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Dude which plastic surgery you guys just go around posting fake news up and down mynd44

Nbote:
U are an imbe... So he wasn't attacked? Or his convoy wasn't blocked and shot at??



I don't know between U and ur Suya which one has more oil on it... Was he stoned by his ppl? Was it his constituency members dat wore military and police uniforms to shoot at him? Or d local govt chairman who is related to d commissioner of Finance dat sent caterpillar to block d road?? Why U jus like to expose urself like dis?? Pls remind urself d outcome of d INEC recall jus a few months ago again and tell Urself if U think U have sense...

how can someone be this daft? where the bullet hole

HajimeSaito:


This is the same Yusuf Usman who the Minister of Health Isaac Adewole sacked for embezzling NHIS funds when the Dull-ard was wasting tax payers money in the United Kingdom.

He boasted that he was untouchable because he is Buhari's nephew and he was eventually reinstated.

When he was in charge of the NHIS one of his first actions in office was said to be the appointment of his younger brother as General Manager (Legal) and his niece, a level 8 officer from the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), catapulted to grade level 13 at the NHIS.

He also bought himself a N58m SUV from NHIS funds way above his N2.5m approval limit without the knowledge nor the concurrence of the supervising ministry despite that his office already had a number of serviceable SUVs.

You can read his story here:

[url]http://saharareporters.com/2017/07/26/yusuf-insolent-child-impunity-louis-odion
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seems you didn't bother reading beyond the first sentence. go back and read

LewsTherin:
Watch your mouth you filthy aes sedai pet! Have you read all the books? All 15?

Mother's milk in a cup but every now and then I read book 15 over again. Now is a good time to start again. I got nothing better to do anyways

yes I have. took me the best part of 3 months. Just love the cunning Fox part. especially "she is my wife. your bloody daughter of the nine moons is my wife." time to roll the dice. have the full book on pdf.
LewsTherin

LewsTherin:
Dude! You are the first person on Nairaland that has gotten my name! May you shelter in the palm of the Creator's hand!!

May the light be with you too. lol... Blood and bloody ashes now you're going to make me spend another 3 month on it.

LewsTherin:
Ok, got that.

Now like I said, normally, I am all for playing the fool in a relationship but your husband has set a bad precedent. First, he changed a joint agreement meant for your joint family in favour of his own family. Then he kicked you out of his house (as he thought it was). Then he insists you use your share of a joint decision, a decision that he reneged on, for his own benefit. Insisted on that twice ie before he knew it was in yiur name and after he knew it was in your name.

That is not good. Basically he has shown he is willing to abandon you and your kids if he “feels” like it. Sweetheart, no offense intended, but you don't have a good husband.

My advice to you and those in similar straits is
First, pray for your husband. Pray for God to change his person, to change his ways. If he claims to be a Christian, he sure as heck isn't showing Christ-like characters

Plan for your kids. Not to the exemption of your husband, but until he shows he can be different, plan to be able to live without him for your kids. I didn't say leave him. I said to be able to live without him. Different things.

Like you have been adviced, get an independent third party to mediate and see how that goes. I understand why you don't want to let your family know but it is dicey if they don't especially as he has involved his family from the beginning. I don't agree, but I understand. Maybe a compromise will be to tell your dad. Not your mum, not your sisters. Women by nature are very emotional and they can let their emotions overwhelm them. Tell your dad in confidence and ask him to keep it that way.

Finally, under no circumstances whatsoever should you add his name to that document. In mediations, the best you should do is to place the property in a trust for your children. Children! Not you, not him, not Mr and Mrs. Put it in the names of ALL your kids with a caveat that it cannot be sold by any one until all kids are above 18 years old.

Most of all, seek mediation and pray a lot for him.

My own advice.

Lewstherin Telamon... this is a very sound advice. truth be told the guy is being completely selfish. but I don't know the full story. from what the OP said I completely agree with her not changing the ownership of the house.
also she needs to inform her family. BTW I don't get the logic behind asking for transfer. If it's granted and the issue's resolved what happens?
Op this issue tells me there's a lot of problem you need to resolve in your family. In fact I can pick so many things wrong in this short write up. You two need to talk.

[quote author= post=69360721]We can see you have been here since 2009
(almost 10 whole years!)
So you should know better.
You should know the staff here, senior man.
Nice weekend.[/quote]He has been registered since 2009, spent about 11 days online you joined 2 years ago and already you've spent 30 days on NL therefore his question is valid. in fact you've made more comments more than almost everyone on this thread combined. So I am forced to ask, Are you a staff of nairaland?

Oh! Not again? When will this old grey haired boy ever get sense? Thanks giving for what? winning the Oscars? i no blame am na Shekau I blame. He could have been a National Hero.

Daeylar:
It seems like Hypocrisy, but to me they are still doing the same thing they have always done.

They're only working according to their end goal, which has always been bashing women, and trying to convince women that a man is the ultimate no matter what, so therefore pleasing such men, (or men in general) even at the expense of your self worth, your happiness, your peace of mind, should always be a woman's goal.

That's why when the topic revolves around something like "men don't like women who marry for money" these same set come and bash women and tell then they shouldn't marry men for money, after all that's not what men want, And you know. A man is always right.

But in this topic where she is considering not marrying the man for money and considering her happiness and peace of mind, and ultimately her mental health. They can't have it. The man is the ultimate. Happiness and peace of mind for the woman be Damned. A woman should always do what a man wants. That's why you have that same set come out and tell her to manage and change herself for the man.

They don't care if it takes hypocrisy to achieve their end goal. As long as the woman now knows that the man is always right no matter what nonsense he says or asks for, they are happy.

This site is a disgrace with the way the posters here support misogyny.

It sickens me.

Hmmmmmmm, DEEP!

Biglittlelois:
Same comments that insults ladies going after guys with money are the same advising her to grab this opportunity, hypocrites

Op, listen to these comments at your own peril

my little big sister I tire o. the hypocrisy on this thread stinks. I am sure not even the devil can stand the stench.

ladiesreject:
I know almost every body will say there's no any problem here, but the truth is there's a problem here. It's true money answereth all things, but the truth is that there are certain things money can't do.

To the OP, that man will make a terrible husband/father. He will just believe money is all his wife and kids need, thus leading to emotional detachment from the family.

Am not gonna say break up with him (I mean, why would I do that when money is involved), the only thing I will tell you to do is prepare your mind for this kind of life forever.

If at 34 he still behaves like all those 100L folks, then there's no solution to his problem..

They say a fool at forty is a fool forever. What most people fail to understand these days is that it's not up to 40 any more.
If at 30 you don't have bearings, then just forget it.

Please note that I did not in anyway call him a fool, this is me trying to make my point.

All the best and lucky you to have what an average Nigerian girl dreams of having.

#Enjoy!

Dude you spoke, spake and Spoketh my mind.
donstan18 disappointed me with his comments.
monday200 sorry to say this but your guy seems to be an over grown mama's boy. there's no problem in wearing jewellery, make up and the rest. the problem is it's not you and am sure before bringing it online, judging by the kind of person you've described yourself to be, this issue has caused you something close to tears. so my observations; You are who you are and to tell you to change to what he wants is a huge call. He saw you the way you were before asking you out. you might try to succumb but I promise you this you won't be happy. Seriously, I don't know how your relationship is but for heaven sake the guy needs to respect YOU for who you are and stop trying to act like a silly 16 year old.
If there's one thing I see in this write up is you need to sit down and talk. BTW what are his views about Fatherhood, being a husband and marital responsibilities? try to understand these. and most importantly don't marry Anyone that thinks he is doing you a favour by marrying you. Be wise.

Can't these Idiotas make a reasonable comment without insulting other tribes or spewing hate filled trash. Why all the insults and poorly disguised jibes on the Middle-belts and the West? Hasn't the middle-belt suffered enough? Must they use there sufferings as an opportunity to insult them? Bunch of retarded retards. NOTE: I am 125 percent in support of NO Ranch

oh! it's the toilet couple.

Daviddson:
His Wikipedia profile says he's 19 years and he took this picture 20 years ago, when he was most likely around 6 years. So it's not only Africans that engage in age cheat after all.(Mbappe was born in France though he has an African descent.)

20 years ago? How old is Henry? these are pictures of Henry in Monaco around 1998 compare the pictures.

gcof:
give details of the things that went wrong

seconded.

Nyerhovwo101:
point of correction " SHE is a shame to men"

IT not she

true talk I hope that safiaa or whatever and her O-crew under the guise of feminism are listening.

you can take a nigger off the streets but you can't take the streets off the nigger. see the way Eve still look like a gangster mistress beside the man. tthat third pics nah die

the guy is heartless and I pity the young lady he is getting married to. how can you do such to another? well I don't really know what happened so can say much. but that's wicked.
now am wondering why would the girl date somebody that heartless in the first place?

Hanseel1:
An intelligent person will know that one who requires submission should be ready to reciprocate it.
But like the dumb African alpha male wannabe, Nigerian men can't reciprocate it.

Oh, now all Nigerian men are dumb alpha male wannabe including you me and every male you'be ever known. right?
the moment you generalize without exception your premise becomes faulty. it may surprise you but Nigerian men are more submissive than you think, especially if the woman is sensible

Biglittlelois:
But how now? what he said is kind of true, or you want someone that will kneel down to greet you every morning, you want someone that will say yes to everything you do and say abi?

I really wish the bible gave specific kind of submission it meant so that men wont that opportunity to ride on us

the op is so stupid calling him stupid will be an insult to stupid folks. there is no way no freaking way any marriage will work without submission. the op needs to go back and learn what submission means even friendship thrives on it.

Oblang:
Lol...why will Buhari keep him until after 2019 when he can kill him there nw and nobody will know.. I guess Buhari is still Jubril from Sudan..This FFK won't stop sniffing that thing...

that part got me laughing. this FFK is a good comic relief. Only insane folks takes him serious

resurgent2019:
There are some things FFK is crazy about. Rabid aversion to Buhari, opposition to Islamic terrorism and expansion, and the right to self determination of the people of Biafra.

Besides, kanu is his very good friend. He possibly can’t joke around with information about the whereabouts of the biafran leader. And that’s why I asked the igbos to investigate FFKs claims. It is worth the try.

LOL... LOL... won to fi Or i e let I gab paro.... LOL... Seriously can't stop laughing. FFK? The singing parrot? The guy that will sell is entire family for a bowl of pepper soup? LOL? You obviously don't know the history and antecedents of FFK? even this news he is releasing has a selfish malicious under tone? ask yourself why adding "he intends to kill Nnamdi after elections"? Guy wake up. stop allowing some politicians to use you.

shurlermoz:
Na ball dey watch this one, he just dey deceive himself say he Dey watch ball.
What tactical display Biko, playing 3 men at the back till 90mins when all you need is a draw against Arg, playing 4-5-1 against Croatia when they are obviously afraid of us and even when we need goals, not knowing where to play Mikel, Iwobi, Eteboh until the media outcry?
Forget the loss, when was the last time we had a good game, we Wld have lost against Poland if we used VAR, it's obvious the team structure is poor and Rohr had all the time to tweak it but his head is empty just like yours.
You are asking if brain serve me right when you don't have brain at all, na sawdust full your head.
Misses are part of any match, it happens everyday of the week and twice on Sunday. It's the coach's job to manage whatever we have, dwe were in an excellent till the 85th minute....... Remove Moses and Idowu and bring on Ogu and Ebuehi, change formation to 5-4-1. Argentina brought on Pavon when they saw that Idowu was tired but what was Rohr's response.
U should stick to watching Cricket.

your analysis is so poor it's beyond foolish. I don't need to point out all these errors. Poland? Ogu? seriouusly in defense? misses are part of football? not at this level? does not make you miss glaring chan ces? BTW if misses are part of football then why blame the coach?
Germany were wasteful in front of goal what happened to them? they're punished. Peru? Egypt? No matter how good your tactics are if your strikers don't score you lose! and it's not because the coach is bad?
if there were no chances created I would've understand you pain but this is just silly, grow up.
like I told you before Argentina's goal was an Half chance. Rohr won the tactical battle but lost because his players fail him.
We need better players. And Rohr has been giving us that. Did you think Nigeria would've qualified for the World Cup if not for him? do you remember how terrible or defence was before him? Imagine having to play with dead weights like Ambrose, Echi ejile in defense. Do you think we would've qualified? Nigeria had one of the youngest squad in the world cup and the coach is still not finished with the team. change to 5 4 1? Why change the formation while you are having all the chances and your opponents are just passing the ball around cluelessly? yes I agree maybe he should have brought in Ebuehi but it's like telling Mourinho to substitute Young for Shaw when all he needs is a draw and the match is in the 80s already. Shaw is better offensively not defensively. same with Brown and Ebuehi.
Finally, you are like the Man U fans calling for Mourinho's sack. it's senseless the team is growing and it can only get better. if only that clown Tammy had accepted his call up. peace out.

shurlermoz:
Which great job?

Team selection 0
Game management 0
Technical input 0
Grip on the team 0

Nigerian coach is our true and only route to success, to Rohr its just another job.
We might not get it right immediately with a Nigerian coach but with time we will get it super right.

Most top countries use a coach from their country, you think they dont know what they are doing?

Foreign based have always played for Nigeria before Rohr and they will play even without Rohr.

Rohr is a scam, a total disaster.

your ramblings are due to the loss. Nigerian coach? you obviously don't know what you are saying? is it the same ones that can't get to quarter final of CAF CHAMPIONS LEAGUE? or those that have been struggling to qualify for CAN? it's not your fault nah Ighalo cause all these yarn, after a perfect tactical display by Rohr Ighalo went and squander two great chances like a silly he- goat and please don't bring the stupid Iwobi argument here Iwobi is not a striker we needed a goal to bury the game.
if your brain serves you well you'll remember we had the better chance in second half even their goal was an half chance. blame the players not the coach. note the Argentine coach is a disaster.
Rohr has done a great job. do have an idea how many new players that have featured for SE since he came. look beyond your tears bro.

izzou:


I think it's time we consider using coaches from our country.

There was nothing spectacular this guy did. His services are not really needed anymore, to me.

We have a good team. We just need to keep them together, and monitor their progress












When I say a good team, I didn't count Ighalo among. When he retires from China, he should go and meet Bob Izua to mentor him on how to open a transport company

folks like you are the problem with our football. who built the team? the team is showing lots of promise and you want the coaching staff sacked? do you think most of the foreign born players would have join if not for Rohr? the man did a great job.

Ganiyat72:

My fellow yoruba muslim brother this meeting by great Igbo tribe pain us no bi small, but dont drink otapipia like pa Awo did.

olodo if u no fit think well u blind no? I am none of the things you call. you hate filled cowardly Niccur. hiding behind female handle funny dude

Wow. Great commendable effort by the ibos this is why they're number one in Nigeria. after this meeting I am sure they will come back carry there states for head back to US to join the US since Israel as rejected them I am sure Trump might even send some F16s to help with the moving. lol this people funny die

this won't be soccer it will be a massacre

the guy is on a whole new level and ryt now he is way above messi. i am not a fan of Ronaldo but his stats are just crazy of recent. Dam n wish the guy will slow down. obviously ain't happening anytime soon.

okay it's kind of good to know he can be humble too. but whether he likes it or not to most folks he is underperforming and to up his games. Dribbles don't win games, goals do.
#lalasticlala mynd44 frontpage

Tamarapetty:
If nigeria wins this cup, i'll walk around naked for 2 months

please will you also walk around naked for one day if Nigeria wins today? Abel where you dey stay make I come confirm