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did you read the part where i stated i did not want to commit fraud

he already made his choice, so wat is there for u to do but move on with your life, tell him to kick rocks, the best thin u can do is to go on with life and make goals, the best way to get back at someone is to improve yourself and your life,

mrs eve   queeneve please stop plagerising, i am sure u think everyone on here actually thinks you wrote that COPY AND PASTE MESS, hmm how many times now have i read that , anyways nice message, here is my cut and paste,


If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better."

You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.

He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behaviour.* Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or in a better job.

Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise is two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage,

deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you,

a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals,

look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.

Dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes, when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.

Share this with other women and men (just so they know), You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and

an entire lifetime to forget them

a friend of a friend is asking me to marry him so he can get his american papers(as i am a us citizen), he is offerin me 10k usd, i have been asked this many times by other people and have always declined, however i am wondering if i decide to do this.(since being in canada and now going through canadian immigration i now understand and feel sorry for people who have a hard time getting their status).what are the risk and what are the steps , i am not wanting to be inconvenienced and of course would be scared of doing fraud, a friend of mines who is a nigerian guy just married a white lady for his papers and he says that it is not a big process, well any information, or thoughts is welcomed,

I would not mind it, i have been in the states since a kid and its good to travel other places, i am curretly now in canada and plan to stay in africa within a year for a year or two, as long as i have us citizen i can always come back home

why should they post their pic? is this a datin site?

Phate07:

~coughs~

water?

lol i will think hard on it

hmm maybe its true love

lol it just comes natural

dis is the same man that say we will die together of old age, hmmm

np problem, my bf love the food i cook last night, he came in and he said it smells like he is in africa kitchen lol

well try to take a break then do it

why u cant get ur head straight

how is ur day

lol sorry

lmao, i hear u, whatever makes u happy

ur mama lie to u o

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=559472.msg7245927#msg7245927 date=1291129204]@amina!
U squeezing your guy's manhood toughly . . .Release this guy for a while nau . . . .I know how men feel when found not hidding or can't hide anything from her! [/quote]lol, no one is holding him he is a free man, and he does the same thing to me, he knows how much i get and all,

maybe his smell

lol yes he is not happy i know so much , cuz he cannot tell me he has no money when i know how much savings he has

mordi u just showed urself,

i knew u meant for me sweety, lol

congratulation!,

[quote author=Mr¬Cork link=topic=559472.msg7245590#msg7245590 date=1291125939]in fact, when my ex saw my bank statement, she wanted me to buy her a cap [/quote]maybe that is all she thought your account could afford

yes i agree some men cannot handle a lady making more money

jay bee:
She will see ma payslip anyway so no biggie.
No reason to be sensitive about what i earn.

very true sir, i see it all, even i know his social number and how much he has in savings and he didnt have to tell me cuz i can find on my oqn

Yes i can let my boyfriend know, he knows how much i bring home weekly and monthly and i know the same for him, we both have seperate accounts and it works just fine,

that is nice advice, i try and pray and try to do good