₦airaland Forum

1stola: Should I come and pay your bride price?

Mhm billion naira

djeezy: Why do I have this feeling that op is a guy.

Fxck you

I just turned 22 and still single. I'm debating if I should get into the market Meanwhile I have this dude that has been chasing me around everytime he sees me. The last time we've talked I didn't hear from him except only when we see each other at church because he gets all glowy and whatever.I've been watching some guys but it's hard for me to talk to a guy upfront because of my 'no chase' mindset. I think I'm ready...hopefully. Do I give the other guy a chance? He's always bothering me and acts like he is focused into me then he makes no move lol

I had one guy try to rush me and we were getting to know each other. I ignored his calls and never text or called him. So disrespectful smh

forix4u: You only told us u don't know how to go about romance but that those tell if u r still a virgin... I wonder if we still have virgins @18 let alone 22...d annoying tin is u don't even know ur true age, how can u say u r 20-22 and not even 20-21... I don't advice persons who aren't truthful and straight because u don't get d metamorphic truth about d real situation and won't know where exactly to plc ur judgment. So girl try be straight and forward.

Did i say i was a virgin? And i wrote that because i didn't want to reveal my true age at first till after i editted my profile. Try again smart a55

What is your age limt or preference when dating? 25+ won't work for me lol

Rolled a mean joint for him

I'm a sports fanatics and I own mostly sports games? Any tips on better games in that category. I love brain exercising games too. I get pretty bored fast so it must be a catchy fast paced game. Yup I'm a hardcore female gamer

Real niggas would not make a suspect post like this so we know they are "real". Walks past-

If was to get tatted i'll get the mandala tattoos

guente02: Having said all that what should we do? And why do i see the op's first post as racism. Hmm God help Us on NL

I'm sorry please explain to me how my first post refers to racism dummy?

Can't trust any man nowadays. Most of these fools can't afford condoms but want a hit Where are the good ones at? All I know is that:

fiji water for the thirsty brothers

lol ya'll slow man. It's called an education. i can speak ghetto English but I choose to talk like I have common sense.

Too desperate. You won't find him at the rate your going or be impregnated for love.

Join the navy. After you can retire and enjoy your life in the US and take your board exam to be a nurse there.

LMAO! I'll be confused a bit and wonder the hell he wants. If he's friendly I'll listen. If it is about nonesense I'll make an excuse and be gone.

I knew that :/ Why would I upload my picture in a forum full of anonymous?

ITbomb: Hmm, I was enjoying the story eagerly waiting for where the boy would place a kiss and the girl return, then they UnCloth and curtains fall.
But alas, here is a super shy boy and a naive nerdy girl, may God help the two of una

I am not naive at all. I just don't like my time wasted you know?

Onlinebizexpert: singing

this kain gal ooooooooooooo i neva see your type oooooo


this kain gal ooooooooo na mumu wey dey worry u

Thank you for the song. Sadly I'm not in any worry

runzlord: Okay. The first thing you need to learn is
PISHURE or we don't believe you

I don't understand what "PISHURE" is sirs/ma'ams

ITbomb: Nice one
I wonder if you are for 'submission to husband' or 'equal rights and feminism'

Ofcourse submission to your husband. That's how you get your blessings. Respect your man

It feels good connecting back with my people. I am very happy this thread exists so I can be able to learn more about my people. I decided to create an account in this forum. I am 21 year old female that's currently living in the US as a computer engineering major. i graduate next year. The things I see from younger naija sisters today is so sad. The culture here is tearing this generation apart for real man :/ I'm glad my parents sent me home at a younger age to learn a bit of where I am from. I am AFRICAN not black.

I think I'll friend zone so he can sweat. Thank you so much for the wise words!

CRIESS- LOOL!

Please don't make a fun of this because I'm new to this love stuff. I'm in my early 20s(20-22 aroundish) but the problem is I don't know how to innitiate in a romantic relationship. Growing up I've never really took notice to look at boys. I was usually focused in my life, etc.

To get to the chase:

There's this one guy I used to and still is I attended church together. He always spoke different from the group except for all the "like" he says alot that's a bit annoying. And by different I mean he has a vocabulary of a college professor. SERIOUSLY that made me a hot chill down my stomach. I was impressed and shocked and its not only that, he's sexy as hell. coughs- But recently I've noticed he's been trying to approach me for a couple of months now. Even if it were whenever he sees he gets REALLY excited me and I'll try to be friendly and talk back. He says he'll call which I got some days or about a week later? I see him at church AGAIN and he apologizes about how he had to drive his younger sisters and something about his family phone plan blah blah so I said ok and let that go. He calls me that night and the next night and we talk and I never go any more calls for like a week and the same occurring pattern goes on. Then this past Sunday he follows me after church happy to see me and greets me AGAIN and I sigh cuz this was getting very aggrivating. He texts me some days that following week and calls me on saturday evening. We talked for the rest of the night getting to know each other till 3 or 4 am on Sunday. I felt some hope after this because I wanted more from him. He had me hooked after the good convo we had. On Sunday he looked for me so we can meet up but he came with his ma so he came very late and we couldn't meet up but we talked on the phone till he got home. That evening I told him in text that he was a amazing person and we should hangout when he's free. He replied and agreed. Since then for a week I haven't heard from him.

The thing is he is super shy and I know this because my family knows his family and are a bit close. I don't want to feel like I'm eager but I really am interested in him. I feel stuck because this will go on and in for months if he doesn't make a move. I know for sure it won't be long when I'll tell his ass off and stop the games cuz I'm not with BOYS and their games. He says he's a man and is still to prove it to me. I'm here to ask if I should forget him.and tell him straight to get his act together or give it another month..I'm sorry if this may be too long lol