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Politics / Re: Amaechi Became Governor Without Participating In Election by Alphafeezay(m): 8:54am On Mar 31, 2022 |
VladimirPutiin: Audu Ogbeh is Alive my brother, Audu Abubakar you mean. |
Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello Stands On Vehicle To Maintain Order At APC Convention (Video) by Alphafeezay(m): 3:51pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Action Man 4 Likes |
Family / Re: What I Experienced In Dei Die Market Today by Alphafeezay(m): 6:31pm On Mar 22, 2022 |
Biko what is Bianca?. |
Career / Men In Your 30s, Read This; by Alphafeezay(m): 4:56pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Hi Nairalanders, I came across this inspiring thread on twitter, I sure know this will help someone. Read and enjoy. 1) You love yourself more than other people but care for their opinions more than yours. Cut this shit out. Seek counsel not validation. Ruthlessly filter advice based on the competence of the individual. Listen to old wise men. 2) Everything you are hoping to achieve, you can have. Provided you get started today. Tomorrow will never come. Start right now. Learn as you go, you will never be ready. Baby steps. 3) To have stability in life you need a stable goal. To be consistent you need to consistently work for something. You cannot float around doing bits and hope for rigidity. This will fail. Have a goal and consistently work towards it. 4) Your soul knows. Listen to your conscience. Often you rationalise things to appeal to your logic. Stop hamstering. Have a personal relationship with your conscience and keep it clean. 5) Feeling human emotions makes you human. Cut out the tough guy act. It's okay to feel anger, grief, jealousy.. don't dwell on them. Move on quickly. Don't display it for the world to see. Don't cry before your wife or child. Do it when it's just you. Everyone does. 6) Anybody who is judging you is desperately trying to keep his flaws from peeking out from the shadows. This does not mean you don't judge people. Evaluate based on what they bring to the table. 7) a lof of youth have 'anxiety' these days and flaunt it around like it's hip. Workout, meditate, stop porn, eat right, catch the sun, socialize and stay away from substances. Work on a purpose. No more anxiety. Medical conditions are very rare. Live with honour. Do not let an unfortunate experience tarnish your character. To do injustice is to degrade yourself. Avoid it. 9) Do not reject materialism. Cars and mansions are not the problem. Its how much value you assign to them. You can live in an estate and still have the mindset of a monk. Do not be attached to them. They are fleeting pleasures. Instead seek experiences that enrich you. 10) if you are in a terrible spot and have lost a lot. Think of yourself as dead and reborn with a chance to start over again. Now take whatever you have left and build it back brick by brick. Its all about perspectives. 11) All events are cyclical. Its all happened before in one form or another. Look for patterns and your understanding of the world will be much better. Do not follow trends, usually they are manufactured with an agenda to mislead. 12) Never lose sight of what's important. Family. Most of the things you do should be to build one and nourish it for a fulfilling life. Use the rest to enhance your families quality of life. No greatness in activism when the family is suffering. 13) Irrespective of praise or recognition your job is to strive for mastery. Whatever you do, do it to be the best. Do not expect people to notice when you begin, or even when you are halfway. People flock to clap only for the end product. The road to it is lonely but crucial. 14) Never run from adversity. This is your trial by fire. This is how you build resilience and toughen your hide. Most of you are too soft to every understand what testing your mettle really means. Face your demons with fire in your eyes and a blade in hand. 15) Motivation? It is emotional and will last for a day at most. Build habits and systems, this is what transforms lives. I've seen this over and over with my clients.. daily incremental changes and replacing bad habits with better ones will change your life. 16) Do not let failure derail your train. Most of life is a game of momentum. It will carry you very far if you build up to it. Do this with daily victories that compound over time. If you fail, bounce back and keep pushing. Never stop the train. 17) There is nothing that can happen to you that you cannot endure. Whatever shitshow you are currently in, someone else is in deeper waters and dealing with worse. Suck it up, battle it out. Make a plan, use all resources you have, pull yourself out of the deep end. 18) Do not wallow in self pity. Take every L with a fighters mentality. It sucks that this happened, NO. Its great that this happened and you survived it. This is the way of the warrior. Bleep pity and excuses. Those things blunt your sword. 19) There is a lot of randomness and chaos in the universe. Don't try to make sense of everything that happens. Just accept it, learn from it and move on. Avoid stagnation. 20) Do not disregard religion as a fools endeavour. Believing in a certain god is not what's important. It is the act of belief that is powerful. It drives revolutions, changes the fabric of society. Believe in something. Have faith. Derive strength from it. It is infinite 21) You are alive in this moment and this moment alone. Everything else is an illusion. Past is gone, future is uncertain. Your entire existence is in this singular infinitesimal point in time. Your life is just an aggregate of points like this. Make every moment count. 22) Your thoughts lead you to destinations. What you think about determines the quality of life you live. Stop watching the news, get off social media and do something, build something, learn something, teach something. Do this for 3 months and see how beautiful life is. 23) Do not confuse improbable with impossible. Do not assume impossible when it's just extremely difficult. All great acts that call for glory start with humble beginnings and relentless pursuit for excellence. Never forget this. 24) Life is not black and white. There is always a grey area. Give people the benefit of doubt before you box them in. This is lost in society. People are quick to label and cancel. Slow to comprehend and understand. An all time low for humanity. Be better. 25) Get our of your head. You think too much and do too little. Always in perpetual limbo. Start with what you have right now and build as you go. Learn along the way. You will never be perfect. 26) Too much knowledge accumulation is just another cope for inaction. Get the bare essentials necessary to do your job, get started and get better. 27) A majority of what happens to you is out of your locus of control. Work on controlling your mind and you will learn how to deal with them much better. This is how you find strength. 28) Every morning wake up with a joy for life, a curiosity to explore the day and a drive to accomplish something. If you don't feel this way evaluate what's stopping you from it. 29) It's never a mistake to say I don't know. Do not pretend to know something you have no clue about. You come off as a clown and lose credibility. Maintain your integrity. 30) you don't need too much to be happy. Health, decent money and a family is what most of us long for. Its not wrong to want more. Its encouraged to be ambitious. That's how civilizations grow. Just some thoughts I put down before you enter into the weekend. Have a good one my friends. May the universe shower you with fair winds. Source: https://twitter.com/SpartanPsyche/status/1502277038782222343?t=6f_RtLcF-3Ltu5fRjbd1gQ&s=19 @SpartanPsyche 2 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: 2023: South South Stakeholders Receive Bello Ambassadors, Declare Support by Alphafeezay(m): 7:27pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Interesting.... Yahaya Bello A force for 2023!!! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Anniversary: BAN Is Nigeria's Biggest Movement - Yahaya Bello Ambassadors by Alphafeezay(m): 2:30pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Like play like play, over 3m members!!! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: Pharmacist Asuku: That Rallying Point For Nigerian Youths - Best Agbese by Alphafeezay(m): 2:27pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
Asuku is the definition of kindness and humility 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Advise Me Like A Brother Please by Alphafeezay(m): 10:00pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Help her, also congratulations for marrying a good wife. God bless your home always. |
Business / Re: 5 Years Without Strike: Kogi State Students Thank Yahayo Bello by Alphafeezay(m): 6:10pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Legalcriminal: The things being "packaged" about him, are they true or false? 2 Likes |
Properties / Re: LASG Arrests Developer Of Yaba Collapsed Building by Alphafeezay(m): 10:22am On Feb 13, 2022 |
Medicine after death, as usual. RIP to the dead 22 Likes |
Politics / Re: 2 Influential Politicians In APC Who May Defeat Tinubu In 2023 APC Primaries by Alphafeezay(m): 6:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Yahaya Bello Will beat Tinubu. Quote me 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: APC State Legislators Endorse Yahaya Bello For 2023 Presidency, Mobilise Support by Alphafeezay(m): 9:40am On Feb 08, 2022 |
My eyes poppin' These legislators are statutory delegates oh..... Bello is Game!!! 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: 2023: Rescue Nigeria Mission Holds Townhall Meeting In Kano For Yahaya Bello by Alphafeezay(m): 8:11am On Feb 07, 2022 |
North to South, East to West, Yahaya Bello is ringing all round. |
Phones / Re: What Is The Weirdest Name You Saved Someone's Number With? by Alphafeezay(m): 2:51pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Mine is very long oh.... 1. Elijah Garki Tailor 10 Yards. 2. John Best Ford Mechanic Apo |
Politics / Re: 2023: South East Stakeholders Drive Support For Yahaya Bello's Presidency by Alphafeezay(m): 11:44am On Feb 05, 2022 |
See the real politicians, stakeholders, party executives and political actors rooting for Bello. This is politics. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello Halts Schedule To See People With Disabilities (Video) by Alphafeezay(m): 5:40pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Bello is down to earth and identifies with all., He is the Chairman of APC Committee on Youth, Women and People living with disabilities. |
Politics / Re: Laolu Akande Recalls Osinbajo's Helicopter Crash 3 Years After by Alphafeezay(m): 11:35am On Feb 02, 2022 |
God saved this guy!!!! We for don forget him matter since. 43 Likes 4 Shares |
Family / Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Alphafeezay(m): 11:21am On Feb 02, 2022 |
I really hope she reads this. I also really hope someone who passed through same situation and she's better off today can share her experience. Now, my advice is this, let her know the deep shit she has put herself considering the guy's mother, the family, and the present status of the guy., now is she really ready to settle with the guy and such family?. Also, she needs to start life afresh, get her a new location, or city away from the guy on agreed terms. She will need a skill to start earning money for herself, she can get this if you push this story far on social media. As for your dad, Congratulations to him on being a granddad |
Politics / Re: 2023: South East Bello Ambassadors Issue Communique From Town Hall Meeting by Alphafeezay(m): 4:21pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
This is the politics, consultations and alignments. Bello 2023 is sure 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: 2023 Presidential Hopefuls And Time Wasters (Opinion) by Alphafeezay(m): 9:12am On Jan 30, 2022 |
NaijaCowFarm: You are a learner. Focus on cow rearing please 2 Likes |
Health / Doctors, Physicians Or Spiritualists: Who Can Explain This? by Alphafeezay(m): 7:25am On Jan 30, 2022 |
Hi Nairalanders, During harmattan, there is this electrifying shock I experience each time my hands touch car door handle, or any metals, handshake, my bedsheets also keep sparkling with this electrifying currents. I believe some of us here experience it too, so who can explain the cause?
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Politics / Re: 2023: Nigeria Needs Yahaya Bello - Rescue Naija Mission (Video) by Alphafeezay(m): 5:42pm On Jan 29, 2022 |
Nigeria needs a youthful President, a detribalised leader. Nigeria needs rescue from insecurity, Bello is the answer. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Bello Ambassadors Meet South East Stakeholders, Get Support For Yahaya Bello by Alphafeezay(m): 8:42am On Jan 27, 2022 |
See young people abeg..... the youths are ready for Bello. 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Abdulsalami Reveals How Abacha Was Discovered Dead by Alphafeezay(m): 1:40pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
The news was at first unbelievable...., God above everything. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: JAMB Rejects Apology Of Timipade Kemepade, Candidate Who Cheated 21 Years Ago by Alphafeezay(m): 12:05pm On Jan 24, 2022 |
You see why God is the most Merciful? Thank you Jesus. 143 Likes 6 Shares |
Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello Watches Super Eagles Win Against Sudan (Video) by Alphafeezay(m): 7:38pm On Jan 15, 2022 |
Bello for President. Youth O'clock |
Agriculture / Re: What Is The Name Of This Fruit? by Alphafeezay(m): 1:03pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Fruit 3 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: North Central Lawmakers Endorse Yahaya Bello For President, Stand With Buni by Alphafeezay(m): 8:08am On Jan 14, 2022 |
Na Bello we know oh!!! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: Must I Be Vaccinated Before I Can Fly Within Nigeria by Alphafeezay(m): 12:14pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
4everEdward: Edward, you just wan tell us say you wan go Russia, OP is talking about Local/Domestic flight ✈ 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Must I Be Vaccinated Before I Can Fly Within Nigeria by Alphafeezay(m): 12:12pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
tyup: Yeah wetin? |
Travel / Re: Must I Be Vaccinated Before I Can Fly Within Nigeria by Alphafeezay(m): 12:11pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Nope 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello Hails His Aide And Youngest Appointtee In Nigeria (Video) by Alphafeezay(m): 3:34pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
This means a Yahaya Bello's government is a government of the youth. Nigerian youths, which other chance do we have? 16 Likes 2 Shares |
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