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missimelda01:
Aside loneliness, are there other reasonable disadvantages of being single for a long time?

I have a friend who has never being in a relationship, she's about 25 and sometimes she acts like she has some psychological issues, when it's just us we can gist well but when other people are around she just goes 100% quiet (trust me it's really bad).. I'm like her only friend, I've encouraged her to get a boyfriend, maybe it'll help but she doesn't even know how to keep a guy interested in her for long. I worry about her seriously.

Well...does she wana b in a relationship in d first place? she seems like dat babe dat wud prefer to b indoors all day...she has to step out & mingle

.....hmmn

she's cute, young...I like d fact dat she's bicultural too...Haitian & Japanese... I tot she wz only Japanese all diz while. Young pple seem to b blowing recently... See as Rihanna became richest female musician... pass Beyonce dem self.

illicit:
she is a talker

I no too like girls wey de tuk 2much...I de avoid dem bcoz e de tire me

Oluromantic:
Youre abt to marry a mel-chlor or san-mel. Apart from mood swings, they want admiration badly and they get easily angry if not admired. I once dated a girl like that before, I was the one who by myself told her we're not compatible, cus I couldn't cope. She ranted when I told her, abused me and my parents blabla but I felt free like I was caged before. That's me though, you may be able to cope. We're different.

By nature, they lack moderate feelings, emotional independence and stability...that's their weakness. It's usually from one extreme of emotions to the other extreme skipping moderation and balance in-between. At one time, they'll love you like babies, like all their life depends on you. Another time, they'll show serious temper over little things. Either you date for marriage or there's nothing between both of you. No ordinary friendly plays or so at all except birthed by emotions. If you beat her often in a ludo or whot game na wahala. If you decide to be passive abt her swings, she may leave for her parents or friend house for being ignored and that'll be embarrassing. But their strength is being supportive, they can give u their all or even indebt themselves for you in loves name.

If you know u can't cope, you still have time to decide. Forget about family.. only 2 of you'll live together as man n wife. Forget the general conclusion that women are emotional..little things upset them blabla. It's when they want to be selfish they say all that. Not all women are emotional dilly-dallys. Though emotional, some are sensible with their emotions. I'm not wishing you separation at d edge of ur wedding but the truth need be told. You need to be very emotionally balanced and independent on your own to keep her going. If you are, then you can cope, but if you're not, hmmmm...

I tink she wud b a mel-chlor

OsuMustGo:
Yellow cum = Gonorhea
White cum = syphillis

Enjoy your STDs brah

pansophist:
Society looks at a woman's past, but looks at the man's future, you are the prize. As a man, your worth grow with time, time is your best friend. Develop yourself (mentally, physically, financially, etc), and you will remain at the top of the sexual marketplace pretty much all your life, punching down into the pool of youthful young. You have the advantage of ''created value'', that is, your attractiveness is in your own hands, and doesn't fade with time, like women. You create the lifestyle, and woman adapts to the lifestyle you create. That is a privilege. Go be a king, and watch them come. SayNoToSimping

True talk Chief

to b honest there's a good effect & a bad effect of d Mum going public with diz.
the good effect- I believe it can encourage expectant mothers who have unwanted pregnancy considering abortion to tink twice....
the bad effect- diz news can serious take a serious toll on d boys.

Andali....30years old, lives in Jos...hustling...web developer in d making..enjoying my millions by Faith lol....

D babe I imagine I wud like to date wud b beautiful, chocolate complexion, average height...working...fun 2 be with, caring...faithful. Loves Jah....Romantic..etc

sorry 4 d mistake

goodmike7:
I beg to differ..we have cheated on people we love to the moon and back...

Den ur love wznt real....in ur mind u tink u love dem but u don't....if u really love som1...cheating ain't an option...u won't give it a chance.

Bigbako:
I don't really like talking about Love, Relationship bla bla bla, because of its complicated nature. After all I'm a small Boy, wha do I know ?.... But this one has been paining me for a long time now, so I gats air my view maybe those Broda doing it will stop .
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Do you know that majority of the 'yes' recorded in "Will You Marry Me" public proposal is simply because the Lady Doesn't want to humilate the guy ?
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Proposal in Public places is cute, no doubt, it gives the 'Awwwnnn' feeling we all like. The joy of seeing lovebirds who are about to make a lifetime decision.
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My opinion is; I see it as a Rape of the Girl's mind. Because at that point in time, she is circled by people whose hearts just got pierced by the arrow of cupid.
Some Screaming, Some whispering;
'SAY YES' --- All to her hearing, trying to Influence her decision !
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There is difference between Romance and pressure. Publicly asking someone to spend the rest of their lives with you is often shown as being this super romantic, amazing thing.But you know what? It puts an awful lot of pressure on the person you’re Asking.
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She'll roll her eyeballs and looked round, She'll see countless Smartphones with cameras set for recording and snapping this once in a lifetime moment. All to be posted on social media. So beautiful, right ?
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But she's not ready for this. She just met Uncle on his knees not quite long and not ready to walk the aisle with him. They're dating, fine, but Marriage is a total different Ball game.
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If she says 'No' , World people will trend the video and label her all sorts- even though they don't know the story.
Facebook Live, Instagram, Twitter, everywhere, you name it !
She will become a victim of cyber bullies and outright hatred.
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What about the Groom wannabe on his knees ?... He will feel broken and humiliated. The same crowd cheering him few minutes ago will in turn 'Boo' him. I've seen videos of this happen, trust me, none of them will walk up to console him.
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But she's just human, she's scared, she doesn't want to be the reason for someone's pain. So she said 'Yes' with tears running down her cheeks.
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People clapped and cheered saying its tears of joy.........
Hell no !...... Those her tears of a girl whose mind just got Raped by your unwanted 'Say yes' penetration into her consciousness by relentless means.
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Proposing privately is ideal because it's discreet, awesome and heartfelt. If you're looking for a sincere answer to your "Will You Marry Me"........ Then i think you should shun proposing in public places !

_____________ My opinion though, I'll be glad to hear yours !

Op dis is just d bad side of public proposals... I can certainly tell u dat there r many ladies hu wud love their man to propose to dem publicly. After all...weda public or privately, if she says no d guy go still feel am. its a matter of choice boss, some pple like it, some don't. but personally, I don't intend to propose publicly sha

Op true talk...wen guys work on their dreams & pursue their goals...dey naturally become attractive to ladies. Obviously there r few guys like dat compared to dose chasing girls around. Wen I chat a babe up, I try to see hw intelligent & hw exposed she is. If d babe decides to snub me...I will lock up o... after all she's not d only fine babe in d world. May God help us guys

iLegendd:
There is no free dick left. All woman should go into agriculture and leave our dicks alone. No more free sex from men.

Beautiful babe...wish dia wz someone she cud av tukd to...a friend or smtin...someone to encourage her. It is well. RIP

Nah...we gotta complement each other