Hausa and sugar. Na wah

Romance › Re: Be Watchful And Prayerful,read This by AllBlack: 4:33pm On Jun 07, 2022

AllenforGOD:
i can be able to do it,with the boldness from the holy spirit can't do it alone get that

Hahahahaha. Carry on.

Webmasters › Re: I Want To Buy Nairaland by AllBlack: 7:43am On Jun 07, 2022

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1. I will make it possible to know who liked a post.
2. I will include dislike button
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This site needs an upgrade, and I will make that happen.

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Also add an RUBBISH button and add better fonts instead of the boring gloomy fonts here

Romance › Re: Be Watchful And Prayerful,read This by AllBlack: 7:23am On Jun 07, 2022

AllenforGOD:
sorry what the holy spirit said i should preach about can never be from any pastor it's the inspiration,dont be a lukeworm so you willn't end up in hell

Inspired by the holy spirit? Have we not heard all that before? Will you go to North Korea and preach in the streets there so that they will not end up in hell?

Yes or No. Just answer me

Romance › Re: Be Watchful And Prayerful,read This by AllBlack: 12:26am On Jun 07, 2022

Abeg shut up.
You people just like repeating what pastor told you.
You wouldn't be saying all this if you were born in Saudi arabia.
Lastly, Can you boldly stand in north Korea to preach all this? Shey u love Jesus abi. grin

Celebrities › Re: Is Committing Suicide An Option Now, I Just Tire by AllBlack: 12:15am On Jun 07, 2022

Breeze111:
I swear I frustrate now die for this life...made a very big mistake after using all my savings in life to buy a car so I can use it for Bolt driving to sustain myself simply because I don't want to get involved in anything wrong in this life....just two days of using this car, the car break down were will I even see money to fix the car when I have not even eaten three square meals completely funny enough I borrow some money to add to even buy this carwai won carry me go my early grave

And that is all?
1. Very comfortable and rich people have become beggars and their wife have slept with 100 men in one week just to raise money to pay ransom to kidnappers.

2. Many children will not be able to go to school or even feed well again because some maniacs came to church and killed their parents / caretaker. Many families lost their only breadwinner in that church.

3. You are in your house complaining about your car. Respectable hardworking women are in the bush for nearly 2 months getting raped daily because they entered one yeye train. Their lives have been ruined.

4. Many sold off all their properties and took loan to travel out of naija and agent scam dem.

5. Should I go on?

6. You even have phone and data to type this trash.

7. You are free to choose the option. Nobody is here to pity you.

8. 4Q.

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Politics › Re: Tinubu Was Heard Shouting Emi Lo Kan ( Its Remaining Me ) by AllBlack: 8:41pm On Jun 06, 2022

Localemperor:
Emi lo kan

Nairaland General › Re: India Man Divorced His Wife For Cooking Him Instant Noodles Everyday by AllBlack: 8:28pm On Jun 06, 2022

just wait. They are coming to tell us how A REAL MAN WOULD NEVER DIVORCE A WOMAN HE LOVES JUST BECAUSE SHE CAN'T COOK.
just wait...

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Family › Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by AllBlack: 7:54pm On Jun 06, 2022

You can remain a child and keep drinking cerelac & enjoying childhood privileges and immaturity forever. Shit on your body and wait for people to clean it. Wait for grown ups to tell you what to do and when to sleep and what to eat then remain in primary school forever with your schoolbag and feeding bottle. Sit in front of your TV and watch barney and friends. Rubbish

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Crime › Re: They shoot this one inside his heart Blackaxe vs Eiye Abeokuta PHOTOS by AllBlack: 7:31pm On Jun 06, 2022

ufuosman:
So some people still dey mumu dey do cult... I pity them

E go shock u say a full grown broke bastarrrrs family man still dey do this kain thing.

If you and am argue instead of him to face you man to man he go carry cult face you. Cowards

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Romance › Re: I Need Help I Cant Stop Gambling by AllBlack: 7:27pm On Jun 06, 2022

trueSeeker01:
its because of the prayers at the end

Hey God oh. No let gamble kill that guy oh.

Romance › Re: I Need Help I Cant Stop Gambling by AllBlack: 7:21pm On Jun 06, 2022

trueSeeker01:
i really need help to stop gambling, if i continue like this i will make a worst gambler ever on nairaland. its not up to a year that i started gambling but i get addicted to it. i lost everything i have nd i feel so lazy to go to work because i hate my work with passion. i keep gambling thinking that oneday i will win big nd settle myself but i kept losing. today i gambled the last money i have no money for food nothing just heart break, god pls save me, im thinking that someone casted a spell on me. i am not developing prblm everday im losing myself oh god help me god pls dont punish me with poverty

I don't know why i find this funny.

You follow betting and put all your mind and money there like say dem dey owe you money and that is a wrong approach.

Respect money and money will be kind to you. If you run betting like a business you will see the difference.
In business you need control if not you will wreck your capital. Bet money sweet sha.

Romance › Re: Pictures Of A Guy And A Lady Placed In A Pineapple & Bound. Voodoo? by AllBlack: 3:58pm On Jun 06, 2022

So the pineapple does not rotten abi?

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Politics › Re: How Gunmen Killed My Brother With His 3 Years Old Son In Owo Church by AllBlack: 3:56pm On Jun 06, 2022

And people are still talking about Ukraine & Russia

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