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Is he supporting Buhari now?

Jesus Christ. Over 100 trapped in Lagos, Over 50 dead in anambra.

Lmao

ZombieNation:
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A red Awusa goat on the ballot will defeat Tinubu and you know it.

Let's even do a poll

Like for Ewu Awusa share for Tinubu

Instead of victim blaming can you actually blame the greedy stupid men who are directly involved in this?

tribalistseun:
Girls need to stop this their hunger for money, Naija girls protect your womb for crying out loud.

Stay away from Yahoo Boys, the money is not clean so why are you risking your life?

Why do you people keep bashing bloggers? Did the bloggers leak the chat?

Blackdeewhy:
sorry, is that not July 2016, I'm seeing here? All these bloggers sef! smh... sorry, is that not July 2016, I'm seeing here? All these bloggers sef! smh...

Can't regular WhatsApp convo be leaked too?

comshots:
I uninstalled my WhatsApp messenger app because of all these leak chats.

You are 100% right. I keep saying it that even the wizkid and David don't have one third of what they'd have us believe they have.

About two years ago, Wizkid performed in Kenya for about $40k and that was unarguably the biggest shows he did that year as Chris Brown was one of the performing artists. In that same show Chris Brown was paid $900k.

These Nigerian artists are all about the hype and what's even worse is that people actually believe Davido has 30bn

DeLaRue:
The eye-opener here is that artists' earnings are quite modest. An A-list Nigerian artist goes all the way to Turkey to perform for something like $6k, which is then shared amongst 3 or more people.

So, all the Bentleys, Range Rovers and flashy lifestyle they post on social media? How is that lifestyle funded

And see the way they were monitoring each other & sharing a few thousand dollars show by show, piece meal by piece meal like market women (no disrespect to market women intended). When will Nigerians do business in a professional way. Why aren't these monies going into a central pot and shared as dividends / profit, say every 3 months. But then again, the accountant /manager in charge will probably steal some. What a country. What a people.

As in....and they brag like they're worth billions.

TolaniLuv:
Chicken change smh

Nope, on the contrary, a woman gains money and other financial benefits + sex all for free. Tell me again, what does the man gain?

nuggarito:
A man gains alot from fwb but a woman looses more from it. It's a man's world.

To all those who supported pant stealers saying that ladies deserve it for being too "greedy and materialistic", they are now using boys. What can y'all say now?

Look at this idiot. For your info, 92% of the oil revenue comes from the SS in particular. Ondo accounts for only about4% and the SE accounts for less than 2%.

Go fvck yourself, dunce.

Kagawa10:
Which stupid SS oil? Is federal government not getting revenue from Lagos seaport which was built before the Amalgamation of Nigeria? What about lagos economic hub that was before the Amalgamation of Nigeria?

Abi this one is insane? Besides, Ondo has oil in abundance. So Shut that sewage of your mouth.

Wpji estate

Oyindidi:
Where in Port Harcourt make I come stay there

When did women make the rules? Have you forgotten so soon?

wetdick:
dose of which medicine, you are talking like it is men that forms all the rules guiding women, most of the rules guiding women are made by other women not men.

Wrong but you can continue deluding yourself. There are stats which show the men cheat more.

wetdick:
western women cheat like say tomorrow no dey thanks to birth control and feminism. Most cause of divorce are cheating by women and finance

"deserve" I mean.

victorian:
Can u imagine ?

You're a hypocrite because you're a misorgynist who always sides men even when they're wrong and never speak the truth.

Toks2008:
And how does the word "hypocrite" correlate with my view?

Se ko re e?

Mumu

Bonapart:
and you actually believe that was how to story went? Little sense of yours

No.

higgs:
I don't know anything about aircraft models.Pls does any Nigerian airline fly the 777 max 8?

That actually happened last year or the year before when a pilot committed suicide while flying a plane full of passengers.

Khd95:
what if these pilots of some of these plan crashes wanted to commit suicide,but didn't want to go alone

maybe they are battling depression too and "finally" decide to end it all,what if

And someone will open their smelling mouth to say there are "no good Nigerian women in diaspora" as if the men are good. Every single day we see how you diaspora men bring shame on Nigeria. If it's not killing, it's raping, pushing drugs or yahoo yahoo. Shameless people. How many times do we hear of such atrocities being done by Nigerian women in diaspora?

I'm really sorry for all you went through.

Naija4lifeYank:
This is more than apt.
This will be my only post on Nairaland. I'm only posting so no man goes through what I went through.
I live in the US.
My marriage crashed when I came home to marry a Naija-based angel. I never planned to come home to marry. I trusted my friend's report of good behavior from his family member not knowing he knew it was all a ruse. It was a planned job.
My father died from medical complications and having lost my mom much earlier, I came home to bury him. The Naija-based lady knew I was now an orphan used all her wiles to pretend to love me. Pretended to be helping to fill the void left by my parents and I finally agreed to marry her.
I was earning well over $180,000 a year and had luxury home and luxury car.
She arrived and within 1 month, I knew I had made the mistake of my life.
She demanded a luxury SUV since I had one and I told her it didn't make any sense to have two gas-guzzlers in the home. She immediately went into a tantrum. This was someone not contributing anything to the home financially. I got her a brand new Honda Accord. She wasn't very satisfied.
She started buying clothes. Every weekend it was a bill of $600 for clothes. I told her that's not how we spend money in America, she kept going. Always complaining. That she didn't have enough clothes. She is Igbo, so I paid for all the wedding in Nigeria. her family probably contributed only her wedding dress.
So I was starting to think who is this clown that I married.
She got pregnant and then started threatening me with potentially divorce & Child support if I don't do things that make her happy.
One day I got back from work (4 months after wedding) and she had been entertaining another man in the home that I paid all the mortgage on. I knew this because somebody had used the ipad at home to view his Instagram and Facebook and forgot to sign out.
I confronted her and she denied it. She started taking calls from all manner of men from Nigeria, sometimes going to the bathroom to talk to them
Fast forward, one day she told me her cousin from Nigeria was coming to our city in Maryland and could he stay in our home. I found out that the guy was not her cousin really and shut it down. She started saying by US law the home belonged to her and her kids. I told her I had a baseball bat and if she had 10 heads, she should bring the "cousin" to come visit.
By the time she had our son, she had become a full-fledged monster. Refusing to cook, etc. I did most of the house work and had a cleaner come clean the house.
I divorced her shortly after. I had to start paying her child support until God came to my rescue and the Judge decided I was the better parent and I won custody of my son.
It was the worst experience of my life and I lost so much. Her family was in on the whole thing. I assume they were so greedy to want my home
Before anyone asks, I never cheated on her. or hit her.
She did everything those women do: she called the cops to the house during an argument. I was so worried she was going to lie about physical abuse that never happened. I lived in FEAR in my own home. NEVER going to that state of things again. I'm free now.

For those who say the wife took a loan for school, so how did you send her through school, most times you co-sponsor the loan for the wife using your credit
I'll never be married again (I'm still in my thirties) and NEVER marry a woman from Nigeria again.

Here comes the biggest hypocrite in all of nairaland. Western kids wether male of female talk to their parents anyhow they like. I've seen little boys on Maury who actually beat their moms up. Never saw a female who hit their parents. So the male kids are even more guilty in that aspect.

Secondly, you are wrong on the divorce ration. Contrary to what you cited , 8 out 10 divorce cases are actually caused by the adultery on the part of the men and we all know that western women don't tolerate bullshittt.

Toks2008:
I'm amazed to come across such intelligent submittion on nairaland...

You have dissected everything patapata.

Most ladies in the western world are not marriageable both by their own men who are equally citizens or even guys without papers but at the end these ladies quickly blame it on papers when a guy leaves them after getting resident status through them.

There was a lady I met in U.k that has a very domineering attitude...

If she says anything and I agree it is discussion but if I show any form of disagreement she will ask us to stop the discussion....to most of them...YOUR OPPINION DOES NOT COUNT.

You dare not interject when they are talking...if you do you will hear words like.."Don't talk when I'm talking"...they know it all.

I have heard a woman abuse her husband so much that I had to check again if It was not a movie scene I heard...

In the western world, in most cases, the man is the wife and you go fear if you hear the way a 13 year old girl speaks to her own biological father n you can imagine how she will talk to her husband.

8 out of 10 western divorced ladies are the cause of their marital fiasco...dem no tell me...i don see am first hand.

In biblical times women didn't have careers. They only tended to their husband and kids. Today, women have careers and sometimes can even be more successful than their husbands. You people need to define what you want.
If you want an illiterate village girl with no education and career, go for her as that is the only kind of female who will be 100% available to cook, clean etc but you people want a career woman, cook, cleaner, dish washer, washing machine etc all in one person. Doesn't work that way.

Feminism is not the problem. The problem is men not being willing to take a dose of their own medicine.

femijck:
It was constituted on the basis that 2 is better than 1. And for that reason, a woman would leave her parents to live with a man and the 2 of them shall become 1[b].
The man would love the woman he calls ‘wife’ , and the woman would respect the man she calls‘husband’. The husband shall be the head of the union i.e family.
This basis is distorted in the name of civilisation and modernisation. The west developed a very contagious disease called ‘Feminism’ and this has spread beyond control.

I don’t support domestic violence, I don’t support feminism or male chauvinism because it’s a union. But in all honesty women have taken this too far.

And the husband has business with his wife's private affairs? Lmao, bloody hypocrites.

Joromi12:
lol. If u want peace then u hv no business with wat he does with manhood

Honestly Nigerian men in diaspora don't desert good women. You really need to witness the kind of lives they live.

victorian:
To use and dump abi?

You guys are confused , una no deserve good woman . Go and beg your ex back.

We know the struggle and the fact remains that you diaspora Nigerian men can only deceive yourselves.

While I was schooling in Europe I got to witness first hand how you men behave abroad. The fact remains that most of you are broken records and nothing to write home about. You all rant about how Nigerian women are bad and bla bla bla but how many of you are good? Are you husband materials yourselves? Drinking,
partying, clubbing and frolicking with different white women even when married is what you people do on a regular so don't act like the Nigerian women are the problem.

TaminaliaCatapa:
You are lucky bro, all the best!
Many here don’t understand the struggle, some don’t even know what marriage entails

It's usually at the edge of breakthrough all manner of temptations come.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Are u sure? When I'm serious with prayers is when different manners of temptations keep coming my way. Perhaps one gotta know how to listen to d spirit

Lmao

cococandy:
Nobody should want to be with you.

Hopefully no one will.

And men are not promiscuous than women? Look at the celebrities we have in Nigeria for example, how many of the females have multiple kids for different men? But most of the males have different kids from different women and you still adore them. Just go on with your delusion.

justscorchone:
Marriage gives me the creeps,must everybody be married? My fear is that with the way women are wayward what if I make a ho a housewife,there’s no way I can settle with a woman that has had more sex than me.dont ask me how will I know,bish that’s why I’m looking for a virgin.

Your religion in it's "pure form" also doesn't allow fornication and sampling different women in the name of relationships.

GodisGood4321:
Thanks for your comment, valuable.

That last line is one reason for my due diligence as my religion in its pure form doesn't allow divorce except you remain unmarried afterward.

Very myopic reply. Age is a factor for every living thing. Do you know that as a man the quality of your sperm reduces after about 40 hence increasing the risk of having unhealthy offsprings?

Don't marry o, wait till prostrate problems kick in and then you'll realize how you wasted your time.

GodisGood4321:
Sorry, flexing is not my thing. Of course, age is just a number for a guy, unlike a woman.

Speak for yourself. You're very naive and I was like you once and even though I loved him to bits and couldn't get over him, I was still the one who broke up with him cuz he was taking me for granted. He wanted us to get back but I kept bailing on him.

Never let someone treat you like a rag. Move on and forget the loser.

lilianofentse:
As a lady it is very hard to let go of someone you really loved and never cheated on. btw I plan to marry at 23. 19 going to 20 on May so its not bad if I want a serious relationship