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Righteousness2:
Don't quit the Marriage.

OK thanks bro.

Good day nairalanders.I'm here to seek your opinion and validation on this very issue.
I'm 36 years old with 4 kids, a boy and 3 girls for my husband.
I live in delta state with my children but my husband reside in Benin where he does his transportation work.Things were quite rosy and fair in the early times of our marriage, but after I gave birth to our second child everything begin to spiral in the awkward and messy direction.My husband stop visiting home, calling or even sending money for our upkeep.I began to notice the affection and love was not there any longer.After sometimes I got to find out my husband has married another woman over there which even his family was even aware.
So I knew I and my children has finally come to the bitter moments of our lives.Being an hard working girl from home, I quickly started farming with my little children as no help was coming from my husband and his family, only my family was supporting us and I didn't want to be overly reliant on them..At that same time I started organizing class lesson for some children with the vision of turning it to a primary school by the help of God.And yes in 2 years time I was now having kg 1-3 and primary 1-5.
I and my 4 children could now have something to eat without calling for the help of my husband which he off course was no longer concern whether we eat or not let alone paying the children fees.had it not been I had the vision of school, how would I have been able to pay the school fees of 4 kids.
Now the problem started last year after I decided to go see my husband and ask him why he had abandoned us without even calling or sending anything.I did so while I visited home as he lives near to my hometown in Edo state.I got to see him and I question him a lot on many things. He was looking so indifferent all thru our conversation as tho I was a total stranger. So it dawned on me that this one no longer the Man i married. Something must have gone wrong some where So, I went back to delta state that same day in tears.After few months my husband began to accuse me that I'm the one responsible for the ill health of her wife over there.He said since the day I came to see him she had been sick till date.I do not know where he got such information from but I clearly know I had no hand in such offense.......
Ever since then to this day it has been hell for I and my children as my husband had been calling me a witch everywhere.He came with the wife to delta and called his family people to tell them that I'm the one responsible for her second wives predicament.and the worst is that even his people has taken sides with home.
Now while we went home during Xmas my family people invited him to possibly sort out our marriage but he declined from coming.Now,my family people said I should come back home and quit the marriage but my nightmare
Forfeiting my already blossoming school.how will I be able to take care of this 4 children starting from the very scratch again.
You and I already know the situation of things in this country...Would you encourage me to continue in this marriage hoping things will get fine or better pack my thing and move away with my children.
Pls I need polite opinion on this, no insult as the woman is standing right here to read every of your opinions..everything I have written is what she had told me, she's my neighbor here and a very amazing one.
Thanks all.

Good day nairalanders.I'm here to seek your opinion and validation on this very issue.
I'm 36 years old with 4 kids, a boy and 3 girls for my husband.
I live in delta state with my children but my husband reside in Benin where he does his transportation work.Things were quite rosy and fair in the early times of our marriage, but after I gave birth to our second child everything begin to spiral in the awkward and messy direction.My husband stop visiting home, calling or even sending money for our upkeep.I began to notice the affection and love was not there any longer.After sometimes I got to find out my husband has married another woman over there which even his family was even aware.
So I knew I and my children has finally come to the bitter moments of our lives.Being an hard working girl from home, I quickly started farming with my little children as no help was coming from my husband and his family, only my family was supporting us and I didn't want to be overly reliant on them..At that same time I started organizing class lesson for some children with the vision of turning it to a primary school by the help of God.And yes in 2 years time I was now having kg 1-3 and primary 1-5.
I and my 4 children could now have something to eat without calling for the help of my husband which he off course was no longer concern whether we eat or not let alone paying the children fees.had it not been I had the vision of school, how would I have been able to pay the school fees of 4 kids.
Now the problem started last year after I decided to go see my husband and ask him why he had abandoned us without even calling or sending anything.I did so while I visited home as he lives near to my hometown in Edo state.I got to see him and I question him a lot on many things. He was looking so indifferent all thru our conversation as tho I was a total stranger. So it dawned on me that this one no longer the Man i married. Something must have gone wrong some where So, I went back to delta state that same day in tears.After few months my husband began to accuse me that I'm the one responsible for the I'll health of her wife over there.He said since the day I came to see him she had been sick till date.I do not know where he got such information from but I clearly know I had no hand in such offense.......
Ever since then to this day it has been hell for I and my children as my husband had been calling me a witch everywhere.He came with the wife to delta and called his family people to tell them that I'm the one responsible for her second wives predicament.and the worst is that even his people has taken sides with home.
Now while we went home during Xmas my family people invited him to possibly sort out our marriage but he declined from coming.Now,my family people said I should come back home and quit the marriage but my nightmare
Forfeiting my already blossoming school.how will I be able to take care of this 4 children starting from the very scratch again.
You and I already know the situation of things in this country...Would you encourage me to continue in this marriage hoping things will get fine or better pack my thing and move away with my children.
Pls I need polite opinion on this, no insult as the woman is standing right here to read every of your opinions..everything I have written is what she had told me, she's my neighbor here and a very amazing one.
Thanks all.

Allahkbombs

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You're very bad

It will never be well with NA army for this assault and disrespect to one of our most respected elder

See green teeth afonjas threatening the whole of south south, south east and south west because their stone head brother is in power.
It's about time everyone's gets at least one AK47 to let these idiots know we have tolerated enough of their madness.
We have to fight this war once and for all.
And I will forever love and respect Nnamdi KANU..The only man that has stood to the bullying and aggression from the north
Only if we have 2 of Nnamdi from the south, these afonjas will be put to where dey belong..

If this man fight with Brock lesnar, I bet you 5 minutes all his front teeth will be on the floor plus one powerful F5 that will send him back to his ancestors

Useless and coward UK police..buhari and his boys must have told them he is a hardworking biafran..it will never end well with buhari lord lugard and all UK govt.

Mind you, many soldiers also died in the attack, but they will hide that one from you, lol.[/quote

But if they kill one ESN army they will claim they killed 10...The zoo must fall, the north must collapse.

Mind you, many soldiers also died in the attack, but they will hide that one from you, lol.[/quote
But if they kill one ESN army they will claim they killed 10...The zoo must fall, the north must collapse.

If its true then why are they showing us the picture of only 2 dead Iswap boys.
I guess they have killed more army in this battle..
Lie lie army, lie lie govt.

Coca cola CEO must be taking a dig and smirking right now
One just has to be humble every time in life.
50 likes for the only GAOT..THE AGUJEIGBE ONE OF BIAFRA LAND
---------OGBUEFI LIONEL MESSI..

Who else if not buhari and his boys.
It will never end well with with all Hausa and Fulani .

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It will never end well with buhari and lord lugard

The wife of prophet t.b Joshua taking over doesn't mean she alone is going to be the minister in the church.some one has to be the leader oence.
The most notable face in scoan now after prophet t.b Joshua is prophet Racine...This man is synonymous to t.b Joshua in every way.
The wife can become the leader but this minister will be the driving force of the ministry hence..(there are still two others).

SyrusdeHansome:
ESN that couldn't last for a month. u Igbos Shud just learn 2b humble sometimes nd stop behaving like you're better than every other person. Can ur ESN withstand what Niger Delta militants did to the Nigerian government? Do u think it's about staying in UK to make noise? Can ur coward of a leader stay in Nigeria like the the leaders of militants to fight the Nigerian government? Nonsense pple

He doesn't know..only tompolo can bring the economy of Nigeria to zero.
ESN fighters doesn't have any battle esperience that's why they are been defeated by the army.but Niger delta militant is more trained than even Nigeria army.
They have more weapon than even Nigeria army..
Any army confronting them is just on a suicidal journey.

tutudesz:
Guy stop this your lies, your village no get name Delta Boys full here O! So Make you dey lie with
respect

How moronic and idiotic are you. you expect me to mention the name of my village, you Fulani rotten green teeth.

israelp:
nr too loud am... I one eat free meat

Obarofrederick:
These Fulani jihadists think they can Bleep with Deltans. Come misbehave make them feed you with your own blood.

It's like we are about to eat some cow meat again in delta state.I remember the last time this idiotic Fulani's attacked and killed a farmer in my village in delta...boys carry gun enter bush slaughter more than 200 cows, killed more than 30 Fulani herdzmen and buried them in the bush..Till today Dem never near our boundary again.
The most dangerous and ruthless state in Nigeria is delta state. They want to play with fire and sulphur.idiotic people.

It's like we are about to eat some cow meat again in delta state.I remember the last time this idiotic Fulani's attacked and killed a farmer in my village in delta...boys carry gun enter bush slaughter more than 200 cows, killed more than 30 Fulani herdzmen and buried them in the bush..Till today Dem never near our boundary again.
The most dangerous and ruthless state in Nigeria is delta state. They want to play with fire and sulphur.idiotic people.

Omodua:
No problem for that. They have succession plan. So,his demise won't affect anything.
Already, there are five wisemen who are as talismanic as TB himself. They are very good on the job.

Yeah but four of those wise men have Left.
The only one remaining is prophet Racine and two other ministers that the prophet introduced lately.
I think prophet Racine will carry on from where the prophet stopped.

kingthreat:
The main question now is what next on SCOAN? Who leads the ministry next? RIP TBJ

I think prophet Racine will be the major person to carry on from where prophet t.b Joshua stopped.although there are still two other ministers there.

Lord give us Biafra and put an eternal end between us and the fulanis/Hausa.we were never suppose to be here and you know it.
Make baifra a reality in no time so that the world we see your great work and praise your holy name.
We have suffered enough injustice, brutalization, marginalization.
They called us a dot in a circle but their brain couldn't remind them that Biafra have a larger land mass to the almighty Israel.
Biafrans celebrate in advance, I see the lord settling us in no distant time to the shame of our enemies.

Lord give us Biafra and put an eternal end between us and the fulanis/Hausa.we were never suppose to be here and you know it.
Make baifra a reality in no time so that the world we see your great work and praise your holy name.
We have suffered enough injustice, brutalization, marginalization.
They called us a dot in a circle but their brain couldn't remind them that Biafra have a larger land mass to the almighty Israel.
Biafrans celebrate in advance, I see the lord settling us in no distant time to the shame of our enemies.

Lord give us Biafra and put an eternal end between us and the fulanis/Hausa.we were never suppose to be here and you know it.
Make baifra a reality in no time so that the world we see your great work and praise your holy name.
We have suffered enough injustice, brutalization, marginalization.
They called us a dot in a circle but their brain couldn't remind them that Biafra have a larger land mass to the almighty Israel.
Biafrans celebrate in advance, I see the lord settling us in no distant time to the shame of our enemies.

Nigeria is just looking for everything possibly to blackmail biafrans..
Which one be steal sheep

babyfaceafrica:
Only God knows is omnipotent, an R15 will enter that your juju

The thing is that the bullet won't even touch you..they would just be flying sideways.

Nothing good comes from the mouth of the skunky old man.. I won't be surprised if he forgets he would be interviewed before that time.