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Cross pollination

All I can say is let the right thing be done.

None of those.

On a final note, this post was made in good faith to urge men to stop going after married women.

Many guys here got so pained, I wonder why? Could it be guilty conscience?

Whatever it is: if you are a man here, do yourself a favour and stay away from married women.

If you must mess up your body, go for single girls. Leave married women alone. Stop pressurising them.

For those who are here tacking the post, if you are one of them REPENT!!!

Moving on to other things.

Bye.

Did you read the post? Where did I write that ladies approached men for favours?

Why are some of you guys so pained by this post?

Hope it's not what am thinking.

obstead200:
I don't believe u.
But if it is true, ask those other women why they must approach a guy lusting after them for favours. Must she get that big contract?

I mentioned an evil that is trending in our society, urging people to stop it and you got so pained. Hope it's not a sign of guilty conscience.

joseph1832:
Then it applies to them. They should deal with it and stop ranting.

Good bye!.

The beauty and the *B*.

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If you read my post well you would know it wasn't about me. Why are you pained? Why not tell your wife daily about girls who are hitting on you daily and see if she won't start suspecting you after a while or start getting unnecessarily jealous.

FTBOY:
then why are you complaining if telling your husband is a bad idea?

he's now a worthless man because you succeeded in fooling a new mugu with your "holy sister" appearance, forgetting you were all over his dick once upon a time?

That post wasn't about me but about people I know. Keep talking.

joseph1832:
Then I'm forced to ask if you are you the only woman in the world? I mean, why is it only you men ask out? Aren't there other women? Why you? And why always you?

Lemme tell you something, only a man who is insecure will behave just like you described.

If my wife come to me and tell me a man is approaching her, I'll take it up with him and tell him to stop, if he refuse, I'll write a petition against him and submit it to the nearest police station. He will be picked up and questioned, then he will be given a resound warning.

If he persist, he will be arrested. Its just that simple.

Where is the change? Keep suffering and smiling.

aresa:
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We are better off with that I'll luck man.

manyr4luv:
and if Buhari fails, Nigeria is GONE

Next people to be probed: Dele Momodu and his household. They may even probe Davido's baby mama for scamming him of N300k monthly.

Na today? It's up to 2 months.

Pidggin:
So Dele Momodu don turn Wailer too?

You are welcome sir

Stop lying and show us the change.

aresa:
#PDPhouseOfHunger BINGO shout of the day...hungry suffered iPoD clowns....

Where is the change?

Show us or don't talk!

mrphysics:
keep wailing, it fits you.


No one can win PMB come 2019, not even you.

so wail on

Have you seen the change? Answer!

Clerverly:
#PDPHouseOfHunger/IPOB Youth Decided To Trend This One Today...Anybody Knows What they Will Agree To Trend Tomorrow?

Ndi Ara!

Tell your husband tell your husband, if you keep telling a man about men's advances to you, there may come a time he won't let you go out again, even to visit your relatives. You should not do anything that will incite jealousy in your husband, especially if he's the jealous type. How about if she informs the randy man's wife and asks her to caution her husband?
Why make a worthless man bring suspicion in your home?

joseph1832:
Please spare me the religious talk! Not everyone follow your religious doctrines and laws.

A married woman who is being chased by a man should tell him to go Hell. And if he still persists, she should just tell her husband and let him handle it or confront him. Not play the victim and always try to get sympathy from people who don't care about them.

I wrote on the one that concerns the people around me. You can write on any topic that tickles your fancy. Thanks.

Vongsama:
Now you are getting me all wrong. Ma point is for you to be objective in an issue that worries the entire society rather than one section. If you'd written about both behaviour of ladies and guys hitting married men and women respectively and condemn it generally irrespective of your own gender, I would've had no better choice than at least give your post a like. But after realising it is one-sided and to the best of ma knowledge, there's only polygamy (mostly, the second and subsequent wives being singles and not widows before marrying the already married man) and not polyandry prevalent in Nigeria, I couldn't help but respond to your post the way I did.
Ma take on it? Both guys and ladies hitting married men is absurd and should be discouraged.

My so called friend?

gretop:
Tell that your so called friend to confide in her husband... The bible says that one shall chase a thousand while two shall chase ten thousand.
If indeed she is God fearing, she should involve her husband...Advise your so called confidant to talk this with their husband... You should even be the one chastising them for talking it with you first rather than talking it with their husband...

God bless you my sister.

mineANDurs:
Y cant men take d blame for once in their life without trying to shift it to d women. Going after a married woman is wrong in all aspects of it! Lets call a spade a spade. I am a married woman yet a lot of men frequently ask me out and the only thing dat provokes them is my looks, as for my dressing, I dress over decently dat my husband had to start buying most of my cloths himself in d bid to make me dress beta.
Some things are off limits and d sooner some men realise it d beta for them.

I totally agree with you.

mitchyy:
I really don't understand why the menfolk are putting the blame on the women as if they can speak for all men. Men hit on married women and its a fact!
I've told my husband to warn one of his friend who keeps trying to touch me when talking. Even though others feel its harmless but na from clap, dance dey start. Others will see you with ring and be trying to offer favors which they term harmless. I don't joke with such o. And my husband knows. Sometimes he feels i'm overreacting but almost every lady can tell when a guy is hitting on her, so i give them a nasty warning immediately and they back off.

True. Devil at work.

cjoy4life:
The truth about it is, that which is hate by God is on the increase:therefore be careful many have gone.

He must be a secret cult member.

bettercreature:
Only married women turn on some men,i have a friend who prefer married women to young single ladies.

I think so too.

cekhoe:
I know of two cases ,one was even pregnant,I couldn't believe that a man would see a heavily pregnant woman,with a ring on her hand and still hit on her,one thing for sure,it's diabolical, it's just not normal

Good.

repogirl:
Married women should take careful steps to avoid such people... Don't even hear anything they have to say, just cut them off.

You said your wife changed her sim, good idea, not all couples thought of that.

xpertoyin:
Personal experience: When i got married, i changed my wife's sim with a new phone. And i informed her that whoever calls her from now on, she gave her number to. The question is why would a married woman give her number to an ex?
There is a saying that goes: it is not enough to be doing the right thing, you have to be seen to be doing the right thing.

She said she can't tell him else he stops her from going to her store. She has called him to come collect his money back or forward his account No for her to send it back to her but he never listens, instead he will send more.
She's not enjoying the attention. She is a child of God.

blaise26abj:
Has your friend reported this to her husband? If she hasn't, then she is encouraging the man. What has she done with the money sent by the man? Has she reported to the police or a ngo dat fights such things? If she is just sitting and complaining to her friends, then she LIKES the attention.

She said she can't start telling her husband about male admirers else he may stop her from going to her store.

FlexTrex:
I know of a lady here who has children's boutique. One spoilt brat of a man has vowed that he must befriend her. He spends a lot of money regularly shopping from her shop even though the wife and kids live abroad. He tries everything to impress her and sends flowers and notes to her daily. The lady told him to stop wasting his time that she's a covenant child yet he is adamant.

We told her to ban him from her shop. Now he sends money regularly to her account because he once paid her by wiring money into her account.

You see that kind of temptation?

Men of this generation need to fear God.



Op, did this woman tell her husband about it? Or is she revelling in the attention and gifts and trying to manage the situation?

If you read the post well you will know I was referring to God-fearing women, not Jezebels.

Emmahunk:
I honestly think the right question should be : "WHY DO MARRIED WOMEN GO OUT OF THEIR WAY TO TEMPT MEN?"
With the display of cleavages, micro mini, braless tops etc, what should one think?
Remember you are ADDRESSED the way you DRESS!

You are not making sense to me because am not talking about ladies who enjoy this attention, but rather about covenant daughters of God.

dammytosh:
Yes it will continue to be like that until Married Women learn to say "NO" and mean it without enjoying the useless attention it gives.

You say he is disturbing you but you get disturbed if you don't hear from him for a week.

You see chats like "you just abandon me"

Ladies need learn how to say the real "NO". Not that kind of "NO" when his hand is on your panties and you are adjusting it for him and still saying "nooo jor"

I tell my friends, why are u polite to him when he is treating you as if u are a Bittch ? I know why, it is because you are thinking you can fall back on him if road clear.

ladycomfort:
. Oh my creator! Where art thou. I need a man that will be spending on me like this. Are nice men still in this country? Useless men looking for free sex and food dey everywhere.

Fear God.

I wonder why some of you guys are doing everything to suppress this discussion.
What is bad is bad. Men should fear God and leave married women alone. I expected a lot of guys to come here and vow that they would never do such but all I see is guys coming here to defend this anomaly.

joseph1832:
And what did you say to them? And what do you mean by 'coming around?' Don't tell me they came to your house?