₦airaland Forum

switlily25:
Giddem mami!!!

They must collect!

MamBi:
. Am I wrong? I thought you did not like Khosi?

I have always loved her from day 1.

scondy:
Something dey worry u...yemi no reach who? Lool...khosi no reach blue and nellisa wey be her fellow SA sef

It shouldn't get there. Whether or not your agree with what I'm saying, I'd rather you keep it to the HMs

DOptical:
Heartless and asshole because he became a friend of Blue on the third day of the show? 😅

Even Khosi despite her deceit had a moment of truth with Miracle. She told Miracle that Yemi was honest with her since the first day of the show.

Anyway, Khosi is gradually getting what she's always wanted. That is, to cage and box Yemi while she flirts.

If he felt he didn't do anything bad, why did he come begging her. Should someone who did nothing wrong beg?

They may not have been boyfriend and girlfriend, but they definitely had something going on that wasn't just friendship either.

Smoothgio:
And you came to the conclusion that khosi is the rich one by what

Nah,i cant deal with you

From the information i got. She's rolling in dough.

safarigirl:
I beg to differ.

He may not be the sharpest pencil in the box, but he's not the bluntest either.

He's charming, he's athletic, he's confident despite his stammering, and this is saying a lot, because people with speech impediments tend to be rather reclusive.

That he was able to overcome some of these challenges that could hamper one's social progress, is already testament to his person. He may be a very sexy and beautiful man, but he too has had his own challenges, just like Kobosi has had to deal with her own facial challenges.

And it's unfair to acknowledge Kobosi's strength by overcoming her facial challenges, but call Yemi an itiboribo in the same breath.

He doesn't need to be Stephen Hawking, Ben Carson or even Ebuka smart, he gets by just fine as is.


Also, Kobosi has not done anything to prove she is intellectually superior to Yemi. At best, she is more articulate, but she hasn't had to stammer for a good part of her life, so, she can be more articulate.

I have no problem with Yemi's speech impediment, but the content of his speech or the lack thereof is what I'm concerned about. You said it yourself days ago that you didn't think he was very smart, so why the backtracking?

You don't have to argue you for the sake of it you know.

Dannyxy:
lol your khosi is a deceitful and cunning fellow, very needy..

Lol I don’t Stan yemi, though I really like him, but it’s really funny you berated and dragged Erica to the high heavens for all that happened with kidwaya but see your hypocritical fingers defending a khosi doing same thing if not even worse, Erica was just foolish and no get sense, but this khosi na calculative strategic gamer, she is just trying to game another gamer, and she wins sometimes, she looses…

No one is a victim…

While Yemi is a terrible human being and a pathological liar.

Kiddwaya was a rich kid with private jet stories that made Erica's ears perk up. Her interest in Kidd was because she was dreaming of a lifestyle. it wasn't organic. That's why i came down on her.

Yemi on the other hand isn't rich. Khosi is the rich kid in this story.

So, Apple and oranges.

Chiefheywhy:
He came to her to settle only because she’d been cappin about shit to everybody who cared to listen.

Remember it was even Sandra that had a chat with Yemi and told him Khosi is painting a bad picture about him to other housemates. What did you expect him to do? Fold his hand and watch Khosi destroy his game? Nah..

Khosi na karishika, their type, you no for throw am away but you gas keep them at arm length.

He painted the bad picture by himself to the housemates. How can they see him happy with this chic one day and another chic comes in and he shifts his attention.. Don't the HMs have eyes, can't they see what's going on?

Only when he left did he realise that the grass isn't always greener at the other side and ran back with his tail between his legs begging Queen Khosi for Mercy.

The way you people twist facts is just funny!!! Uncle, didn't he claim Khosi on the day of the pool party? if he only wanted friendship, wouldn't he have made it clear that day in front of the whole house!

Abeg abeg abeg.

You guys are only making him look dumb. Cos only a dumb person can be cajoled to be a relationship they didn't want to be in.

safarigirl:
Yemi no be itiboribo, he can hold a conversation just fine, it just depends on what you're bringing to him.

He's a casual conversationalist, no be everybody fit dey break down race relations, and it's not his fault the camera only pays attention to him when he's doing ship things

Yemi cannot hold a decent conversation to save his life. He's not the sharpest pencil. All brawns, no brains.

Beorn:
Safarigirl asked you a question and you ignored it just to call Yemi an itiboribo. You be serious case.


I'm sure you know the answer to her question. Khosi doesn't hold intelligent convos as well so as you're accusing Yemi their lover, your fave is on the same table with him.

That one isn't even up for a debate.

DOptical:
You didn't know Khosi was calling Yemi an asshole, heartless blah blah blah because of Yemi friendship with Blue on the third day? You're the one not watching!

Yemi severally told her that they should remain as friends but she didn't want such! In the end, she was the one who jumped on Yemi's bed, kissed him and started claiming more than friendship afterwards. One thing is Yemi was honest since the first day he met Khosi. On the other hand, Khosi flirts with other male housemates. Hell, she's got a boyfriend!

Even if she did, what has that got to do with anything. Was he not an an asshole and heartless? Did she lie?

Was he not the one that came to meet her to settle. Was he not the one that reignited his interest when Miracle started applying pressure. When Miracle asked if he was with her, didn't he say "Yes, we have a thing" was he cajoled to say that? Was he under duress to claim her in front of Miracle and by extension the whole house?

She jumping and kissing after they made up is immaterial. He came to her in the first instance, not the other way around.

DOptical:
Same Khosi who was calling Yemi an asshole, heartless blah blah blah to the housemates? Wonders shall never end. The housemates had to keep asking Yemi what's up. That was why he tried to reconcile with Khosi who continued to say she wanted more than friendship.

It was Same Khosi who jumped on Yemi's bed, kissed him and started claiming they're back together while telling him not to look at other girls. Was that because of Miracle? Yemi had a problem with Miracle because of his provocation/instigation and disrespect, not because of his closeness with Khosi. Have you seen Yemi fight with any other guys that Khosi flirts with?

Now I truly doubt you're following the show. Watching highlights and twitter clips will never give you the full picture. Everything i said was exactly how it happened and it it all happened in the span of 1 week, not a day.

safarigirl:
Amya, you will not be allowed to say this about Yemi my lover. How many intelligent conversation has Kobosi had? If E pass to dey talk about Nigerian boyfriend and how she go come Nigeria, or how Yemi dey follow Blue, how many intelligent conversations she don get?

This is even an ableist comment. Yemi stammers, why will he be talking plenty?

Yemi's physical aesthetic is on point but he's an Itiboribo

Beorn:
At least we can establish the fact that Khosi knows what Yemi is doing and because of "the flesh being weak" is still stuck with him. Even Yemi has told her he doesn't want to be in a box and she won't take a hint. Also Yemi wanted them to remain just friends during the reconciliation session last Sunday, but Khosi wanted more and not just friends



But has she told Yemi that she is giving Thabang hopes of something happening after the show? Did she tell Yemi that she lied to Miracle that the affair was over? How did you think Yemi will feel to know Khosi flirts behind his back as well?




I don't think there is any more solid proof Khosi needs before she knows Yemi likes Blue and is juggling both of them. Maybe until he catches Yemi inside Blue before she gets sense. But then "the flesh is weak" and she would still forgive him again.

I agree Yemi lies, but so is Khosi. [b]Maybe Khosi doesn't lie as heartlessly as Yemi, [/b]but she lies regardless. That's why I said they deserve each other.

You've said it all. Yemi's lies are on a whole different level.

I truly hope Khosi sees Yemi for the person he is an stops believing his lies. She really and truly likes him and isn't merely using him to further her game as people think. But no one deserves a liar and a cheat.

As a woman, i understand what's going on perfectly because my gender always tend to ignore warning signs and sometimes fail to see clear writings on the wall when their feeling are involved. This is our daily reality. So i understand what's going on even if i don't like it.

Sadly, she will still make excuses and excuses for him and probably never let go.

Chiefheywhy:
Lame rebuttal, so now it’s you making excuses for Khosi’s antics.. 😂

Yet people make excuses for Yemi's antics all day. Why not Khosi?

DOptical:
I stopped reading at not over bearing or clingy.

For your info, Yemi was having his best life not until Khosi started talking about him to everyone and making Yemi the bad guy thus Yemi wanting them to be back as friends at least, which she didn't want but more. She kept saying Yemi shouldn't call them just friends because it wasn't what she wanted but more. Asked him not to tell the housemates that they're just friends. In the end, she jumped into Yemi's bed and kissed him and afterwards, she started to believe they're back again and cling onto him the more while asking him not to look at any girl or pick Blue during t & d. She simply guilty Tripped Yemi all along, since she set her eyes on him on the first day. What happened to Yemi telling her on the first day that he didn't want to be boxed? Yemi was honest.

Nope! the way you people twist stories like we're not all watching!

When they broke up the first time. Khosi didn't even want to talk to anybody about it. it's was the HMs who were all coming to meet her to ask her what happened. It was overwhelming for her. She told them she was good with it and she didn't even like him like that, he wasn't her type of guy and that she's okay with with him moving on with Aiva. She minded her business and stayed in her lane.

When Miracle started showing interest, Yemi came running back. Telling her that he couldn't concentrate and he was no longer himself because she was ignoring him. She asked him what he wanted and he said he wanted things the way they were and that he isn't interested in Aiva like that. That he was only being friendly. After that conversation, they only agreed to become friends and converse. Two days later the friendship dynamic changed again. This was because Miracle was applying pressure and seemed to be at the cusp of finally getting Khosi to be with him, Yemi came back full and finally threw Aiva under the bus. Khosi made it clear he was actually with her or not as she had other proposals. The mumu Yemi decided that she's the one he'll be with. All these led to her outburts at the pool party. How can he be going back on his words after what they both decided to be with each other. That's why Khosi approached aiva to understand what was going on, but Aiva said she didn't want to get into the mess. We all saw Yemi lie again to Khosi about Aiva and how irrelevant she was to him.

So my dear friend, how was Khosi overbearing, clingy and a pick-me in this story?

Beorn:
What of Khosi that lied to Miracle about being done with Yemi before going to sleep in the same bed with Yemi? Or is that lie not condemnable as well or becasue it isn't coming from Yemi.

What of Khosi asking Thabang to kiss her meanwhile she has a thing going on with Yemi thereby hurting the young man's feelings in the process?


Are you telling me that Khosi doesn't mean know that Yemi is a playboy who is flirting behind his back? C'mon, she knows but she has refused to let him go. This is more than Yemi lying. Everyone in that house knows what's going including Khosi bit she has chosen not to let go.


At this point, I've come to the conclusion it's a game for her because any sane human will leave Yemi after what has gone down sevreally in that house especially after she had watched Yemi kiss Aiva after she begged him not to embarrass her.

I mean, Miracle told her to her face in front of Yemi that she can continue letting Yemi disrespect her and yet she stayed with Yemi.


I repeat, I can't pity Khosi. Khosi, Yemi, Aiva and any other HM in that situation are at this point just playing a game and I'm enjoying it. They're all culpable.

For the Khosi and Miracle ish, you do know the mind can be willing but the flesh becomes weak. She might be thinking and saying that she'll end it with Yemi because she truly wants to, but she can't help herself but still be with him. Her case might be considered being deceitful like Yemi's if she had started having an affair with miracle behind Yemi's back. Saying I'm not going to eat meat again and going ahead to eat the meat it's not big enough of a deal. Apples and oranges.

Thabang shouldn't even be in that equation. It's all just light flirting. Even if Yemi isn't in that house, Khosi and Thabang wouldn't be a thing.

If I haven't seen how Yemi lies and tries to make her believe that she's imagining things, I might have seen things through your lenses. But I've seen that guy lie! His facial expressions, the cadence of his voice.... That's why i believe that Khosi keeps forgiving him. The moment she finds irrefutable proof that he's a piece of shit, I sincerely believe she would kick his ass to the curb.

Mrbllymer:
I thought you claimed to be smart it was nothing personal. You know it could mean unintelligent?

When did I claim to be smart. Matter of fact, when did this convo become about me? WTF

Estellie:
Preach the gospel sister!!
Ride on!!

Yesooo. Holding the forte down for our girl Khosicontent.

Pharoh:
[b]Same person that went everywhere saying yemi is not her type, [/b]even kanaga shock she change mind say am back with yemi.

You can defend her for anything but statement that she is a victim is 100 percent bullshit.

The same person told thabang that she would have come for him and also be in a situationship with nelissa if she was not gaming with yemi.

She could also be saying all that not not appear as the victim and so not be pitied.

It's a normal thing. If someone you like dumps you, you could say things like " I don't even like him sef" and dig up all the faults you know about that person to make yourself feel better.

Mrbllymer:
cos you are too dum.b to understand.

You've been itching to go personal. Don't let people you watch in your TV affect you so. It takes a certain kind of person to be so bothered about a big brother banter enough to go personal.

Mrbllymer:
same way you might be the one not smart here to have noticed.

I'm not smart to have noticed Yemi can't hold a smart conversation? Does this your statement even make sense to you.

Smoothgio:
Same Khosi who threw her four years relationship away just one week into the show

Or your Hermes who had a relationship with two babes outside the house but still went after Allyson in the show

It's her choice to end her relationship.

Hermes made his polyamorous lifestyle open from day 0. And he's to be respected for that. Unlike Yemi who keeps lying non-stop.

Mrbllymer:
same way that’s not you and your opinion/perspective about the character in question isn’t valid.
You ain't James Brown neither are you in the house to accurately analyze who is intelligent or who can hold a conversation after just two weeks.

But I'm watching the conversations and know who can't hold a smart one.

Pharoh:
The same khosi who told thabang that yemi is just a game and she will have a real thing with him later is a victim?

And if she made such a statement, how does it not occur to your she might be letting him down lightly and not try to bruise hiss fragile ego. Even a blind person know Khosi only likes one guy in that house, and it's yemi.

Smoothgio:
Las Las you will be fine

Tell your Khosi to stop forcing friendship with Blue cus na double heart break for her

Pussy ass nigga but your fave pussy is dripping for the nigga

Khosi has a pure spirit. She can't be hating on the girl just because of Yemi's infidelities. Rather tall your Yemi that if he thinks he can be a liar and a cheat in a game like big brother, where people see everything. He might have a problem with people trusting him in the real world.

Beorn:
I never said it's a positive thing but if the girls can't free themselves of the situationship, then I have no sympathy for them.

Khosi told Miracle she was done with Yemi but same night, she slept on Yemi's bed right after telling Kanaga that she's back with Yemi.


Blue sees the fact that Yemi is with Khosi, kisses her, cuddles with her and makes out with her, but she is still openly waiting for him to be hers.

Yemi, Khosi and Blue are equally enabling that situationship so I can't blame Yemi alone. If they say enough is enough, it will stop.

We all watched while Yemi lied through his teeth and threw Aiva under the bus. He paints a different picture to Khosi. She as the trusting person falls victims to his lies. You can never fault someone for trusting a liar. She's a victim in this story. Even the way talks and gaslit's her, we that are watching are almost convinced that might be telling the truth if not that we saw him with our eyes doing the opposite of what he is telling her. Yemi is a scum for being a a liar and Blue Aiva is a scum for being part of that deceit.

Khosi is innocent in all these.

Smoothgio:
But Khosi agitating Yemi is a positive thing abi

Sit this one out abeg,your point are useless

I'm entitled to my opinions too. If Yemi has moved on to Aiva by this time last week instead of running back to Khosi like the pussyassnigga he is, there wouldn't be any talk about Khosi agitating him.

He should make his choice and face front!

Smoothgio:
Another weirdo on the thread

Amya,you stop making sense since 2020

This one pain you oh.

Mrbllymer:
I bet to disagree why would I be intelligent and date someone who can’t hold conversation ? How do we communicate ?

Maybe that's you, but everbody is not you.

It's actually rare to see two people of the same level of intelligence together. Some guys purposely go for dumb girls while some smart girls settle for dumb guys for lack of options. That aside, millions of people are actually attracted to the exterior than interior, and it's their choice. Sapiosexuals are few and far between.

Beorn:
Khosi can't share. Blue can share while waiting to take over fully. So, kissing Blue openly in front of Khosi will put a spanner in his plans to keep both girls. If Khosi is ready to share like Blue, Yemi would be kissing them openly. But it takes a good skill and charm to keep them sticking to him while they both know he's cheating on them.

Khosi knows Yemi makes out with Blue. She has confronted her but she still can't let Yemi go and Yemi is still doing his thing. Don't you think it takes guts to string two girls along in a confined space like Biggie's house?


If it was easy, why couldn't your Emmanuel achieve it with Angel or Saskay that he secretly admired?

And stringing two girls along is now such a positive thing?

Mrbllymer:
If I claim to be intelligent and decide to go for someone that’s not intelligent, can’t hold a conversation, always all over him , am I not dumb ?

Nope. There are 100s of other reason a person can be liked. Not necessarily because they're smart. Okpos are being wifed everyday and their husbands are okay with it.