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Wahala,wahala ooo

First of all, kill that idea that your wife is not adding any value because value is not just financial. Values can be tangible and intangible, and I am sure she's adding some value; raising kids, nanny work, keeping the home, cooking and cleaning, saving the family some costs with her unpaid labour. So you mean she's not adding revenue, and I understand why you are angry. One source of income is never enough these days, with the rising cost of living, the burden on a single breadwinner is too much. To make matters worse, she's not making any effort, and sincerely, it's a scary place to be if you are an overthinker like me. I hate to say that I'm in a similar state. My advice for you is to let someone else talk to her. If her mama is reasonable, let her take up the task. "God forbid" is not a plan. Let her know that earning a living is for her own good. To empower her to support the family and for the eventualities. What will she do if you lose your job, get sick, or even pass away? Why waste her youth pressing phone when she can be more productive? Also, explore things she is good at. Not everyone can do the buying and selling business, even when it seems easy. Let her sell for someone first to learn the skill. You can explore mini poultry, makeup & gele, business centre etc. Let her learn the skill first. She can also find a job. Some men start with "my wife will not work", and when she relaxes, they now start complaining. However, know that if she starts working things at the home front will not get equal attention. I hope you are ready to cope with the opportunity cost.

Thank you

leo1234:
Sell some as the price goes up.

leo1234:
Welcome to Aradel.

I have started taking profit 📈

Well above 100% profit


Adding more to my TANTALIZER.

When you say take profit, what does it mean? Sell some?

What do you think about Aiico, Dangote sugar and Jaiz Bank? Newbie asking.

Kindly explain please

nosa2:
Don't look at prices look at valuations. Knowing when to sell is important and valuation should be your guide. I hope you noticed that I was quoting forward PE when referring to my holdings not the price.

Then lead a transparent process and results transmission in real time.

I am guilty of this

I am shocked he said this. For the first time ,he didn't make fun out of a serious issue. He sounds like he care. Father we pray they walk the talk 🙏🏾.

That man never made any effort until the children were grown, says a lot about him. He should go back to the brother/Sisters that fueled his ego to maltreat his family. No normal wife will leave to fend for 4 kids alone except the man is the type that Jeremiah looked at and exclaimed, "The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked". Forgiveness is Divine, so you can forgive and still maintain a safe distance.

Congratulations to them

Oga, just bring these kids back. My life has not been normal since these children were kidnapped. For these evil men to have the mind to kidnap nursery children, what do you have to tell us again? How can little children be in the forest for weeks, with hunger, mosquitoes, snakes and other wild animals, facing threats and guns? I can hear them crying for their mothers. They have been wearing a single cloth ever since, no bathing, and they will be feeling cold. These children belong at home, please. I don't care what you are doing, Sir Ribadu please bring back these kids. Thank you.

Now man don kpai woman for the same infidelity, narrative don change. Many of them in the chat are justifying the killing, unlike the soldier's death. Nobody has the right to take another's life. Take a walk. Marriage is not a do-or-die affair.

Young lady, disappointment and embarrassment are part of life. Just learn from it and don't take it personally.

Biodiversity comes to mind. Everything God created is good and has it's place and function in the world. When you look at the food chain you see that wall geckos eat insects and help with avoiding over infestation.

Beautiful and poshed car. Congratulations to him

I want to japa biko. See the world

His wife dreaded it yet it happened. May God console your family.

To add salt to injury NNPC and the Oil producers were not ready to support production take off with locally produced crude. I remember someone saying Dangote should have started from producing his own crude. The odds were piled up against him. May this biggest risk taker win.

Congratulations

Is this training still available?

Rest in peace Sola. It truly blew me away,that you protected you little one till your last breath.

Thank you Mr President. Follow through to avoid looting

Jenmy:
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Very Educative

There is power in the Blood of Jesus. Thank you Lord for saving your son.

uwaifou:
FBN quest still stands out. They are the best when it comes to daily accrual /interest the two years.

I have Ucap, Stanbic, quantum zenith, norrenberger. FBN QUEST stands out

Why did you say so? Interest rate ?

aremso:
Am not in it because is not in bamboo but have opened Optimus it has many potential stocks than bamboo

Thank you for updating us on potential stocks. I am on Bamboo too but the last stock i bought, i lost 80% of my little cash invested. i will be following this thread for more insight

I really need to know more about mutual funds

Tellmeastory:
The funniest ones are the ones crying after learning they will lose their free healthcare.

They were all enjoying the ‘Affordable Care Act’ introduced by Obama, which guaranteed universal health coverage.

Trump campaigned saying he would end “Obama Care”.

Millions of the poor racist whites thought ‘Obama Care’ was a special health program Obama had established to benefit black and brown people.

So millions of whites voted for Trump based on his promise to “end the disaster called Obama Care”.

Only to find out that “Obama Care” is the “Affordable Care Act”!!

Many are so devastated.

They lost their healthcare because of their racism.

Is it not the same Obama care some of my Nigerian people said it will inject 666 in people's blood. How Obama is the beast in the book of Revelation.

This is a beautiful read. I love where the writer spoke about speedy development and harnessing of our fossil fuel to fund the future. Government need to put in the right policies to enhance Gas production. Transition is not happening any time soon; oil and gas is going to be available for a long time but it's high time we as a nation take our economy and diversification of our resources seriously. Our oil and gas production capacity is still wobbling as a nation. Train 7 construction is ongoing but even when it comes on board, that will still not be enough. The discussion on massive investment in gas has been on for years now. Where are we on the decade of gas? What happened to Brass LNG?

Happy birthday and many more fruitful years Sir. I will use this opportunity to start a business

That's a positive way to end the year