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Na Bello we know oh!!!

4everEdward:
Better go and vaccinate if not you will miss your flight, I miss my flight to Russia because of this vaccination

Edward, you just wan tell us say you wan go Russia, OP is talking about Local/Domestic flight ✈

tyup:
Yeah

Yeah wetin?

Nope

This means a Yahaya Bello's government is a government of the youth.

Nigerian youths, which other chance do we have?

fluffybaby:
I have heard you my great grand child

May your days be long, amen.

officialtonnie:
This man is always there for young people
The young boy is not even from Kogi state.
God bless Yahaya Bello for this

Exactly, Governor Bello doesn't care where you are from or the religion you practice. Always there for young people

Wow....

Wetin God go use bless you dey your hand. Depends on how you want to use it.

God bless Yahaya Bello

Prayer is a necessary ritual, amen to their prayers

Pictures don't lie....

This place was an eyesore but look what Gov Yahaya Bello has made of it.

May his soul rest in peace. Amen

My brother/Sister please pat your tithe.

Since its not a sin or an abomination to pay your tithe, It is better to err on the side of caution.

michlins:
I know. How many views does he rack up

My brother, the time you spend doubting his achievements is enough for you to start your own career to build your mansion.

These guys are heavily paid o...

One of the saddest moments of 2021.

May his soul rest in peace. Amen

True.
He is the only youth with money, experience, guts and all apparatus for elections.

Yahaya Bello as president means we will have youths as ministers for Sports, Communication and effective security.
The earlier we realise this the better for us.

Come collect na

Graceful

Lovely..... Congratulations to them

Likewise no perfect wife........ make we just dey manage ourselves dey go.

If you carry your own come social media we go laugh you tire.

We need the Ghanaian 20222 Prophesy policy abeg.

Swear for am back. I hate nonsense abeg

fluffybaby:
I asked a simple question if a man had made a post lamenting about his babe dumping him for his bff a week before their wedding, will you children ask for the other side of the story before you start shouting hoes ain't loyal up and down the streets of NL?

Granny, calm down.

Stargurl20:
If the reverse was the case na, u won't request a single detail before bashing the lady. U see this hypocrisy ehn.... I pray it won't be the end of u Nairaland's men someday.

Auntie be calming down, so you want to start judging from just headline?... no details? Whether it's a man or woman, we need details and mind you, I am not a fan of gender wars please

fluffybaby:
But if a man comes out to say how his bae dumped him for his bestie a week to their wedding we will not need to hear details before we start shouting ...hoes ain't loyal

I can never be caught in gender wars,.... like I said, we need details before we judge here on social media....

Is that all?.... we need details before we set up the Social media jury

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

I like the last sentence. Thank you

Abujason:
Na who send you?

Abujafather

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