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https://www.nairaland.com/1809506/perverted-woman

Empressgifted: The worst part of it is that if you don't have a boyfriend people see you as weird, they are like "why don't you have a boyfriend" and I'm like "why don't you come clean with it and ask me - why don't you commit fornication?
The end is truly near, may we be found rapturable on His coming. AMEN

My dear remember extraordinary people don't do what ordinary people do. Do what is right, don't follow the mammoth crowd because you were uniquely created.
Thanks for this awesome contribution.

bukatyne:

You did not answer any of my questions.

I agree you are talking about women alone but the issue of sex involves two people at least and is like the proverbial chicken and egg.

OK, to rephrase my first question, what do you think made women less virtuous?

let me correct you. Sex does not just involve two people, but specially created only for marriage between a man and a woman. But today it is being abused and used as fun. We now have the gay, bisexuals, lesbians, transgender etc thereby destroying hetrosexuality is that what you call sex between two people?

Women have lost their virtue because of the same society which have mould them so. Flick on your T.V and watch a movie, all they potray as love is sex and romance. P*rn has made so many women believe they are sluts. You watch p*rn and all you see is violence, fetish and unnatural sorts of things. Have you wondered why you can easily watch p*rn on the internet for free ? .... And I call those who buy it bonus fools. The society and this new world order wants to use the media to influence your subconscious mind and leave you helpless.
Women now believe in all these trash because, their subconscious mind hs been cultured so. We can't even watch the TV without being harrassed by a s*xual scene and they term it as "LOVE". The woman has lost her virtue due to the subconscious social conditioning which make wrong seem acceptable all in the name of freedom and enlightenment which has left them a sham. The same government that preaches peace and freedom yet endorse wars. Going naked is now a trend?........ Oh my God! What a shame no dignity. In the former days fashion was all about what you are wearing now its all about what you are not!! Women must realise they are in a big mess before we get stripped completely of our essence.

bukatyne: @OP:

I have two questions for you:

1. Were the men of old chaste? or did they have a tiny pool of women they messed around with and then went on to marry from the wide pool of virgins when ready?

2. Are you talking about gender inequality in marriage/generally?

Will be expecting your answers

Thank you very much for these great questions.
First of all, looking at the statistics of the old and now marriages, the difference is clear. The world then was sane to a resonable extent which our world today will look as risible. I'm not talking on the general life of men here, I'm talking about the lost pride of women, and I used the old good days as example where sacrifice was paramount. Having women in their pools is the more same thing I'm saying, just like in the bible days we had prostitutes, Just that right now its off the hook and women has totaly lost their physical spiritual and emotional balance.
Take a look at our celebrities then and now.


Secondly I'm talking about the perverted woman in general and it all concerns inequality marriage and general conduct.

I hope I did answer your questions.
Thank you sister for this wonderful contribution.

Smartsyn: Need not say more Corper. You nailed it.

But most of this pressure comes from men, who sometimes try to test how much a lady loves them by how much they can sacrifice and women being the ' weaker vessel ' do fall for it. The society making them believe that the world of women should revolve around men, though not all women fall for that prank and ideology, majority does.

thank you sir for your contribution. I must say that the reason men do this is the same reason why women do thiers too. All is stemed up by the socio illumination called "freedom" while in the real sense it is slavery. Men see women as sex objects for gratification rather than divine beings created in uttermost wonder made to be loved. The society is being influenced by the Banksters and media who infuse into our minds deregatory image of our self worth, thereby making man not know their real worth and value. Remember this phrase "you destroy to rule" need I say more.
Once again thanks for your contribution

calmdown: This is absolutely on point. However, I will advise that if the write-up isn't original, the first author be quoted.

Thank you very much for your contributions but sincerely, I wrote this myself this morning as the inspiration came while contemplating on our society and the woman imagery. I can also remember being challenged on the USA thread, when I said a woman should submit to a man. When "juntod" "zeezehabe" said in the US its void. I wouldn't want to obtrude this on anyone, but to enlighten every woman of Gods real purpose and obligations of every virtuous woman.
Once again thank you sir for your comments.

Looking at the world today, we can see the trend selling off on the gender equality. In this subject my opinions might not totally make sense to the mordern illusion most women have been conditioned to believe, but in actual facts the truth must be told.
"Women has lost their femininity". During the time of our fore fathers, sex was all about family, love and procreation which made their relationships survive through pain, joy and understanding. Sex outside marriage was not even a topic then. Most men could not get married until they were in their mid 30's or early 40's and passed through the tests of manhood and termed as "matured" before looking for a mate. And women were cultured and tailored on being a good wife of esteem in her husbands eyes, good cooks and Virgins. I can remember my grandfather tell me how he married my grandmom a virgin and after proving it, went to thank her parents with gifts for bringing up a good daughter.
In our present world today the society has been polluted by the "MEDIA" who uses obscenity to re-condition the mind of the society, distorting our moral values and keeping us in self bondage. In recent "Nollywood" and "hollywood" Movies, sex is being potrayed as love, leaving the Woman masked to reality and all these is "SOCIAL CONDITIONING".

Now my question is where is the feminity in women?........ None. This days, women are slutry and immoral. The boyfriend rave is at the peak, sex is no longer for commitment and marriage but now fun. I have this saying that many women to whom I have told have literally burst out laughing. Mostly because it does sound so corny, but it keeps me sane. Most woman, will skip the first stage and only concentrate on the second and most men I have met will allow it even though to have a lover who knows not you or your dreams, is like having a real life inflatable doll at your side: "a cum bucket".

I would think if the men would demand more from their women instead of allowing them to act like little miss slut-slut, women would get the message that men don't want girls who have gone wild.

Anyways it goes:

There are 4 stages every woman will go through in the life of a man.

Friend - with whom he learns to laugh, love, dream, and cry
Lover - of mind, body, and soul
Wife - because he needs no other
Mother - of that which makes him whole.

in the BIBLE women were submissive to their husband and called them lord. Today men are being Emasculated and the perversion leads them with ideas of "women run the world" making God a liar, thereby blaspheming and making the creator a liar. Men are created to be the head and women as supplemental helpers, not equal gender. Divorce in its increase has done nothing but produced a selfish lust fulfilled puppets and what will the future of our little children today be tomorrow?

The woman need a reassessment of their real entities. In next update I will be digging deep on this topic on the rise and fall of the woman and the plan to use women as puppets to end the world. I am a woman and I believe in the truth unredefined.

Drop your comments and share your experiences.

slimmy05: Bro, forget all the exaggeration. Nigerians are still very much in Iceland, Finland and Norway. Its not that bad abeg.

Bros this is real and true. people are living there, but coming new there wasn't easy at all but you can survive. Just be ready to cry for the first few weeks

Feexo:

Now you are scaring me...

Bros I think say u be commando

slimmy05: Amen. Very good, that's the spirit

I'm also enthusiastic to read yours go gettam.

Feexo: Amerinancy, I do know Illinois is cold, and I am coming prepared...

Have you ever entered in a deep freezer before? If "NO" go and try it today because you will be putiing on 5 jackets , 5 sweaters , 5 coat abi na suit , and 5 shirt LOL midwest na gobe oh!

slimmy05: I am heading to Tennessee, but would spend some fees days in Illinois.

Hope you're ready for the interview. I am waiting to read that sweet transcript.

By Gods grace I will get it. I'm ready and you will surely read my transcript in jesus name.

Feexo: Amerinancy, I am heading to WIU.

I'm heading western illinois too though not your school. Safe trip. We could meet over there, I hope you know say cold 4 here na die!!!
@slimmy darling which one you dey now? Illinois or where?

Feexo: Peeps,
I would like to know if stopping in NY for 2-3 days is not a problem at POE as my final destination is Illinois. My school resumes August 18th, and I leave Nigeria on August 9th.

Zeezhabee, Bethel for Layi-Oyekanmi? What year? You must know Mr Tomide Ajifowowe then...

Where in illinois are you heading to?

teddyrain: yes ma I see u be my fan. I'm just trying oh! Small small.

If that's you, then you are really good. So what are you looking for here? Or are you also in the visa hustle or are you in US already?

Walspring:

hmmmmmmm... You must be a core listener of that programme

blushing.

Walspring:

Thanks madam...

my pleasure darling

teddyrain: you are highly welcomed sir. U no dey remember my parole again na thiaris God oh!

hello teddyrain are you the guy that sang that love song they usually play on raypower?

Datanonymous: Tulsa, Oklahoma sir

sir I'm female and I have a friend heading to ok city on 17th

stevecrun: teddy teddy,our bosom friend and entertainer.

We miss you oohh!!

@stevecrun WAIT I THINK I DO HEAR THIS NAME ''TEDDYRAIN'' ON RAY POWER FM IS HE A MUSICIAN? cos there is this song i do hear on soul senerade at night song by the above name and the song is cool but i dont know the title

Walspring:

I need scholarship, do you mind showing me the school name?

lol university of chicago oh although i'm planning to transfer to another school still in illinois that also gave me scholarship

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Datanonymous: Please is anyone here heading to Oklahoma? How do I go about flight booking please?

where in oklahoma are you going to?

Idazbawz: Those words are kinda deep... you might wanna make use of the modification button, except you had issues with her....

Thanks

My dear, I have no issues with no one. Being immatured is not a crime or a curse. If I behave so and you tell me so all I have to do is take to it and improve to be better.


Also the second bolded is a simple advice nothing else. We are all important here. I don't discriminate, but one thing about me is that I'm that friend who will tell you the truth looking into your eyeballs even if it hurts.

olumide098:

Dont let anybody mislead you oooo.....she didnt type anything...those words are not sensitive ja re....how do you know about the school? simply go to the thread and check people response to this or check my own ja re..huh..quickly go to Gtbank and pay for next appointment..dont waste time at all

olumide I think he is right because the education USA consellor told me they do type your response.I Stand to be corrected tho.

Graviton2:

my potential husband kpele oh lol!

olumide098:

@Amerinancy and Slimmy...Believe i wanted to contribute but i didnt get her point very well....I can advice her ooo...lol

Darling read it properly your advice is highly esteemed.

slimmy05: Alright, the lord is your strength. Now am beginning to sound like godG Just try and compose yourself well. Sound passionate about yourself.

And what about not writing any tests? although I was even offered a scholarship. The school required toefl or SAT but I told the recriut officer that Nigeria uses british system of learning, so he requested for my school principal's email contacted him and asked several questions about me and told him to write a recommendation letter, I also wrote an 850 personal statement. Please what can I say?

Graviton2:

Beautiful and well thought out response. Very well coordinated.

Girl, will you marry me?

you are funny. if its Gods will who am I? But shey we go first date na make I know you...... Just joking oh don't worry Farabaale kosi wahala.

slimmy05: you've been in shock for three years now? I totally understand the shock of losing ones mother. But don't you need that's not enough cogent reason as to stay away from studies for so long? Did you take SAT? I am interested in knowing how you intend covering this gap as the reason you gave above are not cogent enough. I might be wrong anyway.

well I'm the only child and so losing a mom was ......... Something I don't wanna remember 4 now. please if you have any contributions to this please help me and "NO" I didn't even write standardized test .. My bad.

baggylips: Visa delayed this morning at lagos consulate.Here is the excerpts.
Vo.....good morning
Me....good morning ma
Vo....Are u......
Me....yes ma..
After the biometrics..
Vo....how did u get to know about Uhcl?
Me....Actually I got to know about the school when I used prof....research paper in my undergraduate project and I later researched to see that prof.....is a lecturer in the dept of biotechnology of uhcl.i also exchanged emails with him and he encouraged me to come and further in his field.
Vo....do u have the copy of the emails with u?
Me....No...didn't bring it along cos its not one of the requirements for the interview.
Vo.....typing
After typing
Vo.....did u write any test?
Me...yes...I wrote gre and toefl
Vo....let me see ur gre
Me....passes it
Vo....typing
After typing
Vo....i'm sorry...ur visa was not approved....bla bla bla
Me..*bones face*
Me....Thank you*with a wicked smile*
Please experts in the house..what went wrong?

I think your reasons why you chose this school wasn't convincing to the VO. If a prof actually told you to choose this school, did you do your own induvidual research? Did you see if this school is ranked? What are the academic qualities this school possess that really attracted you? I can remember once asked by my dad if he brought a husband one day and said hey! This guy is the best guy in the world and without proving it would I choose? my obvious answer was "NO". So he taught me to be a decision maker myself and also take responsibility of whatever decision I make. What I'm trying to say is when next you are going tell the vo the reasons why you not your prof thinks this school is best 4 you (your profs should be a bonus point not the main)
Goodluck. delay is never denial.