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Your brain is designed to be always working except when you're sleeping.

Whenever you're not assigning any task to the brain, the brain sees it as a time to do its hobbies.

So, you start working for your brain instead. (how shameful?)

These hobbies are often activities that causes rise in dopamine. In most cases, bad habits.

Might be smoking, drinking, masturbation and others.

You've probably heard of the proverb "An idle mind is the devil's workshop"

The above proverb is nothing but the truth.

When you're idle, you're under utilizing your ability to chase your dreams and ambitions.

Hence, giving the responsibility of being productive to your brain.

Productive people are never idle.

Ambitious people are productive.

This is not even about consistency, yet.

This is about you being productive and doing something for yourself and NOT your brain.

Even when you doing things like resting, engage your brain by doing deliberate activities like reading and entertainment.

Until you keep your mind busy, you'll keep working for your brain.

Yeah, at some point. But you have to grow out of it.

Benki003:
Angry is an understatement am disappointed

Yeah, it was a learning phase for your today.

Sweetvie:
Smile... we all make mistakes in the past but we got to move on...
I was never really angry with my past,mayb disappointed
Anytime i thought abt it i just feel m too naive

Yeah, I was lucky to have him.

Sekoni003:
Your pops was a wise man

No, it's not.

Let me know what you find funny.

Youngpo413:
What? Is this supposed to be a joke?

And how did you know I didn't listen to him?

Bluezy13:
You heard him.
You didn't listen to him.
You told me what you heard.

Same sex marriage is madness.

Only a mad person will be attracted to same gender.

Andres28:
TOKYO, June 20 (Reuters) - A Japanese court ruled on Monday that a ban on same-sex marriage was not unconstitutional, dealing a setback to LGBTQ rights activists in the only Group of Seven nation that does not allow people of the same gender to marry.

The ruling dashes activists' hopes of raising pressure on the central government to address the issue after a court in the city of Sapporo in March 2021 decided in favour of a claim that not allowing same-sex marriage was unconstitutional.

Three same-sex couples - two male, one female - had filed the case in a district court in Osaka, only the second to be heard on the issue in Japan.


In addition to rejecting their claim that being unable to marry was unconstitutional, the court threw out their demand for 1 million yen ($7,400) in damages for each couple.

"I actually wonder if the legal system in this country is really working," said plaintiff Machi Sakata, who married her U.S.-citizen partner in the United States. The two are expecting a baby in August.

"I think there's the possibility this ruling may really corner us," Sakata said.

Japan's constitution defines marriage as being based on "the mutual consent of both sexes". But the introduction of partnership rights for same-sex couples in Tokyo last week, along with rising support in opinion polls, had raised the hopes of activists and lawyers for the Osaka case.

The Osaka court said that marriage was defined as being only between opposite genders and not enough debate on same-sex marriage had taken place in Japanese society.


"We emphasised in this case that we wanted same-sex couples to have access to the same things as regular couples," said lawyer Akiyoshi Miwa, adding that they would appeal.

ECONOMIC IMPLICATIONS
Japanese law is considered relatively liberal in some areas by Asian standards, but across the continent only Taiwan has legalised same-sex marriage.

Under current rules in Japan, members of same-sex couples are not allowed to legally marry, cannot inherit each other's assets - such as a house they may have shared - and also have no parental rights over each other's children.


Though partnership certificates issued by some municipalities help same-sex couples rent property together and have hospital visitation rights, they do not give them the full legal rights enjoyed by heterosexual couples.

Last week, the Tokyo prefectural government passed a bill to recognise same-sex partnership agreements, meaning local governments covering more than half of Japan's population now offer such recognition.



While Prime Minister Fumio Kishida has said the issue needs to be carefully considered, his ruling Liberal Democratic Party has disclosed no plans to review the matter or propose legislation, though some senior party members favour reform.

An upcoming case in Tokyo will keep alive public debate on the issue, particularly in the capital, where an opinion poll by the local government late last year found some 70% of people were in favour of same-sex marriage.



Legalising same-sex marriage would have far-reaching implications both socially and economically, activists say, and would help attract foreign firms to the world's third-biggest economy.

"International firms are reviewing their Asian strategy and LGBTQ inclusivity is becoming a topic," said Masa Yanagisawa, head of prime services at Goldman Sachs and a board member of the activist group Marriage for all Japan, speaking before the verdict.

International businesses don't want to invest in a location that isn't LGBTQ-friendly."


https://www.reuters.com/world/asia-pacific/japan-court-rules-barring-same-sex-marriage-not-unconstitutional-lgbtq-rights-2022-06-20/

Failure is inevitable. So, you fit plan make e no work.

Uzomacharles:
Moral Lesson: Don't Fail

You won't get this experience of mine if I didn't.

Bluezy13:
And you made the old man think you were listening to him.

Be a good father.

There's shortage of them.

Asceleb16:
Wow! I'm wowed by this

wish i could have a good father

Well, mine didn't.

Datboredberri:
My granddad would have used well rope to flog you...

You should know what a simp means first. You sound dumb.

Cypress042:
There's high probability you're still Simping now

No, I started learning what being a man means at 15.

Bluntguy:
So you started simping at fifteen?

If only you can dig up the past and right your wrong, I would have advised you to spend every minute of your day fantasizing about the changes you will make. Same goes for the future.

Sadly, none of it is possible.

You being angry about your past, shows that you're yet to achieve the things you've dreamt of in the past.

Life is a two edged sword.

The anger you're feeling now, can be replaced with happiness by looking at the same thing that caused the anger with a different perspective.

When you spend time living in the past or being anxious for the future, you're giving out the second chance that life has given you willingly.

Living in the past raises all types of negative feelings.

Pasts are meant to be learnt from and not loving it over and over again.

What happened in the past was meant to happen and no matter how hard you try to change it, you'll fail.

You want to have a better past? Then, start living today. Within a twinkle of an eye, your today becomes your tomorrow.

Take charge and make yourself happy today.

When I was 15 years old or there about.

I got my heart broken and I was looking all sad and moody, that everyone knew something was wrong with me.

My father called me to his room one day. I kept asking myself "what have you done this time. " I knocked on his door and he said "come in" In his deep, low voice.

When I opened the door, he was sitting on his old wooden chair in front of his table that was filled with books.

He said "I heard you're moody because of a girl" He's warned me about lieing several times so, lieing in this situation is like pouring fuel to a burning fire. I said "Yes sir"

I was taken aback by his next question that I couldn't help but stare at him with my mouth wide open. "what did you learn?" He said.

I didn't say anything so, he continued. You're 15 years old, turning into a man already and you couldn't learn anything from something that is controlling your emotion?

He told me to sit down beside him. Emotions is an inseparable part of you. So, I can't tell you to ditch it entirely.

You and your emotions are like a hand and a car steering.

However, having no control over your emotions turns you into a car steering that is getting controlled by a hand (your emotions).

Anyone that can control your emotions automatically becomes the hand that controls the steering (you).

Always being the one in control of your emotions. Doesn't mean their won't be slip offs, but when you expect it, it prevents you from becoming disappointed or act irrationally.

As you turn into a man, the world will continue to give you options to either control your emotions or regret it after coming back to your senses.

#HappyFathersDay

That's really cruel of him.

But i'm sad for both the husband and wife.

There's something wrong with your marriage honestly.

Now that a religious leader has said it, hopefully these feminists will do the right thing for themselves and their children.

AlphalabTV.

What do you do?

You've been dating for 3 years and she shared her nudes to a man while you're together. That is not enough reason?

You told her to delete the guys contact and not to send him money she still refused.

Wait till she tells you to give her some money to feed the man fucking her behind your back before you break up with her (she's trying to do it already).

The blackmail is a plan work believe it or not.

If you mistakenly marry her, be ready to train children that are not yours.

Agurichman:
Please dear nairalanders I need an advice on this very topic .
I have a girlfriend and we have been together for 3 years now ,we've not had any big quarrels of fight and mind you I'm a gentle person,we love each other very much but she claims her love is more than mine ,let's get to the story .
I was sorting out my school assignment last week when I received a call from my girlfriend telling me that she wanted to see me urgently,I was very scared with the way she sounded and so i gave her directions to CBT center I was doing my assignment,when we finally got home ,she then told me to please forgive her that she sent her nude pics and a video to an unknown person and that the person is blackmailing her with the content to put it online,and that they are asking for a ransome and that if not they will put the contents online.
After much pleading I decided to forgive her but gave an instruction to delete all contact relating to the fraudster and that she shouldn't sent any money to them but to my greatest surprise she called me this morning to tell me that she just sent them the money and I'm very mad right now ,I'm not picking since that mmorning ,I feel like ending the relationship,please I need advice

This is really sad.

A man that thinks with his penis is not worthy of being called a man.

I really hope he is punished in accordance to the law of the country.

#Saynotorape

If you can't keep her, then you're not worthy to have her.

Besides,virginity is not the only criteria.

However,I'll choose a virgin any day and she'll gag on ONLY my cock.

AlphaAlex:
Lol how do you know if your virgin will not become a prostitute when she’s not in your presence, that’s all I’m asking , how will you know she won’t be fucking someone else and skill fully keep you from knowing? You think because you took her virginity she will belong to you forever? Lol man y’all niggas are delusional though

Yeah, I did.

Sorry about that.

Kollins11:
You qoute the wrong moniker Dude!

Them never born any nigerian girl wey go play me like mumu just like the way them play op.

What are you smoking dude?

Aren't we saying the same thing?

As for virgins, that'll be a talk for another day.

And if you don't appreciate virgins, then go and get married to a prostitute.

AlphaAlex:
[b] Well duuhhhhhhhhh of course she’s not a Virgin of course she’s getting bleeped by numerous men , any girl who is not a Virgin is getting fûcked by numerous men let that sink in deep , the moment she loses her virginity no matter who she loses it to she starts her sexual journey, how can you be walking around life thinking women are not getting fûcked by numerous men there’s no way on earth any one woman has only Bleep just one man all her life unless the she fücked him and died that day open your Eyes To reality even the virgins you weak men praise so much will get bleeped by several other men . Wake up y’all have been sleeping for too long Lol you guys are just hoping you will find a “good girl Virgin “ even if you do once she’s out of your sights can you vouch for what she does with her body ? Better wake up and move past sex it’s nothing unless you haven’t been getting enough of it . Women are busy living life and you are worried about what they do with their pussies that’s just weak[/b]

The fact that you couldn't think about this,means you don't deserve the pussy.

Because I don't know how you think she's been having orgasms.

Stallionhorse:
Omo! Thank God for omo, my mumu clear last night thank you to the heavy down pour that lasted three days in Lagos.. So guys I have this cute female neighbor she is a mother of 2 divorced, i thing 8n her early 40s she is a beautician she only goes out when she has jobs.. Over the past 8 months she always tell me to buy Duracell battery for her she always use one excuse I never took It to consideration that its for her Love Machine and vibrator. Until yesterday morning she asked me to get her some and I forgot cause of the rain. When I came back she chatted me up if I bought them I said no. She said she wants to come and see me so she can collect movies from my system.. Guys the rest is story she left my house this morning as early as 5am before her kids wake up.. In the night after the third round she confessed that real dick feels better that for two years she hasn't tasted a real dick, that the batteries I always buy for her is for her Love Machine nd vibrator. Bro the thing shock me!!
I'm still amazed Till now.. I for dey chop this kpekus since if to say I wise.. But mumu me kept bringing battery for rubber to enjoy.. Lol..

Is this the first time you're dating a girl?

If not, then you really bleeped up by not learning your lesson.

You can't make a woman to be loyal to you.

For a woman to be loyal to you,she has to respect you and be ready to be loyal.

Move on man, their are a lot of women out there that are ready to choke on your cum.

Let me tell you a secret, she will always cheat on you (ALWAYS)

Kollins11:
I thought you said you've moved on with your life and you have a new girlfriend?? So why are you trying to eat back your vomit?

If I were you.. I would accept your ex-girlfriend back, turn her to sex machine.. I would fvck her like an animal every morning and night till I'm satisfied, I would make sure she do abortion for me like 7 times, I would make sure I waste her precious time, I swear I'm gonna deceive her big time.

But while doing so, I would make sure i secretly focus on my new girlfriend, treat her like a queen, I won't make her perceive something fishy about me and my ex-girlfriend.

Then, after my marriage introduction with my new girlfriend.. I'm gonna dump my ex-girlfriend smelling sorry ass. Let her go and settle down with a SIMPle man.

Bro please take my advice.. This is how you treat a Nigerian girl.

If she's not showing you her hoe side and she's not a virgin, she's getting bleeped by numerous men.

Wise up.

AlphaAlex:

If she’s Not with you 100 percent of the time , Please tell me How you can Control what she does with her Body How ??

Gentlemen Take it or Leave it you can only control what she does with your Time that’s why you don’t let her waste it , you cannot Control a woman unless she decides to be under your Leadership and even at that she is still in control of what she does she’s just following your Rules at the moment, The woman is not yours you cannot own her she is her own person she can only show you a higher degree of Cooperation And Respect and that’s how you know she Likes Being with you

Every Woman Has the potential to be a Whorê she might be one now and you will never know because of the way she acts around you, stop being pained she’s not showing you her Hoe side Find the one that will show it to you without stress. It’s that simple if she’s not cooperating find the one that will stop hating on her because she didn’t cooperate with you. That’s Bitch behaviour

If you can't get a girl without money, something is wrong with you.

And even when you finally have the money and you get the girl, she'll only be with you for the money while she bleeps other guys.

Women won't help you to fix what's wrong with you.

You have to do it yourself.

Burdenbearer:
Hi guys. As we all know, to be a man is damn hard and it is not a days job. Let's face, Naija ladies will hardly date nor marry a guy whose earning isn't big or enough. So, i ask: Apart from me, who else money is hindering from get married or to even have a Gf? As u know, no matter how intelligent or educated u are, if u are not financially bouyant, Naija ladies don't give a damn abt u.

Might be a waste of effort.

Because a woman that got inked, not considering the future and her family is not a wife material.

He who fails to plan, plans to fail.

Your ancestors, won't go to a war/battleground without planning (even when they're getting attacked).

Now, the world is civilized and you don't have to go to wars yourself (except if you're NOT a civilian of course).

What you don't know is that your life is now the battleground.

Because, the war is YOU against YOU.

And you must to plan to win.

Planning gives you a sense of direction.

Planning is basically a bridge to your goals.

While discipline is the walk you do on the bridge.

Discipline will never be effective without planning.

Discipline requires direction and that's what planning does.

When you plan, you take away others ability to determine the outcome of what you do.

Planning isn't just sitting all day thinking.

Planning is figuring out what you need to do first and then thread on that part and plan as you go.

Every successful man in this world, planned to get to where they are today.

Even the ones doing illegal stuffs have to plan to do it successfully.

AlphalabTV.

You call this fashion?

Y'all try so stupid things all in the name of wokeness and new generation.

Well said brother.

Most of the guys that chat like this actually live a boring life.

So, they use the girls as an avenue to convince themselves that they have a better life.

czarr:
Guys should know that chatting should be very brief. Chatting is not an avenue to entertain girls, and try to make them like you. It hardly works. Chatting is a place to arrange a meet up. If you have already introduced yourselves. Ask her if she wants to meet up/hang out. If she gives excuses stop chatting with her. Don't block her stop chatting with her.

A lot of girls are looking for jesters/clowns to try to entertain them during chats even when they know they don't plan on meeting you or sleeping with you, they just want someone to make them laugh. Don't be that guy. They'll dangle the possibility of sex over your head but they always find an excuse not to meet up.

While you are trying to be entertaining Via chat, the guy pounding her out is not even responding to her chat. so she comes to the Simp online to make herself feel better and wanted. She uses her online simps to build self esteem so she can go fvck the attractive guy who doesn't care to chat with her.

Nuff said.

Well said!

You have limited women at your reach. The more women you talk to the more women you're likely to smash.