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Houseofglam7:
Congratulations 🍾 Op

Now your inbox will feel the heat 😂🤣😂🤣

Exactly!!!!! Hahaha! You stole the comment I was trying to make first! 🤣
His inbox would probably have been getting messages from men and the ladies, too, of whom majority of, silently view and read these car threads, 90% of the time. To see who has money and who's buying what.

" Sir, my mother's left spine just shifted and she needs xyz amount "

" Good day, Sir. My sanitary p*d just got finished, and my blood is flowing like the Red Sea on a stormy day. Pls, can you... " 🤣 Okay, I exaggerated there. They won't ask for sanitary pads. Or...🤔

OP (Sea Trade) how's it down there in the inbox? Is is HOT and sizzling yet?? Haha! How hot is it, tell us?

Congrats, Mr OP. Just shine your e-eyes from now on. You asked for it! 🤷😊
Owo ni koko.

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139518072]“I will shut up immediately if my man tells me to” — Lady sparks fierce debate on respect in relationships


“[b]Call me a pick me but if my man tells me to shut up I’m shutting up immediately. With immediate effect I’m shutting up. Especially if we’re outside, we’re in the midst of friends or family or people, I’m shutting up. I can be a lion behind the scenes but you see if we are outside, I become a rat beside my babe. If you know you cannot respect your man, please just stay single,”[/b] she added.


“Call me pick me but if my man tells me to shut up in public, I’m not saying a word cause he deserves the respect. It might not be the case home. If you can’t move this way remain single!! They didn’t force you to date a man you can’t respect”

“Call me pick me but if my ma tells me to shut up in public, I’m not saying a word cause he deserves the respect. It might not be the case home. If you can’t move this way remain single!! They didn’t force you to date a man you can’t respect”

—Lady tells her gender😂🔥 pic.twitter.com/I8WFVgAZQg

— Beri🌚 (@beri_grizou) May 25, 2026

do I even start from now...

Okay, let me just start however way.
Whilst her opinions seem justified and in accordance with her own understanding and outlook on life, I have to say that she is not taking the best decision in doing those things she is suggesting other women to do.

So, you scan be a raging lion to your boyfriend in the privacy of the house, but a lamb when you are in public, just to seem like the perfect girlfriend ? Also, to make your boyfriend (not even your husband yet.) look like he's in charge and respected by you. Isn't this living a lie? Many couples today are smiling outside, " shutting up " outside, whilst breaking each others heads and yelling back at one another when they are in the privacy of their homes. I won't do that. It's not about respect but handling a matter the way it is to be handled at that given point in time. What if the boyfriend is on the wrong side of the argument? And, you need to explain yourself out of being accused for what you know you didn't do?

Granted, you don't have to yell or speak to him rudely in that moment, but, you can simply talk to him calmly and politely to see reasons why what he accused you of isn't the truth.

The way this lady in the video looks is (God forgive me, I know I'm judging concluding already) even enough reason for me not to take her serious. The stereotypical razz, local, promiscu*us baddie type). Can she really walk her talk? Will she shut it up if the boyfriend in question was a very calm and soft-spoken type? With the way she looks rugged and " streetified " in that video clip? I doubt that.
Maybe, she is making her statement in the instance that you are dating a "hard man " who you've already known as a man/boy who has the tendency to be violent or harsh on you in and out of the public. Ehen.

I'm saying so, because this one I'm seeing in that video up there would easily break a bottle using someone's head, ooh. Or, am I the only one seeing this? 🤣

Lastly, they do anything for CLOUT. Don't forget that.
Yes, aunty, you're not a pick-me lady. You're just a CLOUT and attention-seeking one. Understood.

Stephen0mozzy:
I was about to ask what you were doing with those class of girls, naim I see the last statement of your third paragraph 🤣.

You are not a holy man Sir 😅

I personally love lengthy text conversations though, it's like peering into a persons mind

Haha.
I am better than many, I still believe this to be true. I'm a " work in progress " when it comes to being a Holy man. At the age of 30 years old, about to turn 31 next month, I would give myself a pass mark for self-control when it comes to promiscuity with the other gender. Taking into consideration that I'm facially attractive and they bring themselves to me, yet, I haven't slept with any in over three years.
Ejor, I try, o jare. 😅🤷

I love length texts, too! They are exhilarating to my chatting experience.

...but this thing you said, ehn... It touched me, though. Chai, I need to improve on my holiness. I seem to be lukewarm, here and there.

* Sighs *
Ah... They have unalifed my Akwa Ibom brother. The wickedness of man's heart. He didn't get food poisoning when he was abroad, oh! Now, as soon as he returned to his country the food poisoning decided to happen. If you think this was not by deliberate human action, then it means you underestimate what humans can do to a person in a better financial standing than they are, when they need cash or favours from you, and you aren't giving it to them to the extent of which they want you to give it.

Rest in peace, and, I hope the doors of eternal life and rest will be opened onto you, that you may enter in. Assuming you were saved. 😭😞
We'll miss you.

Ah... Of course, one of the rage-bait uploads and threads aimed at ridiculing Nigeria women. A free-for-all yabbing session, championed by the males on here. And the floodgates were opened! Lol.

You're not likely to see a real female moniker post this type of topic. It's like setting one's self and her fellow females up for dragging. Yikes! On a platform that isn't known for showing mercy. Oti oh!

Yes, I actually understand the point and angle the woman in the X video is coming from. She was trying to tell her fellow ladies not to just go on dates out of being hungry, bored, looking for a benefactor for a short-lived need. She wants them to asses him, ask him (albeit politely) if he is able to cater for a family, in the instance where the date leads to an unforeseen or anticipated romance, and that romance then leads to starting a family, owing to her being preggy for the guy. You want to be sure that the father of the baby can provide for you, himself and the incoming baby. To avoid suffering and stories that touch in the coming season.

I understand her. However, her advice is for ladies or girls who are even considering to settle down with the man they are going on a date with. Majority of them aren't interested in the long-term of it, but just want a quick fix (could be meals, money, handouts or sehx). Will you give " huukop " ladies this advise, when they have a short-term goal with the guy ? Don't forget, they cater to numerous guys every other week. They can't be bothered about if he can provide for a family or not. It's not in their interest and scheme of work. 🤷

Sometimes, ehn, I pity the f-male nairalmaders who have to login and read the many very painful things men type as comments. You can feign not to be pained but you know deep down these things pierce. No wonder they just keep away after reading through than adding their comments. Most of them. It's like we just can't get along. It's like this gender battle that never ends. Omo. We've been conditioned. Hmm.

Well, I am not in doubt that JuJu could have done this to the militia. I'm woke enough to know that witchraft is well and thriving in our societies today. It's the same, today, yesterday and... Well, till the coming of the new order of Jesus in the future generation.

" 1. Why them no set juju in the 1800s to stop the white man from kidnapping our relatives? "



This is my own submission to meobizzy's first question above.
This would be lengthy, and quoting him may trigger the "spambutt" to erase what I think is going to be an enlightening comment. I want it read and not deleted.


There is this widespread erroneous belief that from the 1600s-1700s, the white men came and " kidnapped " Nigerians (and other Africans in their own localities) from our land to serve as slaves abroad. Whilst this may seem credible on surface analysis, it may not be the truth. Most of us have read the historical archives of the slave trade era, and where those records talk about several traditional and clan leaders meeting with the arrived westerners and agreeing to sell of their own people for money and gifts. Gifts like mirrors, fine blended whiskey and even guns. Anything that could entice the clan leaders enough to agree that the invaders be allowed to part with members of their communities.

JuJu or voodoo or jazz , which of course must have existed back then, wouldn't have sufficed to save the Nigerians who were sold off. Individual witchcraft even didn't help their fate. We have heard of how many Nigerians and other Africans of old had exported potent witchcraft to countries in the Americas, like, Brazil and Cuba, the USA (New Orleans witchcraft is a notable case study). So, this now begs the question of why thier fetish powers weren't able to deter the invaders from shipping them across the globe like imported goods.
And, Satan, won't even be divided against his own devices (the enslavement of God's chosen people whom Satan despises till forever). Matthew 12:26 comes to mind now. He won't be divided... He may have even been accusing our ancestors before God, day and night, telling him why they need to get punished for serving Shango, Ogun, Yemoja, this and that god and goddess. God already having the plan to punish them through slavery and scattering, would already see reasons to let Satan have a field day with prompting the white men to risk it all to come to a continent they knew nothing about, all in a bid to enslave the inhabitants. You think that's ordinary? You think they knew what they were expecting to meet? If Africans were not also a civilised race with sophisticated weapons to fend them off?? Yet, they undertook the long, cumbersome journeys to come to bushy continent without electricity to make trouble with its inhabitants. Must have taken some spiritual type of guts, only gotten from the heavens. All by divine orchestration, I conclude.


Remember...and this is me now looking at the matter from a religious angle ( religion means a lot to me, so I include it in every aspect of life's happenings, even though people would say must we make it about religion...) In saying that the slave trade which took place all around the world was permitted, and in fact, orchestrated by the Grand Master of orchestrations himself, Elohim/Adonai. Yup. We, black Africans, all make up part of the scattered lineages of the ancient Israelites spoken of in the bible. How would God's words and those of the prophets come to fulfilment if these things did not take place?
I think the biblical book of Isaiah speaks of this, too. If I'm not mistaken. As do one or two other biblical books. God's words can never return void and unfulfilled.

"The vision is for an appointed time, though it tarries, but it won't tarry "(That's should be in Habakkuk 2:3 or 3:2 . I usually have it mixed up, my bad). 🤷

Now, guns would have instilled fear and compliance in all the young men seized from every village across the continent. A few examples would have been made of those who dared to challenge the white man's authority, to the bemusement of the remaining onlookers who would see their tribesmen fall to the ground after getting fired at. Won't you comply if you were in that situation? You know you would, nau.

Besides, JuJu won't have stopped anything, as Satan won't even give permission to his demons to grant your witchcraft request, when he would want nothing more than black descendants of Israel to be taken into captivity to suffer. You don't really know why the black race is the least developed and had to be the slaves of old. It was all forecasted and predestined for us, by reason of our ancestral roots stemming from the hebrew Israelites. We are certainly part of the renowned twelve tribes.
" The one who will be taken and locked up in prison, to prison he shall go " It was all predestined, can't you see the revelations that have played out? Nothing was going to stop the slave trade from taking place. Then comes freedom, so that you can then appreciate what God has done for you. Same thing happened during Israel's four hundred years sojourning through the wilderness. All to teach is a lesson on going after other gods, of which pre-slavery era Africans were deep into. They had to be disciplined once again. If he didn't spare the ancient hebrew Israelites, he wasn't going to spare our 1700s forefathers. He is impartial like that. A respecter of nobody. He is justified and righteous in allowing it to happen! I dare say!

Yes, I still know how to write. I write often, as I am an author of a number of novels and movie scripts (these scripts are still in the works, though).

I enjoy writing, and I get a lot of complaints from young ladies and girls during my chatting moments about my messages being lengthy. I can't help it. It's a writer's habit.

I just feel those girls are either lazy to type, or, they simply do not have confidence in their written grammar, and so, they avoid it. Several of them are less educated than most of you here. Trenches babes, they are.
They occasionally suggest to me to only make use of voice notes. One said she didn't understand written english that much. I was touched by her honesty, though. And, if you see the size of this girl's booty... My gosh!

Only using VNs to communicate on WhatsApp? Not a writer's delight, if you ask me.

Ezini:
Same here
I have first class
From same town with her
Yet seeing her has proven
More difficult than a needle passing through the carmels eyes.
I
Am still jobless

.are you still the bolded texts?
You're too smart to have to be in that situation. I'd like to help you submit your CV if you won't mind it. I know some politicians here in Abuja. At your own discretion.

Ezini:
It will probably help him eliminate one person then runs off and gets shot in the back head and dies instantly than being heralded into the bush,

To get shot and die it’s actually better than being caught alive

I just had to share.
I didn't know a lady could reason this way at the emboldened texts. Speaks volumes of your braveness, your IQ , too. It's better he's gunned down for challenging them than him getting heralded to that bush alive. He'll wish he has been gunned down instead.
You've inadvertently turned me on with this comment.
Yes, I'm admiring from a far. * Applauds *

Whilst this one's claim at needing a husband at the advancing, evening -newspaper age of 41 sounds fair and legit to the ears, on surface take, I would however advice any young man who care to listen to take heed and beware of her.

From the persistent and repetitive hammering on "I need to experience motherhood, I want to be a mother, my biological clock, menopause, I need to have a baby " should tell any sensible man who loves his dignity and worth that this one is only luring you over to serve as a baby making co-machine. It's all for her own interest. It's not about building love, understanding and commitment (oh, you dare not expect commitment from this type of desperado). She wants to have children and be in the league of mothers. It's not about you, Sir. It's not about her seeking to love you and respect you.
Even the line, " even if you are broke " is already her catching cruise with men and mocking those of you who fall into that category. If she can do this, she will aswell not show you respect that a husband deserves. You will forever be known as ' that man who was used to get kids by a certain 41 year old woman who came publicly in a certain year (they may or may not recall the year even ) to beg for a husband. You don't want that type of tag, now, do you? 🤣

Nothing beats getting to know a lady by yourself. I mean, you sighting her first and desiring her, followed by you making moves to woo her by yourself, conquering that phase, and then she also growing to love you (better if she loves you first as a guy and not you loving her first ooh. For your own good).

Besides, I don't see the wealth or riches she's talking about that she has reflecting on her. I'm not saying because she isn't dolled up, or, dressed like those slay baddies and packaged socialites. I'm saying that she doesn't look rich. The partial visible background of what seems to be her tailoring store is already giving regular average person vibe. The curtain et all being considered. I'm just pointing it out, not saying that she isn't doing well for herself. Not that.

Anyways, no right-thinking man would and should give her the time of day. For the stunt she's pulling online for clout and short-lived fame. You know naija, we will soon forget her in a few weeks time. By then, she'd have garnered a few thousand followers who just want to now begin to monitor her life and see how she turns out. Not a good way to ruin your previously enjoyed peaceful and private life. These people will ridicule her at any given chance they get.
Men will slid into the DM to take advantage of her vulnerability and try to bed her without the intention of marrying her. Some men will even go to the extent of tempting her with cash for " xex " and it will work! 500k and the thick thighs will swing open like the gates of the busiest Model public school in Nigeria.
She will gain but she will also loose. Self-respect, dignity, see-finish will surmount, if she isn't lucky , she might end up with an unanticipated STD from one of the many fine guys who she allowed to dive in raw on the premise that he looked too fine and fresh to be HIV or STD rdden. 🤣

These and more are the probabilities. She signed up for it when she made that video public.

All the luck she'll be needing, I wish for her to get. Her types are on this same nairaland choosing to rather perish in silence for the next 20 years owing to pride and a false sense of self-worth. Even with body counts in excess of 100 men. They are still deluded that they have " standards "

My 2 cents. It's lengthy? Eh, not my problem if you can't read. Voice note isn't a feature here, so, read!

pocohantas:
I read this one.
Keep it brief next time. Bye.😂

Laughing emojis are always your go-to mechanism of coping when you know you've even caught. It doesn't make you any smarter. Lol. Just so you know.
Be there using elementary school sense of " read this one " haha. Who are you fooling?
You've read all of them from start to finish, jareh.
Keep putting up your ego, trynna save face. We know all about that.

At your advanced age, you still be using kiddies tactics. Haha. Last last, your mod would come to your rescue that's the highest....

pocohantas:
K. I didn't read this either.

And just like that, the curse is doubled. Keep at it. Lol
Be there deceiving yourself thinking you're deceiving Allthingswork.
Pride won't allow you admit the truth.

11 o'clock newspaper.

This news got broke about three days ago, even though it happened up to five days ago. In Abuja.
Nairaland usually seems to come up late with Abuja -centered news, if it isn't about politics. I've noticed.

Well, the lady is gone, and gone is she. We pray she made peace with her maker before breathing her last. But, and this is me assuming, which I'm allowed to... Assuming she went out for an evening rendezvous with some guy, then how would she be able to make peace with her maker before kissing the earth goodbye? It just doesn't work like that. You can't cheat God's intelligence.
And jikwoyi that I know very well of is a den of Yahoo boys, other 419 agents and huukup ladies, old and young alike. It's just so rampant there. Whenever I enter that area to pick up something, the stench of adultery could be perceived renting the entire air around there. So many trenches baddies on sight. Many lezzbiyans there as well, willing to still bed you as a guy if you're willing to pay the monetary price. Jikwoyi is like another lekki, but the broker version. The people love on the fast lane. The youths, that is.

I don't even know if I can type R.I.P because I'm usually not in the habit of pretending that certain kinds of people, known or unknown to me, can actually enjoy that peaceful rest, post-death. That's going by God's standards.
No offense to anyone. It just is what it is! Come for me if you want to. It's a free forum after all. 🙂

pocohantas:
I typed one sentence in response to someone I follow. You jumped in days later to type a thesis that I didn't read. And I am the pained one? 😂

You, of course. Isn't that why you kept coming back? 😅🤫

And if truly you didn't read my comment as you claim, then, may you finally find your dream boo this year and leave the booless club for good. But, if you are lying that you didn't read it then, an extra 40 years to your drought for a happy marriage and birthing of mixed raced kids. You know, you once hinted in the distant past on desiring mixed race children sha. Amen in the name that is above all names. This curse is sealed. Next time you won't lie to save face.

Poland2050:
A foolish bitch. When you the enjoy ur money, smoke, drink, who you call, help. Na you they cry crocodile tears. Go meet ur family members you help. Nonsense. 100 millon don finished. Money na ur mate. He big for eyes but easy to spend. You never see anything. Afterall you no work for the money.

Her undertone target MIGHT be to attract public sympathy of MAINLY RICH MEN who may want to take advantage of the moment to offer her financial support for a share of her cookie (coochie). These females are intentional, and there's always a catch to every public outcry or stunt they showcase.
You have to be as crafty as they are, if not more.

No RESPONSIBLE man should give Phyna one kobo after seeing this video. Let the fraudsters and irresponsible married one give her. That's here category of people.

meobizy:
Now we can see why Ilebaye collected beating. As soon as she told her old man no, story changed to “IIebaye is rude. Ilebaye abandoned the family. Ilebaye came to fight her father.” Money may not change a person. It sometimes changes people around you.

No.

Where you there?? Cho Cho Cho, you just talk too much without any proof.
Talkative. With your propaganda.

Low engagements on this thread should tell the OP and the rest of you who are seemingly excited about the topic of discourse - Lagos night life, yada yada yada...that this is a meaninglezz topic to be discussing especially on a Sunday. Was posted early in the morning for that matter.

You didn't see Friday or Saturday to dishonour with your uncontrollable nightlife-urge-of-w-topic. You can't even pretend to honour Sunday. Even if by pretence. SMH.

Well, I happen to come from Akwa Ibom State owing to one of my parents hailing from there, and a different state owing to one of my parent's origin. So, I feel I am qualified to weigh in on this matter.

Firstly, this whole rant (let's call it that, as it rightly seems like it) is not surprising to those of us in the know, who have either lived in Akwa Ibom at some point, or, at least, followed Akwa Ibom State political happenings over the years. I'm talking about as far back as 2003 and up to the time H.E Sen GOA became governor.
Similar accusations have been made by other stakeholders over the years, both political and non-political actors in the state. Are they right in their accusations and finger pointing? I would say yes, and a half no. That's to say, not entirely right but still packing enough evidence and credibility to form a credible opinion (of those who accuse His Excellency of ethnic bias).

For those of us who have resided in Uyo and know Ewet Housing Estate, you would know that Sen. AKpabio, like many other of his peers, have resided in Ewet Housing Estate. If you can recall that large pink coloured two storey house that used to be situated on F-Line, then you'll know that that served as his primary residence during his time as governor of our dear state. I happened to live two houses away from his at the time. So, I basically saw his movements most of the times , including when he came back from the nightclubs (which was no secret back then to many) at the wee hours of the night/morning. His range rover would be blasting loud music, accompanied by his escort vehicles in the convoy. I've heard some of his close staff discuss him in the distant past, and they mentioned how he was actually not in the habit of favourite those from the Ibibio tribe in his benevolence and appointments. Those close to you know you to a great extent. So, we can take their words for it, sometimes.

About the kidnappings and unalivings that seemed proliferated as at the time he took over from Obong Victor Attach, I would say that these rumours were alive and in circulation as far back as the year 2008. We used to hear it. I won't forget about the case of two brothers who were unalived in Uyo City for their land , and fingers were pointing to The SP's cronies and boys, as the ones who unalived them. I don't know if this is true or if they were simply rumours. Till date.

Another widely talked about occurrence back then was the disappearance of many newly birthed babies and their subsequent pounding in mortars using pistols, seemingly to be used for fetish rituals. Once again, fingers pointed to H.E Gov. AKpabio and his wife, and their close circle. Again, this is unfounded with substantial evidence, however, this was the talk of the town for a few years back then.
I was living in the state during his reign, and I was often hearing about kindnapoings and unalivings, and the empowerment of some known thugs who made things happen back then.

Back to the Ibibio-anang favouritism accusation from the vanguard of the ibibio people. Well, I happen to have been friends with many kids of commissioners in the cabinet when Akpabio was governor, and majority of them were of the anang tribe. We still had some who were of ibibio decent. So, I can't say for certain if it reflected in his cabinet appointments. However, on every rumour, there is usually some iota or elements of truth, and it won't be different in Senator Akpabio's case. Many have spoken of how he mostly favours people (men and women) from the Ikot Ekpene and Essien Udim LGAs in his lobbying and favourism. Careful examination of this claim may show signs of truth.

Anyways, what we need now is a united Akwa Abasi Ibom state, and not a divided one. Even though this deep-seated division stems from tens of decades ago. It didn't even start in His Excellency, Senator AKpabio's political era.

I currently happen to be friends with his deputy chief of staff, and his Chief Laison Officer here in Abuja, and I would like to bring this up and hear what they'll say about it. 😁 Lemme lfind little harmless trouble. One of them really holds his boss in high esteem, and the other is just passive about it. He's working for his salary , jareh. 😅

Marvieduke:
BUSINESSMAN LUCKY ADIMIKE STABBED TO DEATH BY HIS OWN SON

Businessman Chief Lucky Adimike, also referred to as Lucky Godwin Adimike, was allegedly stabbed to death by his 19-year-old son in Abuja. The incident is said to have happened after an argument at their home in Guzape.





https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/why-youth-corps-member-stabbed-billionaire-father-dead-associate/amp/

As usual the leeching leechers; " two ladies" who were at the scene of the fracas, probably even were what motivated the unruly child to feel he had to prove to them that he was a tough man by attacking his father.
Now, where are the two young ladies Gone with the wind! As usual! No traces, after eating his money and his GBOLAhan, once , twice, maybe multiple times!

Lesson to other privilege young men out there. Don't try to impress anyone, especially that other gende. Work hard, leave modest and put yourself first before any leechers. Because when things go from sweet to sour, these gum-body people will run away and forget you pronto.

I'm resident in abj as well, and see how rich kids hop from one club, bar, to the other at late hours, without parental supervision nor regard.

pocohantas:
Who cares that you choose to spend your time slutshaming women? Lol! You overrate your importance in the grand ecosystem sha.

You need not to deceive yourself, dear one. You do not care that women get slvt shamed but you are in the comments complaining about men hating the women they fonicate with, and about men being bug hypocrites and being double mouthed, with regards to the matter being discussed.
You lie. Lol. If it didn't unsettle and pain you, you won't have bothers to comment about it being an issue to you and your kind.

Even that you dignified me with a response is evidence enough to know that you care about what me and men in general think about slvtty females, of which you may well be a part of.
You saw a need to respond because you did care enough to . No matter how you twist it to save face.

Live decently. It won't hurt. You and you kind can do better. The men, too, should live decently, and this menace in our society will gradually reduce. ✌️

Double0h7:
So this 70 year old man, stood up in a room full of people and said this The secondhand embarrassment I feel may put me in hospital 😳

Be honest, you're just MAD at the man for saying it boldly in the midst of ladies, and not getting condemned by them. They were mute, cuz they knew he was saying facts.
Thank goodness he isn't uglee, but facially and bodily appeasing to the average lady, otherwise, you lots would have left the message to find something related to his looks to abuse him with, out of anger.
Hehe. It's usually the go-to resort when you can't fault fine guys for saying things that ladies don't want to hear.

He still probably has a fine chick and she may even be in that room hearing those things. That won't stop him from getting some from her , and even any other lady in that room who lacks dignity. These things happen in Nigeria, too.

Secondhand embarrassment indeed.
Say something else, jareh. Ko le work.

@ main topic... Why is it so hard for women to stay with masturbation and sensuality? Why? It's more common with females. Just check major chatrubate sites, adult sites, money-for-nudity sites and the rest of them. It's females serving it to the public. Brazenly and sham*lessly. From Africa to the other continents. It's all online.

Seems sex is the strongest addiction yet in record. People just can't get it out of their minds and live pure. 😁🤷

pocohantas:
Extremely hypocritical and double-mouthed.

ROTFLMAO, you sound PAINED and really unsettled here.
Music to our e-ears.
You hate that women will keep getting slvt-shamed and judged by men and women, too. Well, a vast amount of women will still judge their kind, the ones who are publicly caught in promiscuity or obscene s*xual scenarios.
I know how you feel. That's life the way we came and met it! Till the coming of the Messiah, it won't change. 🤷

first and foremost , a hearty, big congratulations to Temi and Mr. Eazi on the safe delivery of their first child.
Having congratulated them, my next move is to express my reservation with Temi's choice of displaying her baby bump for the public. This just goes to show you that MONEY CANNOT BUY CLASS. Having riches does not equate to you having class and exposure ( beyond the average standard of the norm).
Did she have to feel societally pressured to have had to join the trend of women showcasing a pregnant tummy in photographed snapshots and releasing the photos?? With all the education and travelling she has undertaken. Nawa.
you would hardly see a rich, respected " white " woman, old or young, showing her pregnant tummy in photoshoots to the world via Instagram or twitter. It is usually the African women, AA women, and those from the caribbean nations caught in this absurd trend. Says a lot about us, like it or not. When Nigerians copy trends, they go way overboard with it. As usual.

...like someone else here earlier commented, saying, " a new billionaire is born " A new billionaire has been truly birthed. the baby will inherit tens of billions of naira someday.

Thanks to millions of Nigerian women of questionable morals and character, CHEATER CHIKE has been getting the support and thumbs up he needs to feign not feeling perturbed by the public outlash mainly from men and few dignified women folks.

He even had the temerity last night to post s video of himself celebrating arsenal's premiership win. To further pepper people who are condemning his actions with Sandra.

And he got over 9k likes on that post. Tells you how people have lost their morals and sanity.

badoh:
They gave Desmond platform to contest and represent his constituency, he was busy undermining his leaders. I'm happy he has been exposed, he won't smell any political appointments in Lagos again. That woman will get the support of the leaders and voters in that constituency, Desmond should go back to his state and contest there.

Tribalism is your usual go-to rhetoric.
Between your tribesmen and the Igbos, I am not sure which is more tribalistic in Nigeria.

SMH.

pocohantas:
Please keep shut. Someone asked if that is why she left him. If you didn't see it, then go read and check. Offline I have already seen a post on how he so much wanted to be a father but she left him in the midst of his sickness. Alex Eķubo has a wife, she is the one that should be consoled and respected in all of this.

You, keep shut, instead.

You made it a gender thing in your usual fashion.

Alex, rest in peace. That's all that matters. Let some people stay here dragging your ex fiancee this and what not. Gender division.

My last reply to this thread.

Teymanhenry:
Od white women are using their hard earned money to marry young men especially young black men. Black women can do the same. She can lure in a young man with her hard earned money. If the money keeps on flowing the youngies will be loyal

Dey play! Just dey play.
Loyal + youngies in the same sentence in 2026 AD? Lol.
I laugh in Kiswahili.

BrickandLace:
She obviously made good money while other ladies were getting married. So, she didn't lose out entirely.

Be there deceiving yourself and consoling her.
And she's there crying, right? Is the money showing in her looks or the surrounding edifice?


Good money, indeed.

Make more reasons for her, just to save face. Hehe.

Women!

pocohantas:
You are right. But my point is, except he wanted to kill himself, he wouldn't be drinking and smoking after a cancer diagnosis.

Nigerians are weird people. Always looking for who to blame when someone dies. Next thing they would go hounding his ex-fiancee for leaving him at his lowest.

Your own views are always negative and off-point.

You this Pocahontas, must make it about the ex-finacee (because she's a " woman " in your usual manner. Defending where no one had outrightly accused her. How many years and you are still at this gender battle thingy.

I know you always have one excuse or reason prepared the counter when you are called out on something. Go ahead.

Rest in peace, Alex Ekubo.
May your loved ones be consoled. Including your ex-financee and ex-lover.

The WHITE PEOPLE of SOUTH AFRICA are the only useful ones when it comes to rescue missions and intelligence.
Just see how they handled this situation and unraveled it!

If it were the BLACKS of SA, it would be mission impossible. Part one to 100!

The whites made and still make South Africa what it is today. The leading African nation in terms of development.