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Geezeem:
Actually that's how it should be in real life if you want to keep outsiders out of your relationship biz. I actually like that

That's a recipe for disaster. Spouses shouldn't fight in public. They can be civil but not put on a show that all is perfect when it really isn't. People that do that end up not speaking up when things go really bad because they have created a fake facade of perfection.

Eeghe:
The won’t get married I am 99.9 percent sure going from what I see happen between BBN couples…
But supposing they did? It’s no longer a death sentence (marriage that is)
A divorce would save/free her then

Yeah as much as divorce isn't a death sentence, many people are stuck in terrible marriages because of optics. They have an image they think they have to uphold to the world (and probably shame perceived haters who want them to fail).

Why I'm concerned about Bella is because she already have this is us versus them thing going and if they do end up together and the emotional abuse intensifies, she might be too ashamed to walk out because she would rather grin and bear it then be the laughing stock to her supposed haters. A lot of people are stuck in abusive relationships because they care too much of what others think of them.

dyydxx:
Wahala for whoever fall in love with sheggs o

Bella which kind shalaye be all these one.

I will keep learning
I'm a work in process
The last thing I want is for you to keep complaining
I'm not the worst person
I'm stubborn
Just be patient with me
I'm sorry for all bad I have done
Im truly sorry, you are so sweet, you are so perfect

Hey hey, wahala for whoever falls in love with sheggz o

I feel so bed for Bella. She clearly has no experience with how narcissists operate. The good think that will come out of this would be her learning from this experience going forward. Hopefully she doesn't get swindled into marrying this guy. Then she might have a false facade the world sees but only her and the people close to her will know what she's really going through.

scondy:
Shegz sells himself with his mouth but acts differently....so of u r not smart ...u will appraise him based on an idea of him he has painted to u not his real sef....

That is what is happening to Bella.....he keeps saying I am the perfect guy....

So when he fumbles...if she complains...he reminds her of who he is...

This is it! This perfectly sums it.

Also with flying monkeys like Doyin and some of the other HMs pushing the narrative that he treats her like a princess, and is a guy every girl would be lucky to have ,will never make Bella introspective enough to know he's the one with the problem.

.Unfortunately, there a lot of people who have found themselves in that vicious narcissistic cycle and can't get away. They begin to truly believe they're the ones with the actual problem because they've been gaslit to the moon. They keep thinking maybe if they do more or become better their spouse will change, but no, they simple don't change. The Narcissist will call it a day when they no longer have a need for you and brutally kick you to the curb.

Quoting a paragraph from the "Sheggs is a narcissist" epistle. This is exactly what is playing out. Bella truly believing that she's the one with the problem. She's been sold into the idea that Sheggs is the perfect guy and not the POS he actually is. So she truly believes that if she has a character adjustment, they'll have the perfect relationship. I wish I have Bella's ears to warn her about what she's getting herself into. It never gets better.

Tropical vibes

So by this time next year, it'll be Adekunle and Chomzy on the supacommando ad hopefully. Nice!

Doyin is most definitely a flying monkey (people that suck up to narcissists)

Special advisor Doyin on the beat

So happy for Chomzy. Blessed child.

Dannyxy:
then stop attacking Bryann, you don’t see me attacking your “task god”

Attack Hermes all you want broo. No skin off my back. When Bryann bullies anyone, he must collect. I really do not care about his abysmal performances at tasks.

Awwww. Congratulations to Adekunle nd Chomzy.

HajiaNotu:
Pele dear...
You r in for a long ride
Buga dance in your faces

Use another meme na. Please darling. I'm even hating the athlete in the picture because of that dance.

Dannyxy:
lol when last did Hermes win any task bro? This week? Last week? Last month, last year?

I really can’t remember Amya baby, please remind, T for for thanks most beautiful…

You don't see me writing epistles of excuse for him. Win or lose tasks, I love him!

HajiaNotu:
Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

I hate this Buga dance with passion!

Dannyxy:
But in this thread, when smart housemates win smart people task, with Bryann doing well in the past week, except yesterday and today, we hear they are “smart” they are “smart “, who is supposed to run smart people task if not adekunle and giddyfia, cooperate guys… Bryann fans no argue

Hermes wins speed task, because it his athleticism, he is good, he is the best…

Bryann wins music task because of his musical dexterity, he gets attacked, it’s not a musical show, he should go to idol… no judgment on housemates…

Bryann gets attacked for every thing, his fans start to defend defend and defend him, they become the bad people…

This shalaye is for people who are neutral, we Bryann only hype, that’s all we used to do, but this thread have made us monsters, so pardon us… we will scatter this thread with Bryann names…

Rest abeg!

Geezeem:
Somehow I am supposed to believe this Danielle on my screen now, wants space from Dotun?

Words....actions... Pole apart.

ThierryJay:
Yeah. Though I think Chizzy is from a well to do background and not the 'hustler' we think. Someone here mentioned all his family are abroad.

I'm just surprised he's still sitting quietly in front of Shella who are still running their mouths over him. Would have thought he'd leave their side for elsewhere so they dont trigger him.

Being abroad doesn't equate to being well to do

Iceteam7:
This is my whole understanding of what happened

During the whole buying of the whole house stuff. The total money to get stuffs that every housemate contributed was 11,000 pocket naira

After getting what everyone had agreed on (rice,beans and what not), 3000 pocket naira was left which they decided to use for their FRIVOLITIES

Phyna asked for Kilichi
Amaka and Modella asked for Baileys
But that was all the 3000 was used to buy...(so in a nutshell it's still everybody money).

So Phyna and Amaka feel they have right to the Kilichi and Baileys but the rest housemates feel that that's their money so it's their right.

In the process Daniella and Bryan added 1000 pocket naira to get other stuffs like ice cream and the personal things they want.

So Bryan approach to Phyna was wrong but it's coming from a place of it's his right to demand for the Kilichi from her.

They are both right but it's the way the issue was approached.

The Bailey cost was 500 pocket Naira and Kilishi even lesser. So what happened to the remaining 2k+

Buzzed out too

Groovy is trying

Dannyxy:
I talk am say Bryann get issues with words safarigirl…

I pick things easily

Yes he does. Diagnosis - Itiboribo

Another time out

I can see scrub

Awww. Elo timed out

Eloswag Scapegoat

Munzy14:
Come and enter Heaven let me see...

Sweetpink:
Kwa kwa kwa kwa
I don’t even know what attracted him to her…perhaps,her big ass!!

He has one with hair, he has one with Dada, I'm sure he wants to add gorimapa to his harem. Variety is the spice of life abi

safarigirl:
No, he said Diana would have slapped Chichi if she got in her face outside, not him.

Oh okay

I wasn't looking at the television now and suddenly heard two men talking. Something like a flirty banter kinda of thing. I recognised Hermes voice and thought hei God! So Hermes has left the bounds of Polyamarous relationships and is now bothering on homo. All these thoughts happening in seconds. The other voice was beginning to sound like Giddifia. Jesu o! I looked at the TV and I saw Hermes lying on a bald man. But Giddifia is not bald na abi. I strained my eyes to see clearly... It wasn't Giddifia but Allysun. Mtchewww!

Oh if they were outside he'd have slapped her. Slap who?

Lamba Afternoon