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phemmyfour:
You wasted 6 productive years. At 26, your mate are either through with Msc or with 4yrs work experience

It seems the fingers in your hands are all equal. Iranu abacha!

SoapQueen:
Awww...It is well. Is this the post you wanted me to read?

yeah but I shared others before this one. Good morning

She thinks she has arrived. Nigga free her and hustle for your own life.

Shakitibob0:
omoteemac [at] gmail dot com

change the @ to [at] and . to dot as seen in the quote.

And make spaces in between to prevent bots from scraping your email for spamming

Shakitibob0:
hahahah

just my thought based on experiences. I have found emails meant for inbox in my trash..

Shakitibob0:
lol..My Brother.... I didn't get it jare..I have searched everywhere

what about trash folder? Check if it was sent to deleted folder too.

Connoisseur:
You got that

my friend at the port has reinforced your claims. He said he met with one of the managers to inquire about the need of SONCAP and he was told that not all products require SONCAP.

He told the manager the product I am expected to bring into the country and the man said I won't be needing SONCAP for that kind of product.

Danirose007:
very expensive

I swear.

Shakitibob0:
Bro, I didn't receive the email ooo...can you send again please,?

better check your spam. I found that of the lady above in my spam folder.

Hybridz:
Americanson is one outta many that is really making this thread so interesting...nice inputs!

Same girl who said I am not handsome...

Came back years later, stalking my facebook facebook account and told me the day I called her that I now look fatter (yeah I was skinny and Bonny) and more handsome.

In her mind she would think I am keeping in touch cos I like her or still have her in mind but me know it is for me to let her see my growth.

She wooed me many times to have me back...

She can't understand why I can't take her back or let the past go cos I was so clingy that she thought she can go and come back at will and I will accept her back with no question.

She thought that by having sex with me (same sex she denied me when I was a mumu and gave to another guy as a confession) will solve the whole problem. What she didn't know is that I am one of the very few guys who never bond with a woman via sex...

During the initial stage of her brain reset, I told her even if she nakeed in front of me, I will never take her back... She didn't believe her eyes while we were exchanging text lol cos I was in school.

Omo, she even find me come school (went back to school against all odds after the demise of my mum and only parent) twice and in one of those instances, she noticed I wasn't looking at her while we talked... She was looking uglier and I couldn't help it, had to use other pretty girls passing by to help my sight. She was at the park and came in from somewhere... Probably from one of those guys who fork her for money... Something I never did. She had to start begging me right there at the park. She as in my eyes so much fury. She could feel the anger was still in me. She was begging. I looked at her smiled (fake) and told her no problem.

It is a long story bro but I did well do some damages to her brain.

The day I knew my plans had worked was the day she begged me in God's name. This time around I was serving in Info for NYSC. She had begged previously but this one was a bit different. She said she doesn't know whether is the wrong things she did to me that is affecting her life... And beg me to forgive her.

My spirit broke that day.

She wasn't my first girlfriend. My first girlfriend didn't go well. I ended it with first when I discovered I am being used...

The issue is that she was my second that I opened up a lot and even let her meet my siblings. However when she was doing her evil, it was as if she had no soul, no conscience... No heart. I saw someone who didn't care if I died.

My mums burial she never asked me to send her money to come like she would ask me to send her money for other things. She only called me once during that period and never called to ask how preparation was going, the night before my mum was put to the ground and I called her... She asked "baby, you promised to buy me another phone" Jesus! I am talking about my mother's burial and you are talking about another phone. I bought the one she was using and she used that phone for over 3 years after we broke up...

So u can imagine how heartless she was. There are some kind of people I don't forgive... The devils among us are the ones I don't forgive.

Another reason why I don't take all her please is that if the life she chose then had favoured her, she would be the one laughing at me by now.

A lot happened, a lot happened.

Her Immediate elder brother even went to PH to see her in school and she told him lies.

Dude called me one day and spoke to me and I called him back and broke the whole shiit to him. He had to start begging me on her behalf.

The last one she did was when she asked to send her money to visit me and lodge, this was after burial. This girl called her ex, ask me to help her buy something in order 5o discharge me so she can go and meet him.

Well, one thing led to another she left with guy for whatever reasons.

I broke up with her next morning... All these while she always felt right and never apologiises for any thing she does.

It was 3 years later that she told me on phone that she had. Been wanting to tell me something.i told her what... She said she has been wanting to explain what happened at the hotel when left with the guy. I allowed her to talk and after talking, I asked her where is the guy now... She said he left the country... I laughed and asked her, why didn't he take u along if he cared so much. She could not say anything.

She said the guy wasn't happy seeing her at the hotel and that he was her ex(i knew he was when I met them). I asked her who called him, she said she did. Who invited him to the hotel and she said she did... So why didn't he take u abroad with him? No words.

I didn't even had sex with her all the time we dated lol cos I was young and naive...

Her sins too plenty my brother but my mission has yielded good result for me as far as this girl is concerned Na regret dey kill her now and anytime she thinks about me.

Gggg102:
he is talking based on experience in physics. his machine is a ppm which can't work.

first the machine loses energy in form of heat, so it would stop working after sometime when it loses all its energy. then it would need an external energy source.


second, the machine won't be able to carry any load or do any work. doing work means it needs extra energy go to carry the load. the machine can't produce extra energy on its own because of the first law of thermodynamics. energy can't be created.

what he is trying to do is similar to you using your powerbank to charge itself.

or you trying to carry yourself.

I have read your reply and his... the only thing I have to say to both of you is that continue in your analysis paralysis... like many Nigerians are.

SoapQueen:
I sent it since... I'm surprised.

You sef... see d way u take craft email... found the thing inside my spam. I have replied to the email notifying you.

alexistaiwo:
Hmmm...
Food for thought.
I will ponder on it.

Thanks bro

no kill urself cos of another man pikin bro. U came into the world alone and will leave alone. Always remember that.

When I had my first major heart break... The very one the refined me, one thing that reset my brain was that if I die, she will move on to another person and forget me completely...

At that time I wasn't breathing well and that was the thought kicked me back to life.

Then I told myself I was gonna tell this girl I can rise. She is gonna see me rise from my ashes like a Phoenix!

In order to make that happen, I kept in touch, even till this very moment. My transformation is gonna frustrate her so much that in her next life she will never abuse or look down on any guy.

And it is working already... So much that her countenance (according to her brother) often change each time he tells her we chatted.

At a point, she was even wooing me out of desperation. A girl that destroyed my self-esteem and confidence.

Walahi... Success is the best revenge!

SalamRushdie:
Dead on Arrival... another toy Einstein toying with the utopic engineering of the perpetual motion machine ..This is beautiful nonsense but I still commend him for putting his brain into some imagination drive

let's see what u can do? You know so much and you Are in a country with darkness everywhere!

alexistaiwo:
Talking about cuter girls.
The thing paining me right now is the fact that I have many options to choose from but I can't.

I don't wanna date anybody right now not even her yet the fact that she could move on and even start having sex less than two months after we fought without officially calling things quit is driving me crazy.

Hope you understand?

some girls just want to have fun. The mistake we make is not knowing exactly what a girl wants... You have to define that phase first before you begin any thing so that you can hold her accountable.

You are talking about future, did she see you in her own future? That is a question you should ask yourself.

You are not the first to engage in a 4 years relationship that a girl threw out of the window due to new emotions.

For most girls their emotion is their brain bro and there is nothing you can do as long as that emotions is still building up. Just wait till the excitement is over.

She might still just want to have fun bro and it appear that the fun/excitments from your side not longer catches or fancy or non existent as the case might be..

If you want to forget her fast, just get another girl to hang out with.

I have two stories I can dig up for you to see on nairaland.

One threw a 5 years relationship because the dude traveled out for his Msc.

Another one, after suffering with a guy for years, the mother led her to get pregnant for another man and boom her former boyfriend blow after he got a job in an oil company and dude chop money badly.

The thing with ladies is that their brain is wired differently bro.

Check today's punch or guardian newspaper... It made headline but not sure about the strength of this declaration though.

SoapQueen:
I sent it since... I'm surprised.

neve4 mind sha.. Didn't get any. Wasn't really important.

three:
Really?

The same Debola who along with Chude collected funds from Amaechi to market Buhari?
https://www.thenigerianvoice.com/news/194010/i-took-a-risk-with-chude-adebola-to-handle-the-presidential-campaign-and-they-did-a-great-jobro.html

The same one behind the Buhari in Suit Photo?
https://www.kemifilani.com/2015/10/how-rotimi-amaechi-debola-williams.html

The same Debola who along with Chude marketed APC - One Dollar = One Naira, Millions of Jobs for youths?

Is this guy okay at all?


http://www.herald.ng/lost-39-million-rivers-fund-fraudsters-amaechi/

that's how Madam Lola Shoneyin whose father was jailed by Buhari joined the campaign trail
(her father is now a member of APC

https://www.nairaland.com/4461538/lola-shoneyin-vote-buhari-jailed

the day your realise that everybody is fighting for their own stomach is the day you learn what it takes to be a Nigerian. Nobody cares about anybody in this country. All man for himself.

happney65:
I don laugh tire..Debola Lagos is the engine room of the propaganda arm of the APC..He is an astute guy and believe me I doff my hat for him..He helped installed at least 3 African Presidents..

If the money is right for him in 2019 he will still work with Buhari..nonesense boy

lol. I love the way you crafted it even though I don't like the turn of events.

It is all about the Benjamins

eyesoflagostv:
I&E FOREX WINDOW ATTRACTS $1.9BN IN 5 DAYS
source : http://www.eyesoflagos.com/2018/04/i-forex-window-attracts-19bn-in-5-days.html

The foreign exchange market last week saw an inflow of $1.9 billion through the Investors and Exporters (I&E) window and the interventions of the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN). The CBN had in its two interventions held last week pumped in $606.18 million as $1.29 billion flowed into the market through the I&E window. According to Eyes Of Lagos reports, The highest inflow last week at the I&E window was on Tuesday when $361.38 million flowed in but it dropped to $137.62 million by Thursday. Value of the naira at the I&E window opened the week flat at N360 to the dollar, the same at the close of the previous week and by Thursday, it had depreciated to N360.25 before closing the week at N360.2 to the dollar. The CBN spot rate opened the week at N305.60 and remained unchanged throughout the week. The CBN during the week had pumped in more foreign exchange into the economy selling $396.18 million into the Retail Secondary Market Intervention Sales (SMIS) segment of the market in its move to guarantee liquidity in the forex market. This brought the total of foreign exchange sold by the apex bank last week to $606.18 million. Earlier in the week it had sold $210 million to meet demand at the wholesale, Small and Medium Enterprises (SMEs) and the invisibles segment of the market. According to figures obtained from the CBN, the released sum is meant to meet obligations in the agricultural, airlines, petroleum products and raw materials and machinery sectors. Confirming the figures, the bank’s acting director, corporate communications department, Isaac Okorafor said that interventions by the CBN in both the retail and wholesale sectors of the forex market were targeted primarily at ensuring liquidity in the market as well as encouraging production and trade, particularly now that the focus was on the promotion of local content. Okorafor further explained that with the country’s reserves nearing $50 billion, CBN was even more determined to sustain the gains recorded through the various policy options the bank took in the course of stemming the depletion of the external reserves and steering Nigeria out of recession. Beyond ensuring liquidity in the inter-bank sector of the market, he said CBN was committed to supporting efforts aimed growing the economy and further diversifying it away from oil. Despite rates closing at N362/$1 on Friday, Okorafor, insisted that the market would remain stable and that CBN would ensure it maintains the country’s external reserves in order to safeguard the international value of the naira.

APC and propaganda. Just rule for another 4 years and get out please. I will forever hate Tinubu for bringing hardship on the entire country, using his image and greed to destroy what we had.

Oloshi Omo ale

SoapQueen:
I sent it since... I'm surprised.

I dropped my gmail ID. U should send it to that one.

alexistaiwo:
. Thanks for the advice but it is hard knowing that the girl you thought you both have a future is presently taking dick overnight somewhere.

How do one deal with that?

by being better version than she left u... It has always been my goal.

Besides things like this are meant to refine us and not break us.

You can get a cuter girl... Like my buddy once said, the girlfriend has to go so that the wife can come in. Simple.

alexistaiwo:
No time truly.

She's presently getting the dick overnight at the guys house right now and she told me that she met him during the disagreement period which is less than two months.

Makes me wonder if this has been going on behind my back since

just let her go... As long as u were good to her, that is all that matters.

I have learned that women know who was good to them. They know this, they always reflect on it... Even if they act like "nothing dey happen, to hell with u" in their solitude and flash back, they know the best guy that truly love and care about them from heart...

That was a lesson I learned from my arrogant and egocentric biiitch... Despite all her negligence toward my feelings and how she treated me like a piece of shiiit... She eventually came back after like 3 years to BEG cos she tasted dIicks and no guy could give genuinely from the heart like I gave... She told me plainly that she doesn't regret what she did with anyone but she regretted what she did to me.

alexistaiwo:
I will think about it

I have been where you and much worse and this was the same advice i was given right here on nairaland... besides, i swore i was gonna start treating girls like trash and guess what...?

Someone adviced me and I quote "if you close your eyes because you don't want to see the devil, you won't know when an angel will pass"

Boy, did those words came to pass? They did... and they happened while i was still fooling around as i had little patience for girls at that peak of my life. I was swimming in my own past, instead of letting go and focus on the present. I regret that action and that made me adjust so much that I became more patient than I should be even when a girl messes me up... until I end everything based on their action.

I am someone who likes telling my story with the other party as the predator, the one who does good while other party does bad. wHEN It became obvious that I had messed up an opportunity to be with a really nice girl... i hated my life so much. At the end, I had to cut all ties with her, deleted her picture and phone number and unfriended her on facebook... just so i can stop thinking about her as she had met another guy but I was the first to meet her before that dude. I just allow her initial shakara make me give up... within a week of starting the wooing

she even called me twice some one or two months later. I didn't know the calls where to know if i was still interested lol... just don't let ur past ruin your present bro. no time.

alexistaiwo:
How did you arrive at this conclusion

Just let her go... u can use the vengeance energy to make a good development in yourself with the energy.

alexistaiwo:
Had a quarrel, left her without any form of communication for seven weeks.
Came back to her only to find out that she already has a new boyfriend, okay I am back discard the new guy, she said no.

Okay what will we do now?
She said that she thought I was gone for good so she moved on.
She said new boyfriend is going to be out of the country next month, we will be together again by then (see mumu) .
She wants to eat her cake and have it


I am not the one proposing the knacking arrangement oo.

I will have my pound of flesh if and when her new relationship fails or even when new boyfriend is out of the country.

Will bring her back then replace her as soon as she's getting comfortable.

Nobody messes with Alexistaiwo

no need bro. U never loved her...

SoapQueen:
Hells nah.. I don't drink at all.

okay. Didn't see any reply from u though. Happy Sunday

SoapQueen:
Replied. I'm groggy as hell.

didn't get ur reply.

SoapQueen:
Replied. I'm groggy as hell.

sorry. Hope u didn't take alcohol?

SoapQueen:
Just got home! Had the time of my life! Was a great and fun meet.

I replied your PM from days ago and dropped my real email. Do well to check.

youngbelieve:
My God!! Are some pple dah heartless. Her own daughter for dat matter

People give birth to children for different reasons and this mother here has told the world her own reason... to recoup her investment. It is nothing new to someone like me who has heard words like "na ashawo I born", words said when a new baby girl is born and to the grown up girls they say "are you not a girl?", meaning go fork dicks and stop asking me for money to take care of you... i am not surprised for real.