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illiad1:
If not for our tribal governments cars has always been manufactured in the east since my childhood, it only took Jonathan to let the world know Nigeria is a car manufacturing country


But abokys and yolobas rulers of this country would not let Nigeria prosper by encouraging this hard working igbos.


Let them give us biafra biko so we can be our own China

Must you be given Biafra. B4 you bcome like China? just saying........

House rent would soon be due

And some ppl still believe there is no God,while scientists and some ppl believe they are from apes.in the words of joyce. meyer " if we evolved from apes how come there are still apes" and ow come human beings have nt developed into something else millions of years later. I am fearfully and wonderfully made,God said it, I believe it that settles it.

metalgear:
Thank you all for your posts. We've tried some of your suggestions. The little girl now runs to the potty anytime we say she should try and pee. The issue now is she still doesn't do anything anytime she sits. She holds it in and and once we place her into the bathtub, she pees immediately.

The funny thing is she knows what the toilet is. Anytime she pees or poops on herself she immediately runs into the bathroom. I feel it's because she knows that's where she is supposed to be cleaned up.

this shows that she is improving,as in getting d gist,appreciate the improvement and give her some time

Whobedatte:
wishing her the very best sha. May she find a good man
Even though if it were my mom at tht age, I won't agitate for such. The demerits far outbalances the merits

yeah I know,but just have to consider her feelings too,thanks anyway and a big amen to finding a good man even if she does not know what am doing

Maybe u are better of as friends than lovers. A cold relationship now, a freezing marriage later.she is no longer interested and does nt know ow to tell you cos she doesn't want to hurt ya.my opinion

Try using the toilet(am assuming it is clean and dis infected in order to be save for the toddler) sometimes works faster cos dey always want to behave like adults,remember u'll need to hold d toddler foer safety, you can then resort back to potty once d child gets the gist. I know it sounds somehow but it works for some

winner01:
Lately, there has been much discussion about violence against women by the men in their life. Many have said there is never a good reason for a man to strike a woman but I disagree and today I am speaking out! there are four good reasons for a man to hit the woman he loves;

1. Fire. If you look over at the woman you love and
discover flames have overtaken your girl, you
should absolutely knock her to the ground and
start rolling her around.

2. Spider. If your princess discovers a spider
wandering across her shoulder and with sheer
terror in her voice says “GET. IT. Off! You should
smack that 8 legged sucker right off of her.

3. Choking. If over dinner she begins to laugh at
another one of your amazingly funny stories and in
the process, lodges a bit of her steak in her throat,
you have my full support to yank her out of her
chair, spin her around and start squeezing her
beneath her ribcage until she spits up!

4. Train. If, while enjoying a peaceful, after dinner
walk with your lover, you notice she has wandered
into the path of a quickly approaching oncoming
train, by all means, grab her by her arm and like
the strong man you are, yank her backwards
aggressively.

Absent the presence of fire, spiders, choking or trains, there is never, ever, ever, ever, ever a justifiable reason for a man to strike a woman. Period. real men don’t do it.
“Real men don’t allow other men to hit women either.”
I call upon my brothers-in-manhood everywhere to join with me in ZERO TOLERANCE for violence against women. Don’t hit and don’t tolerate hitting. That woman you see getting abused by her “man”, at the club or in the parking lot or even, oh let’s say, an elevator; intervene. Put yourself between the abuser and the victim. Is that dangerous? Could be. But it’s what a real man would do. Always remind yourself when you witness violence on a woman- that is somebody’s mother, daughter or sister.

Just for the record, it IS your business if you decide to make it your business.

What were you expecting to see at first?, some form of justification for hitting women?, come off it bruv

A very beautiful and funny way of getting d msg across. Team no violence against women

Whobedatte:
You seem have a large heart Oo. But on a lighter note, Weytin 55 year old still wnt again?

Whobedatte:
You seem have a large heart Oo. But on a lighter note, Weytin 55 year old still wnt again?

The thing is loneliness is terrible,imagine going back home to a empty house,eating alone,watching tv alone,everything alone. coupled with the fact that she does nt really have friends,had always been working hard to care for us. And seriously she looks 10. Yrs younger dan her age,so she has toasters(lol) just making sure she's got the best .

artisticallyart:
please refer to previous posts.

thanks, please I checked previous posts,still nothing,just some old posts that are no longer feasible,any help would be appreciated. Thanks again

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Location: Lagos. Especially ketu,ikeja,island and ogba
Contact: 08032495309
Thanks

We women forget we can only do our best and hope and plan for the best and the worst at the same time
If you get pregnant and loose ur life,he will marry someone else.
Don't worry yourself it is nt easy,but it is better to focus on you,your children and your futures. you can not control d actions of someone else but you can control yours. Don't stop being a good wife and a wonderful mother.
Best of luck.

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ancashy:
Searching for good,matured,christian and intelligent man for my mum.you must be a widower nt divorced,All children are grown ups,d last is in the university.
She is. 55yrs of age
Christian
5 ft and some inches tall,plumpy and choclate brown
Still working, professional public relatons person and more beautiful than her age(am serious)
Independent even financially but u need to take show her love

Matured,sincere,blunt and loving.
Widow
Location---lagos
Only matured and sensible men pls,pm me am trying to hook her up unknowingly,(like blind date) her real need is companionship and I wouldn't mind having more siblings in d family d more d merrier

ancashy:
Searching for good,matured,christian and intelligent man for my mum.you must be a widower nt divorced,All children are grown ups,d last is in the university.
She is. 55yrs of age
Christian
5 ft and some inches tall,plumpy and choclate brown
Still working, professional public relatons person and more beautiful than her age(am serious)
Independent even financially but u need to take show her love

Matured,sincere,blunt and loving.
Widow
Location---lagos
Only matured and sensible men pls,pm me am trying to hook her up unknowingly,(like blind date) her real need is companionship and I wouldn't mind having more siblings in d family d more d merrier

ancashy:
Searching for good,matured,christian and intelligent man for my mum.you must be a widower nt divorced,All children are grown ups,d last is in the university.
She is. 55yrs of age
Christian
5 ft and some inches tall,plumpy and choclate brown
Still working, professional public relatons person and more beautiful than her age(am serious)
Independent even financially but u need to take show her love

Matured,sincere,blunt and loving.
Widow
Location---lagos
Only matured and sensible men pls,pm me am trying to hook her up unknowingly,(like blind date) her real need is companionship and I wouldn't mind having more siblings in d family d more d merrier

Divfavour pls contact mii onthis BB pin 2663D94,thanks.

Searching for good,matured,christian and intelligent man for my mum.you must be a widower nt divorced,All children are grown ups,d last is in the university.
She is. 55yrs of age
Christian
5 ft and some inches tall,plumpy and choclate brown
Still working, professional public relatons person and more beautiful than her age(am serious)
Independent even financially but u need to take show her love

Matured,sincere,blunt and loving.
Widow
Location---lagos
Only matured and sensible men pls,pm me am trying to hook her up unknowingly,(like blind date) her real need is companionship and I wouldn't mind having more siblings in d family d more d merrier

Thanks and God bless

The make up of a man is nt d same as dat of a woman, women don't hate dia mother inlaws dey just want dia own space exactly how d mother inlaw felt when she was just married to her husband, 10 men can sleep together in a room and nt have problems,but have u noticed dat. Females even from a very young age like to have dai own space,rememba university hostels,ow many girls stayed in a room at a time? Can u rememba d backbiting,strive,jealousy,fights both silent and noisy ones dat occurred.women are nt being wicked or selfish,it is just dia make up.but u can reach a compromise

mrking3:
some things are better left unsaid! Paul Biya or what ever should mind his country's business! And leave Nigeria Alone! Why is he trying to Instigate more hatred on Jonathan? Jonathan has his flaws just like any other African politician! Is Biya himself perfect? No one is talking about the Atrocities Obasanjo committed! Everybody is hell bent on pulling Jonathan down! Bunch of hypocrites!

Typical NIgerian ,reason we got into and are still in dis mess,as my igbo brothers say,when ever a man wakes up is his morning,biko let's start with the last administration first we can then check others if we can finish with all dis atrocities being discovered,ur patriotism should be to ur country and not any politician dey do nt deserve it

The truth is...... You are who u are no matter ur nationality,witches and wizards abound in all nations
2. Be urself,a good person with good character,purpose and vision and notice ppl of all tribes want to relate with you.
3.Who you love is ur choice,tall,slim,short ,fat,African, caucasian ,we can find love anywhere with anyone at anytime
4.We all want money,but to love money and forget principles,who we are or our ability to be humane is what sets us apart.
WHOEVER YOU CHOOSE,LOVE,CARE AND HOLD THEM DEARLY,LIKE THERE'S NO TOMMORROW

Pls don't take it ,just post the link to fellow nairalander job seekers and wait for massive pms of thank you dat will follow from them.they will even send you selfies from their new office sef.My dear a bird in hand .......mm

Kazrem:
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Have you used another browser to check it? If no, try another browser. But if yes, then you should write letter to your Study Centre.

THANKS

Can't find my result on my portal for 1st and 2,nd semester (last) exam 100 level, really concerned as another exam approaches,am I save,any suggestions or links would b appreciated as am kind of a busy person,no time to visit study centre.thanks

Transport business is nt one dat u put all ur eggs in,from experience it can mess up at anytime,especially with no other source of income for maintenance,it makes much money,but sucks it up d same way,let ur husband check out other forms of employment,browse ICS recruiting services at obanikoro,even a good driving bank job could help u put money together for a better bus,or better biz. U can also get a teaching job from schools around u who pay relatively well till d family Is balanced,teaching jobs are easier to find ur husband can teach sci ence subjects too in some good secondary schools till u can save to get on ur feet again

I hate divorce,but as someone said separation should be considered,sometimes absence can make d heart grow fonder and like another rightly commented safety first,both mental and physical safety

Murder or has never been a solution to anything,ur spouse is correct :he chose u out of all the other ladies he carries around, u must valuable to him,special and ave something he wants dat others don't have,don't ruin his affection for u with jealousy,even if it's ur right.
Enjoy ur life,concentrate on being urself,dats d reason he chose u,cos of who u are.
In a situation like this u get him back by being urself and talking to God.
Tell him the wonderful things u love about him,tell God the horrible things u hate about him.
Keep being urself and staying positive.

Lost dad at age 9,mum refused to remarry so we won't be maltreated,we are 5,almost 30 now,d. Last one in university,now we look back and smile,was it easy.... Some times it was hell,going hungry,not having stuffs u want and sometimes need,but all is well dat is ending well,those times give me courage now to face any situation,especially in marriage,if she could do it -I can,love dat woman to pieces,sweet mum.

Ha Ha Ha..,,,

U are nt to b angry with d ppl who ave been there through thick and thin,kept it frm u and ur siblings(kidz would insulted u during kidz fight if they knew)dey were humane,treated u in every way like diers for more than 2 decades,refuse d anger stuff and celebrate d grace dat has kept u alive and with a wonderful family.it's dat gives u wat even some biological parents do not give,e.g education

[quote author=EfemenaXY post=27673051]Two things:

~ First of all, you can't go through life saddled with unanswered "what if questions". There is always an element of risk when you choose to spend the rest of your life with someone. However, you can curtail the amount of risk you're willing to take by clearly stating what you can and can't do...and what you can and can't live with.

~....... she has not only observed,she has heard with her ears,no fulfilling marriage without an agreement both verbal and non verbal to help each other achieve our dreams and goals,cos dat is wat fulfills us,d fulfillment is more when we achieve dis togeda,there is risk and dere is calculated risk,in dis case d lady's fulfillment seems to be in her career(working mother)while for d man is house wife stuff. Just saying,b very clear, and avoid future under current tensions dey chip at a relationship gradually till it dissolves,especially marriage

Keep doing something,be active in whatever and where ever opportunities open up,keep doing things dat bring u joy,pray and talk to true pastors or prophets of God,do nt forget to pray and ask God ur self,u are ur own first pastor.

EfemenaXY:
Precisely.

It's now up to her to air her views now and see if they can both work towards an amicable solution. Now is the time for her to make her voice heard loud and clear. Pre-marriage and not post-marriage.

what if d man says yes,just so dey could get married,or after months or years changes his mind,reverts to his old decision,or makes her working life unbearable complaining of working hours,biZ trips e.t.c,abeg dis kind of man must have been dreaming of house wife since he started planning his future.

My greatest wish is dat things return to. Normal,so dat in d near future, I would not get an invite to a marriage ceremony of a human and an animal.with d human claiming to be his/herself.