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Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by gbengress1: 1:43am On Nov 30, 2010 |
Fellow nairalanders, can you disclose your real wages or salaries to your partner? |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by omega25red(m): 1:45am On Nov 30, 2010 |
yes why? |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by 190: 1:47am On Nov 30, 2010 |
NO cos if you do She would multiply and divide the monthly cost on Hair, Recharge cards Suya Nails Shoes Meat Car whats left is yours to manage!! |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by Dsense(m): 1:51am On Nov 30, 2010 |
OP, Yep . . .why not! |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by kmoneyE(m): 1:56am On Nov 30, 2010 |
Its a two way thing |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by gbengress1: 1:59am On Nov 30, 2010 |
@k-money, two way thing?how |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by gbengress1: 8:20am On Nov 30, 2010 |
how |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by Nobody: 8:23am On Nov 30, 2010 |
Yes and No. Yes willingly if shes not the greedy type. Hell no if a girl like one of my ex. |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by silvertuke(m): 8:51am On Nov 30, 2010 |
190: Confirm 190 you have spoken well I agree with you. |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
^^^^190 and you are just weak men who cant handle your biz. First: you guys probably should look for gals who have their own J O B (income), so that you dont have to provide for what 190 mentioned. Second: who cares if she asks (or double the fee)? DONT PAY and stick to what you are comfortable to offer, if she doesnt like it, she could always take a hike!!!! Last: if you fear women that much then there is only ONE way out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by MrCork7: 12:12pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
actualy. we call it Income support here in the UK |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by SAGoddess: 12:15pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
Unless we are married, I don't see why my partner has to know my income. . . . . |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by duchess4: 12:29pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
Learnt to stop doing that. Had a partner who made sure he sees the "made in china" of whatever money i earn before he rests. realised the moment he knows my salary comes in or i get any cash at all, that is when this and that must be bought without delay. couldnt save anything at the end of the month. Dint tell him when i got a pay increase and dnt tell when i get any allowances or even cash gifts. it was a case of " monkey de work, baboon de chop". Learnt my lessons the hard way! |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by axeman85(m): 12:37pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
Yes if the person is my wife BUT no if na ordinary babe. But even if gf knows its wat i feel like giving or do, i do if shes not ok den good riddance 2 bad rubbish. |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by Oluwabee(f): 12:40pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
Yes i can if he let me know his. And for me, knowin his does not mean i demand too much from him. I love to be independent and so I work hard to make my money and to spend my money d way i want to |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by chukz4real(m): 12:42pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
Nothing wrong with that |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by homerac7: 12:58pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
for a babe, no way and even if she finds out, she's on her own. wifey, surely will let her knw. at least i think she's entitled to knw afterall we swim and sink together. |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by Yorubah(m): 1:02pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
I cant tell her oo, Woman! na that time she go multiply her expenses and you have no options than to obey lol |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by badlaw(f): 1:13pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
never,i can't even think abt telling her the really amount. cos if i does without given her what she expect every month from me there will be trouble. see boy get sense. u must add little lie to make it up with ur p. or u crash out.just try and care for her as much as u can ok. get payment of 150k monthly and tell her is 100k sure she will love u more if u give her 20k or less . then scope her little brain.lol |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by Theblessed(f): 1:22pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
[size=18pt]Well, let's put it this way, as his wife it's my right to know - if he withhold such information from me, this lady will not reveal hers either and we'll have a happy family, Is it not what he want?? Then we will create it, happy family and the scores will look good in every aspect, won't they? If a married couple want a peaceful home, they better be transparent with each other in everything they do, that's my take! [/size] |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by IbrahimB: 1:29pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
REALITY101: You may also want to add "if she's not the talkative type" to your list. Before you know it, all her friends and relatives know how much oga makes in a month |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by mediatrix8(f): 1:38pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
It should be kept private for lovers but married couple should keep transparency on their incomes, a so called joint account to know how to budget on their needs and wants |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by aminalib(f): 1:44pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
Yes i can let my boyfriend know, he knows how much i bring home weekly and monthly and i know the same for him, we both have seperate accounts and it works just fine, |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by babyme1(f): 1:53pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
My BF knows how much im earning,and he tells me every income he makes. We also consult each other before spending huge sums of money. |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by kmoneyE(m): 1:55pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
baby.me: i dont know how much you earn== the other time i asked you== you were like |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by babyme1(f): 1:56pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
k-money £: |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by Specialist900(m): 2:24pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
For g.f: mba. For wife: yes. MRbrownJAY:i couldn't agree less. |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by turboman(m): 2:28pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
Carolece: Marriages barely last these days and break ups are prevalent because people like u invest all your resources (time, money, energy, etc) on "breakup or divorce recovery". On the long run, if there is no breakup, you'll make one happen |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by jaybee3(m): 2:31pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
She will see ma payslip anyway so no biggie. No reason to be sensitive about what i earn. |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by kmoneyE(m): 2:35pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
baby.me: Your next day day will show if truely you can let me know how much you earn. |
Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by aminalib(f): 2:41pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
jay bee: very true sir, i see it all, even i know his social number and how much he has in savings and he didnt have to tell me cuz i can find on my oqn |
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