₦airaland Forum

Sulele04:
Now that this season show is over you are probably going to go into a Nairaland hibernation mode until next year's edition ba.

The memoir will continue soon. Don't worry.

JBoss25:
I still maintain last season was better, this season is forgettable

Last season almost ruined the franchise. Thanks to this season for saving it.

Nonso37:
Are you a mother? Why will you call a mother investment or support on her own child as a bad investment... Why do you people take this show so personal... Omo na wa for some of una... That's why I don't like online things...if say u dey my side na to land u big slap...

Why are you pained?

Hermes- A true star! An enigma, one of kind. So proud to stan such a wonderful soul this season. Though he didn't win, I know he'll most definitely win at life. I love him so much.

Phyna- A true go-getter. She wasn't exactly my cup of tea, as she might be too loud for my likening, but she still stood out. Only HOH winner from level 2. She's indeed a deserving winner.

Adekunle- Reminds so much of Michael in the just concluded BBUS. A geek but also a true comp beast. An all rounder and a generally stand up guy with a voice that's orgasm inducing. A true king. I have so much respect for him.

Bella- If it wasn't for Sheggs, i might have even stanned her. She's unapologetically herself. A truly confident girl. I really like her so much and it's really sad to me that she aligned with a narcissist. I hope she dumps the guy ASAP. She's a star. I prefer her type as friends in real life, people who wears their emotion on their sleeves. You can tell exactly what they're feeling and thinking and they never sugar coat anything. Unlike the pretenders that will tell you what you want to hear and stab you in the back.

Bryan- Not a fan. He's one of those people that keep getting handed things and never get to really work for anything. Glad he didn't win. Wish him luck in his music career.

Amaka- I still think her eviction was unfair. She reminds me of me, without the messiness. A truly sweet soul. I hope and pray this BBdom will open big doors for her.

Beauty- Broke the disqualification record in BBN for a mere boy. I hope she grows and learns from her experience. Someone with potential that blew everything for a pretty boy with small peen. Sad.


And to the rest Chichi, Daniella, Diana, Giddyfia, Sheggs, groovy, Christy O, Illebaye Kess Cyph, Chizzy, Doyin, Racheal Modella Deji and Pharmsavi They are one of the best casts for me since pepperdem. I wish them well.

Despite the low social media ratings of this season, i still maintain it's one of the best seasons in recent times. I particularly liked that we didn't have a day one winner and bandwagonism was very minimal. I look forward to the next season. I'm not one of those hoping the show goes on a hiatus. What will i do with my life biko? So I hope there would be another season next year. We're even due for an All Stars version. I hope they improve on the HOH challenges in future. They should do away with those cheap challenges that involve donkwas, brooms and plastic containers. For a big franchise, bbnaija are such cheapos.

Blaxhex:
why the thing dey pepper you sha..
She did it for her beloved son and she didn't complain to you so rest jare

It would be sad for incoming HMs to bankrupt their parents paying influencers and not to end up winning Just really sad..

badinfluence:
It's her sacrifice for her son.
Maybe you can't relate to such, that's why you're mocking her. Stop projecting

It was a failed business investment.

Too bad there's no consolation prize for runner-up's. After spending millions on PR and influencers.

badinfluence:
You rest..
You've been trying to shade her for supporting her son..
Does her support for her son trigger some sort of trauma for you?

Lol. If she used her business capital to settle influencers and PR people hoping that she would recoup her investment from the 100m, problem go dey. I'm just a concerned citizen.

Who deyyyyy! Better razzness than failed musicians any day sha. I'm so happy!

badinfluence:
She surely doesn't need your concern

Are you her? Rest abeg.

Well, this is a lesson to those that bankrupt themselves or businesses paying influencers to push them. It never ends well.

badinfluence:
So how is it your business??..
He is her son..
Why the fake concern??

i feel bad for her. Bad investment.

At the very least, the chain of failed musicians winning has been broken.

badinfluence:
What concerns his mum here. Some of you sef..
Leave the boy alone ah

She's the one funding him. I hope she didn't use her business capital to settle influencers

observanc1:
very black, violent, outgoing musician, cartoon-face immature bryann in the mud permanently. he leaves with nothing.

I hope his mum didn't bankrupt her business from the numerous $$$ spent on influencers and twitter polls.

Phewww! So happy the musician didn't win sha. Phyna is more deserving. Congratulations Phyna. Our second female winner.

Sweetpink:
On the contrary,he helped her game.

How? i don't see that. Her personality didn't shine as much because Sheggs isolated her from the group.

None of the top 2 are my cup of tea, but whichever of them wins, they really worked for it. My happiness is simply knowing the bandwagonism as we see in previous seasons wasn't as strong this season.

That early nominations really did Phyna and Bryan good. They started building their fanbase from the very beginning. Good for them.

stevebond007:
Another BB ending, Amya, another disappearing act?

Lol. I'm always on Nairalan.d Only BBN makes me post though.

Sheggs really suppressed Bella. That girl could have easily won the show

MissAnneboleyn:
I love the fact that BB turned the game on it's head, no bandwagonism this year even till the last day we are still unsure who the winner is.

The best thing about this season for me.

"you're mad"

"you're sick"

"there's something wrong with you"

"you're not okay"

and more insults, even in Yoruba language.

That even Ebuka had to ask Bella if words like that were her love language.

And that's just the verbal abuse part of it, which was less in comparison to the emotional abuse that had involved gaslighting, being critical, manipulation and pushing Bella's boundaries.

Yet someone is asking for examples on how Sheggs was abusive. Well, if those signs to them is excusable and normal, then they most likely abusers themselves.

meobizy:
Check your inbox.

Inbox is empty. Can't see anything.

innocentdude:
Nah, do not twist my posts out of your bias and being emotional

I never said she wasn't abused
I never said Shekpe may not have abused her
I said she was bitter, which is true
From her posts she sounds scorned and VERY BITTER

And yes irrespective of whether she's right or wrong, irrespective of however this may end.
It's always good to hear both sides rather than immediately condemning one party

And if wanting actual proof and not hearsay considering the tens of cases of false allegations we've had in recent years ending in bad repercussions for the male counterparts makes me an abuser or an abuser apologist then that is perfectly fine

Why even make the video of you being physically abused and post it on social media in the first place only for you to take it down after your abuser of a boyfriend came back
Why even stay with an abuser for 3 years

The story doesn't correlate one bit
Wait for all facts or atleast most to be out and don't let your dislike for Shekpe cloud your judgement sha. That's all

The video didn't mar Sheggs reputation as much as his abusive actions in the house did. The video corroborated evreything we watched. Why should abusers be coddled? why should the victims be attacked for speaking out?

People like Sheggs abound, my ex was one and there are many everywhere, even nairaland. So i'm not surprised at your stance.

Geezeem:
What I read here was that he "broke her leg" it was yesterday I read she fell running from him

What you read here or what she actually said?

innocentdude:
Why the heck would you get back with someone who physically abused you

Where you under a spell ? ?
It's like carrying a bag of money and passing through a notoriously criminal neighborhood expecting not to get robbed and then when you're robbed start shedding victim tears

This doesn't absolve him of potentially being abusive though because unlike most of you I don't act as judge, jury and executioner before all the facts of the story are laid out

And yes
She is bitter
Very bitter

But you're doing all that even as it has been pointed to you that the suppose post that started all these was made 2 years ago. She's an amazing person who truly believed he was a changed person and that's why she took him back. Keep being an abuse apologist. You might even be an abuser irl even, who knows. That would explain a lot.

Geezeem:
I question you people's motive at this point

Why is this so much about a stranger than its about Bella we watched?

Why should this ex of a stranger be at fore topic now? it's almost like Bella's angle is being pushed at the back burner

This is about SHELLA

it's about Bella

It's about the abuse we watched and can corroborate

It's not about an ex

We can't substantiate her claim

Nobody is calling her a liar

We are only saying we will take her words with a pinch of salt

Surely, this is clear enough?

Whether abuse of Bella...whether abuse of Bemi, abuse is abuse. The youtube post was made way before Sheggs had an inkling that he would ever be in the BB house. Same Sheggs corroborated her story with his actions in the house. So yes, i'm buying her story 100%. Action they say speak louder than words.

Amibranki:
see them. Rape apologists. Na una type dey shame victim. Funnily na sheggz team bring that refined version out to correct the narrative and clean his image going forward but baba still went there to cast himself. To whose detriment? The harassment from his fans made her to release that statement. REST!

Like even when it's been broken down for them to understand, they'll still twist it to fault the victim. I like that this topic is exposing people for who they really are.

innocentdude:
I see

But then why did she get back with the abusive ex who broke her leg and why even delete the video in the first place only to come back with a remixed version after all this time

She sounds bitter

She got back with him becauseshe thought he would change.

He didn't so she broke up and quietly moved on. She didn't remix the video. The remixed version was someone sort of blaming her for the abuse because she was funding the relationship an it was released same 2020. You should know that the internet bever forgets. anything posted online does have a way of coming back up from time to time. If you read everything i posted up there and still believe she's a bitter ex, then there's simple no redemption for you.

Anyone who followed this show from the beginning knows that Sheggs came with a game plan, so i wouldnt be surprised Sheggs and his team released that video on purpose so his acts in the house would counter the 2020 allegations. If Bella wasn't in that house, he would have still picked someelse for the game he had in mind. In his entrance interview, he didn't say much about how he was going to try to win the show but only about how he wanted to meet someone in the house and love them bla bla bla. This dude even came in with a matching bracelet!. This was clearly an image laundering mission for him that failed simply because you can't genuinely pretend for so long without people catching a glimpse of the real you.

We saw when the cracks started to show. We saw the abuse ourselves. we saw how he tried to belittle Bella, calling her name. We saw how he tried to control even her, even her thoughts. Remember the Suya incident? How everyone was disgusted when he made a big incident out of Bella eating from her own Suya and the names he called her afterwards. It became very apparent even to the casual viewer that he was indeed an abusive person.

Ebuka hinting at the abuse to Bella was like clear sign that he hadn't been too careful in his quest. So proceeding farther into the game, he became more careful to hide the abuse. In all however, he totally failed in his mission because if people had taken the allegations lightly, his attitude in the house confirmed it.

Now he's out of the house, he will keep up with the charade and try to play up the 'my scorned ex simply wants to clout chase because i found love in the house'

As for Bella, except her family pulls her out from that relationship immediately ( as i know she can't do that on her own), she's really in for it. Now that the cameras isn't there to follow them 24/7 the real monster inside Sheggs will be unleash. He will put all his travails he's going through on her. Blame her for his abuse of her and generally make her life a living hell behind close doors but in the view of the world, she will cover his tracks and defend him. Except she leaves that guy as soon as she steps out of the house, Sheggs will manipulate her further in the us against them situation he heavily wants to capitalize on.

Agbgift:
First of all I am not a Sheggz fan, secondly I am an advocate against domestic violence and any form of abuse in relationships. What I am saying if she has proof against the guy let her drop it and let him face the consequences of his action and stop making it looks as if she is not certain about what she is saying. That's why I said she should stop capping on the guys little fame. Who get something to talk nor dey drag the talk. Shoot straight to the point.

Let me clear this up for you so you know this isn't about clout chasing.

Timeline
2019 Sheggs and Bemi started a relationship were Sheggs was abusive to her.

2020, Bemi broke up with Sheggs after a heated argument led to Sheggs chasing and she falling down a flight of stairs and breaking her leg.

2020, Bemi made YouTube video narrating her ordeal with an abusive ex. ( she was a relatively popular youtuber at the time, so the content blew up, even on twitter. Now there's no way Bemi could have seen into the future to know Sheggs would be a cast in BBN 2022 and try to clout chase when she made that video.

2021, Bemi got back with Sheggs and even deleted the video. She thought he would change. He didn't, so she broke up with him November of 2021

2022, Sheggs got into the BBN house and the video came out from unknown sources. Third parties had remixed the video in 2020 so that was the version available on twitter.

In the whole time Sheggs was in the house, Bemi never said one word confirming or denying the video. I even knew that her silence was her trying to protect him. When Sheggs was out of the house and was on media round, he was asked questions about the YouTube video of which he subtly tried to deny by insisting he wasn't the one being talked about in the video. Sheggs fans went on a harassment spree and tried bullying this poor girl that had still been trying to protect Sheggs all this while with her silence. They went as far as tagging the companies she influenced for, calling her a liar, and that's what prompted her speaking about this issue for the first time and hopefully last time.

So before you go around assuming someone is trying to clout-chase with an irrelevant nobody, try to understand the facts.