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achorladey:
Meaning if you had no see such level of violence and provocation you might not have learnt why it is good to live with your current wife without beating her.

Oga rest. learn wetin? It is inbuilt in me.

it is MY DECISION based on the update I embraced by rites of marriage.

As a man, when you crown a woman with the honour and title of WIFE and you still turn around to be beating her then there must be something wrong with you.

If this small wisdom no reach you to understand, make you no comment again. I dey meeting abeg.

Dtruthspeaker:
Did the report not say that they lived apart for a very long time (10yrs which is why she even naturally thought that he was divorced?

Who cares what she thought or was thinking?

Rapmoney:
If his former partners did not tolerate that, he would not dare raise his hands on you that does not tolerate such.

I had a pretty, highly provocative and violence tolerant girlfriend before I got married.

Now I am married. Have been married for years and I will never beat my wife.

My point is this:
1. I am not under the influence of my ex-babygirl.

2. Na my decision wey matter.

3. Many times my wife had done slap-deserving stuff but me go just look her like pikin because I don DISABLE that part of my ability.

4. i fit still change am for my wife if she too vess me... but Nah... I WILL NEVER take that option. Na my pet she be and she no fit do pass pet. I don't beat my pet.

Dtruthspeaker:
This is where you see the Ajayi case is standing on and now see the confusion it is causing.

No Sir. My comment is in no way a direct reflection of the Ajayi case.

I am talking of a married couple who decided to call it quits and go their separate ways without court involvement.

Ajayi and his wife never had that arrangement.

muyico:
Congratulations 👏 🎉 to you
U don used ya hands scatter Ur sweet 🏠🏡 home

Muyiwa. Which of them scattered the home? the man or the wife?

If you have the money, please do it once, twice and have peace of mind for life than to be stuck in a loop that only ends when you die while the woman keeps mocking you silently.

I remember in 2011 when one of my big boss wanted to travel out with his family and was directed to go do some tests and bring back the results to embassy. We got to the recommended hospital and that's where I saw another full grown man crying like a child. He came to run tests too for family travel things and that's where he discovered that 3 out of 4 were products of AWAY MATCHES and the wife was there saying all sorts of apologies mixed with croc tears.

I will never forget that day in a rush.

After marriage, lots of things have gotten entangled and it might take some legal battles to untangle them.

Some marriages didn't even reach any form of court before they dissolved. Both parties simply MOVED ON and maintained their stance for years.

kpankpangolo:
They’ve switched gender in this story?

just within the space of one week sha but this one seems more genuine that the other babe's own

Flana:
I really like her, and I want her to know it wasn't intentional, but honestly, I am feeling exhausted.

You will jinx the whole thing with your overzealous readiness to explain. You know in your heart you tried so let it rest.

She has already FORMED an opinion about you and even if you give her 100 million naira, that opinion will remain unchanged till she changes it by herself. Allow her to look for you and let it slide if she doesn't. We can't always have what we want.

Once again. calm down with your explanations.

publicenemy:
One day she will find someone richer amd dump you too. Tjats how women are.

That day you will hear that their famous line

"WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME THAT ANOTHER MAN HAS NOT DONE FOR A WOMAN BEFORE?"

olaNL:
This story may be true. But because you used AI in writing it, it is difficult to read.

Hello, some people actually possess the ability to write multiple paragraphs with all the pointers in the right places and the structure intact, especially when they actually mean to write.

Everything should not be easily attributed to the modern presence and dominance of AI. It is an insult and rather unfair to someone like me who even disabled AUTO-CORRECT on all devices for many years now.

Writing is still a valid skill.

This should be interesting

This one still be BF/GF levels. If that your babe's father dies right now, nobody from her family will give you a list of what to buy for the burial rites. Your attendance or absence might be taken seriously by her, but not her family members.

The real prayer is let family wahala never outweigh the available spending money.

Imagine when you have 10 million naira and RECURRENT family wahala gulps 8 million in just 3-5 months. Na that time this your write up go sweet to read, not now. 😁

LocalBuka:
I'll start.

Pizza.

First time I ate it, Last time I ate it.

just fancy cruncy bread

cyrielo:
I remember the BRT rape situation, the driver was sentenced to death by hanging (though the sentence hasn’t been carried out yet).

Yes some of us (Yes SOME! considering the fact that Nigerians forget tooooo easily) remember that but do you see your attempt at correlation is tilted?

Does that BRT bus look like a modern slave shift factory with four walls and gates?

You can try all you want to look for rationale to make my comment make any slight sense to you but it is either you are playing THE FOREIGNER or you actually don't know.
Like I said before, these are the realities that have been etched in the lives of lots of people and guess what, it is still happening UNCHECKED.

Asking why it is not everywhere on Social Media? In a country marred with outworldly silence? You want people to speak up against foreigners that move around with heavily armed guards that do their bidding for extra naira?

See, if you actually have no idea of all this then no problem. Kindly disregard everything I just said as deep illusion.

I will go no further on this chit chat. I actually have staff to coordinate this morning. Thank you for stopping by.

Samirana360:
over 90% of nigeria ladies has in one way or another involve in abortion

Oshey Mr Statistics Professor with an extra PHD in the areas of Abortion with Nigeria as a case study.

Well done Prof. When are you publishing this book?

Nteogwuija:
See delusion. Reciprocate how?

Abeg epp me ask that guy.

He think say everything na David and Goliath story.

Person wey naked dey put hand for pocket?

cyrielo:
Raping our women as how. Which grown man allow another man to flog them. Taking advantage of girls, I understand.

It’s wrong and it’s common in most societies

I said RAPE.
if I wanted to water it down by saying TAKE ADVANTAGE, I would have done so with ease of language.

It is fine if this reality is strange to you but this is what many have to deal with. Right here in your country.

Let me guess, next thing is to ask me for proof. Please, Go ahead and play that card.

fasho01:
They are all same, just like the UK, looking to generate income off of us.

Not that there is a high chance that the visa will be granted o

Simple solution to all this plenty talk in just TWO WORDS.

DON'T APPLY.

It is their country, they should do how they wish.

The real question is When will Nigeria EVER get the ballz to make such demands? WHEN?

All these Chinese and Lebanese that are raping our women and flogging our men right here on our soil in the name of factory employment, HOW MUCH DID THEY PAY FOR THEIR VISA APPLICATION?

Chikarata2020:
Terrorists are in the forest correcting millions as ransom, while curfew is being imposed on the people. It's well

I don't trust government but emmm... just because I pray everyday for those kids to come back (RIP to those that have already gone), I hope this curfew is a good chance for our Army to deploy every manner of tech and tactics to bring them home without extra casualty.

I pray this story ends but those kids that finally get to make it out alive will never be the same. A lifetime of deep trauma.

FengChui:
Distant Relatives, not cousins.

Yeah you are right.
It just came off the top of my head that way.

Chilota2:
Sha looking for something that will bring him back to the time line. Nonsense!

Ou! And this is just a tip of what YCee was talking about.

So whatever he said simply translates into WANTING TO COME BACK?

MKO MKO MKO - ACTION
ABIOLA ABIOLA ABIOLA - PROGRESS

sylve11:
Everyone is somehow connected.

One love.

Distant cousins, according to Nas & Damian Marley

Dzzzz:
On the inside we like ourselves but outside,we quarrel.

na family matter. e no get where e touch

westside365:
No vex I am an old school.

I am above 40 and know what it means.

No mind me, everybody no dey sabi everything sha. Has someone told you what it is yet? it is a video game. Google it

Lovelink1991:
what they must do if they really want that relationship to lead to marriage.

See who is here to teach women WHAT THEY MUST DO in order to drive the relationship towards marriage.

She will tell them EVERYTHING except the truth.

Hahahahahahaha.

Hello Ladies, even if you have the worst behavior and the most useless communication skills, just follow this her lecture and you will be at the alter saying I DO before November.

And who is the DATING COUNSELOR that is giving all these reasons??


A WOMAN. 😁🤣🤣😂

Wolexyoshi:
Let them start eating each other raw. We would see who amongst them is more dirtier.

have you seen Kenneth's mouth? That guy can eat a full meatpie sideways.

Legitbeauru:
Maybe there’s a city in Canada named UK…

Thank God, we still have people who can actually read and fish out the bad fish.

Stephen0mozzy:
As a man eh, just try not to die too young before your time.

Oga you go try teach me this one oh.

I go pay you walahi