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Look at this one...after she has shut up,
will it change the facts that Nigerians has the poorest citizens in the world? Lmao...keep supporting useless politicians that have sold your future and secured the future of their children.

IkwereBuIgbo:
Useless and hopeless woman, what of those sleeping outside in the United Kingdom? What about the criminals in the street of London and elsewhere, even California GDP is bigger than that of entire U.K after million years of colonization and illegal migration to other people's ancestral land.

Shut up Theresa May. Shut up, you may fool Buhari coming to you for medical care not REAL NIGERIANS.

She stated fact and that's not disrespectful in any way. Stop crying.

Daviddson:
She has yet to touch down in Nigeria and she's already running her mouth. All these whites and their boundless pride and disrespect for the blacks. The way they run down Africans churning out poverty figures from their mind, you'll think there are no poor, homeless people among them too. But alas the reverse is the case.

How about we ditch mobile phones, all gadgets entirely and also technology since they're all Western constructs to strip us of our cultural values?

SolutionMee:
So this is a good news

Graduation is a good news to Nigerians

Now this is no longer funny

The day you guys realise that traditional education in Nigeria is an intellectual blackmail setup by the Western world to defraud you of your values, cultural inheritance and the black way of doing things

For the next 3 decades, you will remain unproductive in science and technology despite the fact that you produce 1st class graduates every year

Nice

Thanks dear....I'm flattered

QueenSekxy:

You are really good.

Lmao....you must've searched the entire internet for that. I'm not reading no links that anyone can decide to cook up. Pick up a book or better still, ask any lawyer you know. In the developed world, a suspect is always innocent until proven guilty. If you don't know that then it's a huge shame. That is why a person is called a "suspect" even though he is caught red handed.

Women that their men would kill if they dare speak out you expect them to say the truth. Why do they keep running away if they were so free? LMAO...

Dude I'm done with talking to you. So that you don't reduce my IQ. Bye!

killsmith:
Either you're lying that you come from a family of lawyers or you're ignorant... Educate yourself.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Presumption_of_guilt



Why do you keep talking about Saudi Arabia? Their women have made it clear that they detest the west and their ways. What else do you want?




hypocrisy!! . You open one side of your mouth and say Nigeria is not misandristic, then you open the other side to ask why Nigeria is not deploying women to wars.



if you know this, why then do you seek equality? Do you think your creator is a fool for giving you the responsibility of carrying a child and breasts to breastfeed and nurture a child?.... By your mentality, you're not ready for equality. Grab a dictionary and check the meaning of equality. Then give yourself a wobble.

My comment was in line with what I observed from that person's response to me.

I understand your frustration and lack of comprehension and I must say it is not new to me. You all suddenly develope fangs and claws when this issue is being discussed and I'm not surprised at all.

Which divine decree tells to subdue women and deny them rights that you yourself have? Didn't your Bible say "do onto others what you want them to do you you"? Didn't you Bible say "love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it"?

Mumu, what part of my comments show any antagonism to God?

You're in no place to compel your wife to be a housewife if she doesn't want to. Even God doesn't compel humans do things. He gave us free will.

Maybe you're in the Stone age but in today's world , you don't have to be present o fight for a struggle. She is reaching out women all over he world , not just to Nigerian women. In case you didn't notice she is global now and doesn't have to be present in every country to speak for the women there.

You seem to be really frustrated. Like I said my comment was in response to that user. Emancipate yourself from your archaic mentality else the world will leave you behind.

jomoh:
All in the name to justify your rubbish, you’re already drifting from the topic.


The ops topic was about Devine decree now you’re making it about African men. Where does obeying God’s command equate to wives worshipping their husbands.


Madam carry your twisted mentality and go to the western world where your twisted brain and antagonism to God is accepted.


If a woman doesn’t want to become a house wife then she shouldn’t marry a man that is willing to uphold the command of his creator.

She doesn’t have to be present then how does she fight for something that she cannot relate directly with the sufferers.


The point of the story is about feminism antagonizing the creators command not about African men and you making it about African men shows your ultimate insecurity and inferiority complex cos in your twisted mentality, it’s only African men that does all the above you stated. In effect you fight is ultimately abou African men alone then why is Chimamanda shouting in a white mans land if her feminism fight is largely about African men.

Get your priorities and stories right before your defend your twisted ideology.

Sorry I just saw this message now.

fertilewomb:
Pls I need you to reply my PM. pls, pls, pls

Keep quiet, such stupid rule should be abolished with immediate alacrity. This mediocre rule can throw this Godsent child into depression and have his dreams shattered.

kaorama:
It is a rule not made for him. He can still do well again. Nothing to raise dust about.

Oya where is the origin?

QueenSekxy:
You deserve 2 bottles of origin.

@bolded you too sis

pocohantas:
Does gender pay-gap exist in Nigeria?
Most structured organisations pay according to the level. These levels are structured on educational/qualification basis. I have never seen one that's done by gender.

Quota based employment is mediocrity. If a woman wants a slot, then she should prove herself capable of it. Just like men, a woman isn't deserving of an automatic slot, just because she has a vagina.


Yes, Amberon is bae

You African men think you're gods that your wives should worship. I have a neighbor, he doesn't have a job. His wife works two jobs , pays the rent, fees and everything. He assists in house chores because he understands that his wife is always busy at work and it hasn't stopped him from being a man.

Why should a woman be a house wife if she doesn't want to? Are you the owner of her life? You claim to be a Christian. Don't you know that even God doesn't impose things on humans?

Did women tell you they want to be the head of the homes? How does gender equality mean that women want to be the head?

Chimamanda must not be present in this shithole to speak about it. She is free to be anywhere she wishes to be and speak of anything she wants to.

jomoh:
You asked and I shall tell you


Its the same insecurity that made you not to complete the list you started by extending it to the domestic front.


Sharing family resposibilities like wanting he man to cook, prepare the child(ren).

Same insecurity that made them reject women as house wifes.

Same insecurity that made them not realize women have their own purpose as divinely stated and being the head of the family is not one of them.


By the way if it is not insecurity then why is Chimamanda Adichie not here in Nigeria fighting all those things you stated above which are obviously prevalent in Africa.

@ bolded, hahahahah at last.

Honestly I don't know why this feminism issue attracts so much criticism. What is wrong in demanding equity and justice? It is this anti-feminism/misorgyny that has resulted in the proliferation of wife beaters and our society makes that look cool as they'd always blame the women saying women run their mouths too much but these same men would not dare hit their female bosses or even make colleagues.


They only quote the part of the Bible that tells women to submit to their husbands but not the part that says men should love their wives even as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it.

Hypocrites!

AmazonTopaz:
@Amberon11, we agree today weldone.Kudos to you.


Some people are so confused that they always mix feminism with marriage and forget about issues talking about family,marriage blah blah.

I am liberal in ideology and I believe it is a free world and when I marry I must practice equality with my husband in equal rights and responsibilities.

Feminism is deep and everyone cannot believe or support it whatever rocks their boat but as for me I am a feminist and I believe in some of it's cause.
And nobody can come and tell me otherwise because I do not subscribe to religion and whomever I marry must reject every belief that contains misogyny,chauvinism or any primitive view of women or that men are superior to women because of genitals.

And as for anti feminist,it is only a matter of time women would have those rights even if it is in marriage.Feminism is not only about marriage or family it is more than that so if you like say it is the devil or Satan that brought feminism na your problem be that.Feminism has come to stay.

@Jasonscoolari,must you mention me?

Feminism is not about what you just typed. That people add other irrelevant things to it doesn't invalidate it. Just as there are fake pastors everywhere doesn't mean there aren't real ones.

maasoap:
Are feminists really addressing these issues as their primary focus? No. They're concerned about telling wives not to cook if the husbands couldn't be with them in the kitchen, like that Nigerian female writer (Adichie or whatever) telling Hillary Clinton to remove "wife" as the first word from her twitter profile.

Thanks my dear. You're very correct o. Men cause all the wars and then they expect women to come join the fight.
e no go work, they should fight alone..

AmazonTopaz:
Too much sense.Correct oil dey your head.
They are shouting that women should be deployed for war who caused many wars is it not men soif we are to reject the fight for gender equality it would also be fair that men alone fight these wars because na dem dem cause am.
Some of these anti feminest have no solid points against feminism except using marriage.religion Satan demon etc to drive home their flawed points how can you subject half of the world population to second class citizens and feel it is fair?

Lmao...did this really happen?

CANDYDADDY:




That how my neighbour kasali,had being lying he have fvcked his landlord's daughter,not until the girl learnt's bout it,even after he got two hot slap from the girl,then her father send him away from his house.

Ego kill him der!

Yes, some modern day feminists have totally lost it and are now mistaking misandry for feminism of which both are totally distinct from each other. Thanks.

Gerrard59:
You know that the bold is a bared-faced lie. Which agency ranked them? AWRU, QS or THE? There is no Saudi university in the top 50 and most likely 100 across the agencies listed - which are the recognised agencies for ranking tertiary institutions globally. While on that, the VAST majority of top schools are western based. How can you say Saudi women are more educated than western females? Even a Japanese male won't utter such ridiculous statement

@Topic: Kudos to Amberon11. Insightful posts made. However, my issue with modern day feminism is telling me that women ought to be paid equally than men even in face of maternity leave, long hours, advanced qualifications, negotiation power. Another is quota based employment, a subtle form of mediocrity. Nothing wrong with feminism, but I believe modern day feminists have lost it.

@ bolded, are you really this ignorant or you're just pretending to be? I come from a family of lawyers (even though I'm not one) so I'm not a novice to the law and I suggest you stop saying rubbish that you know nothing about. Listen , there is no offense in this world (in a democracy not the babaric middle East Sharia states)
for which the suspect is guilty until proven innocent. That is the "daftest" thing I've heard all year. Even though you kill someone you are always innocent until proven guilty.

And please Nigeria is not misandristic, it is rather misorgynist. It is only in the middle East that a woman will be raped wit overwhelming evidence and still be jailed for it, not in civilized Western societies.

Very daft questions that don't even need answers. So all the other bridges in the world that have been collapsing were made by women? I asked a question which you've not answered, have you deployed women soldiers to the battlefield and they said they wouldn't go?

Lmao.... saying women should forgo maternity leaves. Well we will forgo maternity leave when you men develope a vagina and start bearing kids. How about that?

You are so laughable, Lmao. Check out the picture below. Only in Saudi Arabia...Lmao.

killsmith:
you are not smart at what you do. Saudi Arabian women have voted for these laws over and over again because they do not want to be influenced by the western societies. Despite these misogynistic laws, they are still one of the most educated women in the world, even more educated than their male counterparts. Don't try to twist the truth because you want to win an argument. Let me ask you again, our society is misandric and strict to men. If we are both drunk and we have sex, it is considered rape. And in rape cases, a man is guilty until proven innocent. You women are not drafted in wars. Men fight all the wars. Men build all the structures. Men are wholly responsible for pushing civilization to this level.

What have you women done?

The bridge built by female feminists to prove that women can do what men do, collapsed in a week and killed people. What do you women do for society? What do you want? How are you oppressed?

What steps have you made in pushing a bill to the National assembly to ensure that you get drafted in the army during war?

After sensitizing the public via social media, what is your next step?

How about the break/leave you get in your place of work for being pregnant or give birth, Are you willing to forfeit it?

you cannot want equality and at the same time still want to be treated differently.....

Do you wholly agree that a man should beat a woman to stupor if the woman hits him first?
Because that is how we'll treat you women when you finally get your equality. Equal rights, equal fights....
We'll treat you women like men

Lmao....no wonder you didn't mention me because you know you're saying absolute thrash. Which Saudi Arabia has one of he top 20 universities? Is it the Saudi Arabia in your bedroom or the one in the middle East.

Saudi Arabian women are more educated than women in the Western world in which planet? Which Saudi woman qualifies to wipe the shoes of Marie Curie when it comes to education? Lmao...keep lying, stupid people will believe you.

Also if they were so comfortable with their laws why are they either desperately trying to leave the country or setting themselves ablaze?

killsmith:
don't mind that lady. She's willing to spill lies in order win her arguments. Saudi Arabia has one of the top 20 universities in the world and their women are far educated than the so called West. Yet, when there is a poll to remove the restrictions on women, their women vote against it.... This lady is ignorant of the fact that Saudi Arabian women detest the western world and their ideologies.

Pls don't send your daughters to school and don't go to hospitals and get attended by female nurses and doctors because feminism made it possible for those women to be educated.

InvestorO:
Never change the status quo,let men be men,women be women,dont try to alter biology and the law of evolution.....for the men supporting feminism,you are a disgrace to manhood and your ancestors who toiled for the freedom and civilization you have today......TUEH!!

Again you're quoting me out of context.
I never said everything coming out of the Western world is good and must be accepted, No. I must they are the standard for everything that brings about world development. The mobile phone, science and technology, art, literature you now learn today we're all birthed in the west.

I never said the husband wasn't the head of the wife. That is what you feminist haters don't understand. You think feminism emasculates you and takes away your place as the head of the home. Thanks is not so. A ship has captains , Chief captain and co-captains. It is a partnership, not a parasitic relationship.
The captain does not dehumanize the co-captains. There is cooperation from all parties.

I never said I plan on visiting Dubai. I already visited and you don't know nothing about Dubai. Women are at liberty in Dubai and that is why the country thrives. As a woman in Dubai (especially as a foreign woman in Dubai), you can go anywhere you want and do whatever you want. They don't have double standards like the rest of the middle East and that's why they're moving forward. Women are present and well represented in every sector of the economy from commerce to medicine and don't think for a minute that the Arabs had any contribution in building the infrastructure you see in Dubai. They were all built by westerners. Anyone who has lived in Dubai knows this.

rock003:
It is still a sign of slavery; that's why you think everything coming from western world is the right thing.

The husband is the head of the wife.

A ship can't have two captains; maybe I should also remind you that this statement is from the western world.

Please, when do you plan to visit Dubai? Let me know about your personal experience in terms of their level of development when you come back.

Maybe I should remind you that the country is formed on the desert, which puts it at a disadvantage compared to many western countries.

Yet, they shine like million stars more than many western countries. And they can achieve this feat despite the non contribution of women. Oga, wake up.
A woman is. Important, but wives are never the same with husbands. The husband is the had and the wife should follow his leadership. A woman can boss people around elsewhere and claim authority outside, but she can't bring her so-called authority to the home.

Pepper dem gang

pocohantas:
I just had to quote you two...

Too much sauce!

Expired puna that you cannot get in 100,000 lifetimes. lmao.

johnstar:
Fishers of men


U juz fine for nothing


Expired puna

Don't quote me out of context.The Western world is my standard and remains the world standard on reasonable issues and issues bothering economic and technological advancement and also standard of living. They are the pace setters on everything that brings sanity to this world.


There is no country in the entire Europe that Saudi Arabia is better than. None at all. Don't confuse buildings and infrastructure alone to developedment. I have not been to Saudi but I've been to Dubai and I can tell you 100% of the infrastructure you see in Dubai was built by westerners and Indians. Those Arabs lack the technical knowledge to do so. They only have the money to sponsor such projects.

If you know the slave labour that goes on in the middle East you will not utter the nonsense you just did. I am not telling you what I feel, I am telling you what I know and have witnessed. As a migrant worker you have zero rights. You are owned by your employer who seizes your passport. Who can choose to pay you or not. In Europe and US/Canada it is not so. As long as a you're a legal immigrant then you're protected under the law and have rights. All these are part of the development of the Western world which Saudi Arabia and the entire middle East lack.

rock003:
So, the western world is your standard? Are you saying you will even worship Satan if the western world says it is right? Slave trade ended centuries ago, but it is clear that you are still a slave

Have you been to Saudi Arabia, where women have no place? Will it interest you to know Saudi Arabia is more developed than many of the western countries? So where did you get those last two myopic statements you made?

No...there's a difference. Sex does not have the capacity to totally cure your headache like aspirin does. It may cause relieve you a bit but the headache will definitely hang in there unlike aspirin that totally cures the headache.

MrBrownJay1:
are you trying to go technical on me?!?!? if you have a headache and sex relieve you of that said pain, then i am sorry to say that your headache is cured (just like aspirin would also cure that headache)

If there was no demand for phones will suppliers make them? Do you know the length some men go in wooing these women? Promising them heaven and Earth?

Les:
imagine a world where there no supply irrespective of the high demand. Supply is voluntary, they can choose not to supply. Prostitution will not be known if the supply was not there!

Bla bla bla bla bla bla bla

Who told you Saudi women are comfortable with such laws? I've watched secret interviews of them on YouTube.
They die trying to escape that hell hole. They commit suicide by setting themselves ablaze because they can't even go purchase poison on their own. They have to be accompanied by a man.


There is no human being who doesn't want their total freedom.please can you give me the verse of the Quran that states that the movement of women should be restricted or that a woman must be accompanied by a man? Why are many Saudi women trying to flee. Dina Ali a Saudi girl tried escaping last year to Australia. She was on a transit at Philippines when the govt of Saudi in collaboration with Philippine authorities bundled her back (infringing on her fundamental human rights to freedom f movement since she was an adult). No one has heard from her and we don't know if she's been killed already.

@ bolded being a feminist doesn't mean I must quit my job for the struggle. Creating awareness on social media is part of the activism.

So before I demand for equality, equality and justice I must decide to first fight in wars? Have you deployed female soldiers to battle and they did not go? In Syria, many of the men ran away to seek refuge in other countries. Their women have formed a group where they are taught to fight and they have picked up arms to defend their country since many of the men ran away.

On alimony: Do you know that under California law a husband is entitled to alimony if his wife was the breadwinner? Do you know that Russel Brand (Katy Perry's husband was entitled to over $20m in alimony after their divorce which he rejected?

If a man will not let his wife work or have a source of income during marriage like most of you Nigerian men then it is imperative that the wife receives alimony after divorce.

killsmith:
It's not a foolish question. It is so in Saudi Arabia because they're instructed to do by the Quran. And the women are very comfortable with the laws.

Now let me ask you woman, what benefits that you enjoy, are you willing to give up in your pursuit of equality?

Have you decided to fight in wars like men?
Have you decided to stop receiving alimony from divorce?
What decisions have you made?

We agree to disagree

hopefulLandlord:
I'm surprised and impressed. rarely happens

Your opinion is totally irrelevant. The world is advancing and more and more women are getting liberated from the shackles of oppression which they have been under.
Pls don't send your daughters to school okay? Send them to farms because sending them to school is feminism too.

Cptflint:
this sounds like Islamic terrorists and non Islamic terrorists... False Muslims and true Muslims... Any lady who claims to be a feminist is already a tool in devils hand.

This boy when will you have sense?

Airforce1:
Watch as girls with small boobs and yansh will agree to the guys statement now ..

He guy was a hero. Died fighting for a good cause.

Lies...stop saying what you feel. Speak facts.

QueenSekxy:
not everyone believes in God.
most feminist don't believe in God.