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Family / Re: Why Do Married Men Sexually Impress And Satify Their Mistress Than Their Wife by amprat: 4:37pm On Dec 31, 2017
Because :
1.A mistress understands the only reason the man is with her is her bedmatics skills and looks,so she works hard at it searching for new ways to make it fresh at all times, a new experience, leveraging on different locations and props. when your man is used to a particular look, hair style ,dress sense that you always have in different shades as if you have patent right for those looks his eyes will find something different one day and his mind would meditate on it.

2. Everyman wants a born again wife who has the skills of a "prostitute " for him and him alone .

3. A mistress gets down to the main thing, talk about money later but doesn't bore the man about details of planning for the unborn generation or remind him that he's still on earth and so still has challenges he has to overcome, she doesn't bore, she gives him that fantasy experience like hard drugs and alcohol.
A man is moved by what he sees and controlled by the experience you give him or that he anticipates he will get from you . As long as a man is attracted to you, keeping him is not rocket science ( except your village people are on your matter O)

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Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 1:10pm On Dec 21, 2017
eyinjuege:


Your mum doesn't need your brother's help financially, neither do any of you guys from your narrative.
So what is the problem in this case?
What is the purpose of this thread?
Why not give your brother a chance, and see if he proves responsible if there's really a genuine need for your mother?
For now, you mum may have even achieved more than the brother in question.
If you feel he doesnt call or ask after his siblings and mother enough, you guys can do the calling if you genuinely love your brother. Who knows what he's also going through in the closet of his home.

The interesting but annoying thing about nairaland is people who can not comprehend a post but go ahead to comment anyway and later comeback to ask question about the post.
The essence of the post is to determine the reason(s) for my brother's behaviour, if he is just being wise,wicked or cursed, and I said he is rich I didn't say I imagine or think,except you know him more than I do.
Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 8:32am On Dec 21, 2017
Reasonabledoubt:


Well. My parents don’t need me to build them a mansion. I will build my mansions, my kids don’t need to build me these mansions.

My parents did not pass through a lot to train me, they planned for me, they know it was their responsibility. My father is of this mindset too. He drums this into our heads.

I will not make my children hawk, and suffer with them, train them, them blackmail them with my ineptitude later.

They will come when I can afford them, I will be grateful to God for giving me the privilege of parenthood, so I will make sure that they will not have to become adults overnight because they are hustling with me. They won’t grow up thinking I did them a favor.

While doing this, I will be planning my old age. So that they won’t have to shoulder the responsibility of their homes, my own home, and that of their siblings.

They won’t have to keep jobs that they hate because they have to pay my rent and theirs.

They will be free to pursue their dreams, and take risks, discover themselves because they know I won’t be calling to ask them to pay up, for bringing them into this world.

I will have children that will actually get to live, not exist, and they will pass this down to their own generation.

Now I understand you better, I agree you should plan for kids but I wonder the reason we shouldz listen to you because from what I can deduce from your post you don't have any kids yet(correct me if I am wrong). your perception is that we are all poor in my family and hence need my brother's help for us to live and breath, wrong, very wrong read my post again.
I'll like to let you know that my mother is self reliant and self sufficient and a director in one of the ministries,lives in her own house. I don't understand the reason "you carry this matter for head" if you don't have kids yet, not planning to depend on them and as you say your parents wouldn't depend on you. Oga calm down and resolve whatever issues you might have with yourself . Thanks

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Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 6:46am On Dec 20, 2017
Tosinex:
Maybe he's into money rituals and he's warned not to help any of his family with the money...hahahahaha, maybe o. And If he helps or assist outsiders leaving you guys out of the show, then set up a friend to be collecting from him for you guys lolzzz, just some weird thought for the night hahaha, I'm off to bed oo before some messengers of pilate come to crucify me grin grin
lol, very good idea jare, just that I don't have the energy or liver , I will end up confessing before they catch me self.
Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 6:38am On Dec 20, 2017
Ballmer:

Or beta not bring him to this world at all, anyone that does what you suggested here deserves to be put to death.
I am not suggesting or supporting any of the aforementioned, am only pointing to realities That happen around us everyday
Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 6:35am On Dec 20, 2017
Emzyme:
Op d money is his own ooo
Who knw mayb when.he was younger sef he didn't have dat Close relationship with ur family bvos of u pple.attitude
Go nd hustle ooo

He hustled to get his money do ur own too ahan

Hope say u no.b dat kimd family weh go.deh follow person wife nd children drag her husband property if person.die
Am laughing in Swahili, no we won't be dragging the properties, am not praying to be that wretched or heartless,thanks.
Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 3:46am On Dec 19, 2017
Reasonabledoubt:



On the contrary, my family and I are very close.

I have seen first hand, how carrying family problem on one person’s head can practically ruin your life.

The person won’t progress past that stage, because you keep giving, the problems never stop coming.

As I said. The Op’s Sibling doesn’t owe him shit.
AIp should stop bitching and go make money, since it’s so easy.

If you all keep eating from him, how will he progress?

This man is really vexing o, I think it's because of your bitter experience, but I �think everyone should realise they are not God Therefore you can not totally solve people's problem because human wants are insatiable and your resources are limited no matter how rich you are, wisdom is profitable to direct. That said I think I picked a point from your comment, maybe the guy has heard stuffs like this and he is scared of giving out money so that he is not overwhelmed, probably it is just fear, but that still doesn't explain his show off sha.

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Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 3:38am On Dec 19, 2017
Femsyn:
Duduade made an unpopular, but valid point. Yes, he doesn't owe them anything, but the extent the op is portraying is suspicious.

Let's face it. Even if it isn't an entitlement thing, it shouldn't be as bad as not supporting a struggling immediate family.

Unlike many of us on this platform, I believe some Nollywood stories, especially Yoruba movies and I've seen this script played out before.
nollywood story /script, not at all, I wish I could just drop his details here or call witnesses, all this so called saint and brethren in the church, head of excellent men and choir coordinators, respected in the church and stuff, we don't understand the guy that's the reason am asking questions here, Especially if there are ppl that also do this on this platform maybe they can tell us their reasons like @reasonable doubt who believes he owes nobody anything. I just wonder if he understands that his mum could have decided to drop him off in an orphanage, at a refuse dump or even flash him down the toilet, but everyone to his own, it is his own opinion.

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Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 6:38am On Dec 18, 2017
people should please read the post and try to get the gist of what am saying :I haven't in anyway said he owes his siblings, maybe his mother if he so wishes, may I also inform all that I am married with kids, so is another of my siblings, another is working and earns more than 100k a month, only the last child is in university 400level,therefore my bone of contention is not we wallowing in poverty and needing his help for every and any lil thing, am just trying to understand his mindset, why promise things you won't fulfill, y call to check up on people when they mean nothing to you stay on your own Biko, why tell them you just moved into a duplex when you won't open the gate when they get there, why open your mouth to tell your own mother you Just took your wife to Dubai that she should have been the one but you changed your mind, why tag your siblings pix of you in different countries or celebrating birthday in an expensive restaurant with friends when you didn't invite your own nuclear family, the list is endless, knowing we were raised together with the same values and he turns out this way is what is confusing not how he chooses to spend his money.

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Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 6:19am On Dec 18, 2017
LordKO:
@OP

Foremost, I don't hold brief for selfish and self-centered people - like the character you presented - however, you need to be certain that you or others are not erroneously quantifying his financial worth out of covetousness and self-centeredness. More so, if the family is one with large number of dependent siblings together with parents, and where there's no centralized bank account where each individual volitionally donates money for the general cause of all and where some may obtain favour from the accused without notifying others, he (the accused) may really be overreaching his limit without everyone of you knowing.

To lead/be in a well-placed position is never an easy task, especially when those to lead/help possess one or all of the following negative attitudes; narcissism, self-centeredness, covetousness or conceitedness.

we are just 6, including him and mum, besides he is one of thos3 people who flaunt money in your face and tells the ones still in university to go and hustle, that he has reached a stage where he can use 50k for just refreshments, the last time he travelled to Dubai he made sure everyone knew including his mother and told her he should have taken her there but he just didn't.

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Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 6:37am On Dec 17, 2017
dreamtech3636:
YOU KNOW WETIN ENGLISH CALL CONTEMPT AND DISDAIN

YOU AMBITIOUS FOCUS

ACTIVATES. AMBITIOUS FOCUS
FOR UR SELF

AND ACTIVATE CONTEMPT AND DISDAIN FOR HIM ANYTIME HE CALL U BE POLITE BUT PRETEND THAT YOU CAN NOT REMEMBER HIM FOR NOW

TRY IT

HE WILL VALUE YOU THAN DIAMOND
Thanks, me I don't even send, coupled with the fact that the rest of us are more than united (if there's any word like that), while he might be richer it's not like we depend on him:as Yoruba ppl say, am not satisfied/filled yet but am not hungry either. I only pity mum who single handedly trained us as a young widow who refused to remarry cos of her children, I just wonder if this character is a normal and am just the one seeing it as unusual.

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Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 9:30pm On Dec 16, 2017
Khonifer:
I think it might be to your benefit, your sibling is simply training you to be as independent as possible.

I would have agreed with you if he was taking care of his mother or if anyone calls for help except the last child and mother that keeps hoping and hoodwinked with mother's love, he is the one that calls out of the blues trying to know what is happening to everyone and their future plans like a monitoring spirit,and making promises he never keeps, like you need to change your job, I have contacts or you should further abroad I can sponsor it, or you should work on your talent I'll talk to someone people, blah blah blah

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Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 9:14pm On Dec 16, 2017
Khonifer:
I think it might be to your benefit, your sibling is simply training you to be as independent as possible.
I would have agreed with you if he was taking care of his mother at least and I would have agreed If we call him for help, but he is the one that just suddenly calls out of the blues,asking questions about how far you've gone in life like a monitoring spirit, then starts making promises you didn't ask for, like I'll get you another job, I have the connections, you should develop your talents I'll talk to someone blah blah blah .

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Family / Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 9:08pm On Dec 16, 2017
thorpido:
Your story is not complete.
There must be a reason why he is action g that way.
Did he grow up with you?Has he always been that way and he changed?
Is he married and marriage changed him?
Yes everyone grew up together, I think it just his true nature because anytime he needs the family members like to be present at naming ceremony or introduction and those kind of stuff, he suddenly becomes friendly,calling everyone, reminding them they are all family members,making promises but once he is through he dumps everyone, won't pick calls, not even that of his mother until he needs them again . maybe we never really noticed
Family / Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 8:42pm On Dec 16, 2017
Do you have or know a brother or Sister,who willingly decides not to help out his siblings or parents financially despite being so rich, not caring or remembering you all suffered together, Worst is: do they let you know that they have the ability to help out but have decided they won't or they ask you to make your requests only to disappoint or stylishly insult you. I don't mean extended family members (I think that MIGHT be understandable ), I mean Immediate siblings and parents. what do you think might be the course and if you are someone who does this what are your reasons, please if you have no reasonable comments, skip (wakapass) Biko.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Kitchen Assistant, Waiter, Waitress, Sales Rep, Baker And More Needed by amprat: 4:55pm On Oct 10, 2017
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Properties / Bed Space At Ketu by amprat: 11:14pm On Oct 05, 2017
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2 females only.
Water running, electricity, comfortable,
home away from home.
Residential building,
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(Dog in the compound, but released at night only)
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Politics / Re: Osinbajo Assigns Portfolios To New Ministers by amprat: 4:43pm On Aug 16, 2017
Agbaletu:


Two state ministers!
Why can't they split the ministry into Power (stand-alone) and Work and Housing separate?
Because the way their mental faculty function is structured against common sense and facilitation of development.
Education / Re: A Nigerian Is The 21 Smartest Tenager In The World Among The 50 Listed by amprat: 7:09am On Aug 13, 2017
Requiem18:
The person meant no harm and you attack him?. Isn't that stupidity at its finest?

Mr Wise
I guess you mean that his trying to instigate or incite violence through his words, using religion or tribe as sentiment on a social media platform that reaches millions is OK and will cause no harm, me calling him to order is not OK. And you that can not objectively analyze the situation is wise. Am just wondering if you really understand the meaning of the word stupidity and definition of wise.
Education / Re: A Nigerian Is The 21 Smartest Tenager In The World Among The 50 Listed by amprat: 1:20pm On Aug 08, 2017
simplyhonest:
wow... impressive... from the name, some won't celebrate her here... congratulations girl...

I wish I could really say the words that my mind is using to describe you right now,but I won't because I don't want to be dragged into your religious and tribal bigotry.
looks like some people just get irked when there is no form of trouble in Nigeria or on nairaland.
Good and bad people abound in every tribe or religion, if you have nothing better to contribute please just Waka pass. Thank you
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: A 9-year-old Boy Applied For NASA Job And The Response He Got by amprat: 2:28pm On Aug 07, 2017
Typical of Africans with warped mentality:
(1)They never call a spade what it is
(2)They try to rationalize stupidity, laziness,crime,irresponsibility, breach of contract and every other evil in-between it.
scientists are never biased, they look at a situations,phenomena,events critically, make their reports and recommendations.
so because am an African I should loose my freedom of expression and ability to reason sensibly.
Who then is the real Baboon?
He who rationalizes stupidity or he who is biased, pained about the African situation and is suggesting the way forward.

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Romance / Re: I'm I Gifted Or Is It Some Psycological Shiiii That Happens To Everyone?? by amprat: 1:34pm On Aug 07, 2017
thepussyhunter:



lol

i do go to church regularly hun

and it aiint some spiritual shiii o cheesy cheesy...............its just some crazy mind trick


besides i aiint one of those douche bags who read spiritual shiiii into every little thing and goes running to their so called pastors and daddy in the lord when little things happen
like it or not Mr.
you're now embedded in the "spiritual shii"
can you hear the voice reaching to you from the skies ?
You have been chosen to evangelize
prophet, Doctor spiritual Shii.
Romance / Re: I'm I Gifted Or Is It Some Psycological Shiiii That Happens To Everyone?? by amprat: 6:00pm On Aug 06, 2017
when you won't go to church regularly
you would have known that it's a sort of prophetic gift, where ppl can see into the future and foretell what's likely to happen.
maybe develop it and use it for betterment of mankind and glory to your maker.
Literature / Natural Something (the Love Story) ...annex by amprat: 9:36am On Jul 04, 2017
Desmond dropped the brown box in the sleek Range Rover, he loves the silver coated vehicle he believes it attracts luck, like today again he was able to secure the contract that would move his organization to the next level in terms of stock market ratings, profit generation and even international recognition.
He was smiling satisfactorily to himself when suddenly an image in blue caught the corner of his eye, he tilted his head towards the low iron fence that separates the office complex from other buildings. He looked more closely this time taking his time, his eyes narrowed, like he was contemplating on what to do, he shook his head then sighed opened the door to the car, he was about to reverse out of the place clearly he was still disturbed,when he reluctantly turned of the ignition of the vehicle, and pounded the steering with his right palm that had been folded to a big fist. He removed his silver cuff links, rolled up the sleeves of his white shirt sighed once more and got out of his car. He locked up and walked briskly towards the gate, scanned the buildings across nodded to himself and made his way across the road with few cars, which was an unusual occurrence on Lagos road especially on a Friday.
His long legs carried him fast, soon he was amongst the stalls where the women displayed their wares in wood and corrugated iron partitions, some at the left and some at the right, with spaces in between a typical open market except that this one caters for the middle class and the top echelon in the society, hence better organized. He kept on walking while the different sellers advertised their wares with different strategies, some even offered free home delivery only for them to add later that you would have to wait till they close for the day.
Desmond kept on walking and looking at a particular spot, when he got a few steps away from his object of curiosity he stopped dead in his tracks, literally becoming immobile he stared at her and kept on staring unable to help himself, he could have sworn time stood still, the fat woman with a black patch on her right arm moved closer and shook him, so did the lady she was attending to as she stretched her well shaped and manicured fingers towards him he jerked out of his shock, and heard the woman for the first time ask if he was alright?.
Alright? He screamed his question at the women, of course am not alright, something
Is definitely wrong with me, I don't want to be attracted to you he yelled at the lady whose hair was combed backwards to the nape of her neck, she has a caramel colored skin, wearing a blue native gown,with gold edges ,the gown accentuated her body structure and colour, she looked into his eyes questioningly, only then did he realize that he had been opening and closing his mouth but no words were heard. He decided there and then that this lady was the other part of him he needed to be complete


NATURAL SOMETHING (PART 2)
Desmond was pondering on the best approach for his am sorry, please forgive me speech, when they heard someone calling loudly from the distance, Deola, Deola .The lady was smiling and waving at her, she pushed back her glasses and ran boisterously across the road towards them, she got to them and threw her hands on her friends hugging her tightly, this is Sandra a.k.a madam boisterous, a.k.a never a calm or dull moment a.K.a fun and laughter best medicine. She stopped hugging when she noticed Deola wasn't responsive Deola can be quiet when she wants to but definitely not a snub, sandra looked at her face, she was seething with anger, she followed Deola's gaze to see Desmond who was just behind her,she turned to face him like she was a bodyguard or a security officer.
Hey! she said sharply, you made her angry, made her loose her cool? It sounded like a question that had to be answered, so Desmond said yes, I think so. It's a yes or no mister! Desmond paused awhile wondering what enforcement agency this lady works for because of her demeanour , he then answered Yes,not sure what to expect. Sandra started a long and hard laugh, the laughter was so much that she bent over held her stomach and was shaking,she removed her eye glasses and wiped the tears from her eyes. Desmond was confused, Did I say something? The question he asked only made her laugh harder. She then said to him, congratulations mister;no member of the male specie has been Successful at getting under her skin, I mean get any reaction from her in a long while, she wouldn't even give them opportunity to talk to her .
Clear your mind Sandra,he is married,Deola spat out like he's being married was disgusting. ooh I see,Sandra nodded thoughtfully but with a smirk on her face. Actually, Desmond added we we just finished shopping, Deola was dumbstruck,she turned to Deola, what! Deola said in an agitated voice we were shopping for his wife. Yes, but you were helping me do the shopping Desmond retorted before he finished his sentence, she countered him helping who, you? Oh please, Sandra quietly moved aside it was sounding more like a married couple arguing,they probably didn't remember she was there,so she Zipped her mouth and was not willing to interfere besides it's sort of cool to see someone who can ruffle Deola's feathers. Your wife was the deciding factor she heard them continue their argument or whatever it can be called. I was trying to help out a fellow woman who has a decent and caring husband, a man willing to make a fool of himself just to prove his love for his wife, she's lucky to have a unique kind of guy as a husband ,who is good looking and so damn hot. Deola put her palm to her mouth immediately,as if to stop the words from coming out but alas it was late already, what in God's name did I just say she was thinking, had she been checking out the man unconsciously ,she became stiff with eyes glued to the floor hoping it would
Just open up and save her from this embarrassment, I hardly loose control, what is wrong with me? .
Desmond couldn't explain all the emotions that were unravelling on his inside, he knew and had been told he looked good and fit many times Courtney of his frequent visit to the gym, good eating habit and the rest. The ladies around never let him forget especially the ones that had decided to bed or marry him whether he wanted to or not,but coming from her sounded much more than a compliment, it was just like being given an award. She noticed me he thought, she loves my look, feels am descent and caring, her opinion of him is so important. He was smiling broadly now.
Suddenly, Deola turned swiftly and started running, she kept running towards the main road trying to find a cab or anything to get her out of the place. Desmond ran after her, Sandra in tow, stop he said, oh please stop he kept repeating as he continued racing after. He was about reaching her when the tyre of a white van made a loud screeching sound as it came to a sharp stop, her body hit the bonnet and that force pushed her to the ground, she laid there on the floor eyes closed, a cut on her lip,her hair covered her face. Deola, Deola Sandra was shouting as she got to the scene, Desmond dropped to his knees his eyes wide, he was choking back the tears from pouring out, he gently touched her and he tenderly but hurriedly pulled the loose strands of hair from her forehead and pink lips �,
I just found you my darling and diamond, please come back,I can't loose you,am never going to let you go.
Education / Re: Osato Osemwengie Bags His 7th Masters Degree. Photos by amprat: 1:54pm On Jun 24, 2017
He might have been born a Nigerian But am sure he's now an American by descent Bloggers and media keep mis informing us God knows the last time the man set foot on the soil of Nigeria. yeah Nigerians are doing great everywhere but pls,right information as to their citizenship

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Family / Re: My Husband ,my Compromise by amprat: 12:23pm On Jun 02, 2017
when they will not hear jejely they will now hear wheeeeeen by force

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Romance / Re: See What This My Guy Ex Posted On Facebook by amprat: 9:25pm On May 24, 2017
Clear example of desperate person.
Now what is making her desperate
Maybe LOVE.?
Romance / Re: What Do Ladies Mean With This Phrase??? by amprat: 9:22pm On May 24, 2017
She has your heart and she knows it. For now or till you prove her wrong.sometimes girls like this just want you to be a bit persistent,while some are just gonna keep you as friends forever, you'll even help them plan their wedding sef.

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