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RomanceRe: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by americanson: 12:19am On Apr 19, 2018
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RomanceRe: Share Your Heartbreak Story Here by americanson: 12:16am On Apr 19, 2018
tenmariner:
I am a living example of a victim of TWO powerful heartbreaks..
First one; I was serving and she was in her penultimate year in d uni..The love was boiling in me like an active volcano.. In short, the love I had for her was more than the one expressed by Ramsey, Jim iyke, and mike ezeronye combined together. Along the line, her dad died and she wanted to drop out of sch. I had to take up d responsibility of EVERY of her schooling expenses.Also placed her on a monthly salary even while serving cos I was working in a ministry and in a private hospital at the same time..her rent expired and I rented a new apartment for her, furnished it in my own little way.. am a living example of a victim of TWO power
First one; I was serving and she was in her penultimate year in d uni..The love is boiling in me like an active volcano.. In short, the love I had for her was more than the one expressed by Ramsey, Jim iyke, and mike ezeronye combined together. Along the line, her dad died and she wanted to drop out of sch. I had to take up d responsibility of EVERY of her schooling, registered her in an event and decoration training school during her holiday..still, I never knew she was dating one guy and even invited him to the house I rented and he spent 3 days there. Everything was revealed to me wen I stumbled on her Facebook in box..her Fone got damaged so I collected it and gave her mine. It was until I repaired the Fone that everything got revealed.. How she got pregnant for the guy and arboted it. How she joked with the guy that I am her ATM card..I screenshot the info and sent it to her..she felt like dying.
I left the relationship without saying a word..Her brother begged me, her mum did the same..I didn't tell them what their daughter did
Last year, we got chatting again and I asked her abt the guy, she said he usually beat her, he borrowed all her savings, sold his uncle's office and use the proceed to travel to Libya thru Niger.. Currently she complained to me that her new boyfriend hardly show care to her..she is 28 now and her mum has started mounting pressure on her to get married..




Second lady was a year after I left the first one..
It took me time to start a relationship with her.. We were so close but I was scared of a relationship. It got to a point I asked her out and she after some time succumbed. After a month, I noticed she wasn't into the relationship so I backed off immediately.. Then she met me and pleaded for acting that way..I explained to her what I experienced and I donnot want a similar one..She promised and gave assurance..
After a year, she started acting cold. I was transferred to Abuja from LAGOS..I will take flight to go see her every weekend, give her up keep cash, got her into a computer training school, got her a laptop to quicken her learning, Sometimes, take night bus to lag..until her friend revealed to me she was already dating one guy in the company I helped her secure a job..I felt devastated.. She wasn't remorse.. I remember taking a bottle or jact Daniel weeping like a child all because I wanted to love and care..
I lost so many things in time and value during this period. Some I haven't been able to recover.
I wish dem well, but I have learnt a GREAT lesson in life.
That is how they are wired... they hardly appreciate the good ones... HARDLY. All you have to do is love yourself more than these ladies. Give sparingly ONLY.


READ THIS: https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman
RomanceRe: Share Your Heartbreak Story Here by americanson: 12:04am On Apr 19, 2018
SoapQueen:
I registered my first nairaland account, 1,January, 2011..
ahan... i talk am say there is no way u can be a new member here lol. cool to know.
RomanceRe: Share Your Heartbreak Story Here by americanson: 10:26pm On Apr 18, 2018
SoapQueen:
He is now. You know Young can be eccentric, but very attentive. That dude was there for me when I was depressed years ago, he would call and just listen to me cry for minutes. The quaky voice Na front jare, Na flexing guy. Very good cook too.

I'd tell him about you when we see tomorrow.
Oh great. I thought as much too. I hope to see him someday and give him a big brotherly hug. much respect. No dey cry again o. but how come your handle is very recent if you have known young for so long? Did you change moniker?
RomanceRe: Share Your Heartbreak Story Here by americanson: 8:42pm On Apr 18, 2018
SoapQueen:
Young hasn't been available for 4 months. He isn't like that. Sorry dear.
Is he okay health wise? He didn't sound so well the day I called him. His voice quaked and sounded husky. I do know about his other health issue and we even talked about mine and his in 2016 November. I have lots of respect for that dude... so much zest and inspiration!
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 8:39pm On Apr 18, 2018
All4good:
You need SONCAP.
It is usually issued in the country of goods manufacture after SON officials visit.
Obtaining it is quite easy and straight forward. If you are dealing directly with the product manufacturer in China.
Tell the manufacturer you need SONCAP certificate of the products to be sent with your bill of laden. The manufacturer will include the cost of the SONCAP to cost of goods and issue you invoice. (Note that your manufacturer will advice you of a Shipping company) Once you pay, manufacturer handles the remaining process. You only need to make sure your bill of laden, SONCAP and any other documents specified in your Form M gets to your Clearing agent in good time to avoid demurrage. You need a good and honest Clearing Agent at this point. Lots of tout without an office claim to be a Clearing Agent. The Clearing Agent is the one in position to answer all the questions you have been asking.
Hope this helped. Wishing you success ahead.
Thanks a lot bro. I feel at ease now...
RomanceRe: Share Your Heartbreak Story Here by americanson: 6:37pm On Apr 18, 2018
SoapQueen:
Speaking of the devil, I just got a 35 minutes call from Young, he said I am a bad sister, that I never call to check up on him. Lol. We are meeting tomorrow by the Lake at Jabi, I'd put word out for you( Your China import)
thanks. One bastard derailed my thread, insulted me and when I retaliated, he called the mods to ban me.

Thanks. I already got the necessary information from nairalanders. The thread later hIt front page, which was what I wanted and loads of tips were fielded.

Young received my text but didn't reply. No need bugging him about it anymore. Just tell him 2sexy send his regards to him.
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji Advises On CeeC & Tobi: Never Talk To Man The Way CeeC Talks To Tobi by americanson: 1:33pm On Apr 18, 2018
Brooke60:
Cee-C needs therapist.
It still baffles me the way Nigerians root for that babe. They call her strong woman? WTF? Is that the definition of a strong woman?
We have lost it in this generation
Do good in Nigeria and u will end up broke... do evil and you will make lots of money! I have never watched any of the episodes, except the maiden BBAfrica in 2008. That was the first and last even watched.
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 7:33pm On Apr 17, 2018
Connoisseur:
Importation is not a one size fits all affair.
SONCAP is for a select type of products that SON (standards Organisation of Nigeria) has to certify before they can enter the country. Same way with NAFDAC no which takes care of foods and drugs.
While a tyre importer will require soncap, a pharmaceutical importers requires a NAFDAC no while a textiles importer requires none of this.
The deal is with the product is you are importing.
Industrial machines requires little or no import duty depending on the industry using it. It's a government policy to encourage manufacturing. Afro processing machines have zero duty but you would have to 'settle' Customs.
There is also no fixed price to clear a container from the terminal. It all depends on the duty rate and FOB value of the consignment.

For instance, a 20" FCL of knockoff Vlisco brand of textiles with FOB cost of 100k+ USD would definitely cost higher to clear than tiger nuts cleaning and processing machine which takes up a 40 footer container.
The key is choosing a trustworthy agent who will guide you in the process.

Cheers
you too much. Do you mind if I send a PM sir?
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 6:43pm On Apr 17, 2018
Iyajelili:
Yes,we use SONCAP and your agent is not responsible for producing that, you are but can help you out with it.
how do I get it ma'am? Does it cost money and if yes, how much?
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 6:14pm On Apr 17, 2018
sonnie10:
Let me explain. It's not that your goods won't fit in the 20ft, it certainly will. The issue is that it is by itself and would have it's own bill of laden. This bill of laden is what customs look at to inspect, collect tax and allow your goods in. Your agent would have a lot of work to do, but at the end, the money comes from you and this drives cost.
However, in groupage, a predetermined amount is charged by the agent and cost is reduced by leveraging on others who will also contribute their own share towards their own goods. That is how small impoter survive the high cost of shipping and clearing.
okay. But what about the SONCAP ish... How do I over come it please?
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 6:09pm On Apr 17, 2018
serialkilla:
but which shipping company have u been using all this while? They are not reliable or what? Meanwhile I will ask around and get back to you.
I use all those ones recommended in the mini importation threads like st patrick, nonikings, base 1 and Co. Their shipping charges is based on weight and if I use them, I will likely pay as much as $20,000 for shipping and clearing.

Base 1 for instance charges 5.5$ per kg and if one unit of what I am importing is 4kg, that is 4 x 5.5 which is $22. Now 22 X 8xx units and you see what I am talking about.

However, shipping your products via sea, if in large quantities, is far cheaper because they charge you based on cubic meter( I.e volume)

Shipping via sea takes longer 30-60 days and some shipping companirs charge $188 per cubic meter. If 20ft container is 32 cubic meter (just rough estimate and u can google to get the actual volume of 20ft container) that is 188 X 32 and that gives you the estimated cost of shipping.. It could be less or more but at least you get the idea now.
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 5:57pm On Apr 17, 2018
sonnie10:
Have you cared to find out what Form M does? Do you or the manufacturer have SONCAP on the product?

Do you know that your goods could be labeled substandard if you don't have the SONCAP and they might use that to obtain from you?

If you are starting little, like 8xx quantity you mentioned, you best be would groupage from China. They will handle everything including clearing.
I asked the manufacturer and they told me that 9xx unit will feel 20FT and since we are buying 8xx units, which is very close to 9xx, I believe there is no need for groupage (LCL).

Concerning the SONCAP, doesn't the shipping company handle that?

Cc: Connoisseur , please can you shed light on this SONCAP?

Cc: iyajelili, please do you use SONCAP during your company's import? Please help on ways to go about it.

Thanks.
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 3:38pm On Apr 17, 2018
olatunji71:
My best advice, seek the services of a freightfowarder in your best interest. The values you are quoting aren't the real deal from experience. Firstly, have you opened a 'FORM M' with the bank of your choice before proceeding to ship in your goods? Secondly, you can contact any shipping line of your choice for the shipment of your goods e.g MAERSK LINE, COSCO, PIL, CGM e.t.c to confirm cost. You can then notify your sender on your preferred shipping vessel line for him to send your goods through. There exist other little charges which you are not aware of but might pop later to add to the shipping cost. Though you will be notified accordingly by the shipping company.
Important point to note, ensure you open a 'FORM M' before bringing in your goods otherwise you might end up over paying for your goods !
Thanks. I have been told that clearing agent can help sort the Form M if you read this page up or previous page before this one. God bless you all. I have really gotten more than I expected and it feels Amazing really.
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 3:33pm On Apr 17, 2018
simplemlmwebsit:
pmed u, wanna ask some questions.
Thanks
replied.
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 3:16pm On Apr 17, 2018
BlaQWolf:
Send me a mail but you should know now that getting a container of goods out of the wharf is costly now...mainly a 40feet container should be roughly 3m... New charge rates... Cosco is will do the shipping
Hello Sir, are you say ONLY clearing is 3M? how much then is shipping from China to Nigeria?

Besides, the item in question is not car or any of those and the proposed container is 20FT because my manufacturer told me that 9xx units will fill the 20FT contain but we are buying 8xx units.

It is just portable machine, the height of old rechargeable lamb that had cassette player and radio in the early 2000. Let's just use the size , height and weight of that rechargeable lamb as an example. So imagine shipping 8XX unit of that lamp, are we gonna spend spend 3million naira to clear it? How much are going to use to ship it ?
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 1:55pm On Apr 17, 2018
Connoisseur:
Yeah agent means clearing agent.
I would like to encourage on your venture. I have gained a lot from here than I can ever repay. If you ever need more clarifications,just bring it on here.
Thank you so much sir. I will always call on you for more help. I have to go over to page 1 again to read all the useful points raised and take note. Wow... I am so happy and relieved! cheesy
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 1:45pm On Apr 17, 2018
ultimate77:
my brother, even as a graduate, it has gotten to the level where the friends gan Don day play different league. U can imagine 8years after school,
Sharp and hard working, enthusiastic and outspoken, you hustle day and night bland nothing to show for it, no b say village people day follow me... The matter just taya me.

To even see the friends to make Na war, omo, abeg, if you know anyone I can be under and help him or her and start over a new phase please connect me.

I choose to remain transparent as always have been.
As I see your quote my mind cut, I thought someone has come to lash me. I'm the bold type by the way incase you are recommending sir.
I don't know where to start bro. Many of us what we learned from online resources to push ourselves and everything boils down to your skills, knowledge and information at your disposal. The first thing is to raise capital by using what you already know.

You can freelance online to raise capital and there are lots of information on nairaland alone to help you in that direction but this is only possible if you have your own laptop and a fairly stable power supply.

It may surprise you that money that my friend gave me in 2012 is what has sustained me to this day. How? It boils down to your knowledge bro. Most people think capital is the most important thing but I tell you that knowledge base is the most important thing of all. With knowledge and no capital, you can raise capital. On the other hand, capital and no knowledge, you can lose the capital.

You can see me asking questions on here, this is how it is done. You don't wait for anybody to come and spoon feed you. You research hard and tight!
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 1:28pm On Apr 17, 2018
Connoisseur:
Most clearing companies are Form M compliant. They process these forms months in advance in anticipation of protective clients. The agent's gives you the Form M and BA no which is processed with their name, the BoL is issued in the name of your agent's company while you are the notify party. This simply means your agent is the importer.
The benefits of this process far outweighs the inconvenience of not having your name as the importer.
Agent in this context means the clearing agent, right?

Thank you so much sir. I am grateful to you and other contributors. Time is one of the most important asset that can not be replenished when spent; may God bless you all for the time spent on my thread thus far and reward you all accordingly. Amen.
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 12:57pm On Apr 17, 2018
pacespot:
Nice thread. But the same time building wealth for Chinese manufacturers from here in Nigeria. I wonder when Nigeria will revive its manufacturing.
We don't have the technology for many of these things because of lack of constant power supply. If the government fix power supply and make it constant, 50% of Nigeria's problem is solved because I know the Igbos will dive in with everything they have got.
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 12:54pm On Apr 17, 2018
aonag:
if you are buying a container load from one manufacturer, you dont have any problem really because they would tell you/know how much of your goods would fit into one container and they would calculate freight cost for you all inclusive. its when its at the port they send you your BOL and all that..
okay thanks. Some persons say Form M is needed for a container import. When I check the requirements for obtaining it, I do not have most of them at the moment like FIRS , TIN and other things. How do I solve this problem because it appear to be a tedious process.

Can the shipping company handle it for me?
CelebritiesRe: Laura Ikeji Explains That She's Still In Disbelief She Married Ogbonna Kanu by americanson: 12:50pm On Apr 17, 2018
fork off dimwit...
Lifeofpolice1:
you were banned but you are access Nl with another account which is against Rule No.19
But I will have mercy on your behalf
CelebritiesRe: Laura Ikeji Explains That She's Still In Disbelief She Married Ogbonna Kanu by americanson: 12:33pm On Apr 17, 2018
Lifeofpolice1:
Investment of 500.000.000 is needed in my transport business

5 location terminal that worth N250 Million
30 Toyota hiace bus that goes for 7.000.000=210Million
Others=40Million

Investors needed


But no copyright in my business I beg una
You came to my thread, derailed it, had me banned, even boast that I will never enjoy my thread... you will never get that investor. Real business minded person should know how to raise and bootstrap. Your dream will NEVER materialize... and that business will never see the light of the day.
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 12:10pm On Apr 17, 2018
Jethrolite:
You can bypass form M, you are the handler. Form M allows you to buy dollar at official rate to pay supplier but can be tedious to obtain.
Oh really? What I was reading online minutes ago made it look like it is MUST because of some monies that should be paid to the government in Nigeria and the required looks tedious like you stated.
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 12:07pm On Apr 17, 2018
aonag:
you have to include all that... because those are the annoying misc that raises the total cost except if you are buying from just one manufacturer, of which, they would also include that too...just yesterday someone from china, a chinese who knows the nigeria market well told me its costs 2200 to ship from there to nigeria and that his office was close to a certain port he mentioned..
Thanks. It is getting clearer. I am buying from one manufacturer only. I know it adds up the cost but I very certain that the cost will not be up to $1000, am I right? So if the shipping fee from China to Nigeria is $2200 according to your Chinese friend, we can add some extras to the $2200 for cost of moving the goods from base source to the Chinese port.
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 11:54am On Apr 17, 2018
Iyajelili:
You guys need to exchange email address so you can communicate through that platform for vital informations like scanned documents. The Company prepared the PFI and they send to you while you scrutinize every details on it.
Thanks a lot. I just discovered that there need to be a Form M prepared before embarking on importing the product. Is it the shipping company that will handle that or myself?
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 11:52am On Apr 17, 2018
Jethrolite:
No, the supplier pays the shipping company knowing the money is already in escrow.
Oh, I see. Thanks a lot.

Another aspect I just noticed is the Form M requirements. Who handles that? I or the shipping company?
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 11:34am On Apr 17, 2018
Iyajelili:
Let me tell you how we do ours, we have at least 2manufacturing companies we buy things from and from the beginning they handle our shipping, so already the shipping freight which has a fixed price will be included in the PFI (proforma invoice). The company then send the name of the shipping company to us and usually our agent handles the rest till we get our goods. I don't know if this helps in any way
It does a lot. I am grateful. How do you get the proforma invoice? Do they send you physical copy or digitally scanned copy?
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 11:20am On Apr 17, 2018
sonsomegrigbo:
Which tribe are you?

I hope you are not bringing in DEVELOPMENT tools?

But kudos to you if you are a Yoruba man...
I am the OP and I am a proud Igbo son. suck on that!
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 11:13am On Apr 17, 2018
bonario1:
.
there are different shipping company and you don't need to stress yourself much on this.
what you need to do is to inform the company you want to place order from in China to get you different shipping line from China to Nigeria with prices and how many days does it takes their container to arrive in Nigeria. the shipping price and date of arrival is different from one shipping line to another.
what kind of product do you intend to import from China to Nigeria? are you sure that the product is not contraband.
Do you intend to get SONCAP certificate because it is very importation while you are about to clear your goods when it arrived in Nigeria.
Thanks. The product is not contraband. It is a portable machine used in the fashion industry. How do I get the SONCAP and does it cost money to get it?
BusinessRe: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by americanson: 11:10am On Apr 17, 2018
Iyajelili:
Depends on the agent you're using but I'll get back to you after I must have gotten the correct figure.
Thank you so much. You have been the most helpful here. God bless you.

What if I want the container to be shipped by Maersk from China to Nigeria and I tell my manufacturer that that is what I want, can they make that happen and how do I pay Maersk without fear?

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