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You are a fool

QuinQ:
You sure it is the poor lady and not Tinubu?

I don't believe him, maybe he's into sports betting

Hope is not into sports betting

Ilamina:



What do you think

I have no pride in myself

Sweetheart, If you guys are okay with each other, you can go ahead with the relationship. To me age is just not an issue if he truly loves and appreciates you, I just pray his family accepts you because that is where the problem is

I wish you all the best

Leemzyy:
Oh please they should spare the Woman....the man should pay for everything, he probably deceived her...Men!😣😞😞

Where you there? Radio without battery

Evaress:
i don't even have any guy. I just lied when i said that. Because i see no reason why he would ask me that

Since you are not interested and you have told him, he still refused to understand, you need no avoid him totally. If there's a higher authority, then you take the matter so they can make him understand in a language he would understand

Evaress:
I'm an introvert and a writer, so I spend most of my time inside writing. I just moved into a new neighborhood.

When I moved in, my landlady introduced me to her brother when he came to visit. I greeted him politely.

Later, my landlady told me her brother had been talking about me. He said he didn't like that I was always alone and that I should try to come out and socialize more. Every time he visited her, he would ask about me.

I thought maybe I was being too distant, so I decided that next time he came, I would try to be more friendly and casual with him.

When he came again, I went out to greet him. I told him I heard he always asks about me. He said he was just concerned because I'm always indoors alone and he wanted me to have a friend. I smiled, thanked him, and i took his number promising to call him. I had planned to call him that week, but there was no power and my phone was dead.

He came again last Saturday to visit my landlady and after he finished talking to her. He came to my room. I let him inside. My house na small house o. No parlor inside. He asked why I didn't call him. I explained there was no light. Then he told me I should know that he likes me. He asked if I have a boyfriend, and I said yes. Then he asked me if we have sex. I told him I couldn't answer that. He said I was acting like a small girl.

Then he came closer and started touching my legs. I moved away. He said he loves tall girls. I kept begging him, "Please sir, I will call you, let's talk later." But he kept trying to touch me, and I kept dodging him, running to the other side of the room. Eventually, he left.

I went straight to my landlady and reported what happened. She said she was surprised to hear that and promised to warn him the next time he came.

He came again today. She confronted him about it, but he denied everything. Then he came to my room and knocked again. This time I refused to open the door. I pretended to be asleep until he left.

When I came out, my landlady told me he denied it all and asked me if I was sure I was telling the truth. Now he's making me look like a liar.

I know he will come to visit again on Sunday, and this time I'm ready to confront him. What should I do? This man is old enough to be my father.

You just have to be careful, things like this can take a new twist. Please sweetheart, Make sure you don't have anything with him if you don't love him and try to get your guy involved so he can be aware of everything.

Dpo come with your boys

Na money I dey find

Lol, hope you have paid your tax, mind when you say before the open your files, lol

ChisomLexus:
Based on my past experience it is not a good idea for the woman to be the one who has more money than her man.

I can never try such again, any man I'm going into a relationship with must have more money than me

God, where are you getting all these orientations from? Does financial differences really matters in a relationship?

Jennyclay:
Do you want the broke poverty stricken struggling man to pull down the rich woman

That’s always you men reaction when it’s vice versa, abi you men said you can’t date a broke struggling lady

What’s good for the goose is also good for the gander

Chill girl, your words are too harsh, nobody chooses to be broke, everybody stands a chance to be great

shox:
Dem Dey tiff truck?

Some people get mind o

My brother, if them fit thief person kidney for this country, weytin remain again

The truck number is KKe182xb
It was stolen at ABA in Abia

Call 09131396327 for any information

MrCork:
Ok so yor 18year old husband wanto get pregnant for you becuase of your chritianity in germany....corrrrect?...
Is he ok in the head??... are u lightskin? (No oofense)

He said it's what he wants before marriage

Hello my fellow nairalanders, My name is Sonia, I hail from rivers state. I'm a professional hairstylist. I am sharing this post to reflect on the current State of my relationship. I will greatly appreciate your contributions on this matter.
My relationship is 8 years now. My man is doing very well. He is a single father of an 18years old girl child that lives in Germany with his elder sister. He is also based in Nigeria.
I'm not going to lie, he has been taking good care of me. Everything is fine between us.
But just as they say, there's is no man on earth without a problem.
Here's the problem, my man is insisting that I must get pregnant for him before he can marry me. I have tried to convince him that it is against our tradition and also against Christianity for one to get pregnant before marriage. For the past three years, that is what he has been saying
I'm so confused, what should I do now. I really need your advice

okomile:
Take him to rehab

Say no to drugs
Get information and bundle him out of the house
Mum should let him be treated before he does the unthinkable things
Goodluck

My dear, if that boy wants to reacts, you will be extremely surprised... Sometimes, I doubt if he's truly my brother. One day I was at work, they call me and said he was trying to put up a fight with my our dad

My younger brother of 22 years attacked me this morning after taking a substance called crystal methamphetamine popularly known as ice. For the past one year now, he has been giving everybody in the house heat. Ranging from insulting people, picking money in the house, eating food that is not his own, Bullying everybody in the house, wearing clothes without washing and not even thinking of sweeping, fatching water or washing the plates in the house.
I was looking at him, hoping and believing he will change for good. But as days passes by, it's becoming worst. Yesterday, he wanted to fight our mom, I prevented him and I warned him not to even raise his voice at her again. I tried fighting him but my Mom pleaded with me not to attack him...
This morning, while I was still in bed, my elder sister called me and said my brother was trying to break the padlock to my bag so he could collect clothes from it. With my sleepy eyes and subconsciousness, I went outside just to collect my bag from him.. I dragged the bag from him, the next thing I felt was a heavy punch to my face.. That was when I realized that this was no longer a joke. I quickly responded by trying to him back. We exchanged punches and he ran away. Till now, he has not come back. He added that everybody should be ready for him.
Sometimes, I wonder if he is truly my brother. I sustained an injury on my nose from his punch. He doesn't want to change for good. Sometimes, I do ask some of his friends that take ice why is he behaving like that. They will tell me that I should look for what is wrong with him.... I feel so bad because he's my only brother

faithsystem:
let me see the joystick first before i advice

You be Ashawo

I'm beside you

Romanoff:
I've be great o. I'm still here, I just dey reaf from page topics and dey observe.

@romanoff
God bless you, sis! Keep it up sis!

Romanoff:
Whether you marry her in church or court, the same rules apply in case of a divorce. Both church and court wedding are guided by the Marriage Act of the Federal republic of Nigeria.

So your fear is unfounded and it gives you off as a dishonest person.

If you love someone, you'll treat them right. Na if you dey plan to do bad to your wife you go dey consider all these things.

E better make you no just marry.

@Romanoff where have you been? I miss you so much on nairaland, please take good care of yourself for me

Just your fan on this platform

SenecaTheYonger:
This is your future:

-You’re going to break up with your loyal GF.
-You will date your old crush. After a while, you’ll come to realize there was nothing special about her.
-Your old crush will also come to hate you and seek out another guy to sleep with.
-You will fight to save the relationship.
-You will fail.
-She will leave.
-You’ll be alone.

Chai, this one touch me

Biglittlelois:
The annoying part is him giving you options "anal or we done" he's high I have no problem with anal, but making it seem that's what's keeping the relationship is a no no, he should go to hell abeg, rubbish.

God bless whoever you are, you opinion is beyond greatness

Samantha124:
Thank you..😊😊😊

I'm a lot better now.

Thank God
Wishing you all best

Samantha124:
I've learned that food poisoning is real... I've been 🤮🤮🤮 all evening.

Hopefully I'll be okay tomorrow.

God please protect this my friend, amen
You will get better okay

Samantha124:
I only received insults...😩😩😩

You too dey worry

Evil is not good

virginprincess:
Who told you women hate male virgin,it is only a sexually loosed woman that will prefer a used condom to a brand new one,as for me if a man is not a virgin i will never give him my whole heart and love because i can't trust him 100%.

One cup of fresh pammy for you

Eyinju112:
Shey you don ready for suicide yes or no? See I’m done convincing people over suicide, lot of people are going through problems bigger than yours and yet there’re still pushing, Abeg guy if na accommodation problem wan make you commit suicide do it in peace don’t disturb us...

Sweetheart, you are blessed

Please help me with the price of this refrigerator

EastAlchemist:
Lol
Do what works for you
One internet advice cannot change everybody

Na truooooh