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Is that how you intend to beg your wife to accept your own child into a home whose rent you pay?

akaahs:
u guyz are talking as if the man force her to marry him. she have every reason not to marry and stay put in taken care of her children. now that she got married to him, she have to keep begging him to consider her position on her son.

Just imagine marrying second hand man.

By the way do men who fornicate do so with other men?

silibaba:
still cant phantom why women cant stay away from premarital sex.

Just imagine marrying second hand woman

Trash!!

And women don't face same when their husbands impregnate their side chicks? Or what about women whose husbands later went on to marry second wives? Bloody braindead hypocrites.

dozzybreezy:
What a dumb statement to make.

Do you know the emotional troubles men face to know that their wives had children for other men not to talk of accommodating them?

I hope you will have your own children out of wed luck and start looking for another man to house them. Only then you will understand.

The Op's mentality is alright. Yours however needs to be checked.

GreenArrow1:
It will shock you the kind of homes some people come from and the lack of parental upbringing thereof.
I am saying this confidently because right now, there's one seated beside me whose mentality would rhyme very well with the OP's.

So what if neighbors ask? Do the neighbors feed him? If you had a child outside wedlock and your wife decides to do I hope you don't go calling her evil.

eduman365:
My dear, just take it easy on your husband. Whether or not you foot 70 or 100% of bills is not the issue. When that boy comes to live under the same roof with your husband, he is indirectly taking the responsibility of being his parent or guardian, which is not an easy task. This is not about money because when he lives with you guys, the neighbours would notice someone new, questions will arise, his friends will ask questions...

So it's a big mental battle for him as well, try not to see things from your own perspective alone. Can you put the boy in a good boarding school? That way he only needs to come home during holidays... At least if you tell your husband that, he should be willing to consider.

All the best dear.

So her present home is more important than her own son ?

ladykolly:
Madam please take that your son out of that house, put him in a boarding school... to save your present home

So a woman ceases to be independent (even though she actually is) once she gets married. Some of you are clearly daft.

eduman365:
Would you allow your own son marry an "after 2" ... Independence kwa? Even those who don't have kids are praying for good husbands. Accepting to wife a single mother is a very tough decision for any man... Don't bring that independence talk here... She for stay single na.

Nairaland is the biggest forum in Nigeria and that makes it one of the biggest in Africa as well. If you don't think worse things than these happen everyday in a country of over 180 million people then you really are the gullible one.

I remember also commenting about a real life scenario on NL of how our family friend caught her husband in bed with her niece in her own house and everyone screamed fake story. You are really naive if you doubt the authenticity of most nairaland stories.

If I post my dad's kidnap story here you won't believe it as it may come across to you like a scene from a movie.
Also that a moniker is new doesn't mean it's a paid writer behind it. I could never post my real life with my actual moniker. Just saying.

TheArchangel:
https://www.nairaland.com/5728674/decision-right-wrong

The single father and wife story wahala
48hours later,
The single mother and husband story wahala.

Someone wants to keep me busy arguing over fake stories.

So who will marry all the single mothers y'all keep impregnating?

Smile4mee01:
@ Guys : Learn from this. Never , ever agree to marrying a single mother.

There is a reason why Male Lins kill cubs before they take over territories.

Its not emotions, its logic for your own good.

My 2 cents#

That is the nature of your own mother, not women.
There is a 15 year old living with us, he is not our relative but we take him as a member of the family. My cousin also lived with us and is in university today. My mom has been a mother to both of them so speak for your mother only.

sweetdude001:
Ur huSband is not a bad man, its apparent u Neva loved him u jus wanted someone that d marry u in d first, u r saying son, ur son, watching out for ur own which u do av a right to, he also as a right to watch out for is daughter too, ur son is more important to u, his daughter is more important to him too, in life always put ursef in peoples opinion before u judge, u cant abandon ur son but stop acting like ur husband does not have the right to have some reservation... To be honest d situation he is is not a very pleasant 1, I am sure had it been d boy stayed wit u from d onset he d not av a p... Stop thinking abt u, think about his feelings too, as a woman u wnt accept dis if reverse was d case, if u did u d make d childs life hell jus like ur brothers wife... That's d nature of u women.

Mumu. Common sense you don't have.

payperpost:
then do it

this is probably why the first man run away, you women nag a lot, give that man a breathing space or watch him ran away like the first one, we don't want too much liabilities, we need rest of mind, stop nagging him.

atheists won't be happy with this news. Lol

You people are really stupid on this app.

Babaj02:
Free knacking now. Olosho is free

Nice one. I used to like her in movies then

Hahhahahahahaha

NinjaMetahuman:
God rejected his call so he called himself and anointed himself with kings cooking oil.

For real?

midolian:
It's easy to sign for him..but extremely difficult to pay even 10,000 minimum wage in his state...

Many still don't believe in Kwara state, till date, the minimum wage is 8,500...

31, wow

And Pretty Mike has been walking free

She didn't ask you to.

doggedfighter:
No doubt she's blessed but must we see their picture everyday?

Did she beg you to open this thread?
Did she post it on nairaland herself? Some of you are really daft.

RealLandForSale:
this madam would not let someone hear word
its becoming annoying abeg
yes we get it, you are a hot mommy with cute sons that look like your brothers
but pls abeg try to keep them away from our faces Biko

TB J my nigga.

Yes, definitely it does.

BeLookingIDIOT:
That should mean Hell fire has grades according to your level of sinning: @ alBHAGDADI

Oga, you are too full of blasphemy and twisting scriptures. The op is 100% accurate but please do not add or subtract to the Bible.

Rejection of Jesus is not the only sin that leads people to hell. There is not one verse of the Bible that suggests such.
There is a punishment too for heretics as yourself.

alBHAGDADI:
Do they all receive the same punishment here on Earth?

No. So you see, they are not equal, else you would be saying that God is not a righteous judge giving the same measurement of punishment to a pencil thief as with a murderer.

it is only one sin that sends people to hell - the rejection of Jesus.

That is not the greatest sin. All sins are not equal, and that is why Jesus said the only sin that cannot be forgiven is the sin against the holy spirit. If all sins were equal why should blasphemy of the holy spirit not be forgiven by God?

NigeriaDecides:
Abegi sin nah sin... The ONLY greater sin is leading people to sin.

No, there is a sin leading to death and there is a sin not leading to death.

hoopLA:
Silliness at its peak.

The end product of sin is hell-fire.

Yes or no?

Cute

Don't think he's guilty though

Just imagine

We know you're talking about your mother but no one cares.

Congrats to the house owner.

AdsenseSnow:
how preeeks did you eat to afford this? we all know that Nigerian women always look for hand outs from men hence their hypocrisy in their prostitution lives keep sucking more preeeks for more money aturu

I buy all Adsense and website together

Was just watching videos of some people giving accounts of how demonic this man was. His former landlady said there's no manner of crime he didn't commit and lots of other people who knew him personally have said the same too.

Infact so far , only his immediate family has said something good about him. That tells a lot.