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I am Igbo but I just don't know what's wrong with APC.. can't tgeybket ekiti be ?

Ecoterrorist:
Im sorry its dicey replying pm here because a lot of people want my head on the chopping block so i protect my privacy.


Thanks for the understanding. We can still discuss here or i will recommend someone to you that will never ever reveal my identity

lol..I understand.. you have been a bit nasty on politics well we all have been nasty but we got to keep wholesome friends irrespective of political leaning

bakynes:
Na female bosses worse pass, i always go to my desk even as a grown up man to weep my eyes out. She sure knows how to dehumanize her staffs with her mouth,thats why it pays to work in an organization with board of directors and share holders not one man business called Company. Whether owned by Nigerians, Chinese, lebanese or Indians.

gbam

popcykaylah:
Lol..so many young men and women of these days like shakara with nothing ..they take fine looking jobs with pay that can't even foot thier transportation all cos they wanna wear tie and look good. .Smh

that's the fact

they want to wear starched clothes and suits yet earn 70k a month with lots of insult ...well they are training to get experience


we can so be owners of business

Rukemi291:
I would employ you anytime any day with this wonderfully narrated piece.

Don't forget that some doors close for a bigger one to open.

God help everyone going through this right now.

you are so on point ...if we can have this mentality these stupid bosses will learn to respect people

Ecoterrorist:
I remembered when i was working with a logistics firm in Ikeja and my boss was a pain in the arse. He talks down on you and makes you loose your sellf worth and dignity that sometimes you dont believe in yourself again.

Our major client then was Nigeria Brewries so i was the face of my company there and i was close to most of the Ogas in their Hqtrs. One day my boss took out his nasty attitude on me in a meeting with some senior staff there in Nigeria breweries. The Ogas were suprised wih my boss attitude towards me there that the meetng had to be adjourned.


I just knew then that its time to take hold of myself or i will loose every little respect i have. Before we left there i called my boss by his first name *John* never you try that thing you just did to me inside there again. Im not your slave and i refuse to be one. When we get to the office fwd my last month and this month salary to my account or else ........
I left him there for home, i also told him to expect my resignation letter tomorrow on his desk.

The next day i got my salaries and a text of apology from my boss but i never went back to that company cos ive built up my client base when i was enduring his insults.


Our fears today is because we are scared of the Unknown but we should know that if that your arrogant and silly boss caan do it why cant you do it.

Remember you learnt some business ideas from him and you also have yours so you are fully loaded

can we be friends ..I am in this shiit..the ish is much and I have built a large client base and gatherers much experience ...I am scared of taking these ish at 40s ..I have made up my mind

I will leave ...let me have ur Num.... like your type

sylve11:
hmmmm. I can't take that rubbish from anybody. The last guy I worked for still have fresh memory of what transpired between himself and my humble me. arrogancy cheap and I sold it out to him #5 only + some punches .

that's the spirit ...so what happened ..gist us

we all see this bullshiit in workplace ...my prayer point is God make me mop up some funds to start my own little firm ....this wage salary slavery got to stop.

once there is will there is a way and I am planing my exit strategy

bro don't complain till you hearvtgw bankers and insurers problem


it sucks to work for someone for long ....try and always try and float your own ...it helps in long run

kachikwu I support you in toto

From the way it looks now...I can categorically say that APC was preparing for defeat during the 2015 polls than to win. I feel it is the best time to eat the humble pie. This complaining, whining and chastising will see them no wear. They are in quagmire and from the look of things it seems that God has forsaken them and the devil has abandoned them. Technically speaking they are on their own...with their die hard loyalists whom are termed “zombies” by the “wailers” who are in the opposition.


Now in Nigeria it seems that Mr. Truth has been sacrificed to the altar of mediocrity and he is bleeding the way our Lord bled. He ( Jesus Christ) bled for our sins and brought us salvation but in this context Mr. Truth has been sacrificed, he is bleeding and bloody while the dramatis personae in the present day political arena junkets around the globe. Some say it is the hangover of victory while others term it as the carryover of ineptitude. Whatever is it, it is as simple as this: APC has lost steam; APC has lost the grip on economy, on society, on security, on forex and also on CAPEX/OPEX.
I feel that it is high time we brought these seasoned technocrats back. People like

Ngozi Iweala
Pat Utomi
Charles Soludo
Magnus Kpakol and many others


THIS IS THE TRUTH AND THE GOSPEL TRUTH, BUT MR. TRUTH IS IN INTENSIVE CARE so what do we do. As Nnamdi Kanu has been made a martyr in this matter while the global community watches how a lawyer will man core engineering ministries of Works, Housing etc and the world watches in awe and consternation how a medical doctor man’s the transport ministry while a career politician is in charge of information while a lawyer man’s the Ministry of Communication Technology.


APC should throw in the towel now or they will find themselves kicking the bucket come May 2019. That is if Boko Haram and separatist wise men from East allow Nigeria to be. It is not a doomsday prophecy but a matter of fact


God bless Nigeria

When they say Yoruba are enslaved i now believe, I think they should be busy banishing and stopping Emir of Ilorin or that of Offa and they should be busy thinking of Seriki Hausawa yet they look at igbo

Igbo are Yoruba nemesis since 1967 AD

I thought they surrendered ?

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