Hello Guys,

This has been bothering me for a while when I was still in the world lol...but seriously, why do guys/girls cheat on their partners with people they will and cant settle with? More often than not our partners are better than the people we cheat with and we cant leave our partners for them yet we do it. Lets share ideas and the reasons for this.

goodmike7:
Hello Guys,

This has been bothering me for a while when I was still in the world lol...but seriously, why do guys/girls cheat on their partners with people they will and cant settle with? More often than not our partners are better than the people we cheat with and we cant leave our partners for them yet we do it. Lets share ideas and the reasons for this.

It's cause they love the people they cheat with but can't settle down with them cause he is broke.

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goodmike7:
Hello Guys,

This has been bothering me for a while when I was still in the world lol...but seriously, why do guys/girls cheat on their partners with people they will and cant settle with? More often than not our partners are better than the people we cheat with and we cant leave our partners for them yet we do it. Lets share ideas and the reasons for this.

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Because routine gets boring.

We get excited when we get new things.

But remember that new things will one day become routine. It takes self control and discipline not to cheat.

Also wisdom helps you not to cheat. A wise person knows that nothing good ever never ever comes out from cheating.

pDudd:
Because routine gets boring.

We get excited when we get new things.

But remember that new things will one day become routine. It takes self control and discipline not to cheat.

Also wisdom helps you not to cheat. A wise person knows that nothing good ever never ever comes out from cheating.

Change this mentality........ If you get a federal job you will leave it for to maintain a private job

Because those who cheat are not really in love with their partners, i believe it is difficult to consciously cheat on someone you love.
Most partners are in the relationship due to mutual benefits, societal values/pressure, physical attraction, peer pressure, for fun.........

The forbidden dish is often the tastiest.

ojun50:

Change this mentality........ If you get a federal job you will leave it for to maintain a private job

Change what mentality

A question was asked, I gave my own opinion.

dulux07:
Because those who cheat are not really in love with their partners, i believe it is difficult to consciously cheat on someone you love.
Most partners are in the relationship due to mutual benefits, societal values/pressure, physical attraction, peer pressure, for fun.........

I beg to differ..we have cheated on people we love to the moon and back...

iamadonis2:
The forbidden dish is often the tastiest.

But sometimes after tasting the forbidden dish you realize its a waste of time and not as tasty as that which you have,

goodmike7:


But sometimes after tasting the forbidden dish you realize its a waste of time and not as tasty as that which you have,

Only sometimes, as you pointed out. Other times it could leave you screaming: "What took me so long?!"

Some for fun

goodmike7:


I beg to differ..we have cheated on people we love to the moon and back...

Den ur love wznt real....in ur mind u tink u love dem but u don't....if u really love som1...cheating ain't an option...u won't give it a chance.

goodmike7:


I beg to differ..we have cheated on people we love to the moon and back...

Lol, people you "think" you love...the question is how do you know you truly love someone?

New things excites the heart n body. No matter what ever it is.

We want to prove/need assurance that we are still desirable; more like an ego/pride thing