Madcow:


It's obvious you are an unintelligent homosexual in denial... you disgust me because you lost not only your intelligence but your humanity... I feel for your parents/people who invested in you

dont feel for my parents. Feel for yours and have sympathy on them when fùcking a fellow mans butt. People like u live in denial off nairaland and come here to accuse everyone against ur perverted lifestyle as a closet case.

Since you're a proud homo, go tell ur parents.

Ome ale jati

Madcow:
Everyone celebrating this savage killing is propably gay and in denial

When people are faced with situations in life that cause anxiety, they often react to them with certain subconscious defense mechanisms. These psychoanalytical mechanisms include familiar tactics such as memory repression, denial and regression. But the one I find most intriguing in this case is called reaction formation.

Reaction formation is defined as a psychological defense mechanism by which a repressed impulse is expressed in an opposite or contrasting behavior. In other words, if something in your life is making you feel anxious, you may react to that thing excessively harshly in order to deal with that internal anxiety.

In terms of the anti-gay movement, this means that if a person has homosexual feelings within his or her self, which they haven’t accepted, he or she will cope with the anxiety by excessively acting out against homosexuality. This mechanism has made itself known time and time again within the anti-gay realm. Several outspoken anti-gay politicians, religious figures and counselors have either been found to exhibit homosexual tendencies or have actually come out themselves.

One prominent example is of U.S. Sen. Larry Craig. Craig’s a vehemently anti-gay politician who voted in favor of many discriminatory laws, which actually made society more dangerous for LGBT individuals, such as laws that disallow penalties for hate crimes against them. In 2007, Craig was arrested for engaging in inappropriate conduct and attempting to initiate sex with a policeman in a bathroom stall. Craig denies being gay to this day and although he pleaded guilty in court he continues to say that he regrets pleading guilty in the case.


Some more optimistic examples of former anti-gay leaders coming out include Kathryn Lehman and Ken Mehlman. Lehman, a Republican staffer who worked against legalization of same-sex marriage and actually helped to write the Defense of Marriage Act, has since come out as a lesbian and is currently a GOP lobbyist attempting to repeal that same law.

Mehlman once held the position of an operative under George W. Bush, and helped orchestrate a platform, which included strong opposition to same-sex marriage. Since then, he has come out as gay and worked to repeal the military’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy He also lobbied to legalize same-sex marriage in a number of states. In an interview, Mehlman commented on coming out publicly, “A big part of one’s brain that used to worry about this issue has now been freed to worry about things that are much more productive.”

Reaction formation is a common defense mechanism within the anti-gay population and is likely to be a huge cause for the continuation of conflict regarding gay prejudice and discrimination. The reasoning behind gay prejudice is still a mystery to me, but as we progress toward a more egalitarian and just society, I will continue to attempt to shed light on the dark places that spawn the hate we see today.

Jessie Gray is a senior Advertising and Public Relations major. Reach her at opinion@dailynebraskan.com or follow her on Twitter @itsjessie.

shutup bastard homo

Hotfreezer:
What if was in a gay relationship and cheated and was killed by his angry lover?

just look at what you're imagining ode

Elijahrona:
As gay, he no try

As a murderer, the person when kill am no try

Who better pass who?

**Drops my coffee and walks away**

the killer, of course.

Die _faggot.

Thank God, I'm so happy right nw

Momcherry:









Nairaland has been taken over by a bunch of untrained, irresponsible kids.
Post pictures of your mothers putting on joggers let's see
What am I even saying, do you have respect for your own mothers? If you do will you ever see a mother and throw insult at her?

shutup bitch!

Georgexx1:
i was in Enugu few days ago and wow.. never knew there was sucha place in Nigeria. so calm and beautiful. The governor is doing well

_faggot

Fat bitch. Unhealthy, le sigh.

Pls recommend a dentist in nigeria, abuja preferably and price

Dirty pig. You'll rot in hell soon

Wuraola01:



Ohh. Alright


Your school should've the required equipments more cos it's a tech uni

ok thanks, so u wont advice changing.

DanDeeBoss:
So na Futminna you dey school ?? ......But I thought Futminna has equipments na.... BTW ABUAD's school fee runs into millions..But if your parents can afford it, then it's OK .

thanks. You wont advise changing sch?

Wuraola01:



What level are you in your current school?

I'm going to 200 level first semester once the strike is called off.

DanDeeBoss:
Why do You want to change??

Bcuz I'm studying elect engr, i dont think my school has the equipment i need to be an expert in this field. My sch is futminna, i want to start all over or transfer (if possible) to abuad

TarOrfeek:


Can your father afford it?

yeah i think

Pls advise

wahza:
I was hoping I did see you in school.... ABUAD is good sha... There's class there

yeah

Four40:

mumu, no go make your own money, clock is ticking

you are a fool. The problem with most Nigerians is what you suffering from idiot. You didnt see the main question on the thread to answer, its this one u can quote bastard.

wahza:

lol... u eh..
u dnt have to depend on them all the time. u can manage and save from the little they give u..
me i dnt depend on my guardian anymore. thou she still gives me something bt em on my own and planning to buy my ride b4 school resume again

wow. Congrats

wahza:

Ure wlc.. Are u still in FUTMinna...

yeah, but i plan on starting afresh in a private uni like abuad thats why I asked, bcuz i was trying to find out my mum's salary, she's so stingy. Always saying no money, let me get hold of her atm first.

Even my dad that gets multimillion contract every month with Lebanese men, I'm planning to find out hw much he has in that account sef. How can a parent have money and still be making their kids feel average.

They must pay my tuition to abuad, rubbish.

wahza:

Yes... LEA oo

ok thanks

wahza:

Between 85-105 depending on your step

level 13

Pls help, I'm trying to find out the salary range of a head teacher

pwetie:
If u r really what you claim to be I'll advice you to stick and stay glued to the Job section, Education, Politics section and Travel section of Nairaland.

That will really help you in the long run. You can get lots of informative threads. rather than spending all day on celebrity nd romance section.

I'm also an eee graduate, with 2.1 cgpa also in Minna axis. Still vying for a Job. But hoping this 2019 brings something good. u can see how competitive it is. And I must say those threads I mentioned above had exposed me to somethings I never knew.

I was wishing I had known Nairaland in my undergraduate days.
There are also internship positions u can apply for when u get to 400level in some of this oil firms...like nlng, shell etc...but u need d right information nd timings... which all of which u can easily find in those nairaland sections I mentioned earlier.

And also while in school try to make lots of friends with connections. Friends that know what theyr chasing, especially those with connection. Simply put, get good contacts..

Hope this info helps someone out there!

thanks

malali:
I make over $800,000 dollars a year. At 40years I am a multi-millionaire ($$) Reading medicine is not all but its the first step.
I am a doctor.

oga my womb is open ooo. coman fùck abeg