If you do let me know, I will reward you for your assistance.

pansophist:
Letting her go is like undergoing surgery, it will hurt for a while, but it's the best way. You'll retain your self-respect, won't feel tamed, and give way for other women who won't cheat to come in.

If you forgive and let her stay, then it's like pushing the problem of yesterday to tomorrow. You'll be under the delusion of her faithfulness, but if you dig dip, she probably will still be cheating codedly.

Brother listen to me. You can be a prince, wealthy as Jeff Bezos, and a girl will still not vibe with you. It's just life. Don't force it. If she is with you and her eyes is outside, then let her go where her heart is.

You can be the most delicious apple and some people will not like apple. Lion don't eat apples. Or the best package delivered to the wrong address. This is life, accept it and work with it's rhythm.

You'll feel pain either ways if you let her go, or let her stay, but one pain is useful and healing, while the other pain is sweeping the problem under the carpet, to be experienced again in the future.

As a man, you must be able to make strong decisions regardless of your feelings. If there is anything such as manning up, it's now. Man up. Let her go. Now.

Nice one bro..you made a very valid point here.

Bukky001:


Bro, I will not lie to you, if it's me I will forgive you but in my mind I know the relationship is leading no where. I'll just see the girl as a friend with benefit

Yes I will just be playing along from now.
So the relationship will continue but I will be emotionally detached from now.

Truthsbitter:
The new trend is to beat your cheating partner into coma or kill them...
Haven't you heard?

But there are a few things You could do

1. Leave the relationship

2. Continue to fvck and play along without emotional connection

3. Forgive her but always set your mind to accept more without collapsing

4. Be a mumu and accept everything without modifying your poor self to be a man

5..Various combination of any the above listed...

This is cool..I'm actually going with 2 and 3...I just finished banging her a hard one now.
More to come..she thinks she's wise.

OdogwuMoney6:
You are an idiot....Aswear most of the guys wey full this nairaland Na mumu Them be..... The mumu sey him call her to him house for proper questioning I refuse to give birth to an idiot

Even your own babe is cheating on you so STFU..I'm miles tougher than you.

Dindondin:

She wan collect her phone from you before dropping you like shit.
Tell her you v heard her. Don't hurry to buy the phone, wait for like a month. Before that one month close, try to fûck her like 5-10 times. If she no gree make you do just 1, know that she's not into you and only dating you for the crumbs she gets from you.
Most of these tiny legs girls aren't loyal.
Use your brain to save yourself from spending money without gain or giving it a trial to know if she really loves you. No forget the fûck part!

Yes I told her to give me time cos I can't bring 160k to buy a phone for a girl that's cheated on me so I needed to build that trust again.

I think I just need to get Odejiji now as you hinted.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Let her go and save yourself some stress. Or you forgive her if you can’t let her go

Thanks but given that she was able to admit it..is there any possibility that I can still trust her as much again.

Hello guys this a true event that's just happened to me and I'm currently battling with it.

So I met this girl around June last 2022... In a short time I made my intention to her that I was interested in her to which she agreed and we started dating..

prior to that i'd asked her if she was in any relationship to which she said no and that she didn't want any relationship again cos she has been disappointed a lot

Now fast forward to what happened.
On 1st of April this my girl posted a picture of two guys on her WhatsApp status, one of the pictures she put love emojis on it while the other one she didn't.

So I called her and asked her why she posted other guys in her status so she said it doesn't mean anything.

And before now I was already suspecting her cos sometimes she will tell me she's going to work on Sundays when basically their shop doesn't open on Sundays--off course I never questioned her about that.

So when this incident happened I took it very serious as an opportunity to find out whether she was cheating on me or not.

Now yesterday been 3rd of April I had promised to buy her a new phone cos the one she's using has gone very bad.

So while she posted that picture I confronted her boldly telling her that I can't believe all these while she's been cheating on me..

I just did this without any evidence and I was so violent about it so after a few minutes she dropped a voice message to me telling me that I know we use to have misunderstanding a lot.

Now I got really convinced that she has actually cheated so I called her to my place for proper questioning which she admitted that yes she did it and that she and that guy was already asking her out before we met.
So I asked her she accepted the guy while we were already on and why she cheated on me with him and she said she was having feelings for him cos they already knew a long time.

And then she told me she has already seperated from the guy since November last year and that I should forgive her so we can move on cos then she was not having so much feelings for me then as she do now that was what led to the whole thing.

Guys before we started I had already told her that the only thing I don't forgive on this earth is cheating which she also said she hated it so much as well.

Now guys I love this girl so much but the truth is I'm finding it almost impossible to forgive her and to trust her again

If you're in my place what exactly would you do given that if she has also denied cheating I wouldn't have found out in any way.
This is not a make up story----

There has been no joy in me for over 3 days now

Farano, dominique, Rockstation move this piece to front page.

Just immediately the alleged winning of the presidential election, Bola Ahmed tinubu has continued with his usual gaffes.
Watch the video below to see what you have chosen as your president in the next four years.
I weep for Nigeria.

https://www.facebook.com/1050850821660526/posts/pfbid02JThtGsGZPWYtNUAeuB8sYgDCeENJ1gvGwXF2s5whH95R2XyLadHF7suxGGi7fB92l/?app=fbl

OdogwuMoney6:
Lol soldiers wey no reach 500k total number of personel in the whole Nigerian army no reach 600k go and verify

Lol
I was so surprised when I saw 500000..even China the largest army is not up to 3 million
Nigeria army wey boko haram and Iswap Don decimate since...dem nor even reach 200k

This is just the beginning..
All the wicked politicians are going down

The revolution has started..Many countries have done it before now.
Since they want to forever deny us our right to good living, we will give them hell.
Get your armours ready!!!!!!

The revolution has started..Many countries have done it before now.
Since they want to forever deny us our right to good living, we will give them hell.
Get your armours ready!!!!!!

Shettima will take over and all of us including the red roof lands will see shege.

They only apoint northerners who have the same interest as them and would always do their bidding.
The first time a true patriotic and a fair human being is appointed INEC chairman, electoral frauds will end.
All the strategic electoral positions in this country is held by greedy northerns that's why they have the power to manipulate elections to their favour all seasons.

I have no Rip to waste on any massacre in the north from today. This people are their own problem.
If the worst come to worst..Igbo's are the richest tribe in Nigeria so let's see who will suffer most.

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Kwankwanso contesting and splitting NW votes is even better for Obi.They would have all voted for Atiku and Tinubu if kwankwanso was not contesting

That's fat lie...kwankwaso is very popular in the north..he is influential there.
This election would have been dusted by now

Why did kwankwaso refused to be obi's vice for God's sake.
Us youths we never forgive him if APC OR PDP eventually wins this election.

Those prisoners are better than him so it's fair to pardon them.
Vote Obi/ datti....
The only hope to rescue Nigeria, miss it we see hell for the next 8 years.

The trashing of spurs by Aston villa in white hart lane is the best gift I have ever received on new years day.
Good ebening all arsenal fans

just2endowed:


Like our rubber stamp senate... Buhari borrowed and used money from cbn that was not budgeted running into trillions of naira but instead of the senate to impeach buhari, they are asking him to shalaye. The executive Sha is very powerful and this senate is not making laws to curb this leakage of going to cbn to collect money not budgeted.
This country waste level is amazing.

Secound biggest mistake of buhari is closing the border. This skyrocketed price of rice and major goods from 10k per bag to 23K. it was not well calculated because the idiot knows the border security are corrupt and up north, there is nothing like border checking . So why close the border?

In economy, he had no idea of how economy works. He doesn't know how to fill best hand to manage the economy. Example finance minister is a disaster.

Yes the border closure was a very big mistake.
Not with a country that's still very dependent on other country for food.
The level of corruption in Nigeria is untold.
It will take a miracle to redeem this country

We always criticize buhari forgetting that the 36 governors, the senators, reps, state house of assembly members are the major problem of this Country. The head cannot function 100% when the other parts of the body has failed it..that's the case of Nigeria.
We have come to a time where we have to take a sword and decimate all our crook and corrupt politicians from state to federal level.

I'm obidient...just want to point out a fact.

Unyimekelvin:
i have quitted this shit Long ago I'm doing fine now.

Pls dash me only 1k let me use it for something today pls...I'm ruined

Who wants to be a millionaire quiz---which year did the invasion of Brighton by arsenal took place?

Xx

Zonefree:

Lol

Calm down, you'll be fine. Look for another 50k, and stake "sure" 3 odds.

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Na mumu go still dey doubt say na arsenal get EPL this season

Na mumu go still dey doubt say na arsenal get EPL this season