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baby124:Some Yoruba men seem to be opting for women of other tribes for marriage. Oladele Hakeem, a Naij.com content editor, writes on some of the possible reasons for this trend. Future plans A typical Yoruba man is traditional in thinking. He does not joke with his status as the man of the house if he eventually becomes a husband. He wants to have a wife that is submissive. He does not want to have a wife that nags on petty issues. He wants a woman who understands his feelings. He uses everything at his disposal to make sure he finds the right partner. However, some Yoruba men these days feel that Yoruba women are becoming hard-nuts for them to crack. They believe if they marry women of other tribal lineage, they would have a more blissful home. They travel as far to some interior towns in the country to get their life partners. They do say that since God created everybody from Adam and Eve, there is no problem if they marry non-Yoruba. The reasons they give for their actions centred on some of those highlighted below 1. High taste Currently, Yoruba women are number one when it comes to using expensive adornments. They travel as far as Dubai, Rome, Paris and London just to buy jewelleries, designer shoes, assorted cloths, perfumes and bags among others. They do these not for business purposes. This is just for their personal use. A Yoruba guy becomes scared if the girl he is interested in is of this type. He thinks about his pocket and salary. He does not want a lady who is too demanding. He believes if he marries an Igbo girl for instance, he only needs to worry about the pride price and not all these expensive wares. 2. Detest for Kitchen A great number of Yoruba women are becoming Spaghetti and Noodles ladies. They love going to fast food joints to eat. They passionately detest cooking. They cherish their make-up and manicure more than sweating just because they want to prepare food for a man. They would rather employ cooks and house helps to do these things. It is no more a new thing to see these sets of women buy fast food for their husbands as home meal. Since a man loves good food, he rather finds a suitable substitute from other tribes as wife. 3. Pride How will a woman who will become a man’s wife look down upon a man that comes to woo her? This is common more with Yoruba ladies. They see men as their hand towels. They believe they can talk to them the way they like. On the other hand, Yoruba men abhor this. This in turn makes them make a U-turn on choice of spouse. They therefore look elsewhere. 4. Just me and my husband No man wants to have as wife a woman who does not want to see her in-laws. Often its a situation whereby the Yoruba woman does not want her mother in-law to visit her son. She believes that her mother in-law is a threat to her having a happy home. If a Yoruba man finds out this behaviour during courtship, he in no time ends the relationship. He likewise finds a woman from another tribe who respects his mother. This is because men do not joke with their mothers. 5. High level of curiosity Lack of trust destroys relationships. Some Yoruba women always monitor their men. They check the call log and messages in their men’s handsets. They monitor everything about their men. They feel so jealous if they know their men talk to any other woman apart from them. This makes the men feel irritated. They therefore think of other women that will give them peace of mind. 6. Poor manners No man would stand a woman without good manners. Yoruba men cherish women who treat them as kings. This is changing presently. Yoruba women see no reason why they should submit themselves to men. 7. Class difference The class difference between some Yoruba men and women is becoming wider. Many Yoruba women belong to the crème de la crème of the society. This intimidates Yoruba men. They would rather have a lady who is not much wealthy as wives than women who move around in SUVs. 8. Education disparity Yorubas generally love education. They have the highest number of University graduates in Nigeria. This is also the same for postgraduate degrees. Yoruba women occupy top positions in many organisations because they are well educated. This sends shivers down the spines of Yoruba men. They become frightened that if they marry these women, in no time will they become the wife. 9. Little or no commitment A few numbers of Yoruba women are not committed to serious relationships that would lead to marriage. They believe they have to enjoy life before marriage. They are less dedicated. They believe they have to be financially independent. They do tell the men that they are not ready until they get to a particular age. On knowing this, Yoruba men look for women of other tribes who show commitment towards marriage. 10. Game playing Yoruba women are the best when it comes to playing with men like draught. A single Yoruba woman can keep like five boyfriends at the same time. She collects different things and items from them. She sees all of them as her fall guys. She also uses some of these men as ladders to get to richer men. After getting what she desires, she leaves the former men. As this continues and some of these men interested in her discover, they dump her immediately. 11. Past experience Yoruba men love women who have little or no nasty previous experience. These past experiences include numbers of failed relationships, single motherhood and divorce. All these are more common with some Yoruba women who change men as cloths. Thus, no responsible man feels attracted to these types of women. 12. Highly secretive Some Yoruba women keep things their men should know about them to themselves. This could be about something not so good. They believe that they should know everything about their men, while the men should know little or nothing about them. As Yoruba men have started finding out this, it is making Yoruba women less-appealing to them. 13. Want to be the Captain of the ship No two captains can steer a single ship. Yoruba men are not happy because their women want to give out instructions the way they do. These women see themselves playing the roles of men at homes. 14. Marriage; not now! Marriage makes a bachelor or a spinster to become more responsible. It makes him or her think that there is someone at home waiting for him or her after the days work. This perception is fast fading out among some educated and working class Yoruba ladies. 15. Obsession with social media The advent of Facebook, Twitter, Badoo, 2go, We chat, Whatsapp and other social sites have created a phantom world for a good numbers of Yoruba girls. They love virtual relationships and late night communications with men they may never see eye to eye. They chat with different species of men and show no interest in settling down with a particular man. Even if they have a man that plans to marry them, they still have several other backups. They believe they can get another man if their present man leaves them. As Yoruba men are starting to know about this dangerous trend, they are looking at other places for women that will serve as safer havens for them. Life is about choice. Everyone has the right to choose whatever would bring smile to his face and tranquility to his heart. Therefore, everybody has the right to marry from any tribe or race he so wishes. Oladele Hakeem, a content editor with Naij.com, writes from Ikeja, Lagos. |
[quote ]Some Yoruba men seem to be opting for women of other tribes for marriage. Oladele Hakeem, a Naij.com content editor, writes on some of the possible reasons for this trend. Future plans A typical Yoruba man is traditional in thinking. He does not joke with his status as the man of the house if he eventually becomes a husband. He wants to have a wife that is submissive. He does not want to have a wife that nags on petty issues. He wants a woman who understands his feelings. He uses everything at his disposal to make sure he finds the right partner. However, some Yoruba men these days feel that Yoruba women are becoming hard-nuts for them to crack. They believe if they marry women of other tribal lineage, they would have a more blissful home. They travel as far to some interior towns in the country to get their life partners. They do say that since God created everybody from Adam and Eve, there is no problem if they marry non-Yoruba. The reasons they give for their actions centred on some of those highlighted below 1. High taste Currently, Yoruba women are number one when it comes to using expensive adornments. They travel as far as Dubai, Rome, Paris and London just to buy jewelleries, designer shoes, assorted cloths, perfumes and bags among others. They do these not for business purposes. This is just for their personal use. A Yoruba guy becomes scared if the girl he is interested in is of this type. He thinks about his pocket and salary. He does not want a lady who is too demanding. He believes if he marries an Igbo girl for instance, he only needs to worry about the pride price and not all these expensive wares. 2. Detest for Kitchen A great number of Yoruba women are becoming Spaghetti and Noodles ladies. They love going to fast food joints to eat. They passionately detest cooking. They cherish their make-up and manicure more than sweating just because they want to prepare food for a man. They would rather employ cooks and house helps to do these things. It is no more a new thing to see these sets of women buy fast food for their husbands as home meal. Since a man loves good food, he rather finds a suitable substitute from other tribes as wife. 3. Pride How will a woman who will become a man’s wife look down upon a man that comes to woo her? This is common more with Yoruba ladies. They see men as their hand towels. They believe they can talk to them the way they like. On the other hand, Yoruba men abhor this. This in turn makes them make a U-turn on choice of spouse. They therefore look elsewhere. 4. Just me and my husband No man wants to have as wife a woman who does not want to see her in-laws. Often its a situation whereby the Yoruba woman does not want her mother in-law to visit her son. She believes that her mother in-law is a threat to her having a happy home. If a Yoruba man finds out this behaviour during courtship, he in no time ends the relationship. He likewise finds a woman from another tribe who respects his mother. This is because men do not joke with their mothers. 5. High level of curiosity Lack of trust destroys relationships. Some Yoruba women always monitor their men. They check the call log and messages in their men’s handsets. They monitor everything about their men. They feel so jealous if they know their men talk to any other woman apart from them. This makes the men feel irritated. They therefore think of other women that will give them peace of mind. 6. Poor manners No man would stand a woman without good manners. Yoruba men cherish women who treat them as kings. This is changing presently. Yoruba women see no reason why they should submit themselves to men. 7. Class difference The class difference between some Yoruba men and women is becoming wider. Many Yoruba women belong to the crème de la crème of the society. This intimidates Yoruba men. They would rather have a lady who is not much wealthy as wives than women who move around in SUVs. 8. Education disparity Yorubas generally love education. They have the highest number of University graduates in Nigeria. This is also the same for postgraduate degrees. Yoruba women occupy top positions in many organisations because they are well educated. This sends shivers down the spines of Yoruba men. They become frightened that if they marry these women, in no time will they become the wife. 9. Little or no commitment A few numbers of Yoruba women are not committed to serious relationships that would lead to marriage. They believe they have to enjoy life before marriage. They are less dedicated. They believe they have to be financially independent. They do tell the men that they are not ready until they get to a particular age. On knowing this, Yoruba men look for women of other tribes who show commitment towards marriage. 10. Game playing Yoruba women are the best when it comes to playing with men like draught. A single Yoruba woman can keep like five boyfriends at the same time. She collects different things and items from them. She sees all of them as her fall guys. She also uses some of these men as ladders to get to richer men. After getting what she desires, she leaves the former men. As this continues and some of these men interested in her discover, they dump her immediately. 11. Past experience Yoruba men love women who have little or no nasty previous experience. These past experiences include numbers of failed relationships, single motherhood and divorce. All these are more common with some Yoruba women who change men as cloths. Thus, no responsible man feels attracted to these types of women. 12. Highly secretive Some Yoruba women keep things their men should know about them to themselves. This could be about something not so good. They believe that they should know everything about their men, while the men should know little or nothing about them. As Yoruba men have started finding out this, it is making Yoruba women less-appealing to them. 13. Want to be the Captain of the ship No two captains can steer a single ship. Yoruba men are not happy because their women want to give out instructions the way they do. These women see themselves playing the roles of men at homes. 14. Marriage; not now! Marriage makes a bachelor or a spinster to become more responsible. It makes him or her think that there is someone at home waiting for him or her after the days work. This perception is fast fading out among some educated and working class Yoruba ladies. 15. Obsession with social media The advent of Facebook, Twitter, Badoo, 2go, We chat, Whatsapp and other social sites have created a phantom world for a good numbers of Yoruba girls. They love virtual relationships and late night communications with men they may never see eye to eye. They chat with different species of men and show no interest in settling down with a particular man. Even if they have a man that plans to marry them, they still have several other backups. They believe they can get another man if their present man leaves them. As Yoruba men are starting to know about this dangerous trend, they are looking at other places for women that will serve as safer havens for them. Life is about choice. Everyone has the right to choose whatever would bring smile to his face and tranquility to his heart. Therefore, everybody has the right to marry from any tribe or race he so wishes. Oladele Hakeem, Naij.com, writes from Ikeja, Lagos. NB: This might not be true in all ramifications |
baby124:read wetin your brother write Read more: https://www.naij.com/528074-shocking-15-reasons-yoruba-men-dumping-yoruba-women.html |
Some Yoruba men seem to be opting for women of other tribes for marriage. Oladele Hakeem, a Naij.com content editor, writes on some of the possible reasons for this trend. Future plans A typical Yoruba man is traditional in thinking. He does not joke with his status as the man of the house if he eventually becomes a husband. He wants to have a wife that is submissive. He does not want to have a wife that nags on petty issues. He wants a woman who understands his feelings. He uses everything at his disposal to make sure he finds the right partner. However, some Yoruba men these days feel that Yoruba women are becoming hard-nuts for them to crack. They believe if they marry women of other tribal lineage, they would have a more blissful home. They travel as far to some interior towns in the country to get their life partners. They do say that since God created everybody from Adam and Eve, there is no problem if they marry non-Yoruba. The reasons they give for their actions centred on some of those highlighted below 1. High taste Currently, Yoruba women are number one when it comes to using expensive adornments. They travel as far as Dubai, Rome, Paris and London just to buy jewelleries, designer shoes, assorted cloths, perfumes and bags among others. They do these not for business purposes. This is just for their personal use. A Yoruba guy becomes scared if the girl he is interested in is of this type. He thinks about his pocket and salary. He does not want a lady who is too demanding. He believes if he marries an Igbo girl for instance, he only needs to worry about the pride price and not all these expensive wares. 2. Detest for Kitchen A great number of Yoruba women are becoming Spaghetti and Noodles ladies. They love going to fast food joints to eat. They passionately detest cooking. They cherish their make-up and manicure more than sweating just because they want to prepare food for a man. They would rather employ cooks and house helps to do these things. It is no more a new thing to see these sets of women buy fast food for their husbands as home meal. Since a man loves good food, he rather finds a suitable substitute from other tribes as wife. 3. Pride How will a woman who will become a man’s wife look down upon a man that comes to woo her? This is common more with Yoruba ladies. They see men as their hand towels. They believe they can talk to them the way they like. On the other hand, Yoruba men abhor this. This in turn makes them make a U-turn on choice of spouse. They therefore look elsewhere. 4. Just me and my husband No man wants to have as wife a woman who does not want to see her in-laws. Often its a situation whereby the Yoruba woman does not want her mother in-law to visit her son. She believes that her mother in-law is a threat to her having a happy home. If a Yoruba man finds out this behaviour during courtship, he in no time ends the relationship. He likewise finds a woman from another tribe who respects his mother. This is because men do not joke with their mothers. 5. High level of curiosity Lack of trust destroys relationships. Some Yoruba women always monitor their men. They check the call log and messages in their men’s handsets. They monitor everything about their men. They feel so jealous if they know their men talk to any other woman apart from them. This makes the men feel irritated. They therefore think of other women that will give them peace of mind. 6. Poor manners No man would stand a woman without good manners. Yoruba men cherish women who treat them as kings. This is changing presently. Yoruba women see no reason why they should submit themselves to men. 7. Class difference The class difference between some Yoruba men and women is becoming wider. Many Yoruba women belong to the crème de la crème of the society. This intimidates Yoruba men. They would rather have a lady who is not much wealthy as wives than women who move around in SUVs. 8. Education disparity Yorubas generally love education. They have the highest number of University graduates in Nigeria. This is also the same for postgraduate degrees. Yoruba women occupy top positions in many organisations because they are well educated. This sends shivers down the spines of Yoruba men. They become frightened that if they marry these women, in no time will they become the wife. 9. Little or no commitment A few numbers of Yoruba women are not committed to serious relationships that would lead to marriage. They believe they have to enjoy life before marriage. They are less dedicated. They believe they have to be financially independent. They do tell the men that they are not ready until they get to a particular age. On knowing this, Yoruba men look for women of other tribes who show commitment towards marriage. 10. Game playing Yoruba women are the best when it comes to playing with men like draught. A single Yoruba woman can keep like five boyfriends at the same time. She collects different things and items from them. She sees all of them as her fall guys. She also uses some of these men as ladders to get to richer men. After getting what she desires, she leaves the former men. As this continues and some of these men interested in her discover, they dump her immediately. this is at Read more: https://www.naij.com/528074-shocking-15-reasons-yoruba-men-dumping-yoruba-women.html 11. Past experience Yoruba men love women who have little or no nasty previous experience. These past experiences include numbers of failed relationships, single motherhood and divorce. All these are more common with some Yoruba women who change men as cloths. Thus, no responsible man feels attracted to these types of women. 12. Highly secretive Some Yoruba women keep things their men should know about them to themselves. This could be about something not so good. They believe that they should know everything about their men, while the men should know little or nothing about them. As Yoruba men have started finding out this, it is making Yoruba women less-appealing to them. 13. Want to be the Captain of the ship No two captains can steer a single ship. Yoruba men are not happy because their women want to give out instructions the way they do. These women see themselves playing the roles of men at homes. 14. Marriage; not now! Marriage makes a bachelor or a spinster to become more responsible. It makes him or her think that there is someone at home waiting for him or her after the days work. This perception is fast fading out among some educated and working class Yoruba ladies. 15. Obsession with social media The advent of Facebook, Twitter, Badoo, 2go, We chat, Whatsapp and other social sites have created a phantom world for a good numbers of Yoruba girls. They love virtual relationships and late night communications with men they may never see eye to eye. They chat with different species of men and show no interest in settling down with a particular man. Even if they have a man that plans to marry them, they still have several other backups. They believe they can get another man if their present man leaves them. As Yoruba men are starting to know about this dangerous trend, they are looking at other places for women that will serve as safer havens for them. Life is about choice. Everyone has the right to choose whatever would bring smile to his face and tranquility to his heart. Therefore, everybody has the right to marry from any tribe or race he so wishes. Oladele Hakeem, a content editor with Naij.com, writes from Ikeja, Lagos. |
FolarinLondon:IS THAT SO? MAYBE YOU HAVE LOW LIVES AS FRIENDS...BUT THAT DOESNT STOP YORUBA MEN FROM RUNNING AWAY FROM YORUBA WOMEN...ONLY TO RUN TO IGBO LAND AND COMPLAIN OUR BRIDE PRICE IS HIGH LOL ENVY OF ALL WOMEN...THE MODERN DAY PLAY BOY OGA MAKE WE HEAR WORD...YOUR WOMEN ARE RAZZ AND BAD COOKS |
I SWERA...EVEN THEIR MEN HATES MARRYING THEIR WOMEN...SO RAZZ AND .... ritahot: |
baby124:Is that so? why are your men running away from Yoruba women and running towards Igbo women...we cvan see it in Nairaland.every yoruba man that dates igbo sees it as winning a jackpot the last time i checked Ashewo and Olosho are yoruba words that they gave to us Nigerians...even the word Agbero is yoruba Igbo do not have word for these...ask anybody thanks for these inventions |
I laugh in Yoruba# majority of the guys you mentioned are made by igbo Ramson Noah and Olu Jacobs are one and they are eternall;y grateful to Igbo for bringing them outr....You cant see them act in Yoruba movies....thats for sure..they cant be associated with those bleeched borrow borrow streched marked serial divorcees actress of yours. It is better to be a grandma than be a serial divorcees and husband snatcher..in short nobody wants to be seen with all these razz yoruba actresses good bye FolarinLondon: |
that is the problem with the yollywood, their women have one scandal or the other..either snatching man friend, or dating a married man or fighting dirty I just asked onionsbeans12: |
baby124:then why bare it all? why are they crying of worst dressed person...after borrow borrow...they wan use am pose tell me one yoruba movie actress that can stand side by side with Stephnie Linus, Genevieve , Rita Dominic or even Nora |
Tanimola26:wetin concern me abi na u truth is bitter |
Idrismusty97:but it is now north or are your thinking in north lol |
MetaHuman:FOR WHERE..SHIP WHAT TO SOUTH..MAYBE SOUTH WEST BECAUSE THE GUYS IN ABA AND ONITSHA GOT THEIR JUICE FIRMS NICELY I REPEAT ITS AB.O.KI PRODUCTION ENVIROMENT FOR HIS MUSLIM MARKET BY MUSLIM PRODUCER...IT IS NOT OUR FIGHT |
FAYOSE...THE GREATEST YORUBA MAN EVER LIVETH |
Ibadan will be apt also..cos we know how they roll, especially in Challenge Ravenna: |
MetaHuman:if you ask me...who I go ask? Just said the bitter truth for a muslim facility producing sweet things lol |
garfield16:all dogs eat shit but its the one that shit is found is shit eater...well...leave muslim production facility for muslim |
are u sure..thats guts vizkiz: |
ONLY IN Kano...A muslim production facility for a muslim market...I think according to islamic standard this is not halal onces its from lebanese muslim End of Discussion ... Bubu has gone to USA on Nuclear mission...so who will act...and Kano is an APC state who will talk, Lebanese is probably a muslim, is it me that is a christian will talk. I just pity the kids thats all.....they wanted FDI aka Foreign Direct Investment Here it is Usu rakwa nne ha there |
THIS IS SHAMEFUL AND EMBARRASING...JUST TO SCORE SOME CHEAP POINTS |
THIS IS WHY IGBO NOLLYWOOD WILL NOT LIKE TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH THESE YORUBA ACTORS AND ACTRESS..BUNCH OF PIMPS AND OLOSHOS....MTCHEWWWWW WHY YORUBA WOMEN? NO WONDER THEIR MEN ARE MARRYING OTHER TRIBES BUT LEAVE THEM |
Eke40seven:we call spanish but the people call themselves espaniol we call french but the call themselve franc we call germany but the germans call themselve bavarian you call ibo but we call ourselves igbo you call mexico but the mexicans call themselves Mehico(Sound) you call portugual/spainish but they call themselves iberians Now buzz off...I am done lecturing you |
chival1960:nice |
Eke40seven:why are you incorrigible.. it's simply Igbo ...is it hard. it was a colonial misnomer ibo,ebo ebboe etc but the right thing is Igbo |
for those debating the igboness of river state ..they should just take a look at the names of the people ....you can knowbtgen that 75% of river state is basically Igbo(id) |
not again!!!! |

