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Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Suicide Victims Go: Heaven Or Hellfire? by Anas09: 10:56pm On Apr 24, 2018

hopefulLandlord:
Oga, its purely written what the only unforgivable sin is in your holy book and its not suicide, stop pulling interpretations outta your ass

But, she has killed herself nah. When will she ask for forgiveness again? There's no forgiveness beyond the gave. If she attempted and failed, she could ask for forgiveness and be forgiven. If Shekau repents today genuinely and asks for forgiveness, he will be forgiven and washed clean, but at death, that won't happen.

And, when she stands before the White Throne Judgement, that is the scripture which will stand against her.
She contravened that scripture so, she'd be destroyed. All these emotions won't count there.

Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Suicide Victims Go: Heaven Or Hellfire? by Anas09: 10:47pm On Apr 24, 2018

Butterflyleo:
Hello anas09 just saw your mention. Let me see if I can locate the thread. I am very tired here now. Have had a very busy week.

***modified****

Here it is.

https://www.nairaland.com/4431445/life-meaningless-need-exit

Thanks brother. It's okay to be tired, for only Hardworking men gets tired at the end of the day.

@Xbee007, here is the link to a thread your own brethren opened about his depression and suicidal thoughts.

I hope he had not killed himself by now.

Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Suicide Victims Go: Heaven Or Hellfire? by Anas09: 10:36pm On Apr 24, 2018

Xbee007:
We should strive for life not just for ourselves but for others too because we are part of the lucky few who get too live. Their are trillions of human who could have been in your place today but here you are. You should appreciate life and know that you are one of the lucky few.

If i didn't know i'd ve thought this came from a religious person.
What determined who survives and who doesn't? Chance? Bros, stop smashing your balls by yourself.

God created this earth. He decides who lives and who dies. Everything is as He purposed them. He sets up Kingdoms and overthrows empires. He sets one up and brings the other down. He is in charge of all. You breath because He decided you shd, if He wills it, you'd sleep this night and you'd be moved by other people tomorrow as a corpse.

Be careful boy.

Xbee007:
There is nothing special about Christianity. I am not trying to dissuade you from your religion. I don't do that. I just enjoy this sort of intellectual arguments.

I never said Christianity is special, you said, i am a mental slave, hence; i want to change but to do that, you must present to me the benefits which awaits me in atheism where people are free as you say. But, you must first point to me the ways my Christian faith is detrimental to me as a person.

Remember, you took this from Seu.n. I asked him to tell me what i'd gain when i become an atheist otlr loose if i die and discover there's no Heaven one hellfire. You are yet to tell me.

Xbee007:
Again nothing special. There are billions of atheists or non-christians who have had better luck. Some people didn't even go through the stress of interview before they got job.

What Luck are we talking about here? We are talking about Competence. The ability to deliver on a task based on your field of study. You said my brain is not being maximally used because i'm a Christian.

Oh wait, now you imply i pass my exams like the atheists by luck? I thought as a Christian, my brain is affected hence, i can't function as human.

This is why that atheist (ALOAADABU pls what is the name of that atheist who says modern atheist are not bright?)

Xbee007:
I don't even see myself that way.

Oh, but you do. why will you tell me how my brain is affected by religion? You told me to jettison Christianity so that i can better use my brain, meaning you use your brain better and are smarter for that as an atheist nah.

It is well sha.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Suicide Victims Go: Heaven Or Hellfire? by Anas09: 10:05pm On Apr 24, 2018

Xbee007:
How will Shekau who has killed thousand of people still be alive today but a couple with just an only child lose their child in a tragedy?
Justice makes life fair!

You just answered yourself. 'Justice makes Life Fair'.
And the Sovereign of all creations determined when that Justice happens. But you say there's no Justice. Bcod If Shakau simply dies with no recompense of tribulation for his actions as you posit, then there's no Justice, because, everything would just end for him in nothingness. All his evils go unpunished.

A pregnant woman was discovered dead with her stomach dissected, her baby taken by men who are probably ritualists. You'd wish that these people just be killed and meet nothingness abi?

Do you think dead is punishment enough for an evil act? Death is painless, it's like sleeping. i have had a taste of it before. Every evil act shall be judged by the Sovereign authority, the Only Potentate. No amount of word joggling will deliver you from his Judgement seat.

Xbee007:
Well that is the simple truth of life and more reason why we should make best of what we have right now.

You didn't answer the question of Destiny and destination. What is the destiny of an Atheist?

Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Suicide Victims Go: Heaven Or Hellfire? by Anas09: 9:46pm On Apr 24, 2018

Xbee007:
I don't mean it that way. But the truth is the illusion called religion will definitely affect your brain and how you see the world. It is like an opium that gives you a limited narcissistic view.

In what way do you then mean it?

You mean to say the illusion call atheism makes you believe you are smarter than a Christians?

How did Religion affect my brain when i attended an interview with a 9 man panel, 7 whites and 2 Black people. All the questions came from those who were professionals in my field and register. My Résumé was in the hands of one of them, based on what was in it, i was bombarded with questions, and afterwards i was called to pick my appointment letter. It wasn't a sunday school bible quiz.

How did religion affect my brain then? And may i add that the Whites were not Christians because i got to work with them later on.

I ask you again, do you think if we were to be given tasks to perform, you'd do better because you are an atheist?

Xbee007:
It is the worst form of slavery. It is a bondage of the mind, worst still the people in it don't know or refuse to accept the fact. When the colonialists came to Africa, they stole our resources and gave us religion. "Touch not the anointed!" they say. Obey! Conform!! Do not question!!! White missionaries are stealing from you but they say "touch not the anointed." Your pastors is stealing from the church and sleeping with church members but "Touch not the anointed!"

Wow. You knocked me off here. Hmmm. But Jesus set me free to choose yyo either follow him or reject Him. Look at you for starters, you have rejected Him, what has happened to you? Nothing. He says Love and forgive, if i choose i can disobey and live in rancor with everyone around me. You have chosen to disobey Him, He didn't kill you. How am i now in slavery biko? Does slavery have another meaning?

I thought if i were a mental slave, i'd be a robot completely under the influence of my slave master doing as he please with me? But here i am, I choose to stop fornication, lying, malice, stealing and the rest. If i choose to, right this nite, i can resume doing all of these just like you.

You are free as an atheist to live as you like, only, you are not free from the consequences that follows your choices.

You have no case. Your attention is just so misdirected that when you stand before Jesus in Judgement, you'd so regret it. Which Pastor is your model? Which pastor gave his life for you?

Jesus never told you to look up to His messengers, He said 'Look unto me' (Jesus).

The missionaries gave you the education which placed on the pedestal upon which you standing in today to proclaim your smartness over them who gave it to you.

The missionaries gave you health care, they taught to stop killing your children in sacrifice to demons. They built leprosy colonies for your people. They liberated you, yet you stand and cry that they stole from you.

May be you are mistaking Political European lords who came to Africa with singleness of purpose, which was to take. Politics takes from the people, every where look around you.

It's only a fool who will claim Missionaries stole from him.

Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Suicide Victims Go: Heaven Or Hellfire? by Anas09: 8:59pm On Apr 24, 2018

Xbee007:
The ignorant stereotypes of exaggerating suicides by atheists belongs to the junk. Their are millions of atheist in this world today with very sane minds.

When last were you on reddit? They hardly have anything else to talk about outside of killing themselves.

One of you was here last Two weeks crying about meaninglessness of Life and must have killed himself by now if God didn't intervene. So many atheists in Nairaland are just pretending putting up bold faces to cover up because of the Christians here. That poor one had to register a new Moniker to hide who he is.

@Butterflyleo, pls do you have the link to that thread? The one the atheist didn't want anyone talking him out of suicide.

Xbee007:
Hope is good but when based on religious narcissism is bad.
Have you ever asked yourself genuinely that 'what if your religion is the wrong one?'
There are thousands of religions in this world today but yours is the 'right one'. Well lucky for you!

Itst quite funny to hear an atheist using that word. I thought you were better and smarter than me because you are an atheist? Who is the Narcissist now? hahahahahahaha.

Guy, maintain the line of discuss and don't try to play clever with me. This is not about Christianity vs other religions. It is Christianity vs Atheism because the woman who killed herself was a Christian not a Hindi. Except you have ran out of ideas and want resort to making a case for other religions. Just try to remember that they believe in a god, which ever.

Xbee007:
It is not surprising to me. You are only 'high' on your religion. Just like a weed smoker would praise his weed over other's.

You got that right. No amount of speculations can get a man to really understand what goes on the head of a man on weed, so also with a man high on the Holy Spirit or the glory of God.

You my friend, have no idea.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Suicide Victims Go: Heaven Or Hellfire? by Anas09: 8:39pm On Apr 24, 2018

Xbee007:
Since you religious folks claim God(s) know(s) our minds, then it shouldn't matter how we pray, our prayer should be answered anyway. BTW, the reality is that prayer solves no real problem, it may give you rest of mind to stop worrying about it, but it will never solve it. Which is why when your religious leaders want somethings like new house, new and bigger churches, cars etc. they ask sheeples to contribute monies. But when sheeples need stuffs, they tell them to pray. If prayer were the answer, Nigeria not China will be the best country in the world.

God knows our hearts and Needs even before we open our mouths to ask, but He still wants us to ask Him. The reason is because of fellowship. You'll never understand this even if i cut open your head and put it in there. It's simply beyond you. So i'll spare you.

Did you say the reality?, as in you have been a Christian, known by God as a son, you asked for anything according to His Will and it did not happen?
Well, sorry to bust your bubbles, my prayers gets answered as i pray. You can't work for Dangote and expect rewards from Adenuga nah. Every father knows his children and gives to meet their needs. If you asked and didn't receive must be because, you doesn't know you.

He said 'I know my Sheep'... Are you His Sheep or a goat?

You are an atheist, you know nothing about the Kingdom of God. If the reason for which you turn your back on God is because you don't want to give to pastors, you'd be shocked when the Bible is opened to you at Judgement, and you see it written there that you ought to have given to them, then it'll be too late.

If any pastor uses money meant for Missions for their own selfishness, they'll stand to answer before God, but that will never stop me from giving.

And, don't even try thinking that you calling me a Sheeple will insult me. I AM PROUDLY A SHEEP.

Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Suicide Victims Go: Heaven Or Hellfire? by Anas09: 7:18pm On Apr 24, 2018

Your post is a long one, so, i'll do cut it in verses.

Xbee007:
Well, technically oncewe aredead stuffslike that wouldn't matter just likethey didn't before we were born. It is just nothingness...

You did not answer my question. i said, if i die believing there's a heaven and Hellfire, but all i ser is nothingness, what do i stand to loose? Will i miss being depressed as is so commonly associated with Atheism or the hatred and bitterness against those who believe in God?
Is it degenerated depraved lifestyle which ultimately endangers human life? is it alcoholism which destroys the Kidneys and Liver? what will i be missing? Pls tell me.

Xbee007:
Again, I repeat depressioncanhappen to anyoneregardless oftheGod(s) you worship orhow manytimesyou pray in a day. Just that religionseems to be abetter copping mechanismin third worldcountries. In better organised ones, they havetherapist and Support Groupsfor that. And if you continue sayingthat depressedChristiansdo not have enoughholyspirit inthem that is whythey are depressedthenyou are really insensitive. Cositjust takes onesadincidentto send a healthyhumanmind intothat slippery slope ofdepression. For instance, take a woman full of"Holy Spirit" who thenlost her husband and children in aroad accident. She will naturallybe depressedif she doesn't get good helpandsupportfromlovedones.

I thought i made myself clear. deal with me not with others who believe in other gods. I am a christian so, it'll make perfect sense if you'd say, depression can affect Christians.
I happen to also know that American Christians pray and depend on God for support than humans. The loved ones are mostly Christian cells units.
And, your woman full of the Holy Spirit who looses her husband and Children in a road accident then gets depressed to the point of killing herself, made you believed she had the Holy Spirit, when she didn't. Listen the test of a Christian life is not when all is rosy, it is in the days of adversities. The reaction will determine whether or not the supposed Christian wad indeed a Christian.

Every Christian knows that life here is temporal. Every Christian has hope of meeting with their loved ones again at resurrection if they all make it. Every Christian knows that, deaths like that doesn't come from God. but God can allow them. Every Christian knows that they did not createtheir loved ones, so don't have rights to demand whether or not they should be taken back home.

My Aunty, her husband and their 4 Sons got roasted by fire while sleeping at night. their only daughter escaped death because she was out of town to write Neco. We all survived it. she is in the University now. No depression. she doesn't hate God for killing her parents. because she knows death is not the end. And, she doesn't have any right over her parents or siblings.
We shall see them again.

Xbee007:
Ourhoperest onour shouldersalone. Although there aresome things that are beyondour control, hence, it is leftto us to accept the things we cannotchange, change the things that wecan and be able to tell the difference between thetwo.

You sound like a recovering Alcoholic here. lol.
Well, this is the reason why atheists kill.
If you are all there is in this world to you, you shd"ve determined your birthday and date. Your gender, race, parentage, tribe, skin colour and the day you'd die.
But. alas, when you are hungry you eat whether or not you want to be hungry. when you feel tired you sleep whether or not you want it. And, while asleep, a 5 yrs old child can end your life to show how helpless you are.

Christianity Etc › Re: How To Answer The Question "Where Did Jesus Say, 'I Am God, Worship Me''? by Anas09: 5:44pm On Apr 24, 2018

pressplay411:
That post was about a year ago. A lot has transpired since then. A lot of Grace, Salvation, Knowledge and Understanding.

The concept of trinity is one that is inconceivable to the senses. But it is just as aptly defined in 1 Timothy 3:16.
"And without controversy, great is the mystery of godliness: God manifested in the flesh, Justified in the Spirit Seen by angels, Preached among gentiles, Believed on by the world, Received up in glory."

If you believe youre a tripartite of body, mind and soul, and you believe that you're created in the likeness of God, then it shouldn't be so difficult to understand the Trinity of God.

Dwelling among us as Christ was the body/physical manifestation of God. God the Father never abdicates His throne in Heaven, He was, He is and Forever will be enthroned. Having Conquered Sin and Death and ascended into Glory in Christ the body, the Spirit of God now fills the earth. Meaning we have been enabled to attain purity for the indwelling of the Spirit of God.

Christianity is deep and every new revelation of the spirit is a like glorious experience.
There's so much to tell you, but I'll rather you let the Holy Spirit show you.
Just seek Him genuinely today. It costs you nothing and you have everything to gain.
Confess you believe in Jesus Christ and let Him do the rest.

Brother, you and i are on the same side. You just said exactly what i shd have said to anyone who have issues with the concept of Trinity.
Thank you very much.

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Family › Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Anas09: 12:31pm On Apr 24, 2018

Blackfire:
Can we start all over again....

I know alot of things must have happened between us,during the months of silence.

You can PM.

Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Suicide Victims Go: Heaven Or Hellfire? by Anas09: 12:25pm On Apr 24, 2018

Sir, i am a Christian who believes my life is a Trust to me, so can not do with it however i please. I believe following the instructions of God written in the Bible keeps me safe both here and hereafter. I believe a kingdom awaits me when i'm done here and can only access that Kingdom by meeting up with the criteria of Love, which comes by accepting the Love offered to me by Jesus Christ, without which, i can't be a partaker of that Kingdom, So sir, pls tell me what i stand to loose when i close my eyes in death and discover the much expected Kingdom does not exist. If there's no Hellfire of Heaven, what will i lose?

Xbee007:
Depression can happen to anyone regardless of your age, sex, skin colour or the god(s) you pray to.

Well, let me begin by saying, depression can not happen to any Child of God who has the Holy Spirit inside of them and maximizes His blessedness. The reason is because, depression is a spirit and two opposing spirits can not cohabit the same host. The very first thing that happens to believer when the Holy Spirit steps into his/her life is unexplainable Joy and peace. There's no way that experience can be put to words. Jesus knows that the world is full of tribulation and situations that causes discouragement, hence; He said, Come unto me..., He came back as the Spirit the comforter. Every Spiritually sensitive and aware Christian knows that we don't belong here that is why the world hates us. We have a Kingdom and if we feel comfortable here, we'll loose sight of our Kingdom, so we can't be burdened by the things of the world and when we don't have them, we kill ourselves as a result.

But, most Christians also make the mistake of Misdirecting their focus by taking it off God and placing them on men hence, setting themselves up for a great fall. Our Hope comes from God alone.

Some don't know how to pray, they take their Wills to God for approval when they should have asked God what His will for them is. God will never answer or do our will, it's either we do as He Wills or leave yourself vulnerable to the attacks of Satan by discouragement and doubt.

Xbee007:
That atheist tend to commit suicide, as a result of depression, more than religious folks just goes to show that atheist don't have the psychological and sociological cushion religious folks enjoy in organised religions. It is not rocket science. Support Groups in advance societies can conveniently replace the job of religion in this area.

Atheism is now organized in groups and have support groups too. I go to Reddit and see them dropping links to support groups for those contemplating suicide, yet they still kill themselves.

Have you ever heard the word Hope? Hope is what believers in Jesus have. Every Jesus believing Christian has the hoping of living eternally with Jesus at death, why kill myself when i know i will die anyways?
We know that our lives on earth are a Trust and a Test, hence; we live it cautiously knowing we'll hand it over some day and account for how we used it.

Trust me, to you what i just said is Rocket Science becos it just flew above your head.

Xbee007:
What will you stand to gain if you abandon religion for reason?
Well, for starters you begin to use more of your brain.
You will be freed from shackle of mental slavery.

You mean i don't use my brain now that i'm Christian? How? Do you mean if you and i sat for an examination you'd make better grades than i because you are an atheist and me a Christian? Or if we worked in the same establishment and are given tasks to perform you'd do better then i because you are an atheist? hahahahahaha.
pls don't make me laugh. Do you really believe it when you are told you are smarter than a Christian?

Pls explain to me what you mean by mental slavery.

Xbee007:
You will truly understand that life itself is unfair and it is the duty of every human to make it better for everyone.
You will understand and better accept reality as it is.

What is reality? You described the unfairness of Life here as though Life has power of it's own to create situations that are unfavourable. Is life a living force?
What makes life unfair?

Xbee007:
Most importantly, you will understand that our destiny is shaped by the choices we make, although reality dictates that some things are beyond our control but that doesn't mean we shouldn't try.

Destiny talks about a 'destination', and destination talks about the future and the future talks about targets and Hope. Without a purpose we can not begin to talk about destinations.

What is the destination of an atheist on earth? You believe you are like animal or a flower which is here today but tomorrow, can be gone leaving no memories behind.

If we are just chemicals with no reason to live in the first place, why strive or thrive to be anything at all?

Sir, maybe i shd outline the benefits of my being a Christian to you so that you can tell their negatives or how they are detrimental to me, hence; dissuade me from pursuing the life i'm currently pursuing as a Christian.

What you gave to me as benefits are nothing to go by, as I have never failed an exam before. i'm not boasting here, but i have never sat for any exams and get called back for a resit, never. I have never sat for an interview and was not called to resume work. And, i'm not an atheist.

If you truly believe that you are smarter because you are an atheist, well... Wow.

Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Suicide Victims Go: Heaven Or Hellfire? by Anas09: 8:17am On Apr 24, 2018

Seun:
It's a pity that religion does not help people when they need it most. Fortunately, she won't burn in hell, because hell is an imaginary place.

Hahahahahahaha. It's unfortunate that religion does not help people and atheism does abi? why are all atheist depressed and anticipating suicide and actually kill themselves?

Okay, Seun, pls tell me what i will stand to again if i become an atheist.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Message Is The Message Of The Blood! by Anas09: 8:11am On Apr 24, 2018

The Christian message is the message of LOVE, NOT BLOOD.

Christianity Etc › Re: 1 by Anas09: 8:07am On Apr 24, 2018

What happened to Islamic section?

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Christianity Etc › Re: My Days Are Numbered On Nairaland. by Anas09: 11:33am On Apr 23, 2018

Samfigo1:
Yes! they are numbered. I could hardly read any Biblical or Christian write ups today being Sunday. You mean BBN could overpower the write ups?

What a scandalous situation to behold ?

I don't understand, you are living NL because BBN did what?

Pls my brother, give us a good Christian topic lets discuss. I don't know anything about BBN, so i can't take any decision based on that.

Christianity Etc › Re: How Bishop Adjeman Successfully Hijacked Winners Chapel Ghana From Oyedepo by Anas09: 11:19am On Apr 23, 2018

TheTrueApostle:
Mumu people

Who be Mumu people? The Apostles of Christ?

Family › Re: After 15yrs, I'm Still Haunted, Help!!!! by Anas09: 11:04am On Apr 23, 2018

pcjuvy:

Na true nah. You probably don't know what it means to live in fear knowing someone could kill your Children.

Christianity Etc › Re: Who Is The Son Of God And The Son Of Man To The Grail Message. by Anas09: 10:59am On Apr 23, 2018

seeklove:
@Pastor AIO
Germans are not that bad. My sister lived in Germany for more than ten years, she still thinks that Germans are the nicest poeple she ever met. She had a legitimate Job there, and she says that the poeple were so good to her and her family to the extent that when she was migrating to America, all her neigbors in Germany were crying like babies. So many Nigerians in Germany are into illigal things, which the Germans and their Government frown upon, this makes Nigerians say that they are bad.
Hitler decieved Germans. He is not a hero in Germany today. His party, Nazi is also very unpopuler. So many Germans, even during the world war, knew that the war was unjust, but some of them were just fighting out of petrotisim. Just as so many Americans think that the war in Iraq is wrong yet they fight out of petrotisim for America.
Hitler, Nazi and the world war was just one apple. don't use one event to qualify a whole poeple who have exsisted for a very long time. Remenber that Hitler was a dictator. Racisim and racial superiority was introduced to Germans by the nazi party. I dont want to mention where Hitler leant that from. But research into it. Infact Hitler actually is not a full blooded German. Hitler has a Jewish background and some Historians say that he was actualy Austrian. He used the German poeple who were very gulible. Please research further into the issue.
Will you say that Americans are bad becuase of the iraqi war or becuase of bush?
If those things that you mentioned are the only bad things in history for a country as old as Germany(even older than America), then they are not bad at all.
Even the jews who are God's Chosen pople had some bad apples, like King Herod. But this doest not justify calling the jews a bad poeple. PLEESSSE!!!!

@justcool
Although I disagree with Pastor AIO but I do not see how the atrocities that he mentioned showed the correctness of your explanation. Please explain.

Only, King Herod was not a Jew.

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Christianity Etc › Re: How To Answer The Question "Where Did Jesus Say, 'I Am God, Worship Me''? by Anas09: 9:16am On Apr 23, 2018

iamgenius:
Did you hear yourself at all? You said Jesus is not a representation of God BUT GOD HIMSELF, and you are now saying JESUS IS NOT THE ENTIRE GID HIMSELF. Read what youwrite again and tell me if you made any sense.

If you say Jesus is part of God, now tell me God consist of how many parts?

Shouldn't you disprove the written Word?

Christianity Etc › Re: How To Answer The Question "Where Did Jesus Say, 'I Am God, Worship Me''? by Anas09: 9:11am On Apr 23, 2018

pressplay411:
Those were specific and temporary manifestations. Now we're saying as Jesus He abandoned his Godly responsibilities to manifest in human form for over 30 years?
While God was existing in the world as Jesus who was ruling over the Heavens?
But I believe like all things religious it's simply faith bound defying sense and reason.

Bros, i think it will make more sense if you'd treat those scriptures and say they don't mean what they say that ask these questions.

Christianity Etc › Re: Pakistanis Deeper Life Member @ The 2018 National Easter Retreat - PHOTOS by Anas09: 12:45am On Apr 23, 2018

Zodiac61:
And why would the world be a better place if we followed the teachings of a non existent person?

E Pain am.

Family › Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Anas09: 7:54pm On Apr 22, 2018

Ishilove:
Yes my sister, I have, but I didn't love blindly

Hmmm. Falling in love is likened to a football player in the pitch. He commits fouls before realizing it. But, you the spectator sees and shouts out, 'oooo he shouldn't have done this or, he shd have done that'.

Family › Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Anas09: 7:51pm On Apr 22, 2018

Ishilove:
Yes my sister, I have, but I didn't love blindly

Christianity Etc › Re: "SIN" Is An Acronym That Stands For....... by Anas09: 6:20pm On Apr 22, 2018

S=Satan's
I= Impost
N=Nature
SIN.

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Family › Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Anas09: 6:16pm On Apr 22, 2018

Ishilove:
I don't pity people like him. You see all the warning signs but still plunge in because you think they will 'change'

Ishi, have you ever fallen in love before?
Do you know why it is referred to as 'FALLING in love? can someone who has fallen have his senses right?

Family › Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Anas09: 6:13pm On Apr 22, 2018

Blackfire:
Story of my life.
Happy sunday.

Happy Sunday dearest.

Family › Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Anas09: 9:33pm On Apr 21, 2018

Pipedreams:
Abi o LMAO. I for don run since

Funny world we live in. Good guys always ending up with bad girls and good girls ending with bad guys.

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Family › Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Anas09: 9:17pm On Apr 21, 2018

Ishilove:
The guy don deactivate sef

Maybe him madam read weytin him post here, report to her papa, her papa threaten am.

Poor boy.

Family › Re: After 15yrs, I'm Still Haunted, Help!!!! by Anas09: 9:12pm On Apr 21, 2018

pcjuvy:
I never knew Fred was not a believer. We prayed together, we went to church together, we even fasted together. He was everything to me. I took him to my mum, to my greatest surprise mum loved him. Mum has never liked any of my male friends. She must have excuse for not liking them. One was too short for me, despite he was a good Christian.

My growth spiritualy was slow but I was not an unbeliever when I men Fred. He put me through in so many spiritual things. He condemned so many things I used to do.

I was still a student when I met him. Fred was a civil engineer. I him at my aunt's church in Porthacourt where he was a youth leader. Our friendship brought him to University of Ibadan where I was studying regularly.

During my youth service, I decided to visit Fred without notice. I travelled down from Kano to Porthacourt to see him. I got to his house around 9:05 p.m. The gate was left unlocked. I peeped and peeped, no sign of the gate man. I wanted to do a surprise visit. I entered the compound without anyone noticing me. Getting to the door, I found it was locked, but I was hearing sounds from inside. I peeped through the window but It was too dark for me to see anything. I continued going round the house to another door which was wide open. I found myself walking right into a couple making love. I was shocked, I ran back too late because the man saw me, left the girl, and ran after me. He caught up with me so quickly and before I could utter some explanation, he Slapped me, asking me who I wanted. I mentioned Fred but that didn't mean anything to him. He dragged me along, took me inside, opened a dark room, threw me on the floor, and said, good we have a new goat now!

He pointed a gun at me, and told me to hold my lips. He opened the wardrobe in the room, brought out rope to tie my hands to the back. He tied my face with a scarf he loosed from his head. I was lying down almost lifeless in fear, when I noticed a wet hand pull down my skirt. I wanted to shout but I remembered the gun. I started begging him. He slapped me severally and deflowered me. I cried and cried as he did it but he had no pity. After this I heard him leave the room banging the door after him.

I was still sobbing like a baby, when I head the voice of Fred coming along the corridor of the room I was in. I heard someone telling him, "Scot! we have a new goat, Baba will be glad, I think she missed her way, she was looking for one Fred"
I heard the door open and the light was switched on, then Fred said "why the blood" "Idiot! did you rape the goat?". I didn't know she was a virgin the man replied! "Notwithstanding you have defiled the goat! She must not meet a man for seven days, Please throw her away! She is not useful. We shall use the old goat. She is already here for seven days." Fred said. I was shaking where I laid.

Suddenly, Fred pulled off my blindfold, just to discover it was me. Seeing his wife to be, as the goat being raped, I even thought it will be painful to him. But his reactions was very different. He only shouted "you!! how did you get here? Now that you know who I am, you have to die" I started pleading moving close to him on my kneels, then the other guy pushed me back, slapped me again and again, saying who is Fred? I think the goat is a mad one, he said laughing crazily not knowing the truth of the matter.

Go and get me my gun! Said Fred as he continued to pretend he didn't know me. But instead of the other guy going as instructed, he moved very close to him, whispered something into his ear. All Fred said was "fine!". He left the room with that guy immediately switching off the light, and slamming the door after them.

I was left alone! Immediately I remembered "wolves In Sheep Clothing" That is what my pastor use to call fake brethrens. I thought he was a sheep! So Fred is a wolf! Still tied and with blood dripping from me I knelt down, cried unto God, for forgiveness of my sins and begged Him to save me from the wolves.

Suddenly, I remembered my phone and my bag that was taken by the guy that raped me but I was so hopeless because I didn't know where they were. No one knew my whereabouts. Mother thought I was at Kano, likewise my Aunt. Who can save me now? I was deep in this thought when I heard foot steps again. The first thing that came to my mind was that my prayers had been answered, probably he had changed his mind to kill me. I was wrong, no one came to my door. I started hearing voices, music, sound of people having happy moments. The noise was growing louder! I guessed it was a party. Suddenly my fear left me. Something just told me that I could escape. I stood up, thank God my blindfold had been removed, I bent to look through the door hole, I didn't see anything. I bent again, used my chin to press the door handle, Lo and behold it opened. I peeped out, to the right of the corridor, the far end led to an opening, so I summoned courage, "if I die I die" I tip toed, moving towards the opening, although I didn't know where the opening led too. I hadn't walked a little distance when a guy half naked and drunk came out from another door on the corridor. I almost fainted, but surprisingly, he said "Mary! Mary! I said I'm not drunk, give me more drink now" trying to pull me to himself. Immediately I keyed into the game. I said oh! more drinks for you! Loose my hands! I turned my back on him. Immediately he bent down to loose the rope singing along with the music.. He found it so difficult, he was pulling my hands instead of him loosing the rope. I felt much pains, that was when I knew how drunk he was, but I had to manage. Lucky for me, one hand came out of the rope suddenly. I used that hand to remove my other hand from the rope. I pulled up my skirt very well, I told the guy" go join the others on the dance floor so I could go and get him more drinks and he left. I continued towards the opening still tip toeing. When I got there, It only led to another room, lighted though, I busted into tears, I couldn't cry aloud. I lost hope of escape but fortunately, the room led to my deliverance as i saw my bag and my phone carelessly flung there. I quickly took my phone and sent text messages to my aunt immediately, informing her that I have been trapped and almost killed in Fred's house, that I discovered Fred is a cultist, and that all she needed to do as fast as she could was to go and get the police informed immediately and come for my rescue. I also added that I stole my phone to send the message, and that she may not be able to reach me again. Immediately I sent it, she replied saying she would do exactly as instructed. With that I quickly deleted all the messages, switched off the phone, replaced quickly and moved back to my prison. They were still there dancing, drinking, and having fun in the dancing room. So no one took notice of my movements.

I was there for not more than 30 minutes praying and waiting before rescue came. The house had been rounded by police and everyone arrested

I was taken to the hospital and treated whiles the cultists were taken to court and eventually jailed. Fred and his cohort's were sentenced to 15 years imprisonment with hard labour. This was 15 years ago and i had to leave town because the story spread and it became too traumatizing for me.

I relocated to Owerri in IMO state where I eventually got married to a man of my dreams who knew my unfortunate story but still married me. My family means the world to me. My problem is that Fred and others are now of jail and I now live in fear. I have been receiving threat notes by some anonymous people saying I would be dealt with for an action I took 15 years back. I have recounted and its only Fred's case that I can remembered I testified to im court fifteen years back.

I don't feel safe anymore and I don't know what to do since I don't know who these people are. Last week there was a failed kidnap attempt on my kids in their school. Could it be Fred and his boys at work? I am afraid that it could happen again. Please what should I do? I need your advise and help please.
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Na wa for you o. You kept your number. Relocate and change everything about you. Fake your dead sef.

Family › Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Anas09: 8:08pm On Apr 21, 2018

Ishilove:
What were those attributes that made you love her enough to marry her?

Bro forget all these white wedding nonsense. You're already a married man in the eyes of God and man. Stopping the church wedding will not make her stop being your wife

Hmmm. Dis matter strong o. If na my brother be this young man, wetin i go tell am to do? Dis man go die before time.

This marriage will definitely end in a very bad taste. that girl will leave him, or she will be 85% in Lekki and the remaining time giving him issues.

For me? End it now.

Christianity Etc › Re: I Need Your Advice, Please. by Anas09: 8:04pm On Apr 21, 2018

ccarefulwind2:
Thank you Ma :-)

You are welcome sir.

Family › Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Anas09: 7:54pm On Apr 21, 2018

TheeDetective:
Why are you allowing a woman to ride all over you like this? I really pity you; as this kin woman nah to handle her with iron hand na em fit am. She currently sees you as second best and since the rich men in her class refused to marry her, she decided to hook an average guy so that the title MRS won’t leave her behind seeing that she’s getting old. Put your foot down NOW otherwise you will regret marrying her as she’s the one already wearing the trousers in your relationship. Anytime she ever compares you again to any other rich man, simply give her the choice to go be with them. Make you no play the mumu card in this your case o other wise nah sorry go be your name.

She is going to 25. Getting old at 25?

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