sweerychick: Okay, this is my first appearance as a nairalander, I normally visit this site as a guest, but due to my pressing issue I had to do a quick registration to seek advice from mature minds only. I've been in a relationship with this guy whom is my first love, for close to 4yrs now, I met him in university when I was a fresher, and he was in his finals then, he's tall (6ft, 3), chocolate skinned, and really good looking. Not that I was attracted to him because of his physical appearance, but he has a heart of gold, very caring, understanding and always there for me when I needed him. He was the one that deflowered me. Anyways soon after his Nysc in Oyo state 2013, by then I was in my 2nd year, he told me that he would love to marry me, that I am all that he desires, with all his sweet words, I accepted but on the condition that he allow me finish school, and do my NYSC, he agreed. Things were really moving on fine for us both until 2014 when he got a job with zenith bank, I noticed a lot had changed in him, he doesn't call me as he used to, he hardly pick up my calls. Sometimes when I request for us to see he'll give me a thousand and one excuses for us not to see, sometimes his phones would be switched off for days, and when I finally get to reach him, he'll tell me that he's busy that I should call he him later. When I get to call him later he will make our conversation so brief, not up to a min, sometimes 30 seconds. One day I was able to confront him at his place, and asked him why he's treating me this way he apologised to me and telling me that I know that his work is very demanding, bank stress and all that coupled with his family ( he's the first child and his father is late) he's taking care of his mum and siblings. I accepted all that excuses, then later that day he told me that I should go back to school that he's expecting one of his cousin, I asked him which of his cousins he said that it's not my business, that I should just go, I insisted to stay because I'm in my boyfriends house and your cousin will understand, instead he got angry and for the first time he slapped and assaulted me, I cried and left the house, his friend saw me later that night and I explained everything to him, he said okay he'll talk to my boyfriend. My boyfriend in question didn't call me untill after 4days, he sent me a text message, telling me sorry, then afterwards he called me. I refused picking up his calls, then he sent his friend to mediate on his behalf. When I finally saw him (my boyfriend) he told me that he's so sorry about what he did, and promised for it not to happen again. I chose to forgive him under the condition that he will try and change, which he hasn't, he still does the same thing to me till now, even worse. I'm tired of his nonsense, and I really want to move on, but one mind is telling me to stay. I really love this guy and I don't know how my world would be if I loose him... Please advice me on what to do.. I don't think I can love any other person the way I love him..
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Lol A friend of mine always said that what ever negativity that happens in marriage today must have flashed itself while both parties were still dating My dear I really can't tell u dat your BF is cheating on u oh but I have that feeling he is cheating on you that's why it seems he doesn't care about you anymore But my own concern is that aspect of him raising his hand to hit and assault u My dear for the fact he has started doing it while u both are still dating believe me dear it will definitely get worse when u two get married I'm a guy and God forbid I raise my hand to hit any girl God will bless me with as my GF I won't tell you to leave him But I'll advise you to do what u think is best and right for you You hold the key to your feature remember
Annapecky: Really nid help...i have like 10guys currently...4 aboard,promising me marriage when the come back.and 6 in Nigeria but different states...but u know whats strange? i dont love any of dem..even d ones that send me money..i thought it was al pretence bt i found out dat i dont have emotions anymore..i could hurt sum1 2 day nd wont feel it...al dis i gues was caused by d hrtbrks i got at my tender age...d question is am i still human? wil i eva b in love?...tel ur experience if u have 2
My dear I think what should be more important to you right now is going to college finishing with a good GPA and make your parents proud after that you can settle for a man your heart truly accepts and in most cases u can still meet a guy u truly love in college and both of u can take it to the next level if it's Gods wish But your studies first you are only 19 I think that should be your priority
xxxtedyxxx: Bro don't make DAT mistake of sending her money...or giving her any tin. Don't let an unknown girl take u on a worthless emotional ride.
U have known her for Two weeks and she cudnt even try to take a pic of herself ( using her friends' phone) and send to u. Hmmm.she tells u she is beautiful... Don't fall for DAT. She cudnt even direct u to her FBI account.. Chai...she no try. Girls like her turn out to be below par when u eventually see her pics or meet her.
Don't waste ur energy doing Sth u will regret. I mean, this is 2016, not the days of global africhat, prodigits and my gamma; when hooking up was based on probability.
Don't send her anything or do shi shi for her. She just wan use u...obtain u...what are the chances of u even getting to meet her (or even seeing her pics) when she can't send ordinary pics for 2weeks?
Free d girl...u are not dat desperate. Focua your energy on better girls.
I am very sure if u were in naija..she would turn down any opportunity of meeting up.. All na format bro.
Bro I swear oh I have reasoned all this u said I feel she's only trying to fool me Anyway thanks bro
xxxtedyxxx: Hey pals...am teddy..aka sweetpapa. The purpose of this thread is to improve our dating game; and if u r aving any dating bottle-necks..u can tell us here and get ur advice. First tins first..pls no insults..if u don't like a post,simple ignore it. Let's help one another. Am gona be posting stuffs dat hav worked for me over the Years. Thankx for stopping by.
Note: IF U INSULT ME--- I GO SWEAR FOR UR DESTINY..Lols
Mr Op please I need urgent help a met a girl here in NL 2 weeks ago although I school in Ghana and she schools at UNIBEN and we've been talking well all this while I call a every day and if I don't call her she calls me and we talk for about 15min Now the thing is I've not even seeing her face b4 although she's always saying she's a beautiful girl and she told me she doesn't have a smartphone that's why she has not been able to send me her pictures She has already considered herself as my girlfriend even b4 I said anything about relationship Now her birthday is coming up this Wednesday and she told me I should try and send her something money I guess since I won't be able to come and wish her happy birthday in person but I'm confused and I'm not comfortable sending anything to a girl I've not even seen her face b4 Please OP advice me on what to do
jonaifame22: My sister has the habit of Bringing her freinds who school at yaba tech to come live wth us in my place, now there's dis new friend of hers by name beatrice who is wth us now, Beatrice is very fresh and beautiful and n boiz will not jus let her rest as they keep on callin her fone every time. Now last night I slept late cos of the new boxing game I bought on my ps4 and I had to beat a lot of opponent in the tournament and atleast go far a bit, so that made me sleep late so I woke late dis morning and what woke me up was the way beatrice ran from inside the bathroom\toilet to pick her call and after that she left the house, so I went to the bathroom to take my bath cos I'm already late for work as I found two missed calls on my fone frm my customers already who wants to barb. So as I entered the bath room I saw beatrice's menstrual pad on the tank of the WC, chai I wondered what to do wth it cos if I flush it in the toilet,it cld block the pipe so I got a black Nylon and decided to tie it in it and Dispose it. But before then I jus said lemme jus. Smell the pad,in fact I wished I neva did, cos the horrible smell dat fastened itself to that menstrual pad is so terrible that as it entered my nose I felt me fizzling away in2 eternity, infact my surviving the experience is nothing short of a miracle! Chai gals are naturally dirty, you jus see them forming on the road if you live wth them I swear you can hardly tolerate them,their yansh smells,their pvssy smells,their hair smells,everything abt them has a tendency to smell,that's why they use make up,perfumes and what have you jus for them to be acceptable before men chai. If not that God knows better I would have wondered what we need women for in dis world.........pheeeeew
You must be a dog for sniffing a females menstrual pad #Gosh Does it look like cocaine to u? Or did u see any sign of a cocaine powder on it?#Sniffer Just go and thank your stars that you weren't chocked
Diddyydiva: Seems like we have lots of cry babies instead of men these days.
ladies get hurt too but we cry our hearts out in our closets, wipe our eyes and move on but what do our men do ?
They tell anything that has ears just to get pity and support ,
They are just babies anyways and we have to clean them up all the time. So don't stress yourself op, let them wail we've got the hanky to wipe their running nose
Believe me dear ladies have the mind of a stoner They bear pains than the men They are ready to die with their pains rather than sharing it with anyone But the men can't cope with heartbreaks Believe me
Vickyydera: I keep reading threads about women being heartless, nefarious and above all wicked. The truth of the whole matter is that you guys meet the wrong women and when the break your heart, you come here to cry wolf. Most times, men are the cause of these failed relationships. My advice for you guys with broken heart is for you to quit being in the doldrums, pick your shattered pieces up, put them together and move on with life, take it as one of those things. Life is full of ups and downs, you try and try again. See whatever happened to you as a phase you will face till you meet the right one that will sweep you off your feet for good. Don't give up on love .
Most women are heartless and wicked joor especially the NL ones So please don't come here and preach this sermon cos it ain't gonna change anything period
BlessedSamson: Hello everyone, its been a while I checked here since I arrived in Germany some few weeks ago. I must really say that the hustle to get here is worth it...for my brothers still trying to push through pls just press on and above all believe not in your ability but in God.
The system here really demands you read and study...just be prepared for that...
Bro is there any means of someone studying and pursuing his football career over there
Vicjustice: Poland may be cheaper regarding house rent and (some) utility bills, but i tell you, shopping is not at all cheap: even food and clothes shopping are not cheap, in many cases, they are even more expensive than in western Europe. And to make things more negative, you can't really find a normal job in Poland, and even if you manage to find one, the wages are discouraging. Unless you have financial means (from elsewhere) to maintain yourself otherwise, i wouldn't encourage you to go to Poland if you are hoping to sustain yourself by working while being a student.
Thanks a lot for this piece of information I really appreciate Please do you have an idea of a country which is a bit cheap where one can school at a cheap rate and get a nice job and also pursue my football career I will really appreciate if u can help with an information
No doubt he is the greatest boxer of all time Not all this nonsense mayweather is doing flaunting wealth up an down Mohammed Ali was Rich,Handsome and he was a source of inspiration to many since from his youthful days till date He was loved by many because of his inspirational quotes A man who was proud to be called a black man and also defended the black race and of course the Muslims Even if I'm not a Muslim I respect him for defending his religion and believe No doubt we've lost an ICON a LEGEND May his soul rest well and may he find peace in the hands of hid creator
Donate 80% of your monthly alawy to her Believe me she will shower you with praises and tell u how u are the most romantic man on earth Lol #MrRomantic
Qmerit: People re here taking side with Davido cause he's an artiste If any person insult ur dad indirectly even is he's 2face or psquare would u like it?
metromediaboss: Ovation Publisher, Dele Momodu says it would be childish of him to respond to the swipes and jibes of singer, Davido.
The veteran journalist and the HKN singer clashed a few months ago over the custody of the latter’s baby, whom the former is an uncle to.
While the rift has been settled, Davido has continued to take subtle swipes at Momodu.
In an interview with Joy TV Ghana, Momodu says he’s unperturbed about the singer’s tantrums.
“I have never responded to any of Davido’s comments, this is the first time I would do that.”
“After ‘Osinachi remix’ video, I called his father… Success is a very tough thing to manage, and your fans can mislead you sometimes.”
“I know that what he is doing is what most artists do all over the world, to sell their record, so you have to create controversy. I don’t think David will see me face-to-face and say I’m his boy. I’m his father.”
“Even the video. That’s what is selling his record, and I’m very comfortable with it. Why will I fight my own child? I can’t fight him. Now, we’re connected together for life through that baby. I can never fight David. He is too small to me.”
“He didn’t call me a thief, he called me a boy. Why should I react to something that’s not true, do I look like anybody’s boy? That would mean I’m childish.”
Lovelynature: Yeah, you can agree very well that just as men and women are are physically different, so are they mentally. Take for instance, if a man and woman witness a particular event and you ask the man to tell the story, he would just go straight to the point. But ask the woman same question, she would like to narrate every bit of the event.
Unlike men, women are very emotional; when she loves or hates, she does so with all her heart, though it may not last. Also, women are very perspicacious in nature; a woman can judge your motive about her just by the way you look at her.
So here we go on how to make her start crushing on you even before both of you start talking. Note that this tactic doesn't work on every woman as everybody must not like you.
When you see a lady you like, don't just rush up to her and start the whole bla bla unless you know you may never have the chance to see her again, then you can try your luck. When you rush up to a lady you're just seeing for first time, she sees you as a desperate guy, is either she ignores you while some may appreciate your courage but may not take you that serious.
So the best thing to do when you see a lady you like is to make eye contact with her in a way that tells her you're interested in her. Do this like in three or four occasions without saying a word to her. Yeah, she noticed you right from the first day and by now wonders why you haven't talk to her, unlike other guys. So she tries to know what's on your mind. She walks as close as possible to you when you meet on the road - she would always like catch your attention and the more she tries, the more she's attracted to you. She can't just help it especially if you are a guy that dress well. Now you've made the whole thing look as if she's the one trying to woo you, and to her, you are her boyfriend to be.
Then like a lion waiting for its prey, you know when best to strike. Yeah, you must initiate the conversation, because no matter how she feels for you, she can only show the greenlight and not initiate the talk. So when you start the talk, just make your intention known to her before she starts seeing you as 'just a friend' and you start shouting 'Friend Zone' everywhere.
Don't bother about time. It wouldn't take you more than two weeks to do this.
Note that this tactic doesn't work on every woman as everybody is not the same, but it does work on most of them. Talking from experience.
I dedicate this this thread to honourable PhD holder from school of womanology, Prof. Charlesnneji. Pro we know you can't deny this. Tested and Trusted, it works.
goodfornothing: A lot of you guys are used to fucking and dumping girls like they have no other value as human beings. But there's just one thing you can't try without getting duly punished by the god of Karma: promise them marriage and fail after sleeping with them. God would punish you and nature would reject you! You would lead a cursed life and your death would come slow but extremely painful. Just try and see.
Dear OP what of the girls that will dump a guy after meeting a better and richer guy nko
Please mr op I really appreciate this piece of information I really intend running my masters program in geology and right now I'm thinking of a cheap country to do it and from what I saw I some quotes above I think Poland will be fine Please boss I beg of u can u give me a guide line on how to apply for a polish visa and is it possible for me to school and work over there how much will it cost me applying for a visa from Nigeria and finally I'm also an aspiring football player is it possible for me to school and pursue my career as a football player over there in Poland Please I will really appreciate it if u will reply me as soon as possible and give me your sincere opinions Thanks a million God bless u
Romance › Re: Should I Hold On Or Just Move On by Allisonrichy(m): 12:21pm On Jun 18, 2016
